Speaker 1: All right, it is Mojo in the morning, went out
Speaker 1: to dinner with Chelse and some friends. We sit this way,
Speaker 1: which I like it the way that we said. We
Speaker 1: sit if there's a booth either side by side, where
Speaker 1: Chelse and I are side by side, and then the
Speaker 1: guys are across from each other, or we'll sit where
Speaker 1: Chelsea and I will be across from each other and
Speaker 1: the two people that were with or across from each other.
Speaker 1: And that's how it was in this one. So the
Speaker 1: guys are next to each other so they can sit
Speaker 1: there and you know, they can have their own comfort.
Speaker 1: Ye have their own compo. The girl girls can have
Speaker 1: their own combo.
Speaker 2: I have my headphone so loud.
Speaker 1: I can't hear craps so across the table sometimes I
Speaker 1: can't hear and uh, I don't want.
Speaker 2: To talk to my wife, you know we talk about
Speaker 2: I say that. No, be honest. You know, sometimes you
Speaker 2: go out with people you want to talk to other people.
Speaker 1: Right, So we're out to eat and we're a couple
Speaker 1: that Chelse's is really close with her. I kind of
Speaker 1: am semi close with him.
Speaker 3: And so basically you're saying you got dragged out.
Speaker 2: No, I actually kind of wanted to.
Speaker 1: I was, okay, I don't want to get myself into
Speaker 1: more trouble than I am bringing this thing up. So
Speaker 1: we're sitting there through dinner, and as we're sitting there
Speaker 1: having conversations, I started getting into a personal bit of
Speaker 1: the relationships and I started becoming when from Tom to
Speaker 1: Mojo where I started doing the interviewing aspects of things.
Speaker 1: About halfway through and I started asking questions that I
Speaker 1: guess I wasn't supposed to And the reason why I
Speaker 1: wasn't supposed to know that I was not supposed to
Speaker 1: ask those questions is all of a sudden, I'm sitting
Speaker 1: there asking a question and I feel a foot kicking
Speaker 1: my shin. Chelsea starts kicking me under the table because
Speaker 1: she's upset over what ever it is that I'm saying
Speaker 1: at that particular moment.
Speaker 2: Tell us what one of the questions is.
Speaker 1: No, it was it was about past relationships that they
Speaker 1: had and this is a second marriage for these guys,
Speaker 1: so there was something that it was basically me asking
Speaker 1: a question about her, the woman's past spouse, and it
Speaker 1: brings up bad I guess stuff going on like I
Speaker 1: wasn't supposed to do it, and so you know what
Speaker 1: it's like when you have somebody kick you under a
Speaker 1: table and you got to pretend like you didn't get
Speaker 1: kicked under the table all of a sudden, It's like
Speaker 1: getting stung by a wasp.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean, at a picnic or something.
Speaker 2: You're like, ah, something, just what's going on?
Speaker 1: So the conversation keeps going and now I'm staying away
Speaker 1: from the whole thing, and the wife goes and what
Speaker 1: else do you want to know?
Speaker 2: And Chelsea, So.
Speaker 1: With that said, I wanted to ask this question, what
Speaker 1: is this the thing that you do to your significant other?
Speaker 1: Like what's your thing that you do or like the
Speaker 1: unspoken thing that you have in your relationship to tell
Speaker 1: them to shut the f up? Because for Chelsea, it's
Speaker 1: kicked me under the table and that's my shut the
Speaker 1: f up?
Speaker 2: Yeah, like pineapple? Or does anybody have a safe word
Speaker 2: like that? And if you do, what is your what
Speaker 2: is your safe word? What do you?
Speaker 4: I think a good way to go about it is
Speaker 4: bring up the weather for some reason, you know what
Speaker 4: I mean, Like it changes the tie?
Speaker 2: Is it supposed to rain tomorrow? And then like that's
Speaker 2: your cute to share?
Speaker 3: See we'll always do at least I will always do
Speaker 3: the hand squeeze that just gets really really tight. Or
Speaker 3: I'll dig my thumb nail into West's palm if he's
Speaker 3: starting to go down a road that I don't want
Speaker 3: him to go.
Speaker 1: Oh, I've had the fingernails in my skin, or like
Speaker 1: my mom used to do that. My mom if she
Speaker 1: getting mad at you, she never would spank you, or
Speaker 1: she'd just grab your your wrist or something, you know,
Speaker 1: and it would be like, oh, inside me, my mom
Speaker 1: had long nails.
Speaker 2: I remember that.
Speaker 4: My grandma used to grab the fat behind my arm. Oh,
Speaker 4: my god, can't that? And then if she was really
Speaker 4: on your ass, she had twisted a little bit.
Speaker 2: Roof Grandma from my roof one.
Speaker 1: Can you imagine if you did that with your your
Speaker 1: husband like Chelsea did that.
Speaker 3: My mom used to take the hair brush and just
Speaker 3: bomp us a little.
Speaker 2: What if I did that?
Speaker 1: I start eight four four mojo live eight four four
Speaker 1: six sixty five six five four eight or if you
Speaker 1: can relate to this text, call me and we will
Speaker 1: call you. What's the signal your partner gives for you
Speaker 1: to shut up?
Speaker 2: What's up? Donna?
Speaker 4: Hi?
Speaker 5: Is I kick him under the table and he stuff
Speaker 5: out that why are you picking me up?
Speaker 2: That is true.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you don't realize what's going on, right, What don't
Speaker 1: you what if you had to kick him under the
Speaker 1: table for what has he done that it's made you
Speaker 1: kick him?
Speaker 5: It could be anything, he says, Yes, it's definitely anything
Speaker 5: he says. Something he says when you know his friends
Speaker 5: are there, or something he shouldn't.
Speaker 2: Say, just like you what kind of shoes?
Speaker 6: Or give him that look?
Speaker 4: Give him that look?
Speaker 6: And Na, what are you looking at me like that?
Speaker 1: You know what's funny is Chelsea Chelsea was wearing like
Speaker 1: these boots on Friday or Saturday, No, Thursday, Chelsea was wearing.
Speaker 2: These boots and these boots are tall? Yeah, what is
Speaker 2: that song? There's boots are meant for walking? These boots
Speaker 2: are men for giving your husband a bruise? They hurt
Speaker 2: so bad? Jade, what's going on?
Speaker 3: Hi?
Speaker 6: Hi? So I just wanted to first time in a
Speaker 6: long time. Usually, whenever my boyfriend says something that is
Speaker 6: not supposed to be brought up, I just give him
Speaker 6: a stern mom looks because I have a three year
Speaker 6: old paddler and just giving him that like.
Speaker 2: What the she said? She said it?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I felt that you can't say the F
Speaker 1: word like you just said, but.
Speaker 5: Every mom has.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's scary. And what have you remembered that the
Speaker 2: last time that you gave the look? What was it over?
Speaker 2: Do you remember?
Speaker 7: It was like.
Speaker 6: The last one it was bringing up exes And when
Speaker 6: you get into that conversation, it is no good either way.
Speaker 2: No one wants to talk about their Well that was
Speaker 2: my problem, Jade past.
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't don't bring up xes to people that you're
Speaker 1: in a relation. You're having a fan family friendly meal
Speaker 1: with what's up? Mikayla High?
Speaker 2: Hey are you doing? What's the way that you do it? Yeah?
Speaker 7: So I was like recently diagnosed a couple of years
Speaker 7: ago with ADHD and I talk about it all the time.
Speaker 8: So my husband was talking about.
Speaker 7: Somebody he found out was cheating and we were with
Speaker 7: a couple that he didn't know they had like just
Speaker 7: recently gotten over this.
Speaker 2: So he's like talking about.
Speaker 8: How horrible this is, and I'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 8: I forgot and brought up something with the kids.
Speaker 7: And the navies that are so it's like super NOI
Speaker 7: like normal for us for me to just like randomly
Speaker 7: have these like thoughts I have to get out, like
Speaker 7: right now.
Speaker 8: Yeah, so you know, I just got to do damage control.
Speaker 1: And then do you drive home and just talk about
Speaker 1: that entire moment with each other?
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, absolutely, absolutely for days to come.
Speaker 1: I read as a stat just a little bit ago
Speaker 1: in one of the I don't know what prep service
Speaker 1: it was, we had a morning show thing that like
Speaker 1: prep services that said that sixty percent of couples leave
Speaker 1: the night with each other arguing on the way home.
Speaker 2: Sixty That means only forty happy.
Speaker 3: That's crazy, bro, Do you would tell us you the thing?
Speaker 3: Because Wes and I have done this before for and
Speaker 3: it kind of depends on who you're going out with.
Speaker 3: But we're on the way there, you'll say, Hey, this
Speaker 3: and this and this is off.
Speaker 2: Limits, like you kind of yes, you kind of have
Speaker 2: a little chat before you walk in. You got a brief. Yes. Absolutely.
Speaker 1: My favorite is going to nights where there's many couples
Speaker 1: there and then the drive home seeing if the stories
Speaker 1: are similar, like because you will go and all the
Speaker 1: guys will hang out with each other, yeah, and all
Speaker 1: the girls will hang out with each other, and then
Speaker 1: you'll drive home and I'll go that is't what he said,
Speaker 1: and those are my favorite rides home.
Speaker 2: What's up, Haley, how you doing fantastic?
Speaker 1: What's the the way that your spouse tells you to
Speaker 1: shut the f up?
Speaker 2: Or you tell him?
Speaker 5: I used to my ex boyfriend. I would tell him
Speaker 5: things that like my best friend would tell me, and
Speaker 5: when we go out, he would bring it up, and
Speaker 5: so I would just pinch him under the table to
Speaker 5: get him to stop talking, like, You'm I supposed to
Speaker 5: know that. I wasn't supposed to tell you that, So
Speaker 5: stop bringing it up.
Speaker 2: Can I say something?
Speaker 8: Though?
Speaker 1: Chelsea does this too, will tell me things and not
Speaker 1: really be as specific as to say, don't ever bring
Speaker 1: this up in public. I just assume that she's telling
Speaker 1: me it because I should know and everybody should know.
Speaker 1: You know, I don't know if you now that you
Speaker 1: know how we do the whole. This is not for
Speaker 1: the radio, Chelsea has to say. This is not for
Speaker 1: any conversation, not to be repeated. Treat us like therapists.
Speaker 1: It's just meant to listen sounding board, right, what's up?
Speaker 2: Rick?
Speaker 8: Oh?
Speaker 6: I got down and my wife calls me w when
Speaker 6: I start saying things that.
Speaker 2: I shouldn't take What does that mean? Because dump that?
Speaker 2: So you're gonna kick you under the table? You do?
Speaker 1: Hold on, You're I had to dump that. Your wife
Speaker 1: calls you W and y.
Speaker 2: W because I'm the a hole, but I'm the hole
Speaker 2: a hole, you're the w. Yeah that's funny. Oh my god.
Speaker 2: Now I'm happy you actually said the actual word.
Speaker 8: And can I get the rest of twenty I'm seven?
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, I would like to get how much? How
Speaker 2: much money you put up in the Okay? Nicole? You there?
Speaker 8: Yeah, that's I'm here.
Speaker 2: Hi, Nicole, how are you? I'm good? How are you?
Speaker 2: I've got I've.
Speaker 1: Got bruises on my body from this weekend's conversations?
Speaker 2: What did you want to say?
Speaker 8: What I was going to say was whenever, you know,
Speaker 8: I'm in a public setting with my significant other and
Speaker 8: they say something off the wall, I just give them
Speaker 8: the really big eyebrows raised all the way up to
Speaker 8: like my forehead, and the squinty eyes, like you say
Speaker 8: one more thing and you're walking home. That's so great
Speaker 8: those conversations before. Oh he always does every time he
Speaker 8: sees me turn my head to him.
Speaker 2: You know, yep, I said, you realize your eyebrows, but
Speaker 2: they can. Dwayne, what's up? Hi? Hello, how are you doing? Yes?
Speaker 7: Typically, when my wife calls me by my first name,
Speaker 7: I go by DJs.
Speaker 2: She says, my Duane.
Speaker 6: I know I'm in.
Speaker 1: It's like your parents. When your parents would call you
Speaker 1: by your formal or use the middle name. That's when
Speaker 1: you know it's bad.
Speaker 2: You know you use the middle or the course, it's over, Dwayne.
Speaker 2: Who would you rather be in trouble with your wife
Speaker 2: or your parents?
Speaker 7: Oh?
Speaker 1: Okay, see for me, it'd been my parents.
Speaker 2: It's just way getting in getting in trouble now.
Speaker 1: I never thought like used as kid, you know, you
Speaker 1: get sent to your room, or you get punished or
Speaker 1: anything like that. You were kind of like, ah, this sucks.
Speaker 1: When I'm older, this will never happen. Then nobody told
Speaker 1: me in marriage was like