1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,680 Speaker 1: This portion of the Joe Show podcast is powered by 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: Fair and Faara, Tampa Accident Attorneys. All Right, we just 3 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 1: finished up War of the Roses. Listen back on our 4 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 1: free iHeartRadio app Thursdays mean not only War the Roses, 5 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: but also after the show Absolutely unnecessary. It is a 6 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 1: Joe Show podcast series completely unrelated to what we do 7 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:26,599 Speaker 1: on the air, and it's a really, really really fun 8 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 1: time to record it. We enjoy it, and I hope 9 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 1: that since we're enjoying it so much, you will as well. 10 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:35,839 Speaker 1: So absolutely unnecessary. Make sure you follow and subscribe and 11 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 1: all of that. Let's finish up War the Roses talk though. 12 00:00:38,880 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 1: You know, Jackie, there are times when Jad will get 13 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:44,480 Speaker 1: a call. He kind of runs in here and he goes, listen, 14 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 1: you gotta pick up so and so, and he said, 15 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 1: I got to pick you up. So Jackie, tell me 16 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 1: about your husband. 17 00:00:55,840 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 2: Well, we started dating after knowing each other since elementary school. 18 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 2: But he got married, went off to do his thing. 19 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 2: I did my thing, and we started dating. It was 20 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 2: about six months then he asked me to marry him. 21 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:13,680 Speaker 2: I was not ready to be married, so I told 22 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 2: him no. A little while later, he probably two years 23 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 2: three years later he asked me again, and that was 24 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 2: so nonchalant. I just said, no, I was not even 25 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 2: get on his knee. 26 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:35,919 Speaker 1: I'm a traditionalist and not to cut you off, Jackie, 27 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 1: but I gotta know. So these first two times that 28 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:42,040 Speaker 1: he did it, it was did he even have a ring. 29 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 2: One of the times, Jess, But another time he did. 30 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 1: He just said, let's get married, right, Hugh. So what 31 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 1: happens after the second time. 32 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 2: Well, by the second time, we had had our daughter, 33 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 2: and I just wasn't I don't know, I wasn't ready 34 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 2: to be committed. I guess were. 35 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 1: You talking to other people? 36 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 2: Nope? 37 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:11,360 Speaker 1: So what were you You didn't want to be committed 38 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 1: to what? 39 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 2: I guess just tied down into the relationship. But I 40 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 2: don't know. I really don't know what was holding me 41 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:21,919 Speaker 2: back one hundred. 42 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 1: Percent because you wanted to be with him. It seems like, well, 43 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: now but now they're married. 44 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 2: Oh no, we're married. We're married. It took us almost 45 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 2: eleven years, but now we're married. 46 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 1: And what made you go, like, what was the not 47 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:37,960 Speaker 1: final struck because it always sounds like a bad thing, 48 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 1: but what was that final moment that made you go, 49 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 1: all right, I am going to say yes. 50 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 2: Now, I guess the fact that he had the ring. 51 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:49,919 Speaker 2: He got down on his knee and it felt genuine 52 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 2: and I love him, you know, I wanted to be 53 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 2: with him the way Yeah. 54 00:02:56,600 --> 00:03:01,080 Speaker 1: Correct, correct, he wasn't listening. Now he is. 55 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 3: I'm happy he listened to you because you got your 56 00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 3: You got your proposal the way you wanted it exactly. 57 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 1: Jackie, thank you for calling in and sharing your story. 58 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:13,679 Speaker 1: It's funny like if I heard this yesterday, I go, 59 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 1: that's very unique, and we're realizing that you're totally not 60 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 1: alone in this. Obviously, if you miss wore the roses, 61 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 1: go back and listen to that. 62 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:24,480 Speaker 2: But Jackie, uh, I heard it. 63 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you for sharing your story. Y Hey you too. 64 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:33,640 Speaker 1: H one last one? And Jed? Which one did you 65 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 1: tell me? Jed is directing the traffic right now, says 66 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:42,880 Speaker 1: go to Laura. Laura, Hi, Hi, Laura. You turned down 67 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 1: your husband. He said, listen, let's get married. Will you 68 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 1: marry me? And you said absolutely not. 69 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 4: I did a couple of times. 70 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 1: Why kind of like Jackie. 71 00:03:56,000 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 4: So we've been together now for ten years, my husband, 72 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:03,320 Speaker 4: yet we just officially got engaged on Christmas Eve because 73 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 4: I finally said yes, congratulations, but thank you. We're so excited. 74 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 2: I'm so excited. 75 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 4: So, but the few times before that, we're both previous divorces. 76 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:17,600 Speaker 4: So the first time was a couple of years into 77 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:19,160 Speaker 4: our relationship. 78 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 2: And I just wasn't ready to sign a piece of paper. 79 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 2: I wasn't, you know. 80 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 4: I was like, you know what I'm not and I 81 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 4: was going to do it again. So no, I'm happy 82 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:30,840 Speaker 4: where we're at. Let's just continue to do what we're doing. 83 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:32,800 Speaker 2: We had a son. 84 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 4: Our son is now nine years old. He had asked 85 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 4: me again a couple of years ago and kind of 86 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:41,599 Speaker 4: like Jackie, right, he didn't get down on one knee, 87 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 4: and I just I was like, you know, listen, So 88 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:46,359 Speaker 4: I just kind of like, where we're at, let's just 89 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 4: stay where we're at work now. 90 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 3: I did not know women will say no if you 91 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:52,599 Speaker 3: don't get down on one knee. 92 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 1: I did not know. I didn't know that men don't 93 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 1: get down on one to me. 94 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 3: I didn't either until it happened, and I was like, no, 95 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 3: let's let I want Laura to finish his story. 96 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 1: And then I got some questions for Katie Summers. So 97 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 1: Laura asks again, you say no, the guy doesn't even 98 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:19,239 Speaker 1: get down on one ring. What made you finally say. 99 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:24,040 Speaker 4: Yes, we're just in a really good place now as 100 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:26,040 Speaker 4: opposed to where we were. You know a few other 101 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 4: times he asked, we're stable, we're happy in our hopefully 102 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:32,479 Speaker 4: forever home. And he got on one knee with a 103 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 4: ring and it was Christmas Eve and it was just gorgeous, 104 00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 4: and I just said, you know what, I'm ready. 105 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:43,279 Speaker 1: I love it. I love it, Laura, Thank god it 106 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 1: finally worked out. 107 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:48,479 Speaker 4: That guy for more of the roses. He can go 108 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 4: kick rocks, because if he loved her, he would keep trying. 109 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 1: Yep, And thank you for saying that. I think that's 110 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 1: a great close, Laura. We love you. Congratulations and I 111 00:05:58,880 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 1: want to hear you. 112 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:00,240 Speaker 3: Thank you. 113 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 1: We're getting married. We're getting at the same time, Katie. 114 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 1: We never have asked how did Sean get you know? 115 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 1: How did Sean ask you to be his wife? So 116 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 1: you guys know that I love Halloween? Yes, and he carved, 117 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 1: will you marry me in a pumpkin? I know, God, 118 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:26,159 Speaker 1: that's so cute. So you had no clue? I said, yes, 119 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 1: But did you say you have no clue? He's just 120 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:30,000 Speaker 1: sitting there. 121 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 3: I had no idea because usually when we do our pumpkins, 122 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:34,040 Speaker 3: you know, we're comparing contrast. 123 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's like in the corner like secret squirrel, Like okay, 124 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 1: what are you doing? But what though you were saying? 125 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:44,799 Speaker 1: But well about that down on one knee. 126 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 4: So he showed me the pumpkin, but he didn't like 127 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 4: present the pumpkin on one knee. 128 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:52,279 Speaker 1: The one knee thing. Yeah, I got the gist of it, 129 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:53,280 Speaker 1: and you're okay with it. 130 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 4: I was okay with that. 131 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 1: I got the proposal in a pumpkin from I d C. 132 00:06:57,960 --> 00:07:00,120 Speaker 1: Of course, from IDC. It's gorgeous. I love it, and 133 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 1: life was amazing, still is well. See, happiness does happen. 134 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 1: Love happens even when we're catching cheaters. Love is love. Yes, Sir, 135 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 1: Jed's gonna get I think Jed's Jed's next. Really, I 136 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 1: love that it's already happened. Out we're commercial for I'm 137 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 1: so happy you guys. That wasn't that funny? You know 138 00:07:30,120 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 1: you guys. 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