Speaker 1: It's the second date update module in the morning.
Speaker 2: All right, why are you not getting to call back?
Speaker 2: We're going to find out this morning here at the
Speaker 2: second date Update. I'm a little worried though, Mario, because
Speaker 2: I know you're getting ghosted Mario, and we're getting ghosted too,
Speaker 2: because we lost Ali. We're trying to trying to get
Speaker 2: her back. Oh we got her back. Good, okay, Mario?
Speaker 2: Oh Hi, how are you?
Speaker 1: I'm all right? Good, Mario, sounds so sad. I. This
Speaker 1: is tough.
Speaker 2: So you guys went out on a date and she
Speaker 2: is not contacting you at all. She has not returned
Speaker 2: one text message from the time that you actually had
Speaker 2: your date.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it sucks, all right, So.
Speaker 2: We're gonna find out what's going on. Have you ever
Speaker 2: had this happen to you before? Do you ever struggle
Speaker 2: with dating?
Speaker 3: It's probably happened like a couple of times before.
Speaker 2: So where you've gone out with somebody and then they
Speaker 2: just didn't seem interested.
Speaker 1: Did they not tell you why?
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's usually just like you know, Ben ghosted after
Speaker 3: like first day or two.
Speaker 2: You know, do they just seem like they're busy or
Speaker 2: do they actually give you a reason as to why
Speaker 2: they don't want to be going out again.
Speaker 4: I I don't know, kind of just just never.
Speaker 2: Get back to me, you know, all right, I want
Speaker 2: you to say hello to Ali. She's on the phone
Speaker 2: with us right now.
Speaker 5: Hey, Hey Ali, Hello, Hi Hello everyone.
Speaker 1: Ali.
Speaker 2: You can hear how down he is over the fact
Speaker 2: that he has not talked to you.
Speaker 1: What's going on?
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, well, I actually just wanted to say to
Speaker 5: everybody that overtext he was really flirty.
Speaker 3: He was.
Speaker 1: We were always talking every day.
Speaker 6: I don't think there was a second hour minute that
Speaker 6: went by where we weren't talking to each other.
Speaker 1: The texts were vibrant, flirtatious.
Speaker 5: And I was really excited to go on the date
Speaker 5: with him. And I don't know if it was you know,
Speaker 5: first date jitters. But once we you know, got into
Speaker 5: the restaurant or and I saw him for the first time,
Speaker 5: he wasn't as talkative as he was over text.
Speaker 7: He was quiet.
Speaker 2: Maybe he did he sound like he sounds right now
Speaker 2: with us right now, because I feel like he's given
Speaker 2: us a little bit of nervous energy.
Speaker 1: Yeah he did.
Speaker 6: He didn't even make eye contact, though.
Speaker 1: So maybe it was twitter fingers.
Speaker 8: Some people are way more lively in who they can
Speaker 8: pretend to be when they're not in front of you,
Speaker 8: and then they you know, ball up when they get
Speaker 8: into the room.
Speaker 5: Makes I actually believe that he had some assistance from
Speaker 5: chat ChiPT.
Speaker 6: So it's like he's got no social skills.
Speaker 2: You think that he was having a chat chat with
Speaker 2: you and that was not his speak correct, he was
Speaker 2: he was chat fishing you on chat GPT.
Speaker 5: Yes, why do you think that other than just him
Speaker 5: being awkward in person and nervous? Yeah, well, because the
Speaker 5: text messages were very flirtatious if you get what I'm saying,
Speaker 5: and I.
Speaker 1: Feel like you.
Speaker 6: To be like that way over a screen and then
Speaker 6: to be so it's like it's a good light switch,
Speaker 6: you know, Dan Night that to be so like awkward
Speaker 6: in person, it's like, yeah, were you having some sort
Speaker 6: of assistance?
Speaker 1: It was very awkward.
Speaker 2: And Mario, let me ask you a couple of quick
Speaker 2: questions here. First off, Mario, do you ever look for
Speaker 2: assistance from l I mean sometimes I will say this
Speaker 2: to you sometimes I with texting, I will, you know,
Speaker 2: if it gives me an hey, this could be something
Speaker 2: to send back like yeah fine or whatever the emoji is.
Speaker 2: I will have it do it, but I don't think
Speaker 2: I've ever had it actually fully communicate. Did have you
Speaker 2: ever done that?
Speaker 3: I mean, i'll like used it for like ideas in
Speaker 3: the past.
Speaker 1: So you've never done conversations with girls. Did you use
Speaker 1: it with Ali?
Speaker 5: I mean kind of yeah?
Speaker 1: What to what?
Speaker 2: Did you use it to figure out where you guys
Speaker 2: were going to go on your date or what you
Speaker 2: were planning on doing?
Speaker 3: No, just like how to respond? Sometimes you know he
Speaker 3: needed not.
Speaker 1: So you wait, so you did.
Speaker 2: So she's not wrong in the fact that you actually
Speaker 2: we're having uh Ai basically tell Ali everything that you
Speaker 2: were hoping to say.
Speaker 1: I mean like a little bit.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Would you feel as a as a guy or a
Speaker 2: woman whoever, whatever you are, would you feel like if
Speaker 2: you've found out that somebody was using it to communicate
Speaker 2: with you, if there was.
Speaker 9: A crutch, if they were relying very heavily on it, Yeah,
Speaker 9: because then I don't get a good sense of you
Speaker 9: or your personality.
Speaker 1: If you just need like a.
Speaker 5: I don't know, check the grammar or something like that, you.
Speaker 1: Don't really understand.
Speaker 9: Yeah, that is so different because then it's this when
Speaker 9: we get home, we're face to face and you know
Speaker 9: your personality doesn't match the personality that chat GPT gave you.
Speaker 8: There's an issue we having a conversation. I got to
Speaker 8: wait three minutes for you to respond.
Speaker 1: Quick.
Speaker 2: You can tell by the way that it's not me
Speaker 2: when it's punctuated, when there's punctuation on anything.
Speaker 9: When the word clothes is spelled not like cloths.
Speaker 2: Something, believe me right, or I always my my thing
Speaker 2: is dot dot dot. I don't like doing, you know,
Speaker 2: usually commas and a lot of stuff. You know, usually
Speaker 2: the commas only come through spell check or through you know,
Speaker 2: asking Claude, Claude, please help me with this.
Speaker 8: Then Jeff is be real though, Like say you talking
Speaker 8: to a girl and y'all texting, y'all saying when we
Speaker 8: see each other as gonna be it is that net
Speaker 8: And then y'all get face to face and it's like, okay,
Speaker 8: where do we Why are we slow walking?
Speaker 1: Hey? Allie?
Speaker 2: I actually put him on hold so that he can't
Speaker 2: hear this. But to be honest with you, how much
Speaker 2: of a borer wasn't.
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh. I had to keep going to the
Speaker 5: bathroom all throughout the conversation, and at one point I
Speaker 5: even thought about, you know, doing the go to old
Speaker 5: like I got to go to the bathroom, like never returning. Yeah,
Speaker 5: how to cover my mouth a couple of times with
Speaker 5: the napkinto hiding you on or the menu with tiding on.
Speaker 7: But he just wouldn't talk for him because I feel
Speaker 7: like maybe he is nervous, Maybe this is just his
Speaker 7: personality and he'll find somebody and it's just it's not you.
Speaker 1: Or he won't Like.
Speaker 2: Have you ever been out with somebody like I've been
Speaker 2: out with people before that honestly gave nothing, Like I
Speaker 2: will tell you that it's exhaust It is exhausting, like
Speaker 2: you're carrying the entire thing. And I will say that.
Speaker 2: And I'm not talking dating wise. I've been out with
Speaker 2: clients before where we've gone on lunches before and I'm like, going,
Speaker 2: this person's got nothing to talk about here right now?
Speaker 1: Why are we here? Like what's going on?
Speaker 2: Eight four to four Mojo Live eight four four six
Speaker 2: sixty five six five four eight. If you've ever gone
Speaker 2: on a date with somebody and that date couldn't communicate
Speaker 2: with you, what do you do? Or in this case,
Speaker 2: has anybody ever busted somebody that they've been in a
Speaker 2: relationship with sending you a text that you know they
Speaker 2: didn't write, somebody else wrote it for him or something else.
Speaker 2: What would you do in this case? Let me ask Lydia,
Speaker 2: real quick Lydia, what would you do in this case?
Speaker 1: You date?
Speaker 2: Would you if you went on a date with a
Speaker 2: guy that you couldn't actually have a verbal conversation with
Speaker 2: but he was better on text, would you send him
Speaker 2: off on his way and say just text me?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 10: Why not?
Speaker 1: I mean, you could still try to get to know
Speaker 1: somebody that way, but it's not him, though it's him
Speaker 1: usually maybe he's just you know, it'll it's probably nerves. Yeah,
Speaker 1: get over it.
Speaker 2: Hey, Mojo in the morning high, what'd you want to say?
Speaker 10: I was in the same boat as her.
Speaker 1: What's your name?
Speaker 10: I want to stay an honest because he listens to
Speaker 10: you guys.
Speaker 1: Okay, give me give me an initial? Your initial?
Speaker 2: F F F isn't friends?
Speaker 1: Okay, I won't say what F is? So F what's up?
Speaker 2: So?
Speaker 10: I was chatting with this kid and we were very flirtatious,
Speaker 10: and then when we went to dinner, he had a
Speaker 10: space buried in his phone because his boss had like
Speaker 10: his because his company that he works for they track him,
Speaker 10: and he had a space buried in his phone the
Speaker 10: whole time while work, sitting there trying to eat dinner.
Speaker 10: I was like, really childish. I come to find out
Speaker 10: he was way younger than me, but did not look
Speaker 10: way younger than me. Did I'll be thirty five and
Speaker 10: he's twenty five.
Speaker 5: Oh, anyway, let's reschedule when you're not working.
Speaker 2: Is that a case of him not being able to
Speaker 2: communicate or is that a case of the guy who's
Speaker 2: got a lot of work on his plate and he's just.
Speaker 1: Working a lot.
Speaker 10: They were basically like, oh, who are you on a
Speaker 10: date with? What does she look like like? Trying to
Speaker 10: say they were as advantage, Oh yeah, and they're trying
Speaker 10: to eat and have a conversation and he's just got
Speaker 10: a space buried in the phone the whole time. I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 10: this is not going to work. And then the age
Speaker 10: popped up and I was like, yeah, definitely not.
Speaker 1: It's interesting.
Speaker 2: I think I would rather be catfish by a person's
Speaker 2: looks then be catfished by a person's person that you used.
Speaker 9: To sit there for an hour and a half two hours.
Speaker 2: The looks part I would understand more the communication part.
Speaker 2: I would sit there and say, I mean, everybody should
Speaker 2: be able to communicate, right, No.
Speaker 1: No, no, some people that's not.
Speaker 2: I mean some people get you know, get unfortunately the
Speaker 2: ugly stick.
Speaker 1: But sometimes.
Speaker 2: Sometimes usually the the ugly stick, people have to have personality.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 5: Are you speaking from experience?
Speaker 2: I'm speaking from mine experience. Yes, exactly. Hold on, Ray,
Speaker 2: what's up?
Speaker 10: Ray?
Speaker 3: Hey? What's going on?
Speaker 1: Guys? What are your thoughts on this?
Speaker 3: Man? I got a funny story for you guys, tell
Speaker 3: so uh yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4: I was in a situation when I was younger where
Speaker 4: my friend had was approached by somebody. Their friend thought
Speaker 4: he was cute, right, so she didn't have like, she
Speaker 4: didn't have a cul about his personality.
Speaker 3: Or none like that. Somebody gave him a number, like, hey,
Speaker 3: my friend thinks you're cute. Text her.
Speaker 4: You know, he's very very socially awkward, so he doesn't
Speaker 4: know how to text nobody or nothing like that, and.
Speaker 3: He didn't know what to say to this girl. So
Speaker 3: I ended up telling him like, bro, I got you,
Speaker 3: let me text her for you, you know. Yeah, And
Speaker 3: he ended up just letting me text her, and he
Speaker 3: actually ended up being with this girl till this day
Speaker 3: because of that.
Speaker 2: Wow, So how did he do when you weren't around
Speaker 2: to be able to text?
Speaker 3: They they went, they went on a date. I don't know.
Speaker 3: They went on a date really fast. They ended up
Speaker 3: hanging out. She ended up, like you know, they ended
Speaker 3: up falling in love with each other. Like he's not
Speaker 3: that awkward, but he just he's not that you know
Speaker 3: what I'm saying him. He just needed a little push.
Speaker 4: So we we cat we kept fish chat fish somebody,
Speaker 4: and it actually ended up working out.
Speaker 1: Worked out.
Speaker 2: Man. That would be one of those ones where I
Speaker 2: would want to know if you actually had to send
Speaker 2: him some stuff to help his game throughout the whole thing.
Speaker 2: So it was only a one time deal for you.
Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, Their date happened, I want to say,
Speaker 4: within like four or five days.
Speaker 1: Throughout those first.
Speaker 3: Three four days, it was like constant screenshots he was
Speaker 3: sending me like what should I say next? Bro?
Speaker 1: That's amazing. Thank you for the call, buddy, I appreciate.
Speaker 3: It, of course, going.
Speaker 1: All right, So take care of yourself.
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