Speaker 1: Are you married by any chance? No? No, no, are
Speaker 1: you close to it? Like, are you engaged? No? No,
Speaker 1: actually not with anybody? Elliotts leave me alone bringing that
Speaker 1: up the wait how old? How old did you say
Speaker 1: you are?
Speaker 2: Thirty four?
Speaker 3: Oh? Yeah, you're missing the window there, okay, yeah, I know. No,
Speaker 3: don't think about it. It's okay, it's all right. I
Speaker 3: wouldn't even worry about it. What is the do you
Speaker 3: know what the average age is right now for a
Speaker 3: woman to get married?
Speaker 1: What's the average age? Twenty three?
Speaker 3: No, it's older, as they say older. Oh yeah, no,
Speaker 3: no it's much older. Yeah no, don't feel that bad.
Speaker 3: Yeah no, no, much older, much older.
Speaker 4: I would say twenty nine, oh most yeah.
Speaker 1: Twenty eight point four to twenty eight point seven.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like people time to wait a little later,
Speaker 5: right and for men, oh thirty yeah.
Speaker 1: Thirty point six to thirty point eight. That sounds right.
Speaker 3: That sounds right that it keeps getting later, right, Oh,
Speaker 3: it definitely keeps getting older.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: For example, for example, fifty years ago. Fifty years ago, yeah.
Speaker 5: People were getting married when they were like twenty years old, nineteen?
Speaker 4: How right out of high school?
Speaker 1: How old were people? What was the median age for
Speaker 1: a man fifty years ago.
Speaker 4: I bet it was like twenty two.
Speaker 1: You're nailing this. I am twenty two point five.
Speaker 5: And for a woman, I bet I'm saying that like nineteen,
Speaker 5: like right out of high school.
Speaker 3: Twenty yeah, twenty point one. Wow, in that young, Like
Speaker 3: that's crazy young.
Speaker 6: We all know that right from family members that that
Speaker 6: was the case. But when you hear it, it's just wild.
Speaker 1: No, like that's that's crazy. That's crazy.
Speaker 3: Like there are like my older one is what twenty one?
Speaker 1: The was he twenty two?
Speaker 3: Yet?
Speaker 1: I don't know what he is anyway, the.
Speaker 6: He graduated from college.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think he's twenty two.
Speaker 1: Twenty two, okay, whatever.
Speaker 3: But the he's got friends that are already married, and
Speaker 3: that that blows up, like are they.
Speaker 4: A lot older? No, his age twenty two and they're
Speaker 4: already married.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, wow.
Speaker 3: Yeah one of them. One of them has a kid.
Speaker 3: I don't know if that's why they got married, but
Speaker 3: the I don't think it is. I think they got
Speaker 3: married and then had a kid. I think they got
Speaker 3: married pretty quick out of high school. But yeah, you
Speaker 3: hear that, it's like, oh my god, Like that's early.
Speaker 1: That's real early.
Speaker 6: Was that a strange wedding?
Speaker 1: Was it dry? I don't think so. Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: ever I I didn't go my dad's of age.
Speaker 4: That's cool.
Speaker 1: But is it as it gets older? As it gets older?
Speaker 3: Is is the is the amount of time that some
Speaker 3: budy what's the word?
Speaker 6: Like?
Speaker 3: Is is the dating period longer? And then the engagement
Speaker 3: period longer?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 3: Did everything stack? Or is it you didn't start? Did
Speaker 3: the dating windows stayed the same?
Speaker 1: And the like?
Speaker 3: How long are people engaged for? I have no idea
Speaker 3: how long people are engaged years?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I woul guess that is actually smaller because you're
Speaker 6: older and more mature and maybe know what you want,
Speaker 6: so you don't have to date or be engaged too
Speaker 6: long before you get married.
Speaker 3: So that so those windows have remained at least in
Speaker 3: the same ballpark.
Speaker 1: No, I'm guessing they've Oh they they shrunk. What is
Speaker 1: I don't even know. I don't remember how long I
Speaker 1: was engaged for.
Speaker 4: We dated for a year and we're engaged for a year.
Speaker 4: That's it. That's kind of normal.
Speaker 5: I feel like you dated for a year, yeah, and
Speaker 5: then we were engaged for a year.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 3: Jackie's parents were pissed because we dated so long and
Speaker 3: I wasn't asking, and they were like, no, because.
Speaker 5: The in the grand scheme of things eting somebody, a
Speaker 5: year is not that long of a time.
Speaker 1: No, that's really short. That's really short.
Speaker 6: But Dan wasn't twenty two.
Speaker 4: Yeah no, but still a year.
Speaker 3: That's a short amount of time before you get engaged,
Speaker 3: like engagement, I get like engagement lasting like a year,
Speaker 3: year and a half.
Speaker 1: Although doesn't it take forever to find a place?
Speaker 6: I mean, that's the thing. That's the only reason that
Speaker 6: may still be eight, ten, twelve months because you have
Speaker 6: to book so far in it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and there's so much work to do.
Speaker 6: But you also don't have to have a big fairytale wedding.
Speaker 1: Now no, well nobody does. Nobody does People still do that? Yeah, no, no,
Speaker 1: but you don't have to. No, nobody's got a gun
Speaker 1: to your head that says you got.
Speaker 3: To have like a big, massive wedding or a small
Speaker 3: massive wedding.
Speaker 6: So maybe the engagement time, just because of the nature
Speaker 6: of the game and the beast of scheduling, has stayed consistent,
Speaker 6: has grown, well, they're not grown, but has stayed consistent.
Speaker 6: But that dating time, if we're not getting married till
Speaker 6: we're in the thirties. You don't need to date for
Speaker 6: five years. Yeah, Lindsay and I dated for five years,
Speaker 6: but we also started dating at twenty two.
Speaker 1: And then how long were you engaged? A year? Oh?
Speaker 6: I got married at twenty eight.
Speaker 1: Christ Will you can I find somebody engaged?
Speaker 6: Yes?
Speaker 1: Yeah, well I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 3: I got two weddings coming up that I have to
Speaker 3: go to. Kristen, Will you do me a f I
Speaker 3: don't even know when they are. One is in December?
Speaker 3: When is the next one? Next year?
Speaker 1: April? Yeah, one is in the When did they just
Speaker 1: get engaged? This is my nephew.
Speaker 3: He got engaged. I don't know a month ago. What
Speaker 3: month am I in? Oh, so he's not even a year.
Speaker 6: Well you figure that out and you will get in
Speaker 6: trouble for it. But I should say I got married
Speaker 6: at twenty seven. I was doing the math in my
Speaker 6: head and like they say, that doesn't that doesn't add up.
Speaker 6: But no one's going to after the show text you
Speaker 6: and say, hey, wait to remember when we got.
Speaker 1: Married the Yeah, how was I thirty? I think I
Speaker 1: was thirty when I got married. I was right in
Speaker 1: the window. Look at me, go Christian, will you find
Speaker 1: me somebody who's engaged? Please?
Speaker 3: Eight six six to Elliott eight six six two three
Speaker 3: five five four six eight.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you this.
Speaker 3: Knowing, like like there's no way to know, right, there's
Speaker 3: no way to undo it or go back or anything
Speaker 3: like that.
Speaker 1: But in hindsight, do you wish you would have got
Speaker 1: married at twenty? No, at twenty while I was still
Speaker 1: in college. That's nineteen fifty six, people were getting married.
Speaker 1: They're twenty years old. Oh yeah, en fifty six. Yeah no, no,
Speaker 1: but they they God know the But you didn't know that.
Speaker 3: You didn't know that back then, Like why was it
Speaker 3: so different then than it is now?
Speaker 1: Like why why?
Speaker 3: Like I mean, why is it so shocking if somebody
Speaker 3: gets married and they're twenty one now versus fifty years ago?
Speaker 1: Everybody got married at that age.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's shocking now because no one does it.
Speaker 1: Yeah no, But why did it change?
Speaker 3: Like why did everybody like was it not working and
Speaker 3: everybody was like that it was way too young to
Speaker 3: get married?
Speaker 1: Or is it more expensive? In school?
Speaker 5: And opportunities opened up and it wasn't like you know,
Speaker 5: women who went right from living with their parents to
Speaker 5: living with a spouse, you know what I mean, Like
Speaker 5: they were able to just have lives and careers.
Speaker 3: Did cohabitation change it? Because everybody lives with somebody before
Speaker 3: they get married. Everybody, everybody shacks up. So you mean acceptance, Well,
Speaker 3: acceptance went way up obviously, Yeah, but everybody does it.
Speaker 6: How about I was thinking and I don't know the
Speaker 6: years on it, so this could be way off. But okay,
Speaker 6: what about birth control?
Speaker 1: What about it?
Speaker 3: Oh, like there's more now like back then it was
Speaker 3: like a rubber apill poot that's all you had back then?
Speaker 1: Oh in lamb skin the Yeah, maybe maybe, but I just.
Speaker 3: Want I wonder if I wonder if it's because now
Speaker 3: you can live together like back I mean, I'm sure
Speaker 3: people live together back then, yes, but it was, but
Speaker 3: it was frowned upon more than it is now.
Speaker 6: It is funny though, you still have those whole out
Speaker 6: grandparents that can't know that you live with your partner.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh of course.
Speaker 3: Well my nephew, her parents were not thrilled because they
Speaker 3: were living together.
Speaker 1: They didn't start.
Speaker 3: Living together until they were getting engaged. Yeah, because her
Speaker 3: parents were like mmmmmm, I mean listen, she's a grown
Speaker 3: ass woman. She can do whatever she wants. But then
Speaker 3: you got to upset the parents and they're flipping the bill.
Speaker 3: So you do what you gotta do.
Speaker 6: And what did you say? What is the average? Do
Speaker 6: you have the time for how long someone dates before
Speaker 6: getting engaged?
Speaker 1: Yes? Average engagement time? No? No?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 6: The actual like coverting dating?
Speaker 1: Dating, that's a window. That's a window.
Speaker 3: Fifty people dated two to five years.
Speaker 1: That's too broad a window a long time.
Speaker 3: That's too broad a window. By the way, twenty percent
Speaker 3: of people six years.
Speaker 1: That's high.
Speaker 6: This is really surprising.
Speaker 4: That's high.
Speaker 3: Still, that's a big number. Twenty percent, that's two and ten,
Speaker 3: one and five.
Speaker 6: That goes against what my theory was.
Speaker 1: What about birth control?
Speaker 6: No that I thought that the dating period was, oh
Speaker 6: it would be tightening.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, yeah, but twenty percent going six years, that's lengthy.
Speaker 3: What's God? I am sneezing in and my note now
Speaker 3: I am running. I got I'm I don't know what's
Speaker 3: going on your marriage?
Speaker 1: Hi? That softball? Anyone could hit that out of the park. Hi,
Speaker 1: Ellie in the morning. Yeah, Hi, who's this?
Speaker 7: Hey? What's a Maryland?
Speaker 1: Hey? What's going on dude.
Speaker 7: Hey, I'm getting married in May and I'm twenty three?
Speaker 1: Are you really?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Man?
Speaker 1: Hey? Are you?
Speaker 3: Can we start congratulations? That's good for you? Good for you?
Speaker 2: Hey?
Speaker 3: How are you the youngest of your of your friend
Speaker 3: group that's getting married.
Speaker 7: I'm actually me and my fiance probably are only friends honestly,
Speaker 7: other than like, she has one friend and I have
Speaker 7: one friend from high school. But all we both do
Speaker 7: is work and hang out. Man.
Speaker 3: Right, so you're of all of your of your friend
Speaker 3: group and your wife's friend group. It's just you and
Speaker 3: somebody else that's getting married. How long did you When
Speaker 3: did you guys start dating?
Speaker 1: Uh?
Speaker 7: Sixteen high school?
Speaker 3: Wow, you've been dating a long time. Good for you,
Speaker 3: Good for you. How long were you? How long were
Speaker 3: you engaged?
Speaker 7: We're getting married in May. I proposed to her Memorial Day.
Speaker 7: Just that just passed. Whatever the holiday is, you know,
Speaker 7: in September Labor day? Labor day?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Right? Oh, so almost a year?
Speaker 3: You know what? Good for you? Good for you, that's awesome,
Speaker 3: that's all. Did your parents get married young?
Speaker 1: Like? We're both your parents school with it?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 7: Of course they're very excited. They love my fiance and
Speaker 7: I mean, they had me when they were My mom
Speaker 7: was twenty and they married a little after. So they're
Speaker 7: just happy we're doing it, you know, the traditional.
Speaker 3: Right, Hey, can I ask? Can I ask a personal question?
Speaker 3: But maybe she's not listening.
Speaker 7: All right, what's up?
Speaker 1: Was your mom pregnant before you said at twenty?
Speaker 3: Was you?
Speaker 1: Was your mom pregnant before she got married?
Speaker 7: I'm in the photos?
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so perfect.
Speaker 3: Hey, congratulations, dude, congratulations, Good for you, Good for you.
Speaker 1: But that goes against that goes against the.
Speaker 6: Norm from instagram. Dated for eight years, eight years in
Speaker 6: high school, right, got engaged last August, getting married April
Speaker 6: twenty twenty seven, So that's about a year and a
Speaker 6: half engagement. And she's excited. I can see in her
Speaker 6: little little of.
Speaker 1: Like exclamation, exclamation, exclamation egg playing.
Speaker 6: File picture with her fiance. She's shown off that ring.
Speaker 1: Yeah that a girl. By the way, do you know
Speaker 1: who you know who got engaged? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Remember so remember early on in the pit it was
Speaker 3: Casey Hayley and Jamie and Jamie.
Speaker 1: Left, right, she got engaged.
Speaker 4: Good for them. Yeah, that's great.
Speaker 1: That took forever the.
Speaker 4: Uh now you sound like her mother, but yeah, good
Speaker 4: for her.
Speaker 3: She got engaged by the way, would will we get
Speaker 3: invited to that?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: Why you don't think we'll get invited? Kristen? Are we
Speaker 1: getting invited?
Speaker 4: Kristen? Kristen?
Speaker 1: What about me? Why I was in that text chain?
Speaker 4: Oh god?
Speaker 6: Laura writes, I'm Tyler's age. I got married at eighteen eighteen,
Speaker 6: she's forty four?
Speaker 1: Was her kid in the picture? Still there?
Speaker 6: Still happily?
Speaker 2: Man?
Speaker 1: How long? How long did were they engage or did
Speaker 1: they not even?
Speaker 3: Really? Like this sounds horrible, say, but like in eighteen,
Speaker 3: like you're not written out of venue. You're like in
Speaker 3: your like like you're like your parents' living room.
Speaker 6: Oh for a ceremony, not.
Speaker 3: For a ceremony. Well yeah, I guess. But you're not
Speaker 3: like renting out a venue. Yeah, which is fine, that's fine.
Speaker 3: What about there's a lot of people who said that
Speaker 3: they they cohabit.
Speaker 6: As high school students. Uh, that happens, yeah, when the
Speaker 6: person's homeless.
Speaker 1: Yeah, not homeless. It's very very lax parenting.
Speaker 6: A couple of people have said that they had a
Speaker 6: rule like a year or an age that nothing was
Speaker 6: happening before that.
Speaker 1: Oh, really, I feel it's hard to do that.
Speaker 6: And like commit to that, especially if true love is
Speaker 6: right there in front of you.
Speaker 1: But you're not twenty five yet.
Speaker 3: So they would they put it like an actual age
Speaker 3: of like you can't do that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it wasn't like their parents saying it. It
Speaker 1: was them.
Speaker 6: One of them was twenty five years old. I think
Speaker 6: it was.
Speaker 1: What did it say, no marriage, no kids before twenty five?
Speaker 1: I have heard like parents say no kid before a diploma.
Speaker 4: That's a good rule.
Speaker 3: No, but I mean that it is actually it is.
Speaker 3: Raising a kid is hard. You don't want to do
Speaker 3: that while you're still trying to write an English paper.
Speaker 3: So like, I definitely have heard parents say that no
Speaker 3: kids before you get a diploma?
Speaker 1: Where am I going? Line four? Hi, elliot in the morning?
Speaker 8: Hey is this me?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Hi?
Speaker 1: Who's this?
Speaker 8: This is Joseph.
Speaker 4: How are you doing?
Speaker 1: I'm doing great, sir? Thank you? Are you? Are you married?
Speaker 2: I'm engaged with my fiance?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 1: Good for you? And how old are you?
Speaker 8: I'm twenty four?
Speaker 1: Oh boy?
Speaker 3: How old is how old is she?
Speaker 8: She's twenty two?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Hey, what is the How long did did you
Speaker 1: guys date?
Speaker 2: We've been together for well five and a half years.
Speaker 2: But I propose to hear like a half a year
Speaker 2: ago in December.
Speaker 1: So you got engaged.
Speaker 3: So in order to get married that young, you have
Speaker 3: to have known each other from high school, right, Like,
Speaker 3: there's no dang, no doubt around.
Speaker 1: Yeah you did not? I did?
Speaker 2: I did?
Speaker 3: Oh Okay, I was gonna say your math is off
Speaker 3: the and now in both both sets of parents are
Speaker 3: cool with the with the young age.
Speaker 2: Yes, sir, yes, sir, you know what good They were
Speaker 2: really encouraging it. They I was kind of wanting to
Speaker 2: be engaged a long time ago, but she wanted to
Speaker 2: wait for a while. And now she kind of wanted
Speaker 2: to wait to have the wedding until she gets her bachelors.
Speaker 2: So we're kind of just waiting for that.
Speaker 3: Did you guys follow that rule, no babies till you
Speaker 3: get a diploma?
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, that's for sure.
Speaker 1: Good for you. Wait, so when's when is the wedding?
Speaker 3: Uh?
Speaker 2: We're planning on having an uh fall of twenty twenty
Speaker 2: eight because I just purchased the house actually this weekend.
Speaker 1: You're twenty four. You purchased a house.
Speaker 2: God, yes, sir, I just just moved in on Sunday.
Speaker 4: You're a good kids, good for you.
Speaker 1: You're a good kid, better my kids.
Speaker 8: I appreciate you. I appreciate you.
Speaker 1: Dude. That's awesome.
Speaker 3: Hey can I well, no, because I know what the
Speaker 3: answer is and why even put it out there?
Speaker 1: All right, very good, very good, Thank you, sir, thank you.
Speaker 6: What was the question?
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what my fear.
Speaker 1: Would be, and not for him like these people know.
Speaker 3: My fear would be if I got engaged at twenty
Speaker 3: three and the wedding wasn't for two years. In my head,
Speaker 3: I'd be like, I don't know if we're going to
Speaker 3: make it to the wedding, Like is.
Speaker 1: There is there?
Speaker 3: And that's unfair. I realize that's unfair. But when you're older,
Speaker 3: this is how my stupid mind works. You're twenty eight,
Speaker 3: you're thirty, you're thirty one. Two years or by the way,
Speaker 3: the average engagement is hold on sixteen months, No, fifteen months.
Speaker 3: Oh it's longer than a yeah, so a hair over
Speaker 3: a year. But let's say it's fifteen months. We'll go
Speaker 3: with the average. When you're thirty, fifteen months is not forever.
Speaker 3: When you're twenty one, fifteen months is forever, right, So
Speaker 3: that would like and God bless him, that's why.
Speaker 1: I didn't want to say it to him. I didn't
Speaker 1: want him to hear a negative tone.
Speaker 3: But if I got engaged at twenty two and I
Speaker 3: knew I wasn't getting married for two years, I would
Speaker 3: be scared.
Speaker 1: Two years is forever in my head.
Speaker 6: I'd be like, I don't even know if we make it,
Speaker 6: but then you shouldn't be getting married, right.
Speaker 3: I know, but in the moment I do. But when
Speaker 3: I'm twenty two, I like a lot of things on
Speaker 3: Monday that I hate on Friday. But that's what I mean.
Speaker 3: Maybe it resets you, like maybe maybe it gets rid
Speaker 3: of all that. And you listen, the guy's twenty four
Speaker 3: years old, he's engaged in it, has a house.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's a big grown up.
Speaker 1: I was bouncing checks.
Speaker 6: A couple of people here are going the other way.
Speaker 6: It's like dated for thirteen years, dated for fourteen years,
Speaker 6: dated for twenty two years, twenty two years?
Speaker 1: Yes, why even get married at that point?
Speaker 6: It says they they figured it was if it wasn't broken,
Speaker 6: don't fix it.
Speaker 1: I get that, I get that, but why so, but
Speaker 1: then why do it?
Speaker 6: I don't think those Yeah, those are so long, it's
Speaker 6: not like they had a year or an age that
Speaker 6: was the the minimum they could be to say.
Speaker 3: Not get married till I'm seventy No, no is that
Speaker 3: but but you know what I mean, like at that point,
Speaker 3: like if you've been dating for seventeen years, like why even,
Speaker 3: Like what is the rison you finally did?
Speaker 4: Why?
Speaker 6: Now? Yeah, maybe you have children.
Speaker 3: I don't think you dated for seventeen and then got
Speaker 3: married and then had a kid.
Speaker 6: No, I'm saying you had children.
Speaker 1: Oh and you you lied to them the whole time.
Speaker 6: Oh you just you really for them. I've seen this before.
Speaker 6: You you want And I'm saying I've seen it because
Speaker 6: it's been on like TV when it happens where people
Speaker 6: want to get married for the kids.
Speaker 1: I tell people, don't stay the married.
Speaker 4: People say, oh I want to have the last same
Speaker 4: last name or something.
Speaker 1: You do whatever you want. This is America.
Speaker 6: I'm not talking about people who, in the last dish
Speaker 6: effort to save the marriage have a child. I'm saying,
Speaker 6: if you're twenty two years you could have had a
Speaker 6: kid fifteen years earlier. Oh yeah, no, I understand that
Speaker 6: later together formally for the sake of the family.
Speaker 3: Because your parents, because you're your kid who's now an adult,
Speaker 3: has been embarrassed the whole time, going like, you know,
Speaker 3: my mom and dad aren't married.
Speaker 6: That's what happens on TV.
Speaker 3: Lyne too, Hi, Elliott in the morning, We'll bring your parents.
Speaker 1: I don't have parents.
Speaker 3: They never got married. Well, they're still parents, They're still parents. Whoops,
Speaker 3: I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: Who is this?
Speaker 8: Jamie Hew you going, buddy?
Speaker 1: Hey, I'm doing great, Yes, sir? What can I do
Speaker 1: for you?
Speaker 8: So my daughter just got married Saturday. She's twenty, he's
Speaker 8: twenty one. Engaged for seven months, been together about a
Speaker 8: year and a half.
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, they just got married when Saturday? He said,
Speaker 1: Saturday two days ago.
Speaker 3: Yep, like with General Brandon and Placey just Saturday. Yeah.
Speaker 1: And she's a.
Speaker 8: House Wow, yep, go to house, have a house for
Speaker 8: five months?
Speaker 3: So, hey, what is the the So they got married?
Speaker 3: They got married on Saturday. You said your daughter is twenty.
Speaker 8: She's twenty, he's twenty one.
Speaker 3: Were you be honest with me? Were you were you
Speaker 3: cool about everything?
Speaker 8: I thought it was very they're young. But you can't
Speaker 8: push against them. You got a guide them or the
Speaker 8: rebel against you. They're going to do it anyway, So
Speaker 8: why not try to guide them in a great direction.
Speaker 3: At first when she when she came home and was like,
Speaker 3: oh my god, o j.
Speaker 1: Honey, gains. Were you like, did you pass out? No?
Speaker 8: The gentleman came to me and asked for my permission first.
Speaker 1: Did you hit him?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 8: No, but you know he was around for you know,
Speaker 8: five months at the time.
Speaker 1: You know, right, God, that's nothing.
Speaker 8: They did not sleep in the same bed. They a boy.
Speaker 8: Good for the Bible. They didn't sleep in the same
Speaker 8: bed until I guess they got married.
Speaker 1: You know what. Good for you? Good for you?
Speaker 8: Damn dude.
Speaker 1: Hey did you did you and your old lady get married? Young?
Speaker 8: No, twenty four? I guess, I guess you.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I mean that's a whole high school for this girl.
Speaker 3: That's amazing. Good for you, Good for you, dude.
Speaker 8: Hey, congratulations, Yeah, thank you much.
Speaker 1: Hey, you got it?
Speaker 3: Talk to you later. Oh my god. Maybe I would
Speaker 3: be maybe, actually I'd be really.
Speaker 1: Good with it.
Speaker 6: I've tackled so many different angles.
Speaker 3: Like my older one's been dating the same girl for
Speaker 3: four and a half years, right, Like I should get
Speaker 3: home today and be like, hey, listen es or get
Speaker 3: off the pod, Like when do you make this girl.
Speaker 6: Honest, he probably wants to find work for any next
Speaker 6: step in his personal life.
Speaker 1: Well that does weigh heavily right now.
Speaker 6: But then, like I said, so here's now people to
Speaker 6: talking about engagement time. Engaged for two years, we're getting
Speaker 6: married in September, engaged for three years, getting married in October.
Speaker 1: And engaged I engaged so long?
Speaker 6: Engaged since twenty seventeen.
Speaker 4: Twenty Oh my god, they've.
Speaker 6: Been engaged for nine years and they've had three kids since.
Speaker 4: In being engaged, I just haven't had time to get
Speaker 4: I can't get that date.
Speaker 1: That venue I want is booked.
Speaker 5: I know people hold off because they want a certain venue.
Speaker 5: So sometimes people be like, oh, yeah, we have to
Speaker 5: wait two years because that's my place.
Speaker 1: Or did she or was it?
Speaker 3: Like you know, I don't want my wedding pictures to
Speaker 3: have a bump in it. So as long as we
Speaker 3: keep pumping out kids, I'm not getting.
Speaker 6: Married nine years, three kids at some point you're not pregnant.
Speaker 1: Yeah no, I guess that's true.
Speaker 6: Unless maybe and I won't say her name because it
Speaker 6: was a DM.
Speaker 1: But I got a very long gestation.
Speaker 6: It could be crazy, but that's maybe the type or
Speaker 6: the number that's driving up that average to fifteen months.
Speaker 1: How are you? How are you engaged for nine years?
Speaker 6: Like Diana said, life gets in the way.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but at that point, why even get married?
Speaker 6: And maybe there is.
Speaker 4: A want to right again, they want to get married.
Speaker 1: Look at that point, I would save the money. You
Speaker 1: got three kids? What what am I? What am I
Speaker 1: written out to? What am I written out of VFW for?
Speaker 5: I mean, but if they want to have if they
Speaker 5: want to have their day and they can swing it.
Speaker 3: Wow, that's a long time mm hmm. But you know what,
Speaker 3: this is the this is the beauty. Everybody's happy, everybody's happy.
Speaker 6: And maybe you look for that out that does I mean,
Speaker 6: you know you look for that reason like it's been
Speaker 6: so long?
Speaker 1: Why now? And then it hits you?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 1: You you, and then it hits you?
Speaker 6: What's your your why? What's the motivation?
Speaker 1: Taxes?
Speaker 6: We it was special when we got engaged nine years ago,
Speaker 6: and our life clearly with three beautiful children continues to
Speaker 6: be wonderful. But we want that beautiful moment what now
Speaker 6: to be the reason we finally go through with.
Speaker 1: The is it like?
Speaker 3: Is it now like now all three kids are old
Speaker 3: enough that they can participate in the wedding.
Speaker 4: Maybe.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good one. That's a good one. Go Elliott,
Speaker 1: Go Elliott.
Speaker 6: Except I prefer weddings with no kids. So if we
Speaker 6: get the invite from them, I know you're waiting on Jamie's.
Speaker 1: Which I bet I'm gonna ask. Is that rude? Yes?
Speaker 5: Why yes, it's rude because now you're putting them in
Speaker 5: an uncomfortable spot, not at all.
Speaker 1: Yes, your wedding.
Speaker 3: No no, no, no, no, no no no no no
Speaker 3: no no no. I send a text, Hey, I heard,
Speaker 3: I heard through the I heard through the grapevine. You
Speaker 3: got engaged. Congratulations to you, and I don't even remember
Speaker 3: what his name is.
Speaker 4: Congratulations. Just leave it that.
Speaker 3: Jason, Yeah, Jason, it'll be a Jewish wedding. The well,
Speaker 3: both of them are, both of them are the no no.
Speaker 3: But in the thing, I'd be like, I'm excited, I'm looking.
Speaker 4: Can't wait to be there, forward to it.
Speaker 1: That's how you kind of and now you shouldn't.
Speaker 3: No, no, no, that's vague because I could be looking
Speaker 3: forward to them actually being married, or I could be
Speaker 3: looking forward to attending.
Speaker 6: I'm looking forward to your union. Yeah, but who writes
Speaker 6: like that? It sounds like, AI, Yeah, I think I.
Speaker 3: Should be invited. It's Christian's invited. I'm invited. That is not.
Speaker 6: At all Now I feel like how you could rank
Speaker 6: the office.
Speaker 1: Does Casey get invited? Probably she's been away for a
Speaker 1: while now. She has a new.
Speaker 4: Life guy I know, but he can't accept that.
Speaker 1: Well, she's still on Instagram.
Speaker 5: Which she leaves her She has to create a new
Speaker 5: profile and get all new friends.
Speaker 6: Sounds like she should have a bunch of stalkers. Phantom
Speaker 6: life syndrome