Speaker 1: I hate even bringing this up because I don't even
Speaker 1: want to call it this because I'm hoping that it's
Speaker 1: not to this point, but because you have had a
Speaker 1: stalker before, Shannon, and uh, and I don't want to
Speaker 1: do this, but I yesterday met a person that I
Speaker 1: think might be a little stack Shannon stalker. And she
Speaker 1: has told me before that she's got this person that has,
Speaker 1: you know, from time to time, reached out to her.
Speaker 1: And I hate bringing this up because it's one of
Speaker 1: those things where it's like you don't want it to
Speaker 1: actually be that the guy is, you know, weird and unstable.
Speaker 1: But yesterday afternoon I went to go get my physical
Speaker 1: therapy done. I do Pete shout out to Team Rehab
Speaker 1: and Amy over there. But right before I was going,
Speaker 1: I ended up going to the Jimmy Johns over on
Speaker 1: on Square Lake Road, and I ran into this guy
Speaker 1: where you know that somebody has a little bit of
Speaker 1: stalkers vibes, when you run into him, you talk to him,
Speaker 1: and the whole time all the guy had kept doing
Speaker 1: to me the whole time was Hey, Uh.
Speaker 2: How's Shannon doing? What's going on with Shannon? Hey? Who
Speaker 2: is you know?
Speaker 1: And he kept asking me questions about our very own
Speaker 1: Shannon and talking about that, and to a point where
Speaker 1: he was like, hey, I got to show you this
Speaker 1: pictures I have of Shannon, And he had like a
Speaker 1: lot of pictures of Shannon, but there were pictures with Shannon.
Speaker 2: So he's been out to see you.
Speaker 1: Rs he's seen you a bunch of times, and and
Speaker 1: I'm like.
Speaker 2: Oh, that's really nice. Oh that's great. What's going on?
Speaker 2: What about keV?
Speaker 3: You know you're like, bring me up?
Speaker 2: Come on?
Speaker 1: I did, I actually did. I talked about all you guys.
Speaker 1: I tried to. I tried to go make it seem
Speaker 1: but it was weird because in it in h at
Speaker 1: one point during the conversation he actually knew. He's like, well,
Speaker 1: I know Shannon's going to be and he started like
Speaker 1: naming things that you're doing, because you talk about the
Speaker 1: stuff that you go do, and then he knew everything
Speaker 1: about you, and it got to a point where and
Speaker 1: I don't know if any listeners have ever had a stalker.
Speaker 1: If you've ever had a stalker, man, I don't know
Speaker 1: how you deal with it, because I I would. My
Speaker 1: problem is I'm not so nice to everybody. I'd probably
Speaker 1: be nice to my stalker.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean? But do you know what
Speaker 2: I'm talking about?
Speaker 4: I know who you're talking about.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And do you send stockersh vibes? Or no?
Speaker 4: Do I send stockershbes? You mean, do I get stock Oh?
Speaker 1: Do I send think he's just really friendly?
Speaker 5: Yeah, It's like I want to assume the best about
Speaker 5: somebody's intentions. But I've been in this situation before, unfortunately,
Speaker 5: and that situation just ended last year, thank god, in
Speaker 5: a courtroom in fact, And so I just like know, was.
Speaker 1: That person different than this one? Was that one more
Speaker 1: scary than the very Yeah?
Speaker 5: Yeah, So I'm just it's like super cautious, but like
Speaker 5: to your point, I am trying to be kind and
Speaker 5: not like I don't want to be not I don't
Speaker 5: want to be mean.
Speaker 4: To this person.
Speaker 5: But yeah, I'm starting to feel a little bit uncomfortable.
Speaker 5: And I know exactly what's going to happen in about
Speaker 5: twenty seconds is Officer Josh, you helped me, But the
Speaker 5: last time I was going to text me and be like,
Speaker 5: what do we need to do?
Speaker 3: That's nice, It's not to.
Speaker 4: The I don't think it's to that point.
Speaker 6: But because the craziest thing is like you don't want
Speaker 6: to wait until it gets to a point where you're
Speaker 6: being more reactive, right, you know what I mean, where
Speaker 6: like something crazy happens where they show up or like
Speaker 6: you right until a moment that quote unquote makes it
Speaker 6: a stalker situation.
Speaker 2: Like it's kind of to that point is.
Speaker 5: Building up, right, And that's why I say, like, I
Speaker 5: want to assume the best about this person's intentions, but
Speaker 5: I feel like it's getting to be I mean, you
Speaker 5: saw it first, yet it's going to be a lot.
Speaker 1: This is the part that when he started talking to me,
Speaker 1: he was like yeah, He's like, and she cut her
Speaker 1: hair and I'm like, oh my.
Speaker 3: God, literally happened one day ago.
Speaker 1: And then he's like and then I went to the
Speaker 1: hair salon and I picked it up off the floor. No,
Speaker 1: but I said to him, I go, I go, well,
Speaker 1: you know Shannon and Wes her husband, you know. And
Speaker 1: I've always kept trying to say that because I don't
Speaker 1: think that this guy seems like he is to me,
Speaker 1: doesn't come across to me like he wants to do
Speaker 1: any harm. But I think he's got I think he's
Speaker 1: got like a like a thing like there's a you
Speaker 1: know what I mean.
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's one of the scariest things though, is a
Speaker 7: lot of times I think stalkers don't think that what
Speaker 7: they're doing is wrong, Like they're so delusional that they
Speaker 7: think it's normal.
Speaker 3: But it's like, actually very scary.
Speaker 2: Have you ever dealt with, like with a stalker situation.
Speaker 7: Yeah, but it was an ex boyfriend but showing up
Speaker 7: to my apartment because he knew where I lived and
Speaker 7: he would get into my building and show up at
Speaker 7: my door.
Speaker 3: I ended up having apartments.
Speaker 4: That is crazy.
Speaker 1: That's worse to me because, yeah, because they were part
Speaker 1: of your life and everybody knows him as part of
Speaker 1: your life, and people just think that you're you know,
Speaker 1: either they think either you're at her or they think
Speaker 1: that this person just really hurt, you know, and something,
Speaker 1: and they kind of give that more.
Speaker 7: And then it turned into like a blackmail situation where
Speaker 7: they knew so many things about me because we had
Speaker 7: a relationship that they were like threatening like, oh, I'm
Speaker 7: going to send it to your boss, I'm going to
Speaker 7: send this, I'm going to do that. Right.
Speaker 2: What were they going to send?
Speaker 3: What do you need mojo?
Speaker 2: Oh wait, they were going to send nudes and stuff.
Speaker 3: Yeah, to like my boss who was But why would they?
Speaker 1: But why would Dan Kilbert at the time that you said,
Speaker 1: but why would people? Why would like, you know, the
Speaker 1: nudes to your boss be something that you would want
Speaker 1: to like hold against the person.
Speaker 7: You know what she was like, If you're not going
Speaker 7: to open your door and let me in, I'm going
Speaker 7: to send this Oh my god.
Speaker 3: Your boss.
Speaker 2: That's crazy.
Speaker 4: I'd be like, I mean, I probably look really cute
Speaker 4: in the photo.
Speaker 1: So wait, Lydia, you got to call the text and
Speaker 1: uh two three one answer your phone and said I
Speaker 1: had a stalker who was eighty.
Speaker 2: Three an eighty You don't have a brother. Maybe they're
Speaker 2: just slow. What's going on? How you doing, April?
Speaker 8: Hey, what's going on? Good morning morning.
Speaker 1: By the way, if you relate to this topic and
Speaker 1: you don't want to text your whole story, just text
Speaker 1: call me to nine five five zero zero and Lydia
Speaker 1: will call you.
Speaker 2: What's going on?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 8: No, I don't necessarily relate to this story in general.
Speaker 8: I just hope that this soccer day that you know,
Speaker 8: you guys are talking about kind of takes the hint
Speaker 8: on this plug that you're putting in there, like Hey, dude,
Speaker 8: you know, like, hey homies. Yeah, it doesn't, it doesn't
Speaker 8: want you.
Speaker 1: If you were at Jimmy John's yesterday, I'm talking about Yeah,
Speaker 1: And honestly, if that's if so, can I tell you something, April,
Speaker 1: if that was me that was being talked about, I
Speaker 1: would call and say please.
Speaker 2: I mean no harm.
Speaker 1: I'm just honestly, I'm honestly a big fan, and I
Speaker 1: think that there are sometimes where people can have a
Speaker 1: crush or have like an affinity for somebody with in
Speaker 1: go you know what, maybe I am a little bit
Speaker 1: too much contacting the person or or showing up at
Speaker 1: that person stuff.
Speaker 8: Sure, there's a complete invasion of privacy and in space,
Speaker 8: even if you're not in someone six foot perimeter. You know,
Speaker 8: you gotta you guys, gotta stay away. Yeah, hopefully hopefully
Speaker 8: takes the hint. So Jimmy John's guy, you need you
Speaker 8: need to take the hint.
Speaker 2: Freaky fast, please, what's up Colton?
Speaker 10: What's up?
Speaker 11: Driving?
Speaker 2: Are you?
Speaker 12: It's all an excalation if you're asking me. It all
Speaker 12: starts at one spot and then they'll push back. Now
Speaker 12: then it just escalates, so far are you? I would
Speaker 12: just take.
Speaker 2: Care of it, like everyone says, yeah, but it looks
Speaker 2: like you got everyone has your back, you know.
Speaker 1: So yeah, with with the person, and I don't want
Speaker 1: to get into it too much with the other person.
Speaker 1: Did the other person start off slow and then speed
Speaker 1: up or did it just get crazy right away?
Speaker 2: I don't remember.
Speaker 4: It got crazy right away.
Speaker 2: That's what I thought.
Speaker 4: It was actually scary. Yeah, do you remember what they
Speaker 4: were doing? I can't say in the air, but it
Speaker 4: was scary.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do remember.
Speaker 1: And I do not ever want a stalker, and I
Speaker 1: don't think that I'm honestly interesting enough to stalk.
Speaker 2: I'm surprised you don't have a stock.
Speaker 1: There are a number of people that have been on
Speaker 1: the show that have had stalkers that I look at
Speaker 1: it in the situations and I go, these people have
Speaker 1: way too much time.
Speaker 4: I'm where they I Am not that interesting of a person.
Speaker 4: I can miss you this.
Speaker 2: What's up? Ali?
Speaker 12: Hey, Mojoeie. So I dated my boyfriend back in high
Speaker 12: school and graduate in two thousand and nine, So they'll
Speaker 12: give you a pretext of how old I am. Just
Speaker 12: two years ago, I was working in a different job
Speaker 12: and he showed up one day to my job. I
Speaker 12: and you I haven't seen him in ten years, and
Speaker 12: I was giving him the time of day, being casual,
Speaker 12: and that's when he told me he has still done
Speaker 12: background checks on me every year randomly, just to keep
Speaker 12: tabs on me and make sure I'm okay.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 12: So I was out one day and I had heard
Speaker 12: from one of my other friends they had he found
Speaker 12: out I had gotten married, and he was waiting for
Speaker 12: me to be single because he knew it wouldn't laugh.
Speaker 12: Mind you, He cheated on me and that's why we
Speaker 12: broke up after. He was abusive physically and emotionally.
Speaker 1: So I wonder if it was the way that it ended.
Speaker 1: He didn't like it and he wanted to restart it again,
Speaker 1: so it can be different, you know, And and honestly.
Speaker 10: Maybe yeah, And honestly, there's.
Speaker 2: A level of control.
Speaker 1: Well, if the guy does that to you too, where
Speaker 1: he's you know, an abusive guy, he's got a level
Speaker 1: of control and he couldn't control the situation. So this
Speaker 1: is his way of trying to do it. And man,
Speaker 1: that is a scary situation to be in. I'm sorry
Speaker 1: that you were in that.
Speaker 2: Shannon's up, Jay, good morning, Good morning.
Speaker 13: I had a guy followed me home from Kroger and
Speaker 13: stopped me for a year.
Speaker 4: What what's one of the things was he doing?
Speaker 8: Well?
Speaker 13: I was in when I met him, and I didn't
Speaker 13: actually meet him, but he kept following me around, asked
Speaker 13: me out for coffee.
Speaker 8: And I said no thanks.
Speaker 13: Then he followed me home and I happened to live
Speaker 13: in a condo and my neighbor told him my name,
Speaker 13: so I would get flowers and I would get food
Speaker 13: and it happened for a year.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 13: So luckily I have a police officer's son and I
Speaker 13: told him about it and he says, you're telling me
Speaker 13: this now, and then after that point it was put
Speaker 13: to an end.
Speaker 8: It was kind of creepy.
Speaker 2: And it all started with him just following you home
Speaker 2: while you were at Kroger grocery shopping.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and you didn't know him beforehand, like this was
Speaker 6: your first interaction?
Speaker 2: Was in all thirteen first first time?
Speaker 10: Never saw him again.
Speaker 13: And the funny thing is that he was a police
Speaker 13: officer from downright.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, and he's a cop. Wow, that's nothing.
Speaker 1: And that goes to a level where you're scared because
Speaker 1: they have the ability to be you.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Wow, thank god, you have a son. That's a cop.
Speaker 1: Jeannie had someone show up at her work. That's the
Speaker 1: part where this would get weird is all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: they're showing up at places that you are and always
Speaker 1: have to be, like work, what's up, Jenny?
Speaker 14: Good morning, guys, Good morning.
Speaker 2: Hey.
Speaker 14: So I had a woman show up at my work.
Speaker 14: I worked at a local urgent care, so it was
Speaker 14: a business so it was really hard to tell them
Speaker 14: they couldn't come there, but her and her husband would
Speaker 14: come to my urgent care that I worked at, seeking
Speaker 14: care supposedly, and they claimed that they wanted to be
Speaker 14: seen only it was coming here to see me.
Speaker 2: Wait, it was two people stalking you.
Speaker 12: It was the.
Speaker 14: Wife and her husband both Why what was going on?
Speaker 14: He supposedly had been having dreams about me and told
Speaker 14: her that he'd been having these dreams, and they came
Speaker 14: there to see me, and then they somehow figured out
Speaker 14: where I worked.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 1: So being stock by two people, were they trying to
Speaker 1: have a relationship with you?
Speaker 4: That's my question.
Speaker 14: I think he was. And she wanted to beat me
Speaker 14: up basically, and they had stopped my Facebook to see.
Speaker 8: Where I worked.
Speaker 2: Wow. Mmm, that's crazy.
Speaker 14: Then they discovered where I lived, and they would block
Speaker 14: me in my driveway so I couldn't get out.
Speaker 15: Yes, oh my god, is this is nuts?
Speaker 9: Well?
Speaker 14: I had to contact the police and they knew who
Speaker 14: these people were.
Speaker 1: Why because they they had done this before? Or how
Speaker 1: do they know who these people were? They did it
Speaker 1: to another people?
Speaker 8: Just oh my god, yes they had done this.
Speaker 14: They without even saying who the what the last name
Speaker 14: of the people were, they knew right away.
Speaker 13: Wow?
Speaker 2: So how did how did it end? Or is it
Speaker 2: still going?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 14: It lasted off and on for about six months, and
Speaker 14: I was at the point where I was about to
Speaker 14: get a no contact order and then it, as fast
Speaker 14: as it started, it just stopped.
Speaker 2: Wow. Wow, that's that is scary.
Speaker 1: You got two people that are doing this whole thing
Speaker 1: to you, Oh my god, with different motives. I got
Speaker 1: a couple more people here that are interesting, and I
Speaker 1: almost feel like I can take these calls and do
Speaker 1: them all day. But I'm gonna real quick. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: get to them. Is if they can tell fast stories,
Speaker 1: because I got to get to a break. Neosh are
Speaker 1: you there? Neosha Hi. Neosha had a stalker when she
Speaker 1: was in college, and what would they do.
Speaker 9: So he would show up to all of my classes
Speaker 9: waiting for me to get done, and then I started
Speaker 9: getting like I'd get back to my car and they'd
Speaker 9: be like a box of something like a gift. And
Speaker 9: people started coming up to me and being like, hey,
Speaker 9: your boyfriend dropped.
Speaker 12: Something off for you.
Speaker 9: I'd put it in your locker and I'd be like, well,
Speaker 9: I'm single, I don't have a boyfriend, and he would
Speaker 9: be like it was him just giving gifts. And it
Speaker 9: was like food gifts because I went to college for
Speaker 9: culinary and so he would just be giving different like
Speaker 9: food gifts or different like kitchen ware gifts, but they
Speaker 9: would just be left for me and he'd be waiting
Speaker 9: for me at the end of my classes.
Speaker 1: Wow, it's crazy. Were any of the gifts good? Were
Speaker 1: the nice gifts? Yeah?
Speaker 9: I mean they tasted great, like hell, you.
Speaker 15: Would actually eat um, I can't eat them from a
Speaker 15: crazy Yeah.
Speaker 9: I had some of my friends taste them too.
Speaker 12: So like money.
Speaker 1: You okay, hold on, Nancy's ax would break into our house.
Speaker 4: What are these people and.
Speaker 1: Steal things and then regift them to you, Christy Nancy.
Speaker 16: Yeah, so okay, I'll try to be real quick so
Speaker 16: my ex broke into my house. I used to work
Speaker 16: in the daycare a long long time ago, but he
Speaker 16: broke into my house, took all my parent gifts because
Speaker 16: it was Christmas, so all like the gifts from the kids,
Speaker 16: took all those. And then there was another instance where
Speaker 16: I tried to take off and go to Florida to
Speaker 16: get away from him, and when we were driving to
Speaker 16: the airport, I saw a car like on the side
Speaker 16: of the road, but I didn't really think of anything
Speaker 16: until I saw the headlights come on and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 16: that's him. I'm like, I know his car. I know
Speaker 16: those headlights. So we pulled off.
Speaker 9: To the gas station.
Speaker 16: Sure enough it was him. He was following me to
Speaker 16: the airport. So the yeah, the gas station attendant like
Speaker 16: held him back and we took off. So got that.
Speaker 16: And then the final straw where he finally stopped was
Speaker 16: he came to the house and he tried to get
Speaker 16: into the house and we locked like all the doors,
Speaker 16: and he kept going to all the doors. We called
Speaker 16: the police, and then I went to go outside like
Speaker 16: to talk to the police, and I ended up seeing
Speaker 16: where he was. He was hidden like between the house
Speaker 16: and between the bushes all crouched down and then so
Speaker 16: the police took him and that was like the final
Speaker 16: straw where he.
Speaker 15: Is crazy. Yeah, this is nuts, all right, you didn't
Speaker 15: eat any of his food.
Speaker 2: I shared it with everyone.
Speaker 1: Last last call, Alexis was mistakenly stocked.
Speaker 2: What does that mean? Alexis explained it to us.
Speaker 17: Okay, so I was signed still being mistakenly stocked. So
Speaker 17: my maiden name is that of a porn star. So
Speaker 17: I randomly for the last like.
Speaker 10: Five years, I get mail of the that contained pictures
Speaker 10: of her, and the older gentleman want my signature, and
Speaker 10: they return envelopes and there for me to sign them
Speaker 10: and mail them back.
Speaker 1: They think you're the porn star because you have the
Speaker 1: exact same name as the porn star.
Speaker 2: What's the name?
Speaker 17: Well, yeah, there you go, because I don't want to
Speaker 17: give my my whole name out.
Speaker 1: One day, Mike, we had a girl and a listener
Speaker 1: on the phone and I go, hey, Mia is on
Speaker 1: the phone.
Speaker 4: He goes, He was like, I mean, how do I know?
Speaker 4: You know what you need to do?
Speaker 6: By the way, you.
Speaker 5: Need to take like a very covered up photo of yourself,
Speaker 5: sign it and be like this is actually who you're
Speaker 5: sending these requests.
Speaker 2: I don't know if I would.
Speaker 6: Want to do that. I look to zero.
Speaker 17: Well, some people say that I need to send it back,
Speaker 17: like sign it and say like you can send me
Speaker 17: some money and I'll sign it and send it back
Speaker 17: to you.
Speaker 2: Can I ask?
Speaker 1: It would be too much to ask you? What is this?
Speaker 1: The porn star's name alexis what?
Speaker 12: No, actually her the last name is Campbell.
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, which is a very popular last name.
Speaker 2: That's weird, it's kind of crazy.
Speaker 10: Well her, yeah, yeah, her first name starts with an ease.
Speaker 10: Alexis actually is not my real name?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 1: Can I just say this real quick, like you have
Speaker 1: got to listen, full disclosure, I watched porn or I'm
Speaker 1: not all the time.
Speaker 2: That sounds weird saying that, but but.
Speaker 1: To be that obsessed with a porn star that you
Speaker 1: would send her ed shots and ask her to that
Speaker 1: sign them, I mean that's kind of weird.
Speaker 8: And there's more.
Speaker 10: Than just houtshots.
Speaker 11: Let me just say, oh yeah, and one of.
Speaker 17: Them is like one of them is like really when
Speaker 17: I got recently the guys like lives like two miles
Speaker 17: away from me.
Speaker 2: Oh, multiple people, that's nuts.
Speaker 12: It's multiple different people.
Speaker 1: You need to change your name. Thank you for the
Speaker 1: call or appreciate it. Oh my god, I could go
Speaker 1: on forever Lydia just keeps putting them on one of
Speaker 1: the other people. I can't grab it because we got
Speaker 1: like the person the stalker bugged their car put a
Speaker 1: bug in.
Speaker 2: I got to hear that.
Speaker 3: Terrifying.
Speaker 2: What you want to hear it?
Speaker 1: Hold on, Kristen, the how did how did you find
Speaker 1: that they bugged your car?
Speaker 11: He would send me text like where I was at,
Speaker 11: what I was doing?
Speaker 9: He was?
Speaker 13: I mean anywhere that I was?
Speaker 16: He knew.
Speaker 11: So then I got a detector from the police and
Speaker 11: they went over my car.
Speaker 4: And they had those tiles and the pulled him out.
Speaker 2: Wow, where was he hiding the.
Speaker 4: Bug in the heater?
Speaker 2: Oh? Does he have to get in your car in
Speaker 2: order to put that?
Speaker 11: Yes, he was in my car one time and it
Speaker 11: was a year ago and he was in my car
Speaker 11: and he stuffed him in there.
Speaker 2: That is nuts.
Speaker 1: Every single thing that you ever did in that car
Speaker 1: he knew. All right, Well, thank you for the calls.
Speaker 1: We appreciate it. These are crazy