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Speaker 1: It's Marcus.

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Speaker 2: We're bringing back second data update for those of you

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Speaker 2: that are just joining the show. This is all about

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Speaker 2: getting people together after our first date. Let's say you

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Speaker 2: went on the date and you whoever you went on

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Speaker 2: the date with ghosted. We called them to try to

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Speaker 2: figure it out. The ultimate goal is to get you

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Speaker 2: a second date, hoping it's a misunderstanding, but at the

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Speaker 2: very least I want to get answers. So let's bring

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Speaker 2: on Nate.

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Speaker 1: Nate, are you.

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Speaker 3: There, I'm here. Good morning, dude, Good morning.

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Speaker 2: Let's let's let's talk about Emily. I want to hear

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Speaker 2: about your date and then like what you guys decided

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Speaker 2: to do. So let's start there, because I understand she's ghosted.

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Speaker 3: He definitely ghosted me in a way that's never been

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Speaker 3: done before. Really, it was basically technically over before it started. Okay,

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Speaker 3: And I say that because all right, So the date is,

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Speaker 3: we agreed to meet for lunch at tanf Am.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: Yes, meeting in them all for a first date could

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Speaker 3: be considered strange, and I get that, but she loves

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Speaker 3: Zakaria there and meeting in them all felt kind of

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Speaker 3: nostalgic for both of us.

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Speaker 2: Nineties when we would all just hang and do it.

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Speaker 1: We just hang out and wait for our friends.

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Speaker 3: Vie for sure. Sure we both took bart. We realized,

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Speaker 3: you know, we both love public transportation and you know,

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Speaker 3: trying to do the right thing for the planet. I

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Speaker 3: saw her coming down the stairs. I was there, waving, smiling,

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Speaker 3: doing my thing, and she looked right at me, shook

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Speaker 3: her head and said nope, and then she walked away

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Speaker 3: and I just stood there, stocked and in disbelief. I

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Speaker 3: had some flowers to give her. I was really going

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Speaker 3: for it, but she completely ignored me out of nowhere,

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Speaker 3: and I don't know what happened, Like she didn't even

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Speaker 3: talk to me. She saw me, turned around and left.

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Speaker 2: Oh so we're not getting a second date because there

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Speaker 2: never was a first date.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, probably, but we need some.

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Speaker 2: I don't even know what they call it closure. Some answers,

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Speaker 2: Oh this hurts a little bit. All right, Well, I'll

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Speaker 2: tell you what if you if you're down for it,

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Speaker 2: if you really want to hear the truth, I'll call.

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Speaker 1: Her for you.

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Speaker 3: No, I do, I do. I watch some closure. I

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Speaker 3: want to know. Did I say I always? I didn't

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Speaker 3: say anything, but because she let me there, but like,

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Speaker 3: was it something I was wearing that turned off? Or

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Speaker 3: did she get an emergency call?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I don't Well, let's figure it out. Hang on

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Speaker 2: the line, can you We'll play a song. Well, we'll

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Speaker 2: give her a call.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, that sounds good.

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Speaker 2: Sure it is, Marcus. We're doing second date update. We

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Speaker 2: have been chatting with Nate his day with Emily that

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Speaker 2: never actually happened. Let me explain. So, Nate, so you

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Speaker 2: guys were going to meet at tan Ferrand. She likes

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Speaker 2: that Taketia there in the food court. It is pretty delicious.

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Speaker 2: I can't remember the name of it. But you both

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Speaker 2: took Bart and so you were waiting for her at

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Speaker 2: the bart station. She's coming down the stairs and then

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Speaker 2: she sees you and she says what now.

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Speaker 3: She goes nope, and then turns around and walks away.

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Speaker 3: And I had a bouquet of flowers for her. So

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Speaker 3: you got to imagine me standing there all right, looking nice,

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Speaker 3: I think, and with flowers, and then nope, she just

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Speaker 2: So we're going to call her to try to figure

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Speaker 2: out what in the world that was about. It might

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Speaker 2: be a little savage, so you can handle it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I'm ready for it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you know, let's call her.

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Speaker 4: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hi, can I speak to Emily please?

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Speaker 4: This is Emily.

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Speaker 2: Hi, Emily, this is Marcus. I'm calling from Star one

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Speaker 2: one three. It's a radio station and I do a

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Speaker 2: morning Star.

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Speaker 1: Hi. Hi, I know your show fantastic.

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Speaker 2: Thank you in advance for listening. So we're doing Second

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Speaker 2: Date Update right now, and I want to ask you

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Speaker 2: about a date you almost went on. Are you familiar

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Speaker 2: with second Date Update?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I am perfect.

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Speaker 1: So Nate is holding you know the drill? Nate? Are

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Speaker 1: you there?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm here, Hey, Emily.

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Speaker 2: Right, Okay, I understand that you guys didn't quite go

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Speaker 2: on a first date. He said that you left rather

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Speaker 2: abruptly when you saw him and my guy, and I

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Speaker 2: just want to know, like, what was there something wrong

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Speaker 2: with the way he looked or.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess. I don't want to sound harsh, but

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Speaker 4: I feel like I know what I want and Nate

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Speaker 4: was like, I just feel like he lied to me

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Speaker 4: in multiple ways on his profile. I feel like on

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Speaker 4: his profile, like I looked back and like every single

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Speaker 4: one of his photos he had a hat on, and

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Speaker 4: then he showed up to the date having no hair,

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Speaker 4: like totally bald, just like felt let us straight by that,

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Speaker 4: and then on top of it, I was like, Okay,

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Speaker 4: on his profile he said he was like five eleven.

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Speaker 4: I believe, Okay, this man was not an inch over

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Speaker 4: five to seven. And I'm just like, they have to

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Speaker 4: stop lying on their profiles. And then maybe that's harsh

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Speaker 4: to me, but it's better for me and for him

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Speaker 4: if I just I thought I needed to be honest,

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Speaker 4: and that's gonna be more efficient for both of us.

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Speaker 1: Right, So this has happened before.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this has happened to me before. Okay, this happens

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Speaker 4: a lot, and I'm kind of over it. I'm a

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Speaker 4: truth teller, he's a liar. It's better for both of

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Speaker 4: us this way.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So Nate, can I ask, when you say I'm

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Speaker 3: a liar? How am I lying? I'm lying because I

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Speaker 3: you didn't see my head. You didn't ask I have

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Speaker 3: I had a hat on the photos. You didn't. That's

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Speaker 3: not my fault, right.

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Speaker 4: I guess, just in retrospect, it feels very intentional that

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Speaker 4: you put a hat on and all your photos and

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Speaker 4: then you are fully balding, like had basically no hair.

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Speaker 4: That's something that you need to show. I also feel

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Speaker 4: like you lied about your height. I just was like, Okay,

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Speaker 4: this whole thing is feeling sketchy because like this profile

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Speaker 4: is also I feel like your photos were from like

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Speaker 4: undergrad or something. You are much older than those photos.

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Speaker 3: Maybe a couple of years that they're not that old.

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Speaker 3: And that's sort of mean too. What do you mean, Like, oh,

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Speaker 3: you're like that's kind of cruel. No, I had a

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Speaker 3: few rough years, sure have we.

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Speaker 4: I think it's kind of cruel to like like the

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Speaker 4: false advertising that was involved in that. And I'm not

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Speaker 4: trying to be harsh, but again, I'm just like saving

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Speaker 4: us both time and energy, Like you could give those

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Speaker 4: flowers to someone else, go out dinner with someone else,

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Speaker 4: Like I wasn't interested.

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Speaker 1: All Right, we're gonna I'm gonna call it. This is

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Speaker 1: not happening.

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Speaker 2: So