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Speaker 1: This portion of the Joe Show podcast is powered by

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Speaker 1: Fair and Fair Tampa Accident Attorneys. But Marissa, you said,

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Speaker 1: I just do not understand how someone could hear this

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Speaker 1: person know their significant others cheating.

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Speaker 2: I just don't understand why would you do that? Why

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Speaker 2: don't know, I mean, after everything that's happened.

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Speaker 3: Just a couple of months, you guys like, I just

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Speaker 3: can't I don't know why nobody would want with people.

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Speaker 2: Like wouldn't want to tell me. I'm just sorry, I'm

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Speaker 2: so sad.

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Speaker 1: I think I think you're allowed to be said. You know,

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Speaker 1: this is a horrible situation, and you know, I said

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Speaker 1: a couple of prayers for you because it sucks you. Also, uh,

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Speaker 1: you lost your dad recently. Ashley and Katie, Wait, you

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Speaker 1: guys have been quiet. What are we thinking right now?

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Speaker 4: Ladies.

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Speaker 5: I'm just feeling for her, and I agree I would

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Speaker 5: want to know as well. And Marissa, I know, I

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Speaker 5: don't know if this is going to be any help,

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Speaker 5: but everything happens for a reason, as cliche as it is,

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Speaker 5: and you know, the universe has a path. So it's

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Speaker 5: hard now, but it's going to get better, and there

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Speaker 5: are people who have your back. We have your back.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, And like Katie said, I would rather know walking

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Speaker 6: around and maybe going to work or going to even

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Speaker 6: publics and people know, like how you're getting cheated on

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Speaker 6: and you didn't know. That's more embarrassing than anything. I

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Speaker 6: would not be embarrassed to be on air right now

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Speaker 6: talking about this.

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Speaker 1: You guys said that two days ago. Michelle was one

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Speaker 1: of those people as well that was like, this is crazy.

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Speaker 1: We have to let Marissa know, Michelle, you're on with Marissa.

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Speaker 3: Oh, Marisa.

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Speaker 7: I also I was disgusted. I mean I went as

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Speaker 7: far as going on Facebook and looking for Marissa's like

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Speaker 7: and tell you guys said she called. I was trying

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Speaker 7: saying that you shouldn't know. I mean I went two

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Speaker 7: and a half years with him cheating the whole time

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Speaker 7: not knowing and other people knowing. So it I know

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Speaker 7: that you went through a lot of hard stuffs, but

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Speaker 7: for let's take let her know. I mean I couldn't

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Speaker 7: believe people. A lot of people were saying that, So

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Speaker 7: I am so sorry.

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Speaker 3: To hear that. But I'm on your side, Marissa.

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Speaker 1: You know, we do these and I get listen. I'll

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Speaker 1: even say this with versa on. It would be ignorant

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Speaker 1: to not is there entertainment value in this? I'm a

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Speaker 1: liar if I say that there's not. And I know

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Speaker 1: that some people said that, well, you know, are you

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Speaker 1: only tell her her to to be entertaining and all that.

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Speaker 4: That is not.

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Speaker 1: The main reason why we do this. We do this

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Speaker 1: as a PSA. This is a one warning to anyone

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Speaker 1: who's cheating that listen, you're gonna get caught. And also too,

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Speaker 1: this is a public service to help. You know, so

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Speaker 1: many times it is a significant other concerned about their

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Speaker 1: you know, their boyfriend, their girlfriend, their husband, their wife.

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Speaker 1: They want to know if they're cheating. We've just never

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Speaker 1: been in this situation where it was this other woman

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Speaker 1: and then we're you know, going. But I am happy

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Speaker 1: with how this has happened. And let's talk to now Jen,

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Speaker 1: because this is interesting. So, Jen, you were one of

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Speaker 1: those people that said do not tell her.

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Speaker 8: Yes, yes, I said, do not tell her.

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Speaker 1: So you are on with Marissa who has said, you know,

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Speaker 4: People said that.

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Speaker 8: So this is what I'm looking at. The girlfriend is

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Speaker 8: going through lot, and I just.

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Speaker 4: Well, Marissa's yes, yes, so she really.

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Speaker 8: Is going through a lot, and this could be the break,

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Speaker 8: the breaking point for her if she this is her

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Speaker 8: stable guy. I know it's not ideal, but this is

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Speaker 8: her guy, and with all that she's going through, he

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Speaker 8: may be all that Marissa has right now. But I

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Speaker 8: don't feel like it's the radio stations job to get involved.

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Speaker 8: I think karma has a great way of taking care

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Speaker 8: of everything.

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Speaker 9: Let her be.

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Speaker 8: I don't want this poor girl to kill herself because

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Speaker 8: has got a hand in that. I just think about

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Speaker 8: Marissa's feelings and right now is not a good time

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Speaker 1: So you're talking like you do know Marisa's on the

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Speaker 8: I listen to you guys every morning, but I was

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Speaker 8: on a conference call, so yeah, no, Marissa, Oh my god, Marissa,

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Speaker 8: I am so sorry, and I bless your heart.

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Speaker 2: You've gone through so much.

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Speaker 8: How are you feeling.

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Speaker 2: Really bad?

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Speaker 8: I'm so sorry. I didn't want you to find out

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Speaker 2: Did you want me to find out at all.

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Speaker 8: No, I wanted you to find out when when, when

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Speaker 8: it was a better time for you.

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Speaker 9: That's when it's convenience, yes, and it's more convenience.

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Speaker 2: You so much, And I think to process, Yeah, well

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Speaker 2: I didn't and that's not how life works. And I

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Speaker 2: know it's never want more people on my team?

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Speaker 1: Well here here, hold on, jen, Jen, hold on one

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Speaker 1: secondle Marissa, finish your thought.

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Speaker 2: I just really want I just really want to feel

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Speaker 2: like there are more people on my team and I don't.

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Speaker 2: And I'm already going through something and then you say

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Speaker 2: that you don't want me to know this thing, like.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, but when she when it gets word Marissa, Marissa,

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Speaker 8: karma does a great deal. I'm a big believer in karma,

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Speaker 8: and karma works. It's magic, and there's a guy out

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Speaker 8: for you, that's out there that's not going to cheat

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Speaker 8: on you. And this would have surfaced. I mean, this

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Speaker 8: is once a cheater, probably always a cheater. This would

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Speaker 6: Sometimes karma isn't quick enough though.

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Speaker 4: No, that's true. It's a good point.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well here this is I always say, because I

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Speaker 1: feel like this could go in circles and circles and

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Speaker 1: I also don't want to vilify someone like Jen, because Jen,

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Speaker 1: you I can tell you were you were saying this

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Speaker 1: out of love. How are we to know the feelings

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Speaker 1: of someone else. So this is exactly this is what I.

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Speaker 4: Want to end on. Jen.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate you calling in and talking to Marissa, and

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Speaker 1: I appreciate you giving you know your opinion, and I

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Speaker 1: know for fact that you were saying it out of love,

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Speaker 1: not out of hate towards it.

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Speaker 8: And I do have hate towards her boyfriend. That wasn't right.

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Speaker 8: I just didn't want Marisa to go through anything more

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Speaker 1: Well, well, Jen, thank you, thank you for being on.

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Speaker 1: We'll talk to you. We love we love you more.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for being on with us.

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Speaker 8: You got this.

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Speaker 2: You're a strong person.

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Speaker 8: You got this, and the right guy is out there

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Speaker 8: for you.

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Speaker 1: Yes, she does. Thank you, Jen, Marissa. Let's talk to

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Speaker 1: like one more person, how about that? And then we'll

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Speaker 1: get you on with your day. And you know we're

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Speaker 1: going to continue to check in with you. We check

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Speaker 1: in off the air with all of these it's kind

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Speaker 1: of their discretion on it. If they want to come

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Speaker 1: on the air. Jet pick one.

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Speaker 4: More line two in line one, We're good.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Hey Marie, Hey Marie, you're on with Marissa.

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Speaker 9: Hi, Marissa. I just want to share this with you.

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Speaker 9: I've been where you are, Okay, twenty three years of

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Speaker 9: marriage and found out there was five relationships throughout those years,

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Speaker 9: and I never knew he was the greatest guy, loved

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Speaker 9: me with home every night. When I finally found out,

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Speaker 9: his excuse was because I had had back surgery and

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Speaker 9: I was having problems way, you know, being romantic everything,

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Speaker 9: the blame fell on me. And when I heard him

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Speaker 9: how you went through so much with the dog and

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Speaker 9: your dad, he was immediately reverting back to is something

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Speaker 9: you did that caused him to do what he did?

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Speaker 7: Okay?

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Speaker 9: Okay, Marissa, you do not own this. You did not

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Speaker 9: cause this. Nothing you did made him go step out

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Speaker 9: because I thought you should know because you're engaged, and

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Speaker 9: if he can't handle something that goes on with you

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Speaker 9: comfort for himself. You do not want to make a

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Speaker 9: long term, lifelong relationship with that person because life's tough.

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Speaker 9: Marriage is tough. Okay, So it's not your fault. Do

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Speaker 9: not own the blame. Walk away as soon as possible,

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Speaker 9: and try to work on yourself healing. That's all I

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Speaker 9: do feel your pain. Been there, done out. Okay, So

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Speaker 9: I love you. Love is out there for you. Don't

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Speaker 9: let go of yourself and your self worth. Okay, that's great,

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Speaker 9: good way.

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Speaker 1: The whole entire is love up there.

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Speaker 6: You will find your person. Your person will not embarrass you,

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Speaker 6: all right.

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Speaker 4: Marie, thank you, You're welcome. Love you, guys, love you more.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Marissa, Yeah, I'm here for you, Ashley, Katie jed you.

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Speaker 1: You heard from everyone, even who the people who you

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Speaker 4: You got the whole entire community.

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Speaker 1: I promise you, even if people don't ever hear you

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Speaker 1: with all of this, Uh.

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Speaker 4: Is there anything you want to end with?

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Speaker 1: And then and then obviously you know you've got an

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Speaker 1: And we're gonna want to hear updates anything yain want

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Speaker 1: to end this with.

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Speaker 2: I guess well, I didn't really.

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Speaker 7: Like what Jen said.

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Speaker 2: I do understand, and you know, it seems that like

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Speaker 2: not maybe not wanting to tell me really was just

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Speaker 2: not to hurt me more. But it just feels like

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Speaker 2: a really tough time not to feel like the world

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Speaker 2: is against me, and I know that it's not, and

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Speaker 2: I know that people are good, and I'm just really

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Speaker 2: I'm just really interested and excited to move on and

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Speaker 2: get past this and find somebody that I can really

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Speaker 2: truly love and that will really love me.

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Speaker 4: He's out there, is he's out there. I miss my dog, Marissa.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna be praying for you. I love you, Okay, thank.

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Speaker 3: You, all right, I love you guys.

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Speaker 2: Thank you all right.

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Speaker 4: We'll talk to you soon. Oh.

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