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Speaker 1: More variety for the two thousands, the nineties, and today

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Speaker 1: it's a star one on one three, it's Marcus and

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Speaker 1: we are back with second date update.

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Speaker 2: Let me explain how it works. So you go on

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Speaker 2: a first.

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Speaker 1: Date, you get ghosted, you call me and we get

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Speaker 1: your date on the phone and with you listening in

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Speaker 1: and try to figure out if something went wrong or

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Speaker 1: if we can grab a second date. Sometimes it's a misunderstanding.

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Speaker 1: So let's say good morning to Sean. Sean, Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Hey man. I want to hear all about Isabelle.

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Speaker 1: So let's start with, like, how you guys met and

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Speaker 1: then tell me what you did on your first date.

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Speaker 3: Well, we met on match and that was great. Everything

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Speaker 3: was really great there. We met up for dinner. We

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Speaker 3: went to a Thai restaurant, which again really great. I

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Speaker 3: thought everything was going well. Man, She's incredibly cute. She

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Speaker 3: just seemed like this is going to sound corny, but

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Speaker 3: she seemed like real. She seemed grounded. You know, she

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Speaker 3: did that thing where when somebody laughs they laughed with

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Speaker 3: their whole body.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that was her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that was her. We kind of clicked. I thought

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Speaker 3: we talked about we love both of dogs. We both

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Speaker 3: are joking that were dog Parents some of our favorite shows.

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Speaker 3: We both love cooking shows. We talked about the worst

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Speaker 3: states we'd bet on. So I thought everything was good.

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Speaker 1: That's funny because I just took a cooking class last

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Speaker 1: week and it was ty food. I think this is fate, Sean,

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Speaker 1: I really do. We're cosmically here together. So okay, just

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Speaker 1: to recap though she has ghosted.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I guess you could say that.

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Speaker 1: Yes, Okay, it's Marcus. We're doing second date update. I

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Speaker 1: got Sean on the phone. We've been chatting, so he

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Speaker 1: went out with Isabelle after meeting on match. They went

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Speaker 1: to Berkeley for some ty food. Great first date, super cute.

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Speaker 1: And you said she laughs with her whole body.

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Speaker 2: Is that right?

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Speaker 3: The shoulders, neck, stomach, like, the whole laugh. It's great.

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Speaker 1: All right, let's call her, try to figure out because

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Speaker 1: I know she's ghosteds. Go ahead and meet your phone.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna give her a shout right now.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Isabelle. She available.

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Speaker 4: This is Isabelle.

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Speaker 2: Isabelle Hyatt's Marcus from Star one oh one three. How

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Speaker 2: are you? Good morning?

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Speaker 4: Hey Marcus, Hey, Hey.

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Speaker 2: Do you listen in the morning.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I definitely do. I do. I know who you are.

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Speaker 4: I know second date update? Great, so that means somebody's

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Speaker 4: on the phone. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Well you're ready to go? Huh?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I already know.

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Speaker 1: I know, all right, right right, Yes, I've got Sean

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Speaker 1: on the phone. Are you okay if I bring him

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Speaker 1: on and talk about your date?

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Speaker 4: I mean might as well. We're already We're already here.

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Speaker 2: We're here, Sean Isabelle. Obviously, Sean would love to take

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Speaker 2: you out again, and he enjoyed your first date. So

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Speaker 2: did you ghost? And if so, we'd like to know

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Speaker 2: what happened?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean yes I did. I don't normally do that.

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Speaker 4: But look, he's not son, You're not a bad guy.

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Speaker 4: I just like things were super awkward.

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Speaker 2: Okay, why where we sit.

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Speaker 4: Down and we order something to drink and he tells

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Speaker 4: the server like right away, Hey, this is a big deal.

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Speaker 4: I don't go on many dates, and so can we, like,

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Speaker 4: you know, have some kind of thing to celebrate the date.

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Speaker 4: It was just kind of awkward. I just kind of

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Speaker 4: let it go because, yeah, like it's the first date.

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Speaker 2: Who doesn't like to be celebrated RL.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know. I wasn't expecting it.

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Speaker 2: So this is where you tell me there's more.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, definitely there was more. So okay, we start just

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Speaker 4: he asked me, like, what was the worst date I've

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Speaker 4: ever been on? So I'm telling him and he leans

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Speaker 4: in and he's like, hey, this is going way better

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Speaker 4: than my therapist that it would.

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Speaker 1: What does that mean?

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Speaker 4: I didn't get into it. I I kind of just

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Speaker 4: laughed and I don't know, I don't know what how

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Speaker 4: to take it. So, yeah, Like, there was just a

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Speaker 4: lot of moments like that. It was just like comments

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Speaker 4: he would say. And then towards the end of our meal,

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Speaker 4: he looked at the couple next to us and he

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Speaker 4: asked them to rate our chemistry on a scale from

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Speaker 4: one to ten. He just asked this quote. I don't know,

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Speaker 4: I thought it was so weird.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Sean, let's go to you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, yeah.

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Speaker 1: I'll let you slide on the whole. Let's make this

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Speaker 1: a huge deal with the server thing like that. Okay,

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Speaker 1: but then, look, I'm a big proponent of mental health

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Speaker 1: and stuff, but that might be a little much about

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Speaker 1: to comment with your therapist or whatever.

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Speaker 2: That was.

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Speaker 3: I'm told Isabelle, I've not really done a lot of this,

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Speaker 3: and my therapist was kind of setting me up to

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Speaker 3: manage expectations and it was going.

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Speaker 2: Great, and then bugging of the other couple. I'm just

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Speaker 2: going down the list here.

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, you know, like you get excited about something,

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Speaker 3: and I don't know, I guess maybe in hindsight it

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Speaker 3: might just seem a little silly, But I wanted to

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Speaker 3: see if other people were noticing the kind of fun

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Speaker 3: evening that I thought we were having.

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Speaker 4: But Son, they were on their own date night. They

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Speaker 4: told us they have three kids. They were trying to

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Speaker 4: just get out and relax. We should have just let

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Speaker 4: them enjoy their meal, you know.

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Speaker 3: I guess my thought was that was an experienced couple

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Speaker 3: who might have some insight as to what's happening with us,

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Speaker 3: and if it was going well, who better to tell

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Speaker 3: us than those people, I guess.

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Speaker 4: But they could have pared less what was going on

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Speaker 4: with us.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I wasn't noticing that.

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Speaker 2: I guess is it worth asking here? Is it about?

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Speaker 2: Could we get a second shot on this? Sean's got

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Speaker 2: a little self awareness here.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, I feel like he might have some

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Speaker 4: things he's got to work through unfortunately. Yeah, that's a no.

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Speaker 2: All right, hang on, you guys, hang on.

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Speaker 1: I mean respect for keeping his mind right, but that

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Speaker 1: may have been an overshare.

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Speaker 2: Second date update