1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:07,240 Speaker 1: You're listening to KFI on demand. Michael, Welcome to the 2 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: Jesus Christ Show. 3 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:10,360 Speaker 2: Oh, thank you, thank you very much. 4 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:12,000 Speaker 1: You've been very patient. How can I help you? 5 00:00:12,640 --> 00:00:17,079 Speaker 2: Well? I had a question over the last year, well 6 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:20,479 Speaker 2: several years actually, I've been been moving more and more 7 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 2: towards you and our father and I. My question was, 8 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 2: is if God came to me and said to me, look, 9 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 2: here's what I want you to do. You've given yourself 10 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:34,519 Speaker 2: over to me, because that's what I've done. I want 11 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 2: to take control of my life by giving up control 12 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 2: to him. 13 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 3: Good. 14 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 2: If he says to me, okay, I want you to 15 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:44,560 Speaker 2: go down the NASA and be an astronaut, well, of course, 16 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:45,920 Speaker 2: the first thing that is going to pop into my 17 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 2: head is what how? How? 18 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:48,879 Speaker 3: What? 19 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 4: Why? Here? 20 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 2: But what I feel that he's drawing me to the direction. 21 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 2: I feel he's not telling me to go do that, 22 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 2: but he's saying that that I have see. I think 23 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 2: he's given me a lot of gifts in life. And 24 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:07,920 Speaker 2: I've taught not in a church though, of course, or 25 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 2: anything like that, but it's not like I can. I 26 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 2: feel like he wants me to go and spread the 27 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 2: word and teach others and tell them what I've learned. 28 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:21,040 Speaker 2: But on the other hand, it's like, well, what, I 29 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 2: can't just go into a church and say, oh, can 30 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:26,039 Speaker 2: I stand up here and do your job? Redlin? 31 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:30,119 Speaker 1: I mean, well, no, that the starting but everything has 32 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 1: a process, and even if you're being led to teach, 33 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:36,960 Speaker 1: that doesn't mean to go teach right now. Necessarily means 34 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:41,679 Speaker 1: to continue learning to prepare yourself for that opportunity of teaching. 35 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 1: And so the first part is going to be studying. 36 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 1: To study first, I've been doing that, yes, okay, Then 37 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 1: that's the beginning process. And then as far as teaching, 38 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 1: it's going to be in steps as well. You have 39 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 1: to first be a part of a church that accepts 40 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 1: you and loves you and that you feel comfortable at 41 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 1: and they feel comfortable having you there. And then you 42 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 1: start to volunteer for things, and opportunities will arise for 43 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:13,640 Speaker 1: you to maybe lead a Bible study or do things 44 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 1: like that, and then it continues to take on from 45 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:20,360 Speaker 1: there unless you've gone to seminary and you feel like 46 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:24,800 Speaker 1: starting your own church or something, which is an altogether 47 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 1: different calling than teaching. 48 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 2: I am perhaps a little bit too humble. I am 49 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 2: well aware of false prophets and my own ability to 50 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:39,639 Speaker 2: be charismatic. And I know the evil that that can 51 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 2: or the temptation rather that that can, well, that is evil, 52 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:46,000 Speaker 2: the temptation that that can bring. And I don't ever 53 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 2: want to go anywhere near something like that. I fear 54 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:53,359 Speaker 2: that greater than anything. But sometimes people ask me things 55 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 2: and I give my opinion, and they ask me things 56 00:02:56,480 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 2: about about God, about you, about a they have a 57 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 2: situation that they don't feel comfortable going to a pastor 58 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 2: or something with. And it's like, Gee, should I really 59 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:10,800 Speaker 2: be saying anything, Because I mean, I read the Bible. 60 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:13,519 Speaker 2: I think I've got a lot of your parables. Oh, 61 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 2: I just love those parables. It's just it makes me. 62 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:23,799 Speaker 2: I've laughed, I've cried, It's just it's just wonderful. But 63 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 2: then again, I kind of feel like, Wow, what right 64 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:29,560 Speaker 2: do I have to start thinking that I could be 65 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:31,920 Speaker 2: able to go and do that? 66 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: Well, what right does any man have? You're dealing with 67 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 1: the perfection of God. No man is going to live 68 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:42,320 Speaker 1: up to that. No pastor, no radio show host, no 69 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 1: no one is going to live up to that. So 70 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 1: certainly it's more about if you feel called and you're 71 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 1: accumulating this knowledge regardless of if you have a great personality, 72 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:54,120 Speaker 1: I mean, if that's if God has given you gifts 73 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 1: to do these things. First, you can start out by writing. 74 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 1: You know, the internet has wonderful what you can write. 75 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 1: You can blog, you can do things that get your 76 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:08,040 Speaker 1: ideas out. You can answer questions when asked. Keep in 77 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: mind though, that if you're at a church and people 78 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 1: are coming and asking you questions, that you are not 79 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 1: their pastor, and you have to keep directing them back 80 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 1: to their pastor and right, and then you know, otherwise 81 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 1: you kind of infiltrate a church. And that can you know, 82 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 1: raise eyebrows and make people uncomfortable. 83 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, and I don't want to I don't want 84 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:31,480 Speaker 2: to go anywhere near that because that's divide in the 85 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:32,679 Speaker 2: church and that's a big. 86 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 1: Absolutely, it's a problem. But if you feel if you're 87 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:37,480 Speaker 1: a part of a church, and you're part of that community, 88 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:39,800 Speaker 1: and you raise your hand at some point and say, 89 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:43,599 Speaker 1: you know what, Pastor, I I really feel in my 90 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:47,240 Speaker 1: heart a desire to teach, and with your blessing, if 91 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 1: there's a Bible study or something a men's group that 92 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 1: I could help be a part of. I sure would 93 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 1: like doing that and start, but usually it's recognized. It's 94 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 1: it's usually recognized quite quickly as if it's a good 95 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 1: church and an honest church. They're looking for those types 96 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 1: of things to begin with, and so they're seeking these 97 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 1: things out and normally will say, hey, listen, you are 98 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:14,160 Speaker 1: good at you know, working with cameras and the like. 99 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:17,679 Speaker 1: We need an audio video ministry. You're good with children, 100 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 1: We need you in the children ministry. You're good with 101 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: this and music. They're looking for people to participate in 102 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 1: churches and people with those strengths and abilities, and it 103 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:31,359 Speaker 1: trusts me, it happens, and it usually can happen very 104 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:32,719 Speaker 1: quick if you're in the right church. 105 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 2: It's very humbling, yeah. 106 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 1: It is. But so everybody has gifts. Teaching is just 107 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:42,480 Speaker 1: like any of the other gifts. I mean, there's people 108 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:45,240 Speaker 1: up there that are singing their hearts out and praise 109 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:48,359 Speaker 1: towards God. There are people that are ushering getting people 110 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:50,839 Speaker 1: in and out, that are setting up the seats and 111 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 1: working with the infrastructure of the church to make sure 112 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:56,600 Speaker 1: that the experience is pleasant. Everybody's doing their part. The 113 00:05:57,040 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 1: reason why people get weird about teaching is because it's 114 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:04,920 Speaker 1: a very public part of the church, and it lends 115 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:10,799 Speaker 1: itself to battles with ego and oh, look, I'm special 116 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:13,640 Speaker 1: because I'm teaching. But really it's it's like every other 117 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 1: part of the church, no better, no worse, just a 118 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:17,479 Speaker 1: part of it. 119 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:20,360 Speaker 2: And I think that's why I would be good at it, 120 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 2: because I know what you speak of about the ego, 121 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 2: and I certainly, well, I have somewhat of an ego, 122 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 2: not much. I always try to keep it as far 123 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 2: away as possible because it's not me. It's it's about you, 124 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 2: and it's about him, and it's not about me at all. 125 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 1: Well, the you know, the moon to show its glory 126 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:43,400 Speaker 1: merely sits in front of the sun and with that 127 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 1: the light shines off and people go, what a pretty moon. 128 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:51,159 Speaker 1: But the moon's not doing anything, and nor would you be, really, 129 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 1: And if you get into a point, teaching is a 130 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 1: very powerful tool, and it's one that that the Bible 131 00:06:58,240 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 1: warns over and over not to take lightly, and certainly 132 00:07:02,800 --> 00:07:05,920 Speaker 1: I do not take it lightly. But there's also a 133 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:08,480 Speaker 1: point that you need to understand that the eyes need 134 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:10,400 Speaker 1: the ears, and the ears need the nose in the 135 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 1: mouth and everything together, and that it's all part of 136 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 1: the process and working together is when they become most powerful. 137 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 1: And as you know, as First Corinthians goes through and 138 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 1: talks about the different gifts, it says, above all is love. 139 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 1: So it and preaching and teaching is in there and 140 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 1: everything else, and it says, above all is love. So 141 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 1: as long as you approach all these things in love, 142 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 1: I think you're you're in a safe place. 143 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 2: Well, I think what's what's leading me towards it is 144 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:47,160 Speaker 2: that I'm pretty much done with man. 145 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 1: Well who isn't Yeah? 146 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, And it's like like I told my friend, 147 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:56,480 Speaker 2: like I said, I'm writing this book, and I made 148 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 2: the mistake of telling my friend. I said, Well, I told, 149 00:07:59,080 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 2: I said the lord. I said, well, if I should, 150 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 2: I'm going to self publish this. I'm going to take 151 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 2: ten percent as a fair day's pay, and the other 152 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 2: ninety percent I'm just going to buy food and give 153 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 2: it to the homeless. So the guy says, well, so 154 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:13,320 Speaker 2: if you make a thousand dollars, you're only going to 155 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 2: put a hundred in your pocket, and you're actually gonna 156 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 2: buy nine hundred dollars worth of food and take it 157 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:20,760 Speaker 2: down and give it to people living on the streets 158 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 2: of San Diego, and I said, well, yeah, well that 159 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 2: didn't go over too good. 160 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: Well, and so those things aren't always understood. 161 00:08:30,800 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's like, well, okay, well, clearly I'm pretty 162 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:38,200 Speaker 2: much done with man now. Well, also, I think that's 163 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 2: a pretty darn good thing. 164 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: That's wonderful, Michael. However, you have to keep in mind 165 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:46,600 Speaker 1: when you make those promises to yourself or before God, 166 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 1: to make sure that you can really live up to them. 167 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 1: Find out what it takes to publish, if you're going 168 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:54,840 Speaker 1: to self publish, find out all these things. It's not 169 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:58,320 Speaker 1: about being grandiose in your gestures, it's about being honest 170 00:08:58,360 --> 00:09:02,319 Speaker 1: in them. And and so in a case like this, 171 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:05,160 Speaker 1: if you're called to something, you won't be the only 172 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 1: one that notices. I get a lot of people who 173 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:10,240 Speaker 1: say that the world doesn't seem to notice that I've 174 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 1: got all these great gifts and abilities and the world 175 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 1: doesn't notice. Well, maybe you don't have them. And I 176 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 1: say that that it's important to know your strengths and 177 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 1: your weaknesses so that you can strengthen your weaknesses and 178 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:28,200 Speaker 1: utilize your strengths. And so, continue on your question. If 179 00:09:28,240 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: you are in a nice, healthy church, they will acknowledge 180 00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 1: your gifts and abilities. Hector, Welcome to the Justice Christ Show. 181 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 3: Hi. 182 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:46,199 Speaker 5: You know, I was on YouTube probably about like a 183 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 5: week ago or so, and I just happened to come 184 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 5: across like all these famous like rappers like Kanye West 185 00:09:51,880 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 5: to jay Z, you know, and just famous people in general, 186 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 5: and it happened to show that they all sold their 187 00:09:58,559 --> 00:09:59,679 Speaker 5: soul to the devil for. 188 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 2: Fame, you know. 189 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 5: And I'm just wondering, is it ever really possible? 190 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 3: Not. 191 00:10:04,600 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 1: Scripturally, No, there's nothing that talks about There's no instance 192 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 1: of a person or anything like that selling their soul 193 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:15,839 Speaker 1: to Satan. There's never any major implication or saying that 194 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 1: that's even possible. I think that it comes obviously from 195 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:26,319 Speaker 1: the tale of Doctor Faustus and the stories that deal 196 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 1: with selling your soul or the devil. However, that's all 197 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:33,319 Speaker 1: make believe. The problem that people tied into Scripture with 198 00:10:34,080 --> 00:10:36,560 Speaker 1: is that Scripture is clear that there are those that 199 00:10:36,600 --> 00:10:40,600 Speaker 1: turn away from God and do the will of the enemy, 200 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 1: which is essentially the will of the human and whatever 201 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 1: the man wants to do, the individual wants to do 202 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:49,079 Speaker 1: is going to be the antithesis most of the time 203 00:10:49,160 --> 00:10:53,120 Speaker 1: to what God wants. So if you say, for instance, 204 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 1: well I'm just gonna, you know, do whatever I want 205 00:10:57,240 --> 00:10:59,080 Speaker 1: and not listen to God just to make it, just 206 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 1: to be successful those things, that's what modern day people 207 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 1: might say is selling their soul to the devil. It's 208 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 1: just not caring what God has to say. They're just 209 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 1: doing whatever it takes to be successful. And I think 210 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:14,839 Speaker 1: that's probably what's meant. But as far as specifically selling 211 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:17,959 Speaker 1: your soul to the devil, there's the soul isn't yours? 212 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 1: For one, in that true sense. You can make the 213 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 1: decision as to where you want it to reside eternally 214 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:26,959 Speaker 1: by either telling God that you want to be with 215 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:30,199 Speaker 1: him for eternity or rejecting God and being away from 216 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:35,400 Speaker 1: God for eternity, which is hell. And there's that. But 217 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 1: as far as the soul, there's no way to really 218 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:42,079 Speaker 1: sell it to the devil because the devil himself will 219 00:11:42,120 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 1: be cast into the lake of fire. So there's it's 220 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 1: really more of a an interesting notion from a book. 221 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 1: And how really the the concept of selling your soul 222 00:11:56,960 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 1: has now become like the person who will lie to 223 00:11:59,880 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 1: you and steel to get whatever they want. That if 224 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 1: you're gonna lie, cheat, and steel. You're basically saying, forget 225 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 1: you God, I'm gonna do whatever it takes to become 226 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 1: famous or to get this. And really all that does 227 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:18,679 Speaker 1: is gather the things of this world at your foot. 228 00:12:19,880 --> 00:12:22,959 Speaker 1: That's it. It doesn't give you any more than that, 229 00:12:23,120 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 1: and can't give you anymore in that. And I think 230 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 1: that's probably what they're talking about. But there's nothing in 231 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 1: scripture or no one. There are people that are oppressed 232 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 1: by the devil. There are people that are possessed by 233 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 1: the devil, but completely different than the selling your soul concept, 234 00:12:36,679 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 1: which is really fictional. Jason, Welcome to Jesus Christ Show. 235 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:55,439 Speaker 6: Yes, Jesus, I'm wanting to know about my marriage and 236 00:12:56,320 --> 00:13:01,320 Speaker 6: why it's coming to an end. My wife met a 237 00:13:02,440 --> 00:13:10,319 Speaker 6: I met a man, and I felt that he's a 238 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 6: blessing and wants to. 239 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 2: Me. 240 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 1: Okay, what kind of blessing. That's not how God works. 241 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 1: God doesn't bring blessings so that you divorce someone. Do 242 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:24,320 Speaker 1: you do you hate your wife? 243 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:28,720 Speaker 6: No, I have her tremendously. 244 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:35,800 Speaker 1: Okay. Do you rate her or verbally abuse her in 245 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:36,200 Speaker 1: any way? 246 00:13:36,760 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 3: Oh? 247 00:13:37,160 --> 00:13:46,720 Speaker 6: No, no? And and I I I never degrade her 248 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 6: or put her down or or anything of such manner. 249 00:13:53,120 --> 00:13:58,880 Speaker 6: I you know, I always try to lift her up 250 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:03,560 Speaker 6: and just make her feel good about herself all the time. 251 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 1: Well then why would she say she's what kind of 252 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:14,320 Speaker 1: blessing is she receiving from this other man? I don't 253 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:17,440 Speaker 1: know what can what does she say that he gives 254 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:18,200 Speaker 1: her that you were not. 255 00:14:21,920 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 6: She hasn't expressed any of that. She just refers to 256 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 6: him as a as a blessing and that he has 257 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 6: opened her eyes. And and I you know, we've been 258 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 6: together for ten years and have been blessed with two 259 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:54,320 Speaker 6: wonderful children, and it just and I'm I'm all. 260 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 1: Confused, And yes, rightly so. I mean she describes a 261 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 1: cult ly, not a companion. She describes somebody who opened 262 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 1: her eyes, who's a blessing who The truth is, she's 263 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:12,040 Speaker 1: not happy. She wants something else, and she doesn't have 264 00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 1: the strength to tell you that. And the common courtesy 265 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:24,480 Speaker 1: she hides behind very Christian sounding words blessings and open 266 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:27,640 Speaker 1: my eyes and all of these things. But that's garbage. 267 00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:31,160 Speaker 1: It's not how God works. God doesn't come to tear 268 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:36,360 Speaker 1: apart a marriage. Reconciliation is always the key. God would 269 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 1: want you both to be working on it and find 270 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 1: a way, especially with children. So really what she wants 271 00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:46,280 Speaker 1: is to get out of the marriage, and she's looking 272 00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:49,080 Speaker 1: for excuses to do so and trying to make it 273 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:52,160 Speaker 1: sound as pretty and spiritual as possible. But that's not 274 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 1: the way God works. If you're not hitting her, if 275 00:15:54,240 --> 00:15:58,400 Speaker 1: you're not causing any harm to her that way, emotionally 276 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:02,600 Speaker 1: or physically, then there's no reason for her to desire 277 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:08,640 Speaker 1: to get out. It's only emotional or you know, cosmetic 278 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:11,760 Speaker 1: type things. And she's going to be equally as unhappy 279 00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:16,360 Speaker 1: with this guy if she doesn't just realize that every 280 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:19,680 Speaker 1: relationship takes work, every relationship goes through periods of it 281 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 1: being less exciting or less sexy or what have you, 282 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:25,360 Speaker 1: and you need to rekindle and relate the fires from 283 00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 1: time to time. So I'm sad for you, but I'm 284 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 1: sad for her too, because she's she's kind of lying 285 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 1: to herself. If you know, obviously we're only getting this 286 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 1: information from you, but if what you're telling me is 287 00:16:42,160 --> 00:16:46,880 Speaker 1: the truth in context, there's she's really trying to make 288 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:49,360 Speaker 1: it some spiritual thing, and really it's not. God's not 289 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 1: going to do that. That's just not the way God works, 290 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:58,200 Speaker 1: so it's about her and she selfishly just wants to go. 291 00:16:58,520 --> 00:17:00,960 Speaker 1: And I think that she owes to you to explain 292 00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:05,760 Speaker 1: to you why and to be clear with you. You 293 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:08,719 Speaker 1: are the father of her children and you deserve that, 294 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 1: and I think that you should make that clear to 295 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 1: her that you expect clear information, not blessings, not opening 296 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:18,400 Speaker 1: of eyes, because that's garbage. That sounds like she's being 297 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:20,360 Speaker 1: taken into a cult somewhere. 298 00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 6: Yeah, Because I mean, I've mentioned to her that I 299 00:17:25,080 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 6: mentioned to her that that God doesn't want us to 300 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 6: be a part, to fall away and separate, and that 301 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:43,880 Speaker 6: this isn't what he chooses. 302 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:46,560 Speaker 4: And she. 303 00:17:48,200 --> 00:17:54,160 Speaker 6: Quote said, I don't care who wins as long as 304 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:57,199 Speaker 6: I get a divorce, because I told her that that 305 00:17:57,960 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 6: you know, Satan is the one that's going to win 306 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:01,119 Speaker 6: out of all of this. 307 00:18:01,760 --> 00:18:05,880 Speaker 1: Okay, she doesn't care. She doesn't care about you or anything, 308 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:09,879 Speaker 1: not even the kids. She cares only about herself. And 309 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:14,920 Speaker 1: what are you gonna do? That's if there's somebody, if 310 00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 1: she is actually saying those things, Jason, then it's done. 311 00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:25,440 Speaker 1: She wants what she wants and it happens to come 312 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:28,680 Speaker 1: in the form of this man, and God help her 313 00:18:29,560 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 1: in that decision, because it turns very ugly, very quickly 314 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:35,720 Speaker 1: in those cases. 315 00:18:37,880 --> 00:18:43,480 Speaker 6: Yeah, I just, I mean, I don't know where to 316 00:18:43,480 --> 00:18:49,800 Speaker 6: to turn or what to do. I've done everything and 317 00:18:49,880 --> 00:18:51,520 Speaker 6: anything possible. 318 00:18:52,480 --> 00:18:52,800 Speaker 3: Well to. 319 00:18:54,480 --> 00:19:04,040 Speaker 6: Try and prove that I love her, and and it's 320 00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:11,199 Speaker 6: I've lost a lot of a lot of friends, you know, 321 00:19:11,400 --> 00:19:13,560 Speaker 6: through the through the process. 322 00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:16,720 Speaker 1: I understand, But right now it's not even about the 323 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:18,720 Speaker 1: two of you. If this is where she's going to go, 324 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:21,600 Speaker 1: and it sounds like she's already decided. You can't be 325 00:19:21,680 --> 00:19:24,200 Speaker 1: both sides of a relationship. You can only do your part. 326 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:27,080 Speaker 1: People try and live for the other person, try and 327 00:19:27,160 --> 00:19:29,879 Speaker 1: do the other person's part of the relationship, and it 328 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:33,240 Speaker 1: never works. So at this part, the best thing you 329 00:19:33,280 --> 00:19:36,439 Speaker 1: can do is make the best case possible to protect 330 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:40,200 Speaker 1: those children and keep them in your custody, because it's 331 00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 1: never good in a situation like this to have the 332 00:19:43,040 --> 00:19:48,240 Speaker 1: children going into uh with a new man, under new circumstances, 333 00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:52,600 Speaker 1: with a mother who is all you know, only wrapped 334 00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:55,920 Speaker 1: up in herself. And I'm going to to urge you 335 00:19:55,960 --> 00:20:00,400 Speaker 1: strongly to do everything in your power to get attorney, 336 00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:03,480 Speaker 1: to do everything you can to protect those children and 337 00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 1: keep them in your custody, and if she is just 338 00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:12,879 Speaker 1: not caring about anything except her own. This concept of 339 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:18,680 Speaker 1: you know, just seeking your joy and at all costs 340 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:27,840 Speaker 1: is ridiculous, absolutely ridiculous. And this concept of you know, 341 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:32,199 Speaker 1: doing what you want, whatever makes you happy, all of 342 00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:37,000 Speaker 1: those things can just be so completely vulgar and stretched 343 00:20:37,040 --> 00:20:40,040 Speaker 1: out of context. And I know, and I know that 344 00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 1: it's something that is preached to women as well as men. 345 00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:45,520 Speaker 1: But I know that there's a lot of there's a 346 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:48,000 Speaker 1: lot of movies and a lot of concepts of just 347 00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 1: running out and doing whatever you want. And it's just 348 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:56,240 Speaker 1: sad and it's horrible. You get old, you'll lose your looks, 349 00:20:56,640 --> 00:21:01,399 Speaker 1: things will change. Relationships can be difficult sometimes because people. 350 00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:04,960 Speaker 1: The reason why relationships are difficult or at any time, 351 00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:08,199 Speaker 1: is because people are selfish and don't know how to 352 00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:11,240 Speaker 1: live for someone else rather than just themselves. That is 353 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:15,359 Speaker 1: what makes relationships difficult. Otherwise they're easy. It's much easier 354 00:21:15,359 --> 00:21:18,919 Speaker 1: to have a partner in things. The problem lies in 355 00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:21,840 Speaker 1: you only wanting to do what you If you go 356 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:23,880 Speaker 1: into a relationship thinking, oh, and I'm gonna have someone 357 00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:26,120 Speaker 1: else to do stuff that I need to have done. No, 358 00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:31,000 Speaker 1: that's wrong. So any woman, any man that leaves relationship 359 00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:33,159 Speaker 1: thinking no, it's going to be better here for x Wenzi. 360 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:39,359 Speaker 1: Now eventually it becomes the same thing and it's heartbreaking. 361 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:41,919 Speaker 1: And Jason and our prayers are with you. But protect 362 00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:44,200 Speaker 1: those little ones. I know you're hurting, but protect those 363 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:52,960 Speaker 1: little ones. Steven, Welcome to the Jesus Christ Show. Hi, 364 00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:56,159 Speaker 1: good morning, Well Steven, I am well how can I 365 00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:56,520 Speaker 1: help you? 366 00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:57,760 Speaker 5: Uh? 367 00:21:57,840 --> 00:22:01,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, I have a question, and it's regarding the animal sacrifices. 368 00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:05,840 Speaker 4: When the when the when the the vitical priesthood uh huh, 369 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:10,720 Speaker 4: when it was in existence and when they offered the sacrifices. 370 00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:14,800 Speaker 4: My question is, how do they atone for their stands? 371 00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:17,000 Speaker 4: What do they do for their fan problem? Now that 372 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 4: they're no longer sacrifice for animals? How did how did 373 00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:24,240 Speaker 4: I know that it was destroyed and they were scattered, 374 00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 4: but when they became the nation again, I'm just kind 375 00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:30,359 Speaker 4: of curious, how do they what do they do for 376 00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:31,080 Speaker 4: the fan problem? 377 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:33,240 Speaker 1: You mean you mean our Jewish brothers and sisters? 378 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:34,080 Speaker 6: What they do? 379 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:37,119 Speaker 1: Well, their system is different. It does it is based 380 00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:40,560 Speaker 1: on the temple, So until the temple would be rebuilt, 381 00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:45,480 Speaker 1: then it is not of a concern now and rare, rare, rare, rare. 382 00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:50,639 Speaker 1: Like every group has fringe groups. You may find sacrifice 383 00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:54,400 Speaker 1: years ago, there were some that were uh discovered uh 384 00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:57,280 Speaker 1: in New York. I believe a group of rabbis that 385 00:22:57,320 --> 00:22:59,879 Speaker 1: were sacrificing, But they are the fringe. They are like 386 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:03,720 Speaker 1: the radical fringe, exception to the rule, like you would 387 00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:05,320 Speaker 1: have in any group. And I want to make that 388 00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:09,119 Speaker 1: clear because I'll get letters from our Jewish brothers and 389 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:11,720 Speaker 1: sisters going, you know, that's not the case. There are 390 00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:16,280 Speaker 1: cases of that, but most would I would say that 391 00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:20,160 Speaker 1: it's it is not a practice until the temple is rebuilt. 392 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:24,520 Speaker 1: So yeah, and there would be some that would be 393 00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:28,800 Speaker 1: living based on you know, Kosher laws, and there would 394 00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:31,959 Speaker 1: be some that would be living based on you know, 395 00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:35,440 Speaker 1: their own belief system. There are factions in that now. 396 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:39,399 Speaker 1: As Christians, of course, there is no need for the 397 00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:45,520 Speaker 1: sacrifice anymore because I would have been the ultimate sacrifice, 398 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 1: as it says, I didn't come to abolish the law, 399 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:51,600 Speaker 1: but to fulfill it. So there'd still be problems in 400 00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:56,000 Speaker 1: Judaism if if they're not living a Kosher life, they 401 00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:58,960 Speaker 1: could still be running into issues. And there aren't sacrifices 402 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:04,000 Speaker 1: by their own words, but there are theological ways around 403 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:14,359 Speaker 1: that with Judaism to the temple not being complete. Amber, 404 00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:15,680 Speaker 1: Welcome to the Jesus Christ Show. 405 00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:17,959 Speaker 3: Good morning, Thanks for taking my call, my pleasure. 406 00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:18,560 Speaker 1: How can I help? 407 00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:21,760 Speaker 3: Well, I think it's a pretty direct question. I've been 408 00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:25,160 Speaker 3: separated from a twenty year marriage for over a year 409 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:28,520 Speaker 3: and a half and we will be progressing to the 410 00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:32,159 Speaker 3: divorce just a matter of time and legalities and things, 411 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:36,560 Speaker 3: and I'm wondering in this interim how you feel about 412 00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:40,000 Speaker 3: me dating blah? 413 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:41,800 Speaker 1: Is that direct enough? 414 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:43,520 Speaker 3: Yeah? 415 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:47,440 Speaker 1: For you? For you really, for a couple of things. One, 416 00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:50,520 Speaker 1: if you get to finalize this, finalize it. I know 417 00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:53,440 Speaker 1: that sometimes there can be hiccups and other things dealing 418 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:55,919 Speaker 1: with the paperwork aspect of things, and that you've been 419 00:24:55,920 --> 00:25:00,199 Speaker 1: separated for a year and a half, but really after there, 420 00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:04,320 Speaker 1: each little stage brings something new that you're learning about 421 00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:06,879 Speaker 1: yourself and about the situation while you were in the 422 00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:10,399 Speaker 1: relationship to begin with. And are their kids involved? Do 423 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:12,240 Speaker 1: you have children? And are they with you? 424 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:13,200 Speaker 3: Yes? They are? 425 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:14,159 Speaker 1: And what are their ages? 426 00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:16,160 Speaker 3: Thirteen and seventeen? 427 00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:19,760 Speaker 1: Okay, so they're on a little bit on the older side, 428 00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:21,840 Speaker 1: but still that thirteen year old is going to need 429 00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:25,720 Speaker 1: you to specifically focus on her. The best case scenario 430 00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:33,160 Speaker 1: is waiting till the last final five years of going 431 00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:39,720 Speaker 1: into her adulthood so that she's eighteen, preferably, because really 432 00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:43,159 Speaker 1: it's you can bring a whole lot of bad stuff 433 00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:49,720 Speaker 1: into your family and men, men tend to be more 434 00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,719 Speaker 1: of the problem makers in this situation than women. So 435 00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 1: and really, he's not the one. Your ex husband isn't 436 00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:58,879 Speaker 1: the one calling you are. So I'm most concerned with 437 00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:03,080 Speaker 1: you and and your daughters. So really it's about protecting 438 00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:07,680 Speaker 1: them and yourself first and foremost that it's about those children. 439 00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:10,359 Speaker 1: That's your commitment. You don't divorce your children, and you 440 00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:14,320 Speaker 1: still need to raise them before you bring other people in. 441 00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:17,280 Speaker 3: And I intend to do that. I don't intend to 442 00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 3: bring anyone else in until excellent. 443 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:22,919 Speaker 1: I love hearing that. But on the other. 444 00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:27,119 Speaker 3: Side, yes, let me what if this takes five years? 445 00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:29,159 Speaker 3: Am I still in that same position? 446 00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:33,280 Speaker 1: But if it takes five years a long time? Yeah, 447 00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:36,680 Speaker 1: it is. That's why it's so important to make the 448 00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:39,760 Speaker 1: best decisions possible when you go into them. You see 449 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:42,560 Speaker 1: it almost as if now hear me on this, I 450 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:44,160 Speaker 1: certainly don't want to pick on you, and I don't 451 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 1: want to come off that way. But why would you 452 00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:52,760 Speaker 1: look for excuses to do it wrong again just so 453 00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:54,320 Speaker 1: you have someone in your life. Isn't that kind of 454 00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:58,359 Speaker 1: why the problem happened in the first place. It's like 455 00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:02,159 Speaker 1: to say to think about this whole thing as time 456 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:04,639 Speaker 1: and going, well, that's gonna take five years. Is really 457 00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:06,960 Speaker 1: that the place where you want to jump off into 458 00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:12,080 Speaker 1: a relationship or do you want to That's it's very easy. 459 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:16,359 Speaker 1: There's a difference between being alone and being lonely. You 460 00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:21,040 Speaker 1: don't have to be lonely. There's ways for you to 461 00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:25,119 Speaker 1: you know, enjoy your children and other people and not 462 00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:28,520 Speaker 1: being in a romantic relationship. My concern is that it's 463 00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:31,080 Speaker 1: very easy to give into those things, and that's kind 464 00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:32,960 Speaker 1: of what brought you to this place in the first place. 465 00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:35,280 Speaker 1: Is going well, I want this, or I want that, 466 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:37,080 Speaker 1: or you know, I don't want to wait, or this 467 00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:40,560 Speaker 1: that it's worth waiting for for one and and you 468 00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:44,119 Speaker 1: still need healing. It's not about the paperwork. There's a 469 00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:48,040 Speaker 1: lot more twenty years. Yeah, yeah, I would love for 470 00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:52,879 Speaker 1: you to do. Let's say, if you did, you know 471 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:55,560 Speaker 1: one year for every five years of marriage that you 472 00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:58,160 Speaker 1: were a single, just to get yourself back on track. 473 00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:01,639 Speaker 1: There's a lot of bad habits that were created and 474 00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:04,359 Speaker 1: things that you need you want to break from, and 475 00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:06,520 Speaker 1: why not use this time to get to know yourself, 476 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:10,520 Speaker 1: be the best you know person you can be, learn 477 00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:12,960 Speaker 1: what you like, what you don't like, and then bring 478 00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:16,159 Speaker 1: someone into your life. It doesn't mean you're ready for 479 00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:18,680 Speaker 1: someone just because you happen to be single. I would 480 00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:23,600 Speaker 1: wait more importantly than all of this and all the 481 00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:26,199 Speaker 1: nuttiness that goes on in the world. Remember these words, 482 00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:31,680 Speaker 1: I Am with You Always KF I am six forty 483 00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:32,600 Speaker 1: on demand