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Speaker 1: What's up, my friends. Welcome to the After Show podcast.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening, for taking the time

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Speaker 1: to open up the iHeart app or wherever you're listening

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Speaker 1: from and join this podcast. I always appreciate it so much.

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Speaker 1: I hope you enjoyed. Yesterday's podcast the longest of all time.

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Speaker 1: It was over an hour long with my buddy Allan.

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Speaker 1: I was a little nervous about having Alan on because

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Speaker 1: I love him to death. But you know, as you

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Speaker 1: if you listen to it, you would know he's a

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Speaker 1: little rough around the edges. So it was definitely a

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Speaker 1: raw podcast, which I knew that going in. But the

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Speaker 1: feedback has been great. A lot of people DM me

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Speaker 1: and you know, let me know they enjoyed it. Listen.

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Speaker 1: It's a rough listen sometimes because you know, that's where

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Speaker 1: we come from, you know. So I hope you enjoyed it.

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Speaker 1: I hope to have more guests on to talk about

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Speaker 1: different things about my life, about about whatever, you know.

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Speaker 1: I know, the Power of Recovery guys are coming in

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Speaker 1: next Tuesday. They were supposed to come in today, but

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Speaker 1: I had to bump it too next Tuesday because we

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Speaker 1: have secret sound meetings. This thing is really gearing up

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Speaker 1: and really you know, going crazy if you will. This

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Speaker 1: morning was absolutely nuts. I mean, we gave a hint

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Speaker 1: that basically gave the thing away, and the person didn't

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Speaker 1: get it, and I don't think it was their fault necessarily.

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Speaker 1: I think her name was Jessica. Jessica, if you listening

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Speaker 1: to this, by chance, we love you. I don't think

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Speaker 1: she heard the hint, because think about it, we give

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Speaker 1: the hint and then we solicit, but she was probably

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Speaker 1: already calling. I mean, right when seven o'clock or eight

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Speaker 1: o'clock hits, people start calling, the line start building up,

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Speaker 1: which is a tactic that you can do is call

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Speaker 1: and just hang up, Call, hang up, call, over and

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Speaker 1: over again. But really it only matters once we give

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Speaker 1: the phone number. Once Billy or myself gives the phone number,

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Speaker 1: the number gets read, and then our phone screener goes

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Speaker 1: through and picks the twenty fifth caller. So there's not

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Speaker 1: really it's not really a good strategy to call earlier.

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Speaker 1: But maybe she did, and I just I don't think

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Speaker 1: more fun, you know, and then we didn't have a winner.

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Speaker 1: So we never want to at seven, ten, and then

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Speaker 1: the a ten to one was yeah, I think it

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Speaker 1: was Jessica with the newspaper. I don't know what that was.

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Speaker 1: But I think there's gonna be a winner this afternoon.

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure, although I will say, you know, I

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Speaker 1: read all the talkbacks and some people, you know, everyone

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Speaker 1: even said on the talkback it is this. Nobody has

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Speaker 1: gotten in one hundred percent correct. I will say that

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Speaker 1: I have not seen anybody on the talkbacks or the

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Speaker 1: DM or in my everyday life because you know, if

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Speaker 1: I see people, they bring up the secret sound. Nobody

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Speaker 1: has guessed it. But I'm pretty confident about this afternoon.

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Speaker 1: So if there's a winner this afternoon, the jackpot will reset,

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Speaker 1: but it will reset higher. Usually resets at a thousand.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna go higher starting tomorrow morning. So I love

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Speaker 1: this game. I love playing along, and I can always

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Speaker 1: tell when it's really starting to ramp up, because that's

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Speaker 1: when people in my life, in my real life start

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Speaker 1: of course I can't. I can't tell anybody what it is.

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Speaker 1: It's against the law here in the radio world. But

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Speaker 1: I love reading the talkbacks. I love getting the talkbacks.

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Speaker 1: It's so much fun. Like on the show when I say, oh,

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Speaker 1: You know, the talkbacks are wide open for anybody to

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Speaker 1: leave one. But I think people don't understand that. Nobody

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Speaker 1: know how to open. They don't even know where to

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Speaker 1: go for a talkback. They've never looked at a talkback

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Speaker 1: which is fine, But there are some people that leave

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Speaker 1: them over and over again. They hate listen to the show.

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Speaker 1: They listen and they hate everything that we're talking about,

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Speaker 1: diy good? You know? But for every negative comment, I'll get,

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Speaker 1: good thing. But you know how I am. You know,

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Speaker 1: It's like I can be in a run with a

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Speaker 1: that one person. That's something that I've worked on in

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Speaker 1: my entire life, especially since I got clean, is trying

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Speaker 1: to focus on the positive and not the negative. But

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Speaker 1: some of these people, man, it's like I read the

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Speaker 1: talk packs and I'm like, why do you listen? I

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Speaker 1: know you're it's usually long time listeners that have listened,

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Speaker 1: you know, since nineteen since the early eighties. They listen

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Speaker 1: through Maddie, then Maddie left, they listen to the Billion

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Speaker 1: because they do love the radio station and they do

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Speaker 1: but they want to love the show. So when they're listening,

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Speaker 1: Justin's gonna read them and I'm just gonna hit the leads.

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Speaker 1: So really, what's the point, That's all I'm saying. You know,

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Speaker 1: still love you. So yeah, Secret Town tomorrow you know,

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Speaker 1: will either have a bigger jackpot or a new hire

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Speaker 1: starting jackpot, so that should be fun. Also on the

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Speaker 1: show this morning, we've play a Valentine's Day game because

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Speaker 1: Valentine's Day is this weekend. Hope you're making plans. I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to make my plans, but it's kind of a well, well,

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Speaker 1: probably by herself, but since it's Valentine's Day, she'll put

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Speaker 1: trying to be like, hey, can you watch the kids

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Speaker 1: You know, I love my wife every day. You know,

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Speaker 2: So I'm catching up on the after Show podcast from

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Speaker 2: last week and I hear you and Riley speaking about laundry,

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Speaker 2: and I'm listening to you about that you do the

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Speaker 2: launder in your house and it's similar to me. I

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Speaker 1: the after show. I do love that power of recovery

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Speaker 1: early any recovery things going on in your life. If

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Speaker 1: I know it can be very tough, you can feel lost.

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Speaker 1: gonna snow tonight. That sucks, but anyway, we'll talk tomorrow.

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