1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:01,960 Speaker 1: Peyton's like on her phone trying to talk to her. 2 00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: We're trying to plant stuff out, and you're like you're 3 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:06,520 Speaker 1: on your phone, not stop more than usual. Quiet. 4 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 2: I know. 5 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:07,400 Speaker 3: I'm sorry. 6 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:09,160 Speaker 4: I'm like a little stressed out over here because I 7 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:11,240 Speaker 4: got a text message from one of my friends who's 8 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 4: like kind of upset about me, about like the wedding stuff. 9 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:18,520 Speaker 4: And yeah, she's like upset that she wasn't there and 10 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 4: that I didn't tell her. 11 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:22,159 Speaker 3: But I don't know. I like I get it. But 12 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 3: then again, like time and place, right. 13 00:00:24,960 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 5: Okay, I feel like we need the backstory. 14 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 4: Well, so I guess the backstory is, well, you guys 15 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 4: all know, I like basically found out that I was 16 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 4: getting married, like not even a week before we ended 17 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:35,559 Speaker 4: up doing it. 18 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 3: And we didn't even. 19 00:00:36,479 --> 00:00:39,479 Speaker 4: Decide until like two days before we actually did it 20 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:39,960 Speaker 4: that we. 21 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:41,560 Speaker 3: Were going to go through and invite our friends and 22 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 3: our family. It originally October, right, it was like a 23 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:45,200 Speaker 3: whole thing. 24 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 1: You were asking people to be your brother. 25 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 4: I had a big bridal party. She was in a 26 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:51,240 Speaker 4: part of my bridal party, but half of my bridal 27 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 4: party wasn't there. And a big reason of that is 28 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 4: because the people that were. There were the people that 29 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 4: were originally gonna go anyways without our family, you get 30 00:00:59,000 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 4: what I'm saying. 31 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 2: So they had a plan for Vegas. 32 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 4: Anyway, right, They had already booked their flights in their 33 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:07,039 Speaker 4: hotels before we even told our mom and dads that 34 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 4: we were going to get married. 35 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 3: So I'm not going to tell them they can't come. 36 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:13,320 Speaker 4: And there's about four or five girls that are in 37 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:16,560 Speaker 4: my bridal party that I wanted to surprise with the pictures. 38 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 4: But she had texted me literally like as I was 39 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:22,480 Speaker 4: walking down the aisle. And we've gone back and forth 40 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 4: a couple over the last couple of days, So I 41 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:25,759 Speaker 4: don't know. 42 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:29,399 Speaker 5: So mad because she was part of your original ceremony 43 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 5: that was supposed to happen in October, and she wasn't 44 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 5: part of the spur of the moment Vegas ceremony, right, And. 45 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:37,520 Speaker 4: I told her, I was like, it was super last second, 46 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 4: and she was like, well, I understand it's last second, 47 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:42,760 Speaker 4: but why why wouldn't you just text me and tell me? 48 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:44,560 Speaker 4: And I'm like, well, I wanted it to be a surprise, 49 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:46,559 Speaker 4: And I said, but I didn't even get the opportunity 50 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 4: to tell you that it was a surprise because you 51 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:51,880 Speaker 4: texted me as I'm taking pictures with Indea, like now 52 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 4: itwhere because she saw it on Instagram. I think she 53 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 4: thinks I got married on Friday and I did. 54 00:01:57,320 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 1: It, okay, So you just try to re spit this 55 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 1: out to you as a guy. You asked a girl 56 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 1: to be in your wedding party in October. She said, yes, 57 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 1: you had an emergency wedding. We all know the story 58 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 1: behind it. And you did not ask her to be 59 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:14,360 Speaker 1: in this wedding party. 60 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 3: Correct, Well, I just didn't tell her. 61 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 1: You didn't tell her, but you had. There's other people 62 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 1: that are in the wedding party that were that, so 63 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:21,640 Speaker 1: I can kind of see. 64 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 5: You can kind of see, except for like and Peyton 65 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 5: was super stressed out because they had given her a 66 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 5: twenty person max for the van. 67 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:31,080 Speaker 1: I totally get it. I told I told you. But 68 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:32,919 Speaker 1: I think when you were in the wedding party, you're 69 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 1: in partner enough. I would think there's people that didn't 70 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:37,959 Speaker 1: get invited because they were just going to be at 71 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 1: the wedding, like wedding. 72 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 3: Party family members that weren't even invited. 73 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 1: But what I'm saying, but when you have your wedding party, 74 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 1: those are obviously the people are most close to you. 75 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 1: So at some point she felt close to you and 76 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 1: then and then now she's not. So I can kind 77 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 1: of see. 78 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 3: What she wouldn't be. 79 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 1: I would not be texting. I mean, I'm trying to 80 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:56,639 Speaker 1: get I'm trying to get it to her point of view. 81 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 1: What is her name? 82 00:02:57,520 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 3: Her name is Shannon? 83 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 1: Let me ask you this. Can we call her and 84 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:02,680 Speaker 1: hear her point of view? 85 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 5: I don't know, it might be good to get clarity. 86 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 4: I have so many mixed feelings about it because it's like, 87 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 4: for one, like I said, I understand, but for two, 88 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:14,240 Speaker 4: like why would you try to take me out of 89 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 4: my moment on cloud nine? Like you could have just 90 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 4: left it out. Hey, I'm really happy for you. Congratulations. 91 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 4: Let's go for drinks when you get home and then 92 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 4: tell me how. 93 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 2: You feel you. 94 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 1: Can we call her, Let's call her in your point 95 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: of view, paint Sometimes it's important to hear another Parson. 96 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:34,640 Speaker 1: There's three sides to every story. There's peytonside, Shannon's side, 97 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 1: and the truth that's profound. I think we listened to 98 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 1: her story. Listen to your story. We already heard your 99 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 1: story and you, guys, let you guys talk it out 100 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 1: and then maybe we could take a poll. 101 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 6: Who was. 102 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 1: I mean, no matter what, to me, you're the winner. 103 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 1: It's your your right, it's your wedding. You're right tough. 104 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 1: But I like the ball because I remember when Richie 105 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 1: got married. You said people are pissed to you. That 106 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 1: blows up. So they will call those people after we call. 107 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 2: Like a week ago, somebody came up to a we 108 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 2: were at dinner and said, I was so hurt that 109 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 2: I was an idea your wedding. 110 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 1: I just kid, that blows my mind. All right, So 111 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 1: we're gonna call Shannon, the girl that is hurt that 112 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 1: did she didn't get vite of the Peyton's wedding, and 113 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 1: that is next. We got Jay Rich Good one four 114 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 1: seven Kiss FM. 115 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 6: John J. 116 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 1: Rich. Here's what's going on. Peyton got married a few 117 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: days ago, surprise wedding, so she had to make some 118 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:24,200 Speaker 1: decisions really fast. She didn't have to pay for the wedding. 119 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 1: It was in Las Vegas. It was really cool. It's 120 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 1: all over the news and day it was there. It 121 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 1: was a very very cool moment. And all of us 122 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:33,240 Speaker 1: are happy for Peyton. We weren't there. We get it 123 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 1: is a very cool moment. But here's what happened. Peyton. 124 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:38,039 Speaker 1: If I'm you're walking down the aisle, you get a 125 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:39,359 Speaker 1: text from a girl that was supposed to be at 126 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:41,159 Speaker 1: your wedding in October. She found out because you had 127 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 1: other friends that were posting about it. She felt left off. 128 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 1: She was pissed off. You would hear been going back 129 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 1: and forth. And I asked you, can we call Shannon? 130 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 1: You said yes, yeah, you could call her. 131 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 4: I'm nervous, hopefully, I don't know she knows that she 132 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 4: I'm sure she'll see the caller ID and maybe not 133 00:04:55,080 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 4: even want to answer. 134 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:57,280 Speaker 1: Let's call. 135 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 6: Show. 136 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:19,159 Speaker 1: Hello, Hey, Shannon, it's John Jay and Rich. Can we 137 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 1: put you on the radio. 138 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, let's do this. 139 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:30,119 Speaker 1: Okay. I'm glad you're Oh, let's do this. Okay, Okay. 140 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 1: So I just want to tell you. We're trying to 141 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:33,240 Speaker 1: do some stuff on the show. And I can see 142 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 1: Peyton distracted and she's on her phone frantically texting with 143 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 1: her very expensive nails, and I say, what's going on? 144 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 1: And she told us what's going on? And if you 145 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 1: don't mind, we'd like to get your point. We already 146 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 1: heard her point of view. We'd like to hear your 147 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 1: point of view and then kind of like go from 148 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:48,720 Speaker 1: there if that's okay. 149 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:52,720 Speaker 6: I know it was Peyton's big day. I know that. 150 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 6: I just I'm just being honest about how I feel, 151 00:05:56,760 --> 00:05:59,919 Speaker 6: which is a little hurt, I mean, actually very hurt. 152 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:02,720 Speaker 6: I'm confused, So I don't know what else to say 153 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 6: about that, and confused, hurt and confused that you know, 154 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 6: she wouldn't want her friends there and around her and 155 00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:14,440 Speaker 6: wouldn't even bother to tell me, you know, and that 156 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 6: she seems to like really be digging in about this 157 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 6: and her perspective, which is that I've done something wrong 158 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:23,920 Speaker 6: by just like honestly voicing my opinions. I mean, I'm 159 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 6: not trying to be dramatic. It was just a really 160 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 6: I don't know, it was a really shocking way to 161 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 6: find out this friend that you were so close, I mean, 162 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 6: we are close. We're so close. She asked you to 163 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 6: be in her wedding party. And to find out that way, 164 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:38,480 Speaker 6: I mean it's like, I don't know, if you watch 165 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 6: cop dramas or you know, in real life police like 166 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:43,919 Speaker 6: they don't release the name to press if there's like 167 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:46,679 Speaker 6: a death or a murder because they don't want people 168 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:49,080 Speaker 6: to find out that way, like before the family is notified. 169 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 3: It felt like that. 170 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:51,480 Speaker 6: I mean, I know that's dramatic, but it felt like that. 171 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:53,680 Speaker 4: Like I said when I was texting you, like I 172 00:06:54,320 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 4: understand why your feelings would be hurt, my feelings would 173 00:06:57,360 --> 00:06:58,200 Speaker 4: be hurt too. 174 00:06:58,320 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 3: But what I need you to understand is. 175 00:06:59,880 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 4: Like I feel like I always have to constantly explain 176 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:05,159 Speaker 4: myself to you and why I moved the way that 177 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:06,680 Speaker 4: I do, And at the end of the day, I 178 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:08,919 Speaker 4: feel like you should just be happy for me and 179 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 4: happy for Kadem. And when you texted me, I was 180 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 4: literally walking down the aisle. I got married at ten 181 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 4: o'clock in the morning, and at ten thirty seven that 182 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:19,840 Speaker 4: text message from you came through, and that. 183 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 3: Was the first thing that I saw. 184 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 4: And you're saying that I've been married and that I 185 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 4: didn't tell it, and you found out online when I 186 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:27,800 Speaker 4: didn't even get the opportunity to tell you that I 187 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 4: was married, because when I went to open up my 188 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:31,360 Speaker 4: phone and text you and send you the pictures, that 189 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 4: was the message that I saw. 190 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 6: Okay, and I'm really sorry about that timing. I get 191 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 6: that now, I realized that, But who gets married at 192 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 6: ten am. Of course I thought it was the day before. 193 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:41,040 Speaker 1: I mean I didn't. 194 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:43,480 Speaker 6: I didn't know you just like got married and posted 195 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 6: it right, I mean it was the morning. 196 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 4: It went viral, Babe. That wasn't even my choice. Like literally, 197 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 4: the first person that I called was John Jay, and 198 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 4: I said, Hey. 199 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 3: How are we gonna How are we gonna go about this. 200 00:07:57,200 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 1: Person that I caught? 201 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 4: But it was like, it was like, what do I 202 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 4: do here? Because it's like do we wait to tell 203 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:09,960 Speaker 4: everyone on the show on Monday? Or I don't know, 204 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 4: Zendaya's here. There's a ton of paparazzi, Like how do 205 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 4: we how do we manage this? And I feel like 206 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 4: our entire friendship, I feel like it's always me who 207 00:08:19,800 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 4: I'm hanging out with. You if you don't like them, 208 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 4: I can't hang out with them. When at the end 209 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:26,559 Speaker 4: of the day, it's like it's never really that deep. 210 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 4: And I get it and I understand, but like time 211 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 4: and place, and that's the message that you sent me 212 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 4: all of the other four people who are also in 213 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 4: my wedding, just like you. I went to go text 214 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 4: the group chat but didn't because you sent me that number, 215 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 4: so I or that message. So I texted them all 216 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:43,679 Speaker 4: separately and their first comment was, Oh my gosh, I'm 217 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 4: so excited and so happy for you. 218 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 3: So it kind of sucks. 219 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 4: Out of all of the people in my life, you 220 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 4: were the only one that had a problem with it. 221 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 6: Well, No, I'm sure they had a problem with it too. 222 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:55,200 Speaker 6: I'm sure they were hurt and they just sucked it up. 223 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:57,560 Speaker 4: And I feel like you should have sucked it up too, 224 00:08:57,679 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 4: because at the end of the day, like that was 225 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:01,719 Speaker 4: my moment and that was my day. 226 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:02,400 Speaker 2: I kind of. 227 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 6: Celebrated that was a publicity sun. That was a publicity 228 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:09,679 Speaker 6: sun instead of your day that was a capitalist commercial gain. 229 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:14,840 Speaker 6: Sure I would not like, No, that's like, that's star behavior. 230 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:17,440 Speaker 6: I'm saying to hear more about Zendia being there. That's 231 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:20,040 Speaker 6: just I'm just telling you how I feel because I'm angry. 232 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:22,440 Speaker 4: Were you angry because you weren't there to get a 233 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 4: picture with Zendeia, because that's the energy that it's giving. 234 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 6: No, I'm angry because I have been imagining being at 235 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 6: your wedding for months, and because we've been friends for 236 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 6: a long time and we talked about our weddings and 237 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 6: when I get married, when you get married, and we're 238 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:36,560 Speaker 6: going to be there for each other, and so just 239 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:38,840 Speaker 6: like to just find out, like I'm telling you, it 240 00:09:38,840 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 6: felt like a death. It was so shocking and so sad. 241 00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:43,240 Speaker 6: I guess maybe it's the death of our friendship. 242 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:45,959 Speaker 4: I don't know, Hey, if you truly feel that way, 243 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 4: like I said, I understand. But the fact of the matter, Shannon, 244 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:51,840 Speaker 4: I didn't even get the opportunity to tell you myself 245 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:54,720 Speaker 4: because you jumped to conclusions and you are very loud 246 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:56,439 Speaker 4: about your wrong opinion. 247 00:09:56,520 --> 00:09:58,560 Speaker 3: Or I shouldn't say wrong. I shouldn't say wrong opinion 248 00:09:58,600 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 3: because your opinion. 249 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:02,319 Speaker 4: Is your own, but you are very loud about something 250 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 4: that you didn't know the right facts on. 251 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 6: Okay, Well, I'm sorry. I didn't know what time you 252 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:10,320 Speaker 6: got married. All I know is that I opened my 253 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:12,520 Speaker 6: phone and I watched one of my best friends get 254 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 6: married without me there when she told me I was 255 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:15,560 Speaker 6: going to be in her wedding. 256 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:17,960 Speaker 4: And like I said, oh, I'm sorry, I understand, and 257 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 4: I get you, and I hear you, and your feelings 258 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:22,200 Speaker 4: are absolutely valid. But at the end of the day, 259 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 4: you've got to understand where I'm coming from and how 260 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 4: much of a whirlwind this has been for me. But 261 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 4: the reality of it is, dude, is that I constantly 262 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:30,840 Speaker 4: have to explain myself to you over and over and 263 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 4: over again. And I don't think that that's fair. 264 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:33,840 Speaker 3: You're not my man. 265 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 4: You feel me like, I don't need to explain things 266 00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:38,520 Speaker 4: to you over and over and over again. 267 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 6: Talk to each other and need to help someone when 268 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 6: you're getting married. So I'm just not okay. 269 00:10:42,679 --> 00:10:44,319 Speaker 1: I think we're going around in circles here. I just 270 00:10:44,360 --> 00:10:46,199 Speaker 1: wanted I wanted to hear your painton shedding your point 271 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 1: of view. 272 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:48,920 Speaker 3: I hope this isn't the end of the faship. 273 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 2: You should be bigger, your friendship should be bigger than 274 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 2: this moment of miscommunications. 275 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:56,160 Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you something I agree with Peyton 276 00:10:56,200 --> 00:11:00,440 Speaker 1: one hundred percent, which I'd never agree with Peyton, so real. 277 00:11:00,720 --> 00:11:05,720 Speaker 4: Position, my aunts couldn't even be there, my grandpa wasn't there. 278 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:09,200 Speaker 5: You're so stressed about that. And and honestly, like Shanna, 279 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 5: you don't know this. This was behind the scenes, and 280 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:14,200 Speaker 5: like Peyton did not have time, like there were people 281 00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:17,600 Speaker 5: in her own family that weren't able to come because 282 00:11:17,640 --> 00:11:21,440 Speaker 5: of the constraints that this was given to her with. 283 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 5: And so it's like she was put in a really 284 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 5: stressful position and it was like insanely fast paced, so 285 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 5: she couldn't go through her entire like wedding invite list, 286 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:35,319 Speaker 5: and like, I don't know if that gives you any understanding. 287 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:37,360 Speaker 5: I know it doesn't really change or make the situation 288 00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:40,520 Speaker 5: better for you, but it was like it I don't 289 00:11:40,559 --> 00:11:42,440 Speaker 5: I would try not to take it personally because it 290 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:45,480 Speaker 5: wasn't like she was like specifically, I'm definitely not calling shit. 291 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 3: I'm telling, not telling like I wanted to tell you. 292 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 1: Also, how phone walking down the aisle Peyton. 293 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 4: Put your phone on, Well, I just know the time 294 00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:59,400 Speaker 4: stamps from all the videos or in that message. I 295 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:01,640 Speaker 4: didn't get to my phone until about eleven fifteen. 296 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:04,560 Speaker 2: Well would be cool is once Peyton explains her side, 297 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:06,439 Speaker 2: if you're her friend, you're like, oh, now I get it. 298 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:09,760 Speaker 2: Then you drop the be in her cart because really 299 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 2: you don't want to make her feel bad because you 300 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 2: feel bad she's the. 301 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:15,880 Speaker 4: Bride, right because I feel at the end of the day, 302 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:18,200 Speaker 4: then that's making it about you and it's kind of not. 303 00:12:19,080 --> 00:12:20,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, I get that. 304 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 1: Every throne line is ringing right now eight seven seven 305 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 1: ninety three, seven one oh four seven, lots of people 306 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:29,200 Speaker 1: different opinions, So we might call you back, or you 307 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:30,439 Speaker 1: just might turn on the radio and listen to what 308 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:31,959 Speaker 1: everyone's saying if they're on your side or not to 309 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:32,520 Speaker 1: get your side. 310 00:12:32,600 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 4: And I love you and I hope that this doesn't 311 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 4: come in between us because this is insane. 312 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:39,360 Speaker 6: Okay, I just it makes me sad. It just makes 313 00:12:39,400 --> 00:12:41,480 Speaker 6: me really sad that you know, you weren't surrounded by 314 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:42,480 Speaker 6: all your friends and family. 315 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:45,079 Speaker 1: That's what I also when Peyton, I was the first 316 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 1: person Payton called and just to let you know. When 317 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:48,960 Speaker 1: I picked up the phone call, I was like, who 318 00:12:49,040 --> 00:12:51,679 Speaker 1: is this hap she since Pago, how did you get 319 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:53,440 Speaker 1: my numbers? I just got married and she got married? 320 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:54,960 Speaker 1: It was I was like, who is this? 321 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:57,680 Speaker 3: That is information you don't want John Jay to add. 322 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 3: That doesn't tell you where my mind is always at. 323 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 1: Shannon, thank you for listening.