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Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning. You know what time it is.

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Speaker 1: It's second day up date time. So let's get to it.

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Speaker 1: Just trying to bring people together after our first date.

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Speaker 1: Somebody ghosts, or they start backpedaling, or they slow play.

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Speaker 1: What happened? It's the big burning question. So let's let's

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Speaker 1: talk to Jason. Jason, are you there?

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Speaker 2: Hey, Yeah, I'm here.

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Speaker 1: Hey, dude, we want to talk about your date with Kim. Obviously,

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Speaker 1: according to your DM, you went to drinks in Campbell,

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Speaker 1: So let's talk about that. How was it?

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Speaker 2: It started out really good.

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Speaker 3: We we had a we had a great time. I

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Speaker 3: thought the conversation was really flowing. We laughed a lot,

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Speaker 3: We like, you know, we we went to a couple

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Speaker 3: of different spots, so I thought we were.

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Speaker 2: We were doing good.

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Speaker 3: And I just, uh, I like followed up the next

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Speaker 3: day and like got like like a nibble.

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Speaker 2: And then those kind of crickets.

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Speaker 1: Okay, And nothing weird happened on the date, not that.

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Speaker 2: I can think of the claus. I thought I was

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Speaker 2: on my best pavior.

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Speaker 1: I do love Campbell Avenue. It's very walkable, you know.

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Speaker 1: For me, it all seemed to devolve at Katie blooms.

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Speaker 1: It's on point, you know what I mean? Anyway, all right,

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Speaker 1: let's call Kim. I want to figure out why she

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Speaker 1: ghosted on you. Here we go.

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Speaker 4: Hello, Hi, is this Kim? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Who's this Kim? It's Marcus calling from Star one one three.

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Speaker 4: Hi.

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Speaker 2: Do you listen?

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Speaker 4: I listened every single morning.

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Speaker 1: I love that about you.

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Speaker 4: Hey, did I win something?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: We're doing Second Date update right now. Oh wow, it's you.

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Speaker 4: I've done this. I'm the second date Update.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Have you you ghosted on anybody recently?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Such a loaded question.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, my god, it is yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah. He was funny and cute and everything like that.

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Speaker 1: But should I bring him on now? I mean he's

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Speaker 1: you know, he's he's right there. Sure, sure fine, Jason,

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Speaker 1: where you at?

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Speaker 2: Hey?

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Speaker 1: Hey?

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Speaker 2: Hey, okay, I'm here.

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Speaker 1: I feel like we all know each other already. So okay, Kim,

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Speaker 1: we're all adults here. What did my guy do wrong?

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Speaker 1: You started? You led with funny and cute, which I

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Speaker 1: adore that. Yeah, he's got that going for.

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Speaker 4: Funny and cute. Okay, he is funny and cute. He

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Speaker 4: just like couldn't stop clicking his pen and it was

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Speaker 4: like really constant, and every time there was even the

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Speaker 4: slightest pause in the conversation, it was like click kicks,

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Speaker 4: I click, cook colok, and like, I don't know. At first,

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Speaker 4: I thought maybe he didn't realize that he was doing it,

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Speaker 4: so I very politely asked like, hey, do you know

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Speaker 4: that you're clicking your pens? And he was just like,

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Speaker 4: I think, Jason, you said that it helps you think.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's good for cognition, right.

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Speaker 4: Right, And I figured that would be the end of it,

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Speaker 4: but it really wasn't. And then like a few minutes later,

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Speaker 4: it was just like cook click and I don't know,

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Speaker 4: while I'm telling a story about my family, just like

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Speaker 4: continuously clicking and clicking and faster and faster, and like

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Speaker 4: finally to stop talking. And he looked up at me

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Speaker 4: and he's like, you know, keep going. And then somehow,

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Speaker 4: I don't know, it just got weirder. He reached into

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Speaker 4: his pocket and pulled out another pen and handed it

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Speaker 4: to me and is like, here, you get into it.

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Speaker 1: But are you passing up fidget spinners? Now, Jason? What's

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Speaker 1: going on?

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Speaker 2: It just you know, it keeps your brain engaged.

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Speaker 3: I thought would be fun if we both did it,

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Speaker 3: and clearly I was making her self conscious about it,

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Speaker 3: so I thought, you know, the more the merrier strengthen numbers.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh, but is slow key annoying. My wife yells

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Speaker 1: at me about it all the time.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I've been doing it since high school, and

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Speaker 3: I barely even noticed when I'm doing it anymore, honestly.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well I noticed, uh huh, and so did kind

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Speaker 4: of everybody within a three table radius. Like at one point,

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Speaker 4: the couple next to us actually turned around because they

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Speaker 4: thought someone was repeatedly clicking a car key fob.

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Speaker 1: You know, it was that loud.

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Speaker 2: Huh.

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Speaker 4: It's super annoying and it's a huge turn off.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's not that serious. It's a harmless habit.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I mean maybe we could stop doing it, Jason.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I could try to be a little more aware

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Speaker 3: of what I'm doing in for sure.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Kim, do you have any interest in a second date?

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Speaker 4: Not really? But again, funny and cute, all right.

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Speaker 1: Hang on, Yeah, self awareness is key. We say it

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Speaker 1: all the time. Second date update