Speaker 1: All right, second date update. It's the second date update
Speaker 1: in the morning.
Speaker 2: All right, Julian is getting ghosted and wants to know
Speaker 2: why that is.
Speaker 1: Julianne, what's happening?
Speaker 2: Hello, Juliane? Hey, I thought you were a ghosting me.
Speaker 2: What's going on, Julian, How you been?
Speaker 3: I I'm okay, man, I'm hanging in there. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: I just yeah, I've been been trying to figure out
Speaker 3: this dating life.
Speaker 2: Man.
Speaker 1: It's really tough out there, even for the dudes. It's tough.
Speaker 1: It's tough for a guy. Listen, it's like World War
Speaker 1: three out here. All right. So news, You went on
Speaker 1: a date with this girl.
Speaker 2: Her name is Monique, and you want to know why
Speaker 2: it is that Monique is not giving you what you
Speaker 2: think would be a relationship. She's not wanting to continue
Speaker 2: on with this dating. When's the last time that you
Speaker 2: actually talked to her?
Speaker 3: Was when we went out on the day that's the
Speaker 3: bar and.
Speaker 1: It was a while bar. Wow, So it's been that long? Huh.
Speaker 2: I thought for some reason maybe you were texting or
Speaker 2: going back and forth. But here say hello to Monique.
Speaker 3: Hey, hey, hey, hey, look at this.
Speaker 2: You guys sound happy. Julian sounds happy, Monique, You sound
Speaker 2: happy to be here. What's wrong with this? Let's make
Speaker 2: a baby and have fun.
Speaker 1: Oh get a call back?
Speaker 4: Huh yeah, No, it's probably not going to happen.
Speaker 2: Monique, Why are you Why are you not into them?
Speaker 2: What's going on? Why are you not returning any calls?
Speaker 2: And why are you not wanting to go on another day?
Speaker 4: Well, she has some stuff going on that I'm not
Speaker 4: really into. Somebody might be, but I'm not.
Speaker 5: What kind of stuff.
Speaker 4: Well, we kind of loosely started talking about like things
Speaker 4: we would be into, and apparently he's into girls and
Speaker 4: guys and there's some things that he will want to
Speaker 4: do all together. And I don't even know if it's
Speaker 4: you know, the things that I can say on air,
Speaker 4: so I'll be appropriate, but I just wasn't interested in that.
Speaker 2: Wait a second, Okay, so you okay, this is interesting
Speaker 2: because Kevin just had something like this happened to him
Speaker 2: where Kevin went on a date with a girl that
Speaker 2: he found out is just coming out of a relationship
Speaker 2: with a girl and it was a longer term relationship. Julian,
Speaker 2: are you saying that you want to date Monique but
Speaker 2: you also want to date Monique's brother.
Speaker 1: What does the story come on?
Speaker 3: No, no, no, I think that I was. I'm interested
Speaker 3: in Monique. You know, I don't understand what the what
Speaker 3: the pushback is as far as me.
Speaker 2: You know, what did you say to her that makes
Speaker 2: her feel uncomfortable?
Speaker 3: Well, you know, all I did is I mentioned that
Speaker 3: I've been with both women and I've been with men, and.
Speaker 1: I enjoy both.
Speaker 3: And at the time she seemed cool with it. But then,
Speaker 3: you know, weeks go by and I don't hear from her,
Speaker 3: and so I didn't think. I didn't think much of
Speaker 3: it in the moment, and then I maybe I assumed
Speaker 3: that that might have been the case.
Speaker 1: But now it's confirmed.
Speaker 6: Now when you when you say, because I'm sure you
Speaker 6: guys had maybe a little bit of a conversation, and
Speaker 6: forgive me if I'm assuming and it's incorrect, But when
Speaker 6: you have the conversation of you used did you you
Speaker 6: used today? Guys, and now you're only interested in women
Speaker 6: and that's why you're pursuing Monique? Or are you still
Speaker 6: dibbling and dabbling both pools?
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm dating.
Speaker 3: I'm interested in Monique. However, you know I still date. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I'll still date both women and men, you know, and
Speaker 3: so yeah, and I'm open and I'm honest about that.
Speaker 5: So I just think and there's nothing wrong with that,
Speaker 5: that is absolutely your personal preference. But I do think
Speaker 5: you have to be prepared. And I said this when
Speaker 5: we talked to you about your situation, like, I personally
Speaker 5: would not want to date somebody who who liked guys
Speaker 5: and girls. That's my personal preference, and that is totally fine.
Speaker 1: You have every right too.
Speaker 5: Yeah, So you just I think you, you know, you
Speaker 5: have to be so upfront with that and be prepared
Speaker 5: for people to be like, I'm sure you're a great.
Speaker 1: Guy, but no, thank you.
Speaker 2: I think that that there's it has to be on
Speaker 2: dating profiles, the option of like the check marker there is, yeah,
Speaker 2: there is shy or did you not put that on
Speaker 2: your on your profile?
Speaker 1: It doesn't say that that you're by Julian with that,
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I think that I think that there's
Speaker 2: a bit of this, you know where like keV was
Speaker 2: talking about the other day, Like Kev's like, I got
Speaker 2: nothing wrong with you know the fact that she's you know,
Speaker 2: being with other girls, but it's about being in relationships
Speaker 2: with other girls.
Speaker 1: Monique question for you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't even think that it's about him having
Speaker 4: have been I think is what he said about wanting
Speaker 4: he would do all things together.
Speaker 1: There we go, Okay, so he wants you to get
Speaker 1: part of the whole deal.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 1: By the way, this came up on the first.
Speaker 3: Date question.
Speaker 4: Question as the question.
Speaker 1: How long was your guy's date? Like how many hours
Speaker 1: was the day?
Speaker 2: Maybe two so two hours? What hour number did that
Speaker 2: come into playing? Like was that at the end of
Speaker 2: the date or was that in the middle.
Speaker 4: Somewhere, Probably towards the end. I think that was a
Speaker 4: marker for me. I was like, Okay, these are.
Speaker 5: The types of things that I think need to be
Speaker 5: disclosed before a date even happens, like like the checkboxes,
Speaker 5: we're saying what you're you know, whether you're into girls,
Speaker 5: guys both, if you have kids, Like I think there
Speaker 5: are so many things that are that are like those
Speaker 5: big those big ticket items for lack of a better phrase.
Speaker 5: And I know people are like, well, but I wanted
Speaker 5: her to meet me first, and I wanted her to
Speaker 5: get to know me first. But it's like that isn't
Speaker 5: automatic for a lot of people, Like I'm just not
Speaker 5: interested I'm just not interested in dating somebody who has kids.
Speaker 5: I'm just like, you're not going to change my mind.
Speaker 2: I want to ask this question of listeners eight four
Speaker 2: four Mojoe Live eight four four six sixty five six
Speaker 2: five four eight. I want to hear what your thoughts
Speaker 2: are on these guys. But I also want to know
Speaker 2: what was the thing that was brought up during the
Speaker 2: date that all of a sudden, You're like, oh, that
Speaker 2: came out of left.
Speaker 5: Field, like you know what I mean, like a bombshell
Speaker 5: on the first date that just really caught you off.
Speaker 2: Luard the idea that all of a sudden, you know,
Speaker 2: two and a half hours in the date, you know,
Speaker 2: Julian says, Hey, I'd like to be with you and
Speaker 2: another guy at the same time.
Speaker 1: Surf. By the way, Zach, that's what we got to
Speaker 1: call this.
Speaker 2: We got to call this particular second date updates surf
Speaker 2: and turf texture here this morning, going wow. The show
Speaker 2: lately has had a lot of listeners that like to
Speaker 2: explore both with men and women.
Speaker 1: That is true.
Speaker 6: It seems like, y'all, is it just the year this
Speaker 6: is the year of that.
Speaker 4: It's more like accepting we talk about these things.
Speaker 1: More people being more open too.
Speaker 2: But lately on the show though, it's definitely come out
Speaker 2: a little bit more. And then another texture here that says,
Speaker 2: uh uh, Monique run, I would not want this. I
Speaker 2: think he's just trying to get you into a situation
Speaker 2: that would be a fantasy.
Speaker 4: Uh.
Speaker 1: What's going on, Kelly? Hi, it's Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 6: Hi.
Speaker 4: How are you good?
Speaker 1: Kelly?
Speaker 2: I don't know if you've got a comment or do
Speaker 2: you have a story about what they brought up on
Speaker 2: the date?
Speaker 7: No, I have a comment. I think that the problem,
Speaker 7: especially for a woman, is scary because you already got
Speaker 7: to worry about a man cheating all the time, so
Speaker 7: now imagine it's just both worlds. You gotta worry about
Speaker 7: women and men.
Speaker 1: But don't you think that women cheat too? Though? I mean,
Speaker 1: come on, but I yeah.
Speaker 7: But you're going into a dating situation and I have
Speaker 7: one preference of a man, you know, that's my preference
Speaker 7: is different from you having a preference of both.
Speaker 2: I think that also people take it differently when a girl,
Speaker 2: when a woman is with another woman compared to when
Speaker 2: a guy is with also another guy.
Speaker 6: I can't answer a relationship thinking you're about to be
Speaker 6: cheated on. Well, yeah, like that's the wrong way.
Speaker 1: Josh, what's up. What's going on?
Speaker 8: Hey, guys, third time in three weeks.
Speaker 2: Josh, we're not counting anymore. Okay, So when you call us,
Speaker 2: just call and give me your point of view. I
Speaker 2: appreciate it. Go ahead, what's going on?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 8: So, in my opinion, dating a by person is not
Speaker 8: something that most straight people are comforable with because there's,
Speaker 8: like the last caller said, double the chance of cheating,
Speaker 8: and then there's always going to be an aspect of
Speaker 8: the relationship that you can't give them that they might
Speaker 8: crave and they might hinder the relationship.
Speaker 1: Listen.
Speaker 2: I definitely don't think that it even has to do
Speaker 2: with somebody that's by. I think that if a dude
Speaker 2: went into a date with a girl and said, I'd
Speaker 2: like to you to bring your best friend along with
Speaker 2: and let's have two girls in the relationship, I think
Speaker 2: asking anybody to have another person come in. You're dating
Speaker 2: for one on one. You're not dating for two on
Speaker 2: two or two on one or.
Speaker 5: Whatever, unless that has been made very clear.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's up, Sarah? How you doing yourself? Good? Sarah?
Speaker 1: Tell everybody what happened to you when you went on
Speaker 1: the date.
Speaker 3: All right, So I dated this guy and he was
Speaker 3: only into me.
Speaker 6: Because I was pregnant.
Speaker 4: I was about seventy eight months pregnant with my daughter.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but wait a second, you went on it. You
Speaker 2: went wait, you went on a date. You were dating
Speaker 2: on a dating app. I'm assuming.
Speaker 4: No, I had just met him randomly.
Speaker 3: He was like, hey, you know, we should link up sometime.
Speaker 4: Like, you know, you're so beautiful, you're blowing on.
Speaker 2: You were, but you were dating when you were pregnant.
Speaker 2: That's interesting. I don't think I've ever heard of that before.
Speaker 5: Some guys are in.
Speaker 7: Yeah, my daughter's dad was interesting.
Speaker 3: Uh.
Speaker 4: He he left me for a drug addict.
Speaker 2: Chance.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's pretty wild.
Speaker 3: Though.
Speaker 1: Are there a lot of pregnant women on dating apps?
Speaker 1: So I understand that her story. She's eight months.
Speaker 6: Pregnant, she's the guy you know, needs and wants and
Speaker 6: she wants to feel loved and heard and all of that.
Speaker 1: And the guy was into He just wanted pregnant sex.
Speaker 3: Yes, that was all he wanted. As soon as I
Speaker 3: had my daughter, he just lost all interest in that.
Speaker 8: Like I've never heard from him again.
Speaker 1: Wow, that is that is wild.
Speaker 2: I think I don't think I've ever uh heard that before,
Speaker 2: but that's an amazing call. That's uh, that's pretty wild.
Speaker 2: There are guys that are into like pregnant, it's free
Speaker 2: for all horn.
Speaker 1: I don't know about that. I've never peruse that. The
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