WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Surf and Turf  

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<v Speaker 1>All right, second date update. It's the second date update

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Julian is getting ghosted and wants to know

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<v Speaker 2>why that is.

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<v Speaker 1>Julianne, what's happening?

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, Juliane? Hey, I thought you were a ghosting me.

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<v Speaker 2>What's going on, Julian, How you been?

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<v Speaker 3>I I'm okay, man, I'm hanging in there. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I just yeah, I've been been trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 3>this dating life.

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<v Speaker 2>Man.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really tough out there, even for the dudes. It's tough.

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<v Speaker 1>It's tough for a guy. Listen, it's like World War

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<v Speaker 1>three out here. All right. So news, You went on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with this girl.

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<v Speaker 2>Her name is Monique, and you want to know why

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<v Speaker 2>it is that Monique is not giving you what you

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<v Speaker 2>think would be a relationship. She's not wanting to continue

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<v Speaker 2>on with this dating. When's the last time that you

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<v Speaker 2>actually talked to her?

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<v Speaker 3>Was when we went out on the day that's the

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<v Speaker 3>bar and.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a while bar. Wow, So it's been that long? Huh.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought for some reason maybe you were texting or

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<v Speaker 2>going back and forth. But here say hello to Monique.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, hey, hey, hey, look at this.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys sound happy. Julian sounds happy, Monique, You sound

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<v Speaker 2>happy to be here. What's wrong with this? Let's make

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<v Speaker 2>a baby and have fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh get a call back?

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<v Speaker 4>Huh yeah, No, it's probably not going to happen.

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<v Speaker 2>Monique, Why are you Why are you not into them?

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<v Speaker 2>What's going on? Why are you not returning any calls?

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<v Speaker 2>And why are you not wanting to go on another day?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, she has some stuff going on that I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>really into. Somebody might be, but I'm not.

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<v Speaker 5>What kind of stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, we kind of loosely started talking about like things

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<v Speaker 4>we would be into, and apparently he's into girls and

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<v Speaker 4>guys and there's some things that he will want to

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<v Speaker 4>do all together. And I don't even know if it's

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<v Speaker 4>you know, the things that I can say on air,

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<v Speaker 4>so I'll be appropriate, but I just wasn't interested in that.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait a second, Okay, so you okay, this is interesting

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<v Speaker 2>because Kevin just had something like this happened to him

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<v Speaker 2>where Kevin went on a date with a girl that

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<v Speaker 2>he found out is just coming out of a relationship

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<v Speaker 2>with a girl and it was a longer term relationship. Julian,

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<v Speaker 2>are you saying that you want to date Monique but

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<v Speaker 2>you also want to date Monique's brother.

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<v Speaker 1>What does the story come on?

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, no, I think that I was. I'm interested

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<v Speaker 3>in Monique. You know, I don't understand what the what

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<v Speaker 3>the pushback is as far as me.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, what did you say to her that makes

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<v Speaker 2>her feel uncomfortable?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you know, all I did is I mentioned that

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<v Speaker 3>I've been with both women and I've been with men, and.

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<v Speaker 1>I enjoy both.

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<v Speaker 3>And at the time she seemed cool with it. But then,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, weeks go by and I don't hear from her,

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<v Speaker 3>and so I didn't think. I didn't think much of

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<v Speaker 3>it in the moment, and then I maybe I assumed

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<v Speaker 3>that that might have been the case.

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<v Speaker 1>But now it's confirmed.

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<v Speaker 6>Now when you when you say, because I'm sure you

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<v Speaker 6>guys had maybe a little bit of a conversation, and

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<v Speaker 6>forgive me if I'm assuming and it's incorrect, But when

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<v Speaker 6>you have the conversation of you used did you you

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<v Speaker 6>used today? Guys, and now you're only interested in women

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<v Speaker 6>and that's why you're pursuing Monique? Or are you still

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<v Speaker 6>dibbling and dabbling both pools?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I'm dating.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm interested in Monique. However, you know I still date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll still date both women and men, you know, and

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<v Speaker 3>so yeah, and I'm open and I'm honest about that.

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<v Speaker 5>So I just think and there's nothing wrong with that,

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<v Speaker 5>that is absolutely your personal preference. But I do think

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<v Speaker 5>you have to be prepared. And I said this when

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<v Speaker 5>we talked to you about your situation, like, I personally

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<v Speaker 5>would not want to date somebody who who liked guys

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<v Speaker 5>and girls. That's my personal preference, and that is totally fine.

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<v Speaker 1>You have every right too.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, So you just I think you, you know, you

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<v Speaker 5>have to be so upfront with that and be prepared

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<v Speaker 5>for people to be like, I'm sure you're a great.

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<v Speaker 1>Guy, but no, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that that there's it has to be on

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<v Speaker 2>dating profiles, the option of like the check marker there is, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>there is shy or did you not put that on

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<v Speaker 2>your on your profile?

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't say that that you're by Julian with that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean I think that I think that there's

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<v Speaker 2>a bit of this, you know where like keV was

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<v Speaker 2>talking about the other day, Like Kev's like, I got

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<v Speaker 2>nothing wrong with you know the fact that she's you know,

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<v Speaker 2>being with other girls, but it's about being in relationships

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<v Speaker 2>with other girls.

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<v Speaker 1>Monique question for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I don't even think that it's about him having

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<v Speaker 4>have been I think is what he said about wanting

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<v Speaker 4>he would do all things together.

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<v Speaker 1>There we go, Okay, so he wants you to get

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<v Speaker 1>part of the whole deal.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, this came up on the first.

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<v Speaker 3>Date question.

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<v Speaker 4>Question as the question.

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<v Speaker 1>How long was your guy's date? Like how many hours

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<v Speaker 1>was the day?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe two so two hours? What hour number did that

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<v Speaker 2>come into playing? Like was that at the end of

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<v Speaker 2>the date or was that in the middle.

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<v Speaker 4>Somewhere, Probably towards the end. I think that was a

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<v Speaker 4>marker for me. I was like, Okay, these are.

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<v Speaker 5>The types of things that I think need to be

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<v Speaker 5>disclosed before a date even happens, like like the checkboxes,

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<v Speaker 5>we're saying what you're you know, whether you're into girls,

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<v Speaker 5>guys both, if you have kids, Like I think there

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<v Speaker 5>are so many things that are that are like those

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<v Speaker 5>big those big ticket items for lack of a better phrase.

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<v Speaker 5>And I know people are like, well, but I wanted

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<v Speaker 5>her to meet me first, and I wanted her to

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<v Speaker 5>get to know me first. But it's like that isn't

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<v Speaker 5>automatic for a lot of people, Like I'm just not

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<v Speaker 5>interested I'm just not interested in dating somebody who has kids.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just like, you're not going to change my mind.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to ask this question of listeners eight four

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<v Speaker 2>four Mojoe Live eight four four six sixty five six

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<v Speaker 2>five four eight. I want to hear what your thoughts

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<v Speaker 2>are on these guys. But I also want to know

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<v Speaker 2>what was the thing that was brought up during the

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<v Speaker 2>date that all of a sudden, You're like, oh, that

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<v Speaker 2>came out of left.

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<v Speaker 5>Field, like you know what I mean, like a bombshell

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<v Speaker 5>on the first date that just really caught you off.

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<v Speaker 2>Luard the idea that all of a sudden, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>two and a half hours in the date, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>Julian says, Hey, I'd like to be with you and

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<v Speaker 2>another guy at the same time.

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<v Speaker 1>Surf. By the way, Zach, that's what we got to

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<v Speaker 1>call this.

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<v Speaker 2>We got to call this particular second date updates surf

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<v Speaker 2>and turf texture here this morning, going wow. The show

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<v Speaker 2>lately has had a lot of listeners that like to

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<v Speaker 2>explore both with men and women.

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<v Speaker 1>That is true.

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<v Speaker 6>It seems like, y'all, is it just the year this

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<v Speaker 6>is the year of that.

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<v Speaker 4>It's more like accepting we talk about these things.

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<v Speaker 1>More people being more open too.

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<v Speaker 2>But lately on the show though, it's definitely come out

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit more. And then another texture here that says,

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<v Speaker 2>uh uh, Monique run, I would not want this. I

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<v Speaker 2>think he's just trying to get you into a situation

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<v Speaker 2>that would be a fantasy.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on, Kelly? Hi, it's Mojo in the morning.

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<v Speaker 6>Hi.

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<v Speaker 4>How are you good?

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<v Speaker 1>Kelly?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if you've got a comment or do

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<v Speaker 2>you have a story about what they brought up on

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<v Speaker 2>the date?

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<v Speaker 7>No, I have a comment. I think that the problem,

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<v Speaker 7>especially for a woman, is scary because you already got

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<v Speaker 7>to worry about a man cheating all the time, so

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<v Speaker 7>now imagine it's just both worlds. You gotta worry about

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<v Speaker 7>women and men.

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<v Speaker 1>But don't you think that women cheat too? Though? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, but I yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>But you're going into a dating situation and I have

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<v Speaker 7>one preference of a man, you know, that's my preference

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<v Speaker 7>is different from you having a preference of both.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that also people take it differently when a girl,

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<v Speaker 2>when a woman is with another woman compared to when

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<v Speaker 2>a guy is with also another guy.

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<v Speaker 6>I can't answer a relationship thinking you're about to be

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<v Speaker 6>cheated on. Well, yeah, like that's the wrong way.

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<v Speaker 1>Josh, what's up. What's going on?

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<v Speaker 8>Hey, guys, third time in three weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>Josh, we're not counting anymore. Okay, So when you call us,

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<v Speaker 2>just call and give me your point of view. I

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<v Speaker 2>appreciate it. Go ahead, what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 8>So, in my opinion, dating a by person is not

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<v Speaker 8>something that most straight people are comforable with because there's,

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<v Speaker 8>like the last caller said, double the chance of cheating,

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<v Speaker 8>and then there's always going to be an aspect of

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<v Speaker 8>the relationship that you can't give them that they might

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<v Speaker 8>crave and they might hinder the relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen.

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<v Speaker 2>I definitely don't think that it even has to do

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<v Speaker 2>with somebody that's by. I think that if a dude

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<v Speaker 2>went into a date with a girl and said, I'd

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<v Speaker 2>like to you to bring your best friend along with

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<v Speaker 2>and let's have two girls in the relationship, I think

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<v Speaker 2>asking anybody to have another person come in. You're dating

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<v Speaker 2>for one on one. You're not dating for two on

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<v Speaker 2>two or two on one or.

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<v Speaker 5>Whatever, unless that has been made very clear.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what's up, Sarah? How you doing yourself? Good? Sarah?

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<v Speaker 1>Tell everybody what happened to you when you went on

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<v Speaker 1>the date.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, So I dated this guy and he was

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<v Speaker 3>only into me.

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<v Speaker 6>Because I was pregnant.

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<v Speaker 4>I was about seventy eight months pregnant with my daughter.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but wait a second, you went on it. You

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<v Speaker 2>went wait, you went on a date. You were dating

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<v Speaker 2>on a dating app. I'm assuming.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I had just met him randomly.

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<v Speaker 3>He was like, hey, you know, we should link up sometime.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, you know, you're so beautiful, you're blowing on.

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<v Speaker 2>You were, but you were dating when you were pregnant.

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<v Speaker 2>That's interesting. I don't think I've ever heard of that before.

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<v Speaker 5>Some guys are in.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, my daughter's dad was interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh.

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<v Speaker 4>He he left me for a drug addict.

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<v Speaker 2>Chance.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's pretty wild.

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<v Speaker 3>Though.

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<v Speaker 1>Are there a lot of pregnant women on dating apps?

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<v Speaker 1>So I understand that her story. She's eight months.

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<v Speaker 6>Pregnant, she's the guy you know, needs and wants and

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<v Speaker 6>she wants to feel loved and heard and all of that.

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<v Speaker 1>And the guy was into He just wanted pregnant sex.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, that was all he wanted. As soon as I

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<v Speaker 3>had my daughter, he just lost all interest in that.

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<v Speaker 8>Like I've never heard from him again.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, that is that is wild.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I don't think I've ever uh heard that before,

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<v Speaker 2>but that's an amazing call. That's uh, that's pretty wild.

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<v Speaker 2>There are guys that are into like pregnant, it's free

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