WEBVTT - Logan & Vanessa Share Warm Conversations but End with a Cold Ghosting

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<v Speaker 1>I want to grab Vanessa real quick and let's let's

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<v Speaker 1>just get started. Vanessa, are you there, I'm here. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we got things to do, girl. We got to get

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I'm calling about Logan.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>We met for coffee and San Mateo okay, And he

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<v Speaker 2>was just like warm, easy to talk to. Yes, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>we compared our favorite books. We had like a couple

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<v Speaker 2>in common. We vented about our vosses. You know, we

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<v Speaker 2>bonded over the fact that like both of us think

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<v Speaker 2>breakfast Britos are the highest form of morning cuisine. And

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<v Speaker 2>he has like a sense of humor. We she just

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<v Speaker 2>she like seemed like a real grown up and I

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<v Speaker 2>was into it.

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't it funny the things we muse about in group?

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<v Speaker 1>In twenty twenty are. So it's like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>our breakfast burrito is awesome. I mean, what were our

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<v Speaker 1>parents talking about back in the day, right, Like, I

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<v Speaker 1>guarantee you it wasn't. Who's got the best breakfast burrito? Thanks? Instagram?

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<v Speaker 1>Can I just say your voice is ASMR like this

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<v Speaker 1>is You're like the third person this week who has

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<v Speaker 1>just blown us away with with their I could Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I chat with you all day long.

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<v Speaker 2>This is great coming from a professional.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's not get ahead of ourselves. Honestly, I'm a I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a trained monkey. In fact, I better get to work here.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's figure it out. Go ahead and meet your phone.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna call him right now.

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<v Speaker 3>What Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Can I talk to Logan Police Logan? This is Marcus

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<v Speaker 1>from Star one on one three from the morning show. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't suppose you listen to the show?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you? I do not?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm sorry, totally fine. So it's a radio show.

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<v Speaker 1>We're doing a segment right now that I would love

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<v Speaker 1>to have you on if you have a minute to

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<v Speaker 1>be on the radio with us. It's called second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>It's regarding a date you've been on recently. I got

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<v Speaker 1>floated to your phone number from a lady who says

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<v Speaker 1>you you took her out on a date and that

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<v Speaker 1>she's feeling ghosted. So I'm just trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>if something went sideways or what happened. Do you mind

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<v Speaker 1>talking about your date with Vanessa?

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<v Speaker 3>No? No, I don't mind talking. No, that's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, how did it go? I'm trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>if she if she did something wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>So the first twenty thirty minutes of the date were

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<v Speaker 3>actually amazing, and I actually really liked her, and I thought,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, like we were kind of really getting

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<v Speaker 3>along and and you know, she's really funny, she's really pretty.

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<v Speaker 3>But there was a time where it kind and I

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<v Speaker 3>got h accelerated.

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<v Speaker 1>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 2>I know?

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<v Speaker 3>So she okay, so she like there was a point where,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, we're really kind of vibing getting along, and

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<v Speaker 3>then she was like, Okay, I have to show you

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<v Speaker 3>something on my phone. And I was like, okay. I

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<v Speaker 3>figured she's gonna show me like her dog or something

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<v Speaker 3>or I don't know, nephew or I don't know, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like it's just something normal. Then she like out this

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<v Speaker 3>like intent lift of like it was like a Pinterest

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<v Speaker 3>and it was an entire wedding board was one detail,

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<v Speaker 3>So like she's wedding board. Yeah, like a pinterest like

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<v Speaker 3>wedding board, like everything that she wants in her wedding,

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<v Speaker 3>like the dress ring style, she like expects the venue,

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<v Speaker 3>like she's already saving for the color ballad. Then like

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<v Speaker 3>she swiped like another board and it was it was

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<v Speaker 3>literally labeled Future of Family and it had like the

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<v Speaker 3>architectural style of her dream home. The like the like

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<v Speaker 3>the like the freaking back job is like it out.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, if she even had one, that was what

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<v Speaker 3>my kids will probably look like based on the type

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<v Speaker 3>of man. It was like intense. So I just sat

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<v Speaker 3>there like kind of stunted. I didn't really know what

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<v Speaker 3>to say because I was like, oh my god, I

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<v Speaker 3>mean I just met you, right, okay, yeah you know

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<v Speaker 3>so yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so this is the part of the call, So

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<v Speaker 1>Vanessa is actually listening right now. We're just trying to

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<v Speaker 1>figure out what went sideways.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Hi, Logan, Hey, sorry, I'm just a little shocked.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just a little shocked. It's vision boarding. Everybody

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<v Speaker 2>does it. Manifestation is powerful. I like you, it's you

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<v Speaker 2>look like you have never seen a Pinterest board, Like

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<v Speaker 2>we were raised in a barn. I mean, if you're

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<v Speaker 2>scared from like a little bit of lace and a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit of good lighting, then that's your issue.

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<v Speaker 3>I think, like, listen, you're making it way more chill

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<v Speaker 3>than it was. It was very intense and it was

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<v Speaker 3>a lot to put on family. I've just met you

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<v Speaker 3>like twenty thirty lives ago. Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>This there is no time to waste some time with people.

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<v Speaker 2>So I want to make sure you have the same

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<v Speaker 2>vision as me, and I'm manifesting it. It's called planning ahead.

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<v Speaker 2>Adults do it.

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<v Speaker 3>But you like literally told me to grow out my

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<v Speaker 3>hair and i'd like fit your perfect aesthetic. And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>oh my god, Okay, I was being helpful.

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<v Speaker 2>You would be cuter if you did that. You're going

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<v Speaker 2>to figure it out on your own in like a

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<v Speaker 2>week or two.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you'll be like, oh wow, okay, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like we need to let's take a beat here for

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<v Speaker 1>a sec. Vanessa. You obviously know what you want. Uh

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<v Speaker 1>this might be a lot for one person on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date. I'm just going to say that I don't

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<v Speaker 1>I respect your ability to have a vision for what

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<v Speaker 1>you want in your life. This might be a lot

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<v Speaker 1>for somebody.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if it was not as intense. It

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<v Speaker 2>was not as intense as he's describing it. He's making

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<v Speaker 2>it sound like weird. I was not weird.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it was weird. It was frankly weird. It

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<v Speaker 3>was almost, I don't know, I felt violated. It was like,

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<v Speaker 3>you guy, because of this like predetermined you know, thing

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<v Speaker 3>that I'd fallen into.

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<v Speaker 2>It was what everybody does. They look at pictures of

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<v Speaker 2>people and they pick them because of a predetermined thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, that's you're looking at it like a photo

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<v Speaker 2>and what they're interested in.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys at the end of at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the days. Doesn't this honestly doesn't sound like a match

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<v Speaker 1>to me. Less Nless logan, I'm bringing the room wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>Second game, No, it was. It was too much for me. Frankly,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it's just you were really nice.

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<v Speaker 1>But that was like a lot, a lot, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>hang on, please, dating must be super fun right now,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling no second date. Second date update