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Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to another episode of.

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Speaker 2: I Tell You What.

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Speaker 1: All right, Sam, it's your bit, by the way, the

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Speaker 1: next for the next however many minutes. This is now

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Speaker 1: Sam and Company. It's gonna be soon enough anyway, but

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Speaker 1: I'm making it official for right now.

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Speaker 3: Okay, listen if you just tune in to K one

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Speaker 3: of two because you're like, oh, I want to check

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Speaker 3: out Minute to Win It and all that, and this

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Speaker 3: is like one of your first introductions to me the

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Speaker 3: program Get Day. I'm just curious, Okay. You see a

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Speaker 3: lot of different things online, and I found a couple

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Speaker 3: of things of people online that are dealing with issues

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Speaker 3: with people that they're dating. And I want to know

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Speaker 3: which deal breaker is a bigger deal breaker for you?

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Speaker 4: If you're on a date with somebody and they admit, now.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on, which one are you going with

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Speaker 1: the first? You're the lighter one first, would you? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Okay, we'll do the letter. Okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: I want to keep people as long as I can.

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Speaker 1: That's for the business of that.

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Speaker 4: Which one's a bigger deal breaker for you?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 3: You find out that the person you're dating lied about

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Speaker 3: their age by ten years, okay, or you find out

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Speaker 3: the person that you're dating had a romantic relationship with

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Speaker 3: their sister, but they were honest about it.

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Speaker 1: I'll take the liar. Yeah, I'm taking the liar with you. Age,

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Speaker 1: I'll take the liar in a second.

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Speaker 4: So it's so it's more of a deal breaker for you.

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Speaker 1: This is the most uncomfortable conversation I've had in my

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Speaker 1: decades of radio.

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Speaker 4: Why what do you mean?

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Speaker 1: Why?

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Speaker 4: Why is it so uncomfortable for you?

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Speaker 1: Because you have to you picture things?

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Speaker 4: What are you picturing?

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Speaker 1: Well? I can't. I can't picture sitting across from my

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Speaker 1: wife going, hey, you know what, I just got to

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Speaker 1: tell you something. I'm ten years older or whatever. I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 1: that's great, find a dandy whatever. You're beautiful, you're my

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Speaker 1: Disney Princess, right sure. But then if the other I

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Speaker 1: came out, Hey, I just gotta tell you I've had

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Speaker 1: a relationship with my brother. I can't even say that.

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Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not. That's not happening, that's not gonna happen.

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Speaker 1: It just doesn't Disney Princess at all. And I don't

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Speaker 1: like scenarios where it takes me away from my beautiful wife,

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Speaker 1: who I love dearly and been married for two decades

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Speaker 1: or more. And it's just this is awkward. Anybody listening

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Speaker 1: knows this is awkward. You're listening right now, You're going

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Speaker 1: this is you know this is awkward. I'm just looking back, Sam,

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Speaker 1: we're doing for the last two and a.

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Speaker 4: Half months, ruminating on weird stuff.

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Speaker 1: There's no reality where anybody picks the sister dater.

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Speaker 4: There's maybe somebody who'd pick it.

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Speaker 1: No way, nobody, nobody. How do you even think that

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Speaker 1: that's even like an option.

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Speaker 4: I'm not saying it is for me.

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Speaker 1: This other thing is benign. Everybody lies, so you find

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Speaker 1: out somebody's ten years older or ten years younger, whatever.

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Speaker 1: I mean. That's I'm not saying that it's good to lie.

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Speaker 1: And I think that at the first part of a

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Speaker 1: relationship is the most important. Just ooz out honesty and

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Speaker 1: it gives you the best shot of going into a

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Speaker 1: great relationship. Like I did with my wife. You know,

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Speaker 1: I told her I just got out of prison, you know,

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Speaker 1: I told her all these things that what's while I

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Speaker 1: was wearing orange and I was escaped and escaped in

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Speaker 1: mat Yeah, and she just said, Okay, I believe you.

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Speaker 1: I don't go, well, you can't. You have to believe me.

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Speaker 1: I'm in chains and i am cuffed and I'm in

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Speaker 1: an orange suit. And then she's like, Okay, I trust you.

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Speaker 1: I said, thank you. It's the biggest mistake you ever made.

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Speaker 1: But I'm married twenty years later. That's all a lie,

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Speaker 1: by the way, But I would take any of that over. Hey,

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Speaker 1: I once dated my brother.

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Speaker 4: When we say dated, we mean I know you what

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Speaker 4: you we know? Dated? Like dated, you're sibling?

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Speaker 1: Talk back on the iHeartRadio, a Saturday talkback iHeartRadio app.

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Speaker 1: What I just I'm gonna let I'm having it. This

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Speaker 1: is now going to the audience. This is for the

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Speaker 1: audience to play with, not for me, is there?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know. There's got to be something

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Speaker 4: that would be worse than that.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. No, I don't think there's anything worse

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Speaker 1: than that. No, I don't think. So this is quite

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Speaker 1: the dating deal. When we go for a bit, we

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Speaker 1: go big or go home, don't we.

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Speaker 3: So there's nobody on this planet, on this planet, no

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Speaker 3: matter how hot they are, that you would be able

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Speaker 3: to look past.

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Speaker 1: You got like this the devil Hitler and conscious Pilot

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Speaker 1: and people that Lussolini and those people. I mean, that's

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Speaker 1: how that's bad.

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Speaker 4: It's just not the same category. There has to be

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Speaker 4: something in between.

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Speaker 3: Romantic relationship with a sibling as a dictator that did all.

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Speaker 4: Of those things.

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Speaker 1: Okay, were they a year and a half old? No, okay,

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Speaker 1: that would lighten it up.

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Speaker 4: I feel like, did they just end it.

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Speaker 1: You'd never be able to trust that person. No, him

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Speaker 1: going out to lunch with my brother. Oh no, you're not.

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Speaker 1: It's new and I know what that means.

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Speaker 4: Oh, I have a family reunion. I bet you do.

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Speaker 1: And you're gonna say reunion? You really they reunite the

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Speaker 1: union in the Rea. Yeah, all right, talkback, let her in.

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Speaker 1: I alradio have.

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Speaker 5: Me personally, I don't think I can deal with information

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Speaker 5: like that. And I sure as how don't want to

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Speaker 5: look at your brother and know that we're tunnel buddies

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Speaker 5: but step brother. Anyways, I don't want to really know

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Speaker 5: that information. But I don't want to not know that.

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Speaker 5: So that's something that Yeahamo, everybody deserves a second chance,

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Speaker 5: everybody deserves to be forgiven. But I can only imagine.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, okay, on was my country, Sam. It's wonderful

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Speaker 5: to hear your voice again. You guys all have excellence.

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Speaker 5: I need you?

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Speaker 1: Okay, how much do you need me?

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Speaker 3: You don't want to find out that the sibling is

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Speaker 3: like your spelunking buddy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, thank you, Noddy.

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Speaker 4: It's a real hobby. You explore caves.

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Speaker 1: This is salmon company everyone. This is talk about on

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Speaker 1: the iHeartRadio app. What in the Alabama is going on here?

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Speaker 1: I love you guys, brother dude, glad you still love me?

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Speaker 1: Or at least?

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Speaker 2: Are we talking blood or step here? Specified?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Blood brother, stepbrother, blood sister, stepsister.

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Speaker 3: We're talking blood siblings, although there are lots of categories

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Speaker 3: there for the step siblings online if you look hard enough,

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Speaker 3: I think you don't.

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Speaker 1: This is why country music it's a bad name.

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Speaker 4: Why because of me?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Today?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Sam? How do you know that there's a whole

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Speaker 2: category for siblings online?

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Speaker 1: How do you know that? What kind of research were

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Speaker 1: you doing?

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Speaker 4: I don't live under a rock, right, Dudekay? Step bro?

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Speaker 2: Come Chris? Is anybody overlooking the fact that Sam comes

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Speaker 2: from a fairly large family full of siblings? Sam? Are

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Speaker 2: you trying to test the waters to see how everybody

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Speaker 2: feels your upcoming announcements by Chris call me later.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, buddy.

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Speaker 3: This is me testing the water so that I can

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Speaker 3: announce that I have some kind of relationship with my

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Speaker 3: siblings like that.

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Speaker 1: No, well, you at Hawthorne, don't you have the same

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Speaker 1: isn't your mother's maiden name or your dad's maiden somebody's

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Speaker 1: made your dad's maiden names. Somebody's mad as your husbands.

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Speaker 3: Our moms both have the same maiden name, and they

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Speaker 3: are very It's a unique last name. I don't know

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Speaker 3: any other family that has the same last name. And

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Speaker 3: it was very funny because I got the wedding. There's

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Speaker 3: so many people with this last name that are not related.

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Speaker 1: Now, why asked you the question? When you first started dating?

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Speaker 1: Did you go and like with that like a red

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Speaker 1: flag for you?

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Speaker 3: I mean, it definitely threw up some flags, and I

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Speaker 3: went on. I got a membership on ancestry dot com

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Speaker 3: and I did a deep, deep dive on ancestry of

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Speaker 3: both of us and could not find it.

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Speaker 1: Sure that was ancestry dot com and not Ancestry.

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Speaker 4: I'm sure.

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Speaker 1: You did a twenty seven and what is the twenty

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Speaker 1: six and me? Or did you go to you and

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Speaker 1: me dot com.

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Speaker 4: It was a very different website.

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Speaker 1: One more talk.

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Speaker 2: Mack Well Sam the farm. So I would say something worse,

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Speaker 2: but maybe you got a little farm love and animals

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Speaker 2: here that would probably be worse than a sibling.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, you know what that's that is? There we go? Yes, there,

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Speaker 1: did that answer your question?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we found it.

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Speaker 3: We found the thing that is worse than a romantic

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Speaker 3: relationship with your siblings. It's romantic relationships with cross that

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Speaker 3: cross species boundaries.

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Speaker 1: We found something that I safely can say that I

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Speaker 1: never needed to know in the first place.

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Speaker 4: You know, I feel like we're really doing important work here.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back, Sam, Thank you, and thanks for listening to

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Speaker 1: this episode of I Tell You What You'll get more

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