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Speaker 1: This portion of the Joe Show podcast is powered by

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Speaker 1: Fair and Faarah Tampa Accident Attorneys. We're live on ninety

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Speaker 1: three three FLZ Ashley Katie Jad. Sorry for your loss

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Speaker 1: a couple of years ago. Oh I know, so eight

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Speaker 1: hundred and four nine ninety three, ninety three if anyone

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Speaker 1: else gets something like this, because that is kind of

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Speaker 1: it's kind of a bummer that this keeps happening.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I was having a good morning until

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Speaker 2: I got this email, and I was just like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I feel so email.

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Speaker 1: Now, what happened a couple of years ago?

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Speaker 2: So I moved down to Florida by myself, and I

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Speaker 2: had my two chihuahuas like they were my support puppy heado,

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Speaker 2: and they have had very long, good lives, but they

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Speaker 2: have since passed. You know, they lived to be like

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Speaker 2: sixteen and seventeen. But I still get emails from the

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Speaker 2: VET on their birthday. So I just got an email

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Speaker 2: happy birthday, Ernie, and I'm like, well, Ernie brown Dog

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Speaker 2: crossed the Rainbow Bridge like three years ago.

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Speaker 1: But thanks for the reminders. Why not just unsubscribe? I

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Speaker 1: don't know, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I mean, let's subscribes for so many things, and it

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Speaker 3: still hits you with an email.

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Speaker 1: You're absolutely right, Ash, But now that we talk about it,

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Speaker 1: I wonder are you not unsubscribing because you don't want

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Speaker 1: to let go Ernie? Am I the problem with I

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Speaker 1: don't know. Maybe I think so. I think as much

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Speaker 1: as you are sad right now, you can't let go

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Speaker 1: of that.

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Speaker 3: Let's leave the room. This is therapist Jake session with

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Speaker 3: I think that is maybe it's gotta be, because then

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Speaker 3: you have good memories and do.

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Speaker 1: You get anything? Do you get anything else? Sorry to

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Speaker 1: cut you off, No.

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Speaker 2: That's right. Well with Chewy, they send birthday cards for

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Speaker 2: Napoleon well also has since passed. And then I don't

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Speaker 2: throw them away. Oh my god, Joe, maybe you're on

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Speaker 2: to something.

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Speaker 1: You keep the ones even like this your past year.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because I have.

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Speaker 2: In my house where they were cremated, so there, and

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Speaker 2: you'll notice the next time they're over because there's like

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Speaker 2: a little picture and they're little like boxes.

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Speaker 1: And then like when.

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Speaker 2: People when they when they died or whatever, people had

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Speaker 2: sent really nice cards or like my friends sent flowers.

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Speaker 2: So I have like a little box and their collars

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Speaker 2: are in there. I'm sorry A drawer and then I

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Speaker 2: put the cards in there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't let them go. I'm unpacking so much

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Speaker 1: like that. That's definitely what it is. Whose birthday is next? Well,

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Speaker 1: I guess Napoleon. Well, Ernie would be today.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Ernie's today, and then Chewie will send me a

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Speaker 2: birthday card in March.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Jie will send me a birthday card in March. Oh,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, there's anything wrong with that. That's sounds silly, though,

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Speaker 1: is it. No? I don't think so. I think I

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Speaker 1: do the same thing. I kind of had a not

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Speaker 1: an emotional because I didn't cry. I was very frustrated

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Speaker 1: with my family to find out I had a dog

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Speaker 1: named Lily, and I didn't have like the most comfortable

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Speaker 1: like middle school. In high school, I ended up having

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Speaker 1: to change schools, Like it just wasn't that great. So

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Speaker 1: like my freshman year, I tasked myself with not saying

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Speaker 1: a word during school. I completed that task. I'll never

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Speaker 1: forget a girl that I had crush on in middle

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Speaker 1: school and we were friends with and then we didn't

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Speaker 1: talk ever again. She walked up to me on one

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Speaker 1: of the last days of school and she's like, oh

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Speaker 1: my god, I didn't even know that you went to

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Speaker 1: school here like that. And I ended up transferring after that.

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Speaker 1: But every single day I'd go home and Lily would

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Speaker 1: lay on my stomach, and I like every picture I

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Speaker 1: have when I was in school, like it was Lily

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Speaker 1: laying in my stomach. She ended up dying when I

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Speaker 1: was in college, your stomach, and I ate her, so

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Speaker 1: she's in my stomach. I didn't. I found out that

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Speaker 1: my brothers who Luke knew Lily for a cup of coffee.

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Speaker 1: Luke is like ten years younger than me. I don't

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Speaker 1: think you've met Luke yet, that you will. He's an ashead.

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Speaker 1: Luke got something, Jacob got something, My dad has something,

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Speaker 1: my mom has something. My mom on her key chain

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Speaker 1: has Lily's collar like the key tag. Dam Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: didn't get anything. The memories. I like to hold onto

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Speaker 1: things like that.

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Speaker 2: It's in your heart, yeah, well no, in my pocket.

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Speaker 1: That's not like, Yeah, they got paused. They got a

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Speaker 1: whole alyssa.

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Speaker 3: When maybe they felt you were too close and it

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Speaker 3: would have been like they were like, yeah, he doesn't

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Speaker 3: want anything.

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Speaker 1: But that's not fair. But to hold on, that's totally

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Speaker 1: not fair. Wife's not fair. Joe, You're not fair. Do

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Speaker 1: you keep anything from chief?

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Speaker 4: I do? I had.

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Speaker 1: It's not fair.

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Speaker 4: He's not fair.

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Speaker 1: Because I don't have anything.

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Speaker 4: Well, then, Joe, weren't you more proactive in the process

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Speaker 4: and tell your mom.

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Speaker 1: Chicago? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Well no, That's the thing is if your dog really

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Speaker 4: meant that much to you, Ashley, right, wouldn't you be like,

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Speaker 4: you know what, Mom? Is there anything I could do?

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Speaker 4: Can we do something to commemorate?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? He's usually like that, but it was different. I

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Speaker 1: went to school in Chicago, Illinois, when Lily had passed away.

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Speaker 1: It was a very traumatic moment for me. April twenty first.

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Speaker 1: It happened April twenty first, and the Cubs were playing

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Speaker 1: a day game against the Cincinnati Reds. I was so

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Speaker 1: sad that my dad said, listen, I'm gonna make you happy.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get you to I went to a lot

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Speaker 1: of Cubs games. So I went and I said in

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Speaker 1: the bleachers. When I would go to Cubs games, I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't go with anyone. Man. I really am alone, and

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Speaker 1: I would put headphones on and I would listen to

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Speaker 1: other baseball games. Vin Scully on the call for the Dodgers.

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Speaker 1: Vin Scully said, I hope you're having a beautiful day,

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Speaker 1: and if not, I hope baseball can be that escape

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Speaker 1: that you need. If I remember that, I obviously was

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Speaker 1: going through jed, But you didn't ask for anything.

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Speaker 4: You should have been like, mom, go to the vet.

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Speaker 4: Get like because for Chief, my dog who passed away

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Speaker 4: a couple of years ago, you got his paw. I

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Speaker 4: got his paw. Why the hell didn't she tell your mom?

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Speaker 1: Listen, Mom, this is what I want paw print like.

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Speaker 4: It's like a rabbit sweat. Keep it on top of

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Speaker 4: my bedroom dresser, look at it every morning.

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Speaker 1: Well, Katie, don't get rid of any of those Happy birthday.

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