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Speaker 1: So we're just talking about sleeping arrangements, and Thor was

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Speaker 2: Offense, no offense only situation.

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Speaker 1: Well, there is a weird deal going on right now

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Speaker 1: You know, how you have a newborn, you got to

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Speaker 2: Is going to work.

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Speaker 3: You never know what's going on with this guy.

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Speaker 2: Is that right?

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Speaker 3: How is sleeping through the night.

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Speaker 4: So I was telling you guys, like what a couple

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Speaker 4: of weeks ago that he was getting like six seven

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Speaker 4: don't know. Everyone told me about this four month sleep aggression,

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Speaker 4: but he's not four months. It's only three months.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but he's built like a he's built seven year old.

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Speaker 4: And like my wife texted me this morning, he was

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Speaker 3: Now he's up.

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Speaker 4: You hear him start moaning, and then like he's up

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Speaker 3: And then he's about to sleep.

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Speaker 4: But like, so when all this, when I came back

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Speaker 3: Her to look look at me, I clearly love Robert.

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Speaker 2: Because he's up and you have to feed him and

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Speaker 4: And it didn't work out because she would he would

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Speaker 2: Yeah, come to work.

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Speaker 1: Well yeah, I mean you waking up, you know, as

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Speaker 4: So so we took the advice of I don't know

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Speaker 3: And I'm gonna sleep in the guest room. Was going

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, okay, you don't.

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Speaker 4: I do love my wife. But it's just just until

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Speaker 4: And then I'm like, and then she started talking about

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Speaker 4: No, definitely not, definitely not she's starfish.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I hate to break it to you, honey,

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Speaker 4: Oh no, we are not going to ruin our marriage

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Speaker 3: Said, it was great, she's married like fifteen times. Okay,

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Speaker 4: Right now, we go to bed at night, we watch

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Speaker 3: And I missed that because I love her, so I

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Speaker 2: She doesn't want that.

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Speaker 3: I don't want sleeping in the guest room. It's weird.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I'm in a hotel. You change that though, yeah,

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Speaker 3: you make it your own. I don't know. And why

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Speaker 2: I don't know anything? Are you going to take care

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Speaker 4: Why can't we rock paper sitsiness for it? Well, she's

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Speaker 1: No, just so baby is not even in the room,

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Speaker 3: She's getting all this great sleep. She can't go back

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Speaker 1: Does she not get great sleep? Do was she having

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Speaker 4: Because she's googled and let me know about where she

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Speaker 4: And she swears that with me not being there, it's

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Speaker 5: His energy, you know, so his aura is still there.

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Speaker 4: Also, by the way, that bed we got extra firmer

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Speaker 3: I also feel hurt.

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Speaker 2: I would I would imagine, I would imagine I've hurt.

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Speaker 4: I want to feel loved. I deserve love. You know

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Speaker 3: She's choosing to sleep. We have another Clearly she's talking.

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Speaker 3: This is horrible? Need sleep?

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Speaker 2: So do I.

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Speaker 3: She's not probably saying that it's going to last forever,

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Speaker 4: It's not like I'm getting all this sleep like I'm

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Speaker 4: it's not like it's not like all of a sudden,

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Speaker 4: I'm sleeping fifteen hour nights.

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Speaker 3: I think it's ridiculous. It hurts, you know, it's what's next?

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Speaker 2: You know, we should sleep with different.

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Speaker 3: People in Oh that's a little all of a sudden. Hey,

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Speaker 3: Really I can do it?

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Speaker 2: Oh please? I mean, what's the difference.

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Speaker 3: Ever with another man or just sleeping in another bed?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Not choosing love, Okay, she's not choosing choosing in both regards.

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Speaker 3: She's choosing self love is what she's choosing.

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Speaker 2: So I want to be very selfish.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well there's some value to that. Right now, Why

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Speaker 3: don't you sleep in separate beds because we don't have

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Speaker 3: another bed. If we did, my husband would probably.

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Speaker 2: Be it you have.

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Speaker 3: It's you, your daughter, and your husband right now.

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Speaker 5: The two dogs, and he's he's ready to leave.

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Speaker 3: So he's ready, but he doesn't get into bed until

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Speaker 1: That's and he's all oiled up. That's unfortunate for you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, sounds like you're in the guest room for

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Speaker 3: I'm not.

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Speaker 4: I'm not going to lose out of the master bedroom.

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Speaker 4: It already sounds like you are already lost. I mean,

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Speaker 4: you're talking big, but not good.

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Speaker 2: Sorry,