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Speaker 1: Derek is on the phone. Good morning, Derek.
Speaker 2: Hey, Good morning Marcus.
Speaker 1: You do Hey, dude, I'm doing all right. So I
Speaker 1: want to talk about this situation with Leila. I know
Speaker 1: you guys been online and I understand she has ghosted
Speaker 1: here after your date. What did you guys do for
Speaker 1: your date? Can we talk about it? We try to
Speaker 1: see if we can get her on the phone and
Speaker 1: figure these things out.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I appreciate it. You know, I'm bummed. I'm
Speaker 2: not really used to being ghosted. We hung out in Oakland.
Speaker 2: We kind of bounced around a couple of spots. Okay,
Speaker 2: I felt like a win. I mean, I you know,
Speaker 2: I've I've been around the block. I know when there's
Speaker 2: good chemistry, and this was off the charts. We were laughing.
Speaker 2: It was a great time. We even kissed at the
Speaker 2: end of the night, right, so that I don't.
Speaker 1: Know, I usually a good sign. Although, come to realize,
Speaker 1: there are people are kissing bandits, guys and girls that
Speaker 1: just like to make out and it means nothing to me.
Speaker 1: It means the world, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I felt it. I felt the fireworks,
Speaker 2: you know. Okay, yeah, so yeah, after the kiss, you know,
Speaker 2: we ended up getting into the same uber Okay, yeah,
Speaker 2: just more efficient, and I had the driver drop me
Speaker 2: off first and then take her home after. You know,
Speaker 2: I wasn't going to push anything further than that and
Speaker 2: leave it at as a as a good first date.
Speaker 2: And sure, that's what I thought it was. But then
Speaker 2: nothing radio silence. She went silent. So I just don't
Speaker 2: know what happened.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, like I said, we're gonna call her. What
Speaker 1: I'll have you use mut your phone and then you
Speaker 1: can listen and we'll see. Let me see what she says.
Speaker 1: I'd love to get you a second day, but let's
Speaker 1: just try to get some answers.
Speaker 2: Okay, So I appreciate it.
Speaker 1: Well, let's go ahead and get into it. Let's let
Speaker 1: me call her and see what's up. Go ahead and
Speaker 1: meet your phone. Okay, so good, here we go, bud. Hello,
Speaker 1: Hi is this Leila? Yeah? Good morning. This is Marcus
Speaker 1: calling from from Star one O one three from the
Speaker 1: Morning Show.
Speaker 2: How are you?
Speaker 3: I'm good?
Speaker 2: How are you?
Speaker 1: I'm good. I don't suppose you listened in the morning,
Speaker 1: do you?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: I don't, sorry, Okay, no, it's fine. I'm sorry if
Speaker 1: I woke you up. Okay, I wonder do you have
Speaker 1: a moment to be on the air with us? Uh?
Speaker 2: Yeah, sure.
Speaker 1: We're doing a segment called second Date Update. And so
Speaker 1: I got your phone number from one of our listeners.
Speaker 1: His name's Derek. He says, you guys went on a
Speaker 1: date and he had the best time. He'd liked to
Speaker 1: take you out again. I understand there was a kiss, so,
Speaker 1: but he's feeling like you ghosting. I don't know if
Speaker 1: you are or not. How did the date go for you?
Speaker 3: I guess I am ghosting.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: It's like, ugh, So it went really well, yeah, up
Speaker 3: until the car ride at the end of the date
Speaker 3: and when we were going home, I mean I was
Speaker 3: like really like I was really excited and like we
Speaker 3: were really connected with had like there were no issues.
Speaker 1: That's what I said.
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I that's true.
Speaker 3: But once we got in the uber, it got kind
Speaker 3: of weird. So what happened was the driver had like
Speaker 3: the destination plugged into his like GPS. It was Eric's house,
Speaker 3: and immediately Derek started like giving directions to the driver.
Speaker 3: And it was at first started just like, hey, you
Speaker 3: might want to cut over here. It was helpful, but
Speaker 3: then it just kept going and he got really insistent
Speaker 3: and it got very awkward and he was second guessing
Speaker 3: the driver's route and he just like would not stop
Speaker 3: micromanaging this driver. I mean, it wasn't yelling, and but
Speaker 3: he was. There was an edge for sure, like he
Speaker 3: needed to be right.
Speaker 1: Okay, so it got weird.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it got weird, all right.
Speaker 1: So the other half of this is that I've got
Speaker 1: Derek on the phone. He's he's on mute, but he's
Speaker 1: he's listening in and so, okay, Derek, I think we
Speaker 1: have our answers here. Derek, are you there?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, So okay, are you hearing what she's saying?
Speaker 2: Here?
Speaker 1: Did it get did did he get weird in the vehicle?
Speaker 2: I listen, I hear what she's saying, but that's not
Speaker 2: how I viewed. I was just trying to help. Honestly,
Speaker 2: I know the area pretty well. I was trying to
Speaker 2: save some time, make the ride a little bit smoother.
Speaker 2: The driver, I don't know, he was looking so hard
Speaker 2: at his GPS, he was hesitating. I was just again,
Speaker 2: I was just trying to be like, hey, there's no worries, buddy,
Speaker 2: like take take a left here. I don't think I
Speaker 2: was aggressive about it, you know. I mean I'm I
Speaker 2: don't know, I'm a little beside myself here that that's
Speaker 2: how it was. I was taken because I just trying
Speaker 2: to help. Really, I mean, I just.
Speaker 3: Don't understand what's the big deal if the ride took
Speaker 3: like a couple extra minutes. I mean, we're not getting
Speaker 3: charged more. And it was also it felt like maybe
Speaker 3: he was in a rush to like end the night.
Speaker 2: No, it was a fit, like it was just effiicient
Speaker 2: and it wasn't about ending the date. I had a
Speaker 2: great time with you. I just I didn't want I
Speaker 2: thought it was awkward that the guy might have not
Speaker 2: known where he was going, and like I'm a passionate person,
Speaker 2: like I'm not sometimes that comes off as a little intense,
Speaker 2: but that doesn't mean I'm angry or yelling.
Speaker 4: I just again, I was just trying to help honestly, Okay,
Speaker 4: I just didn't feel that way, Like it felt like
Speaker 4: you had to take control of something that just like
Speaker 4: didn't need fixing, and it just kind of killed the vibe.
Speaker 2: Okay, I didn't realize it came off that way.
Speaker 3: Yeah it did. I mean the bigger issue is like
Speaker 3: it made me question how you handle things when you
Speaker 3: think you're right.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean. I got posted over directions.
Speaker 2: I mean, this is I don't see how you interpreted
Speaker 2: all of that from maybe having a slightly intense tone
Speaker 2: when trying to help us get home faster. I don't
Speaker 2: know if this is worth throwing a great night and
Speaker 2: some great chemistry away over.
Speaker 3: Honestly, it just sounds like, I mean like this is
Speaker 3: like the kind of the same issue, Like Derek. It
Speaker 3: sounds like you think you're right about this and you're
Speaker 3: insisting and instead of taking in what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: So I don't know.
Speaker 1: Okay, let's let's take a pause for one second. You guys,
Speaker 1: we've made the issue known. Maybe Derek could take it
Speaker 1: under advisement, Lila, maybe we could do it. You want
Speaker 1: to try this again?
Speaker 3: No, I'm okay. I think so. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, fair enough, hang on, hang on, yeah, not
Speaker 1: gonna happen anyway. Second date update