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Speaker 1: You're listening to KFI AM six forty on demand.

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Speaker 2: We asked to talk about question. We'll get your answers

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Speaker 2: here in just a few moments. If you could get

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Speaker 2: back with an AX, if they suddenly came into money,

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Speaker 2: would you?

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Speaker 3: Would you? And if you've ever been dumped?

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Speaker 2: Lord knows, I experienced this enough times and had a

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Speaker 2: producer of mine who's found out that his wife was

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Speaker 2: messing around him and then she left him and he

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Speaker 2: was absolutely wrecked. And I just remember he came and

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Speaker 2: stayed with me for a week and he was so devastated,

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Speaker 2: and it was so painful for me to watch too,

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Speaker 2: because I couldn't do anything about it, and he just

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Speaker 2: wanted he just wanted to rewind and just just have

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Speaker 2: her back, just make everything okay.

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Speaker 3: I just wanted to be okay.

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Speaker 2: I just wanted to be okay right as long as

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Speaker 2: as long as she stays with me, and then I

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Speaker 2: can look past the infidelity, you know, this sort of thing.

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Speaker 2: And then like two weeks later, he said to me,

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Speaker 2: he goes, you know what, I don't even know if

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Speaker 2: I want her back right now. And I thought, okay,

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Speaker 2: that's some growth there you go. If she came into

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Speaker 2: a lot of money. Would you wanna would you want

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Speaker 2: to get back if you came into a lot of money,

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Speaker 2: which would you take her back? By the way, fine

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Speaker 2: twist later on in the story, she definitely was interested

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Speaker 2: in rekindling that relationship because the guys that she had

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Speaker 2: left him for were subpar. Fair to say, every week

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Speaker 2: at six o'clock we do it. There's no business like

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Speaker 2: shelf business. We'll start with the Master of the butt Fumble.

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Speaker 2: Yesterday we thought, oh my gosh, Mark Sanchez has been stabbed.

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Speaker 3: Today we get an update on that story.

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Speaker 4: This morning, former NFL quarterback and current Fox Sports analyst

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Speaker 4: Mark Sanchez facing a battery charge after a stabbing incident

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Speaker 4: in downtown Indianapolis.

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Speaker 3: Now just from that, you might think he stabbed somebody.

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Speaker 4: Nope, Investigators with the Indianapolis Police Department say Sanchez was

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Speaker 4: initially hospitalized as the stabbing victim, but then later officers

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Speaker 4: arrested the former quarterback for his alleged role in the incident.

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Speaker 2: Oh so wait, if he got stabbed, is he not

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Speaker 2: the victim?

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Speaker 4: According to police, the incident occurred between out of towners

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Speaker 4: in this alley.

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Speaker 3: I can't see it. It's TV from the way and.

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Speaker 2: Wasn't considered a random act of violence.

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Speaker 4: Investigators say an argument between the two men quickly escalated

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Speaker 4: just after midnight Saturday, leading to Sanchez sustaining injuries consistent

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Speaker 4: with stab wounds. Police say Sanchez, who is still hospitalized,

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Speaker 4: faces misdemeanor charges including battery, unlawful entry of a motor vehicle,

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Speaker 4: and public intoxication, adding all involved parties have been identified

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Speaker 4: and no further suspects are being sought.

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Speaker 2: Man, he went straight into cop talk, there didn't He?

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Speaker 2: No other suspects. All parties involved have been identified.

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Speaker 4: Fox Sports providing an update saying, in part, our thoughts

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Speaker 4: and prayers are with Mark, thoughts that everyone please respect

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Speaker 4: his and his family's privacy during this time.

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Speaker 5: Well that was ABC's Kajati reporting. We've also learned the

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Speaker 5: sixty nine year old man was cut on his cheek

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Speaker 5: and treated and released from the hospital. Sanchez is now

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Speaker 5: in stable condition.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so Sanchez gets picked up right. The other guy

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Speaker 2: is just treated and released. Oh, I got ugly fast.

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Speaker 2: He was supposed to call the game today in Indianapolis.

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Speaker 2: I guess, So what's he doing drunk at midnight? If

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Speaker 2: he has to call the game? In India. I think

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Speaker 2: that was an early game. Hold on, let me check.

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Speaker 2: Are you a sports fan?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: About British sports. I know nothing about American football.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, all right, I'm going to give you a

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Speaker 2: half pass for that, So that's fine.

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Speaker 3: I'll allow that.

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Speaker 2: If you were to tell me no sports, and I

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Speaker 2: was gonna give you, definitely a giant demerit, but.

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Speaker 3: I uh, I'll let it pass. I'll let that go.

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Speaker 3: It's fine. Yeah. Anyway, I think it was the early game.

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Speaker 3: So even if it wasn't the.

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Speaker 2: Early game, what are you doing out at midnight getting

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Speaker 2: all smashed and then picking fights with people? And if

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Speaker 2: he was, didn't say he was entering somebody's vehicle, So

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Speaker 2: did he try to pull somebody out of the vehicle

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Speaker 2: and then beat him up? The heck is wrong with you?

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Speaker 2: I mean at some point? Oh yeah, that was the

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Speaker 2: early game. Yeah, started at ten am our time, so

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Speaker 2: that would have been Indianapolis is central times, so that

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Speaker 2: would have been at noon. And he's out at midnight

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Speaker 2: getting into bar fights and getting stabbed. I don't know

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Speaker 2: about you, guys, but if I'm working the next day,

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Speaker 2: I gotta have eight hours sleep. I gotta get up,

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Speaker 2: and I'm checking to make sure all my prep is

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Speaker 2: up to date, and then I'm getting to the studio early.

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Speaker 2: And for Pete's sake, he's got to get in there

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Speaker 2: and get his makeup and everything else done. And I mean,

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Speaker 2: good Lord, a little fast loose with your second career. There,

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Speaker 2: bub and I think he's done. I think that is

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Speaker 2: going to be it for Mark Sanchez. He is d

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Speaker 2: U n uh NEPO deaf NEPO.

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Speaker 3: Death report. Did you see Ike Turner Junior died yesterday?

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Speaker 2: He was in Los Angeles. Died one day after his birthday,

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Speaker 2: sixty seven years old. I don't think we have a

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Speaker 2: kidney failure. So there you go.

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Speaker 3: Ike.

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Speaker 2: Ike was obviously Ike Turner son, but also Tina Turner son.

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Speaker 2: So Iken Tina Turner son Ike Junior, and Ike Junior

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Speaker 2: has now passed away.

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Speaker 3: He was sixty seven. There you go. If you are talkback,

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Speaker 3: will continue with more.

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Speaker 2: Showed his news here in just a few moments, but

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Speaker 2: our our talkback, and I wanted to get to a

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Speaker 2: few of these because you guys have been great at

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Speaker 2: responding and I love you for it. If you found

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Speaker 2: out that your ex suddenly came into money, inheritance lot

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Speaker 2: amazing job.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: Found their bitcoin wallet from twenty twelve.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: If you found out that they suddenly came into money,

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Speaker 2: would you get back with them now? Would you try

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Speaker 2: to get back with them if they called you?

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Speaker 3: Would you give it another shot? Just kind of curious.

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Speaker 2: And remember every relationship is different too, So maybe money

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Speaker 2: was the reason you broke up in the first place,

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Speaker 2: and if that problem is solved, maybe everything else was

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Speaker 2: done dynamite.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm not your counselor Pete's sake. Would you get back

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Speaker 2: with an X if they suddenly came into money. If

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Speaker 2: you're listening on the iHeart radio app, click that talk

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Speaker 2: back button and let us know some of your feedback.

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Speaker 7: Now, Hey, yeah, I get back with an X.

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Speaker 8: Doesn't mean I have to stay with them very long.

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Speaker 7: Just get what I want and get out.

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Speaker 3: Cala.

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Speaker 2: That sounds like you. Didn't you say that, You'd be like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I get back with an X. That's what I thought.

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Speaker 2: It woul drag me into this. Yeah, that's interesting. God,

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Speaker 2: I'm in that same boat though. I've been dumped so

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Speaker 2: many times, and when you get dumped, it's just like

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Speaker 2: I just wanted to stop. I just want to I

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Speaker 2: wanted to go back to when it was good.

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Speaker 9: Hey, Chris, No, I couldn't go back with my eggs.

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Speaker 3: Simple reasoning. As I met the love of my life.

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Speaker 10: After that, life's been really well went up.

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Speaker 9: I bought one hundred and fifty points, bought a house,

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Speaker 9: good investments, that kids in law enforcement.

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Speaker 2: Everything went great after.

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Speaker 3: I got rid of my ex.

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Speaker 6: So she got rid of me. However you want to

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Speaker 2: Oh, well, she got rid of you. Maybe that was

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Speaker 2: blessing in disguise. Wow, good for you. That's the hardest

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Speaker 2: thing about a breakup for me. Fortunately, I'm married, so

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Speaker 2: I haven't been broken up in twenty three years or something.

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Speaker 2: I'm just trying to think of married twenty one plus

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Speaker 2: dating plus other stuff, right, So I'm just thinking, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I don't think I would want to get back with

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Speaker 3: I don't think so.

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Speaker 2: But when you're dumped, there's nothing you want more than

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Speaker 2: just turn back the clock a little bit, all right.

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Speaker 8: I would never eat out of the trash for money.

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Speaker 8: I would gladly live on my teacher salary before I

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Speaker 8: would ever consider going back with my ex for money.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 2: I love that she called it eating out of the

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Speaker 2: trash with money. I actually would eat out of the

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Speaker 2: trash for money. Just FYI, if anybody has an extra,

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Speaker 2: you know, a lot of money hanging around.

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Speaker 11: I do. Actually, yeah, I will actually pay you to

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Speaker 11: do that.

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Speaker 3: Hey, will you?

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Speaker 2: Will you answer me this time? Seriously? This the first

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Speaker 2: woman there that said that she would get back with

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Speaker 2: an X. Doesn't mean that she has to stay with him?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, is that you network? You are? Because you kind

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Speaker 3: of hinted at that earlier.

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Speaker 11: Why I just said it depends on which X.

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Speaker 3: And did you.

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Speaker 2: Ever break up with somebody? Or was money ever the

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Speaker 2: reason for a breakup?

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Speaker 11: It would have to be layered.

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Speaker 12: But his lack of motivation was definitely a turn off.

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Speaker 12: Being a protector and a provider was definitely like, yeah, no,

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Speaker 12: I can't.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you sound like doctor Wendy.

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Speaker 11: Need it, you need it, you need it?

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right.

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Speaker 11: I thought this was a safe space. I felt little jug.

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Speaker 3: Make sure that you're your authentic self.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, No, I definitely love protectors and providers. I don't.

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Speaker 12: I don't date broke men, you know, not in a

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Speaker 12: gold diggy way, but in a security type of way.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, yeah, yeah, right, No, I get that.

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Speaker 2: If you were with somebody who was financially secure and

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Speaker 2: then the bottom fell out, say that things went badly,

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Speaker 2: would that be the end of the relationship.

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Speaker 12: Well, from what I understand, and you're a man, please

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Speaker 12: answer me this. I feel like when a man doesn't

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Speaker 12: have money or have it together, he doesn't feel like

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Speaker 12: his best self, So it's hard for him to give

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Speaker 12: himself when he's just feeling like less than Yes, so

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Speaker 12: you would still need to like not even provide financially,

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Speaker 12: but provide emotionally and be there from you in a

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Speaker 12: relationship with this.

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Speaker 2: In just a moment, because I love what you're doing here,

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Speaker 2: because I've been through this personally.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I love this.

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Speaker 2: We'll talk in just a few moments. And what wouldn't

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Speaker 2: you do for money? For some people, it means traveling

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Speaker 2: to Saudi Arabia. You're gonna find out why.

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Speaker 1: Next, you're listening to KFI AM sixty on demand.

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Speaker 2: Get more of your thoughts on whether or not you

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Speaker 2: would get back with an X if they suddenly came

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Speaker 2: into money. We had had like the one one moment

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Speaker 2: this is I don't eat food out of the trash

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Speaker 2: for money. I'm not getting back with an X for money.

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Speaker 3: I love that. I love that.

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Speaker 2: And then Kyle's like, you know what depends on which

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Speaker 2: X with the Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Was it the hot one?

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Speaker 3: Oh, boil boy.

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Speaker 11: Much, they're paying me three hundred and seventy five thousand dollars.

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Speaker 2: never go to another Bill Barr show.

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Speaker 1: Again.

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Speaker 2: You know, nobody's saying that, so or Bill Burr, I

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Speaker 2: Nobody's saying, don't don't go see them, don't go see Bill.

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Speaker 3: Get him in here as well.

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Speaker 2: And and then I've got some probing questions about this

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Speaker 1: Next, you're listening to KFI AM six forty on demand.

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Speaker 3: I'm Chris Marrold more stimulating talk.

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Speaker 2: We hope according to some of our talkbacks, it is

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Speaker 2: not Our talk back tonight is would you get back

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Speaker 3: In which X? Okay, right, sounds like love? That sounds

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Speaker 3: Hell to the note.

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Speaker 9: I am not getting back to that shick, no matter

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Speaker 3: That's it I got. Can you imagine being his ex?

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Speaker 2: And I'm just imagining the scenario shaking out here, so

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Speaker 3: I've got money now.

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Speaker 2: You talk about being rejected. Oh, but do you think

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Speaker 2: it's more important for it, Kayla? Because you've got you know,

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Speaker 2: All right, back to the talkbacks, Chris, really, yeah, you

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Speaker 13: She's the adult in the room. Okay, your whole this

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Speaker 3: Insecure? Man? Yeah? Be better, do better? Wow?

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Speaker 12: Well, no, it's in the news, Chris, it's not your insecurities.

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Speaker 12: I think it's going to be a topic. No, because

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Speaker 12: be you man?

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Speaker 13: Be better?

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Speaker 11: No, No, don't listen to that.

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Speaker 3: Guy be Better.

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Speaker 12: Well, he did say, I'm very mature and I'm the

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Speaker 3: You're right, be better?

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Speaker 11: Bet?

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Speaker 3: Why is it that he like?

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Speaker 2: I get that you don't like the question, but why

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Speaker 3: Be better? Be better?

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Speaker 2: It was like, be better?

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Speaker 3: It's like talk that trolling, isn't it?

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Speaker 11: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Why is this a part of your show? Be Better?

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Speaker 3: It's not the thing I would have talked about. Be beat?

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Speaker 3: Are you kidding me? We're coming out of a football game.

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Speaker 2: I got an hour and a half show tonight and

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Speaker 2: we've been crushing it out of the talkbacks. Obviously, people

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Speaker 15: Sure, And I feel like relationships and money are the

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Speaker 15: and purse strings Radio one on one, be better.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, all right, you want to bitch about ice.

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Speaker 3: Raiding some more than is that? KYLEA. Bring up the

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Speaker 3: ice right now.

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Speaker 11: Let's keep those undirects, Cala. No, it's it's fun. It's fun.

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Speaker 12: Sunday we're gonna talk about loving per strings and heart strings.

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Speaker 3: No, be better, be better, Kayla.

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Speaker 11: He needs to be better and be nicer on the talkbacks.

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Speaker 2: I love that he's like, shows your insecurity just to

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Speaker 2: let me help you guys out. I'm a performer who

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Speaker 2: just ball of insecurity. This guy right here.

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Speaker 11: So we love you, Chris.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: No, I appreciate. I'm not fishing for a compliment. I'm

448
00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:15,359
Speaker 2: just telling you when it comes to insecurity, you're not

449
00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:16,240
Speaker 2: breaking any news to me.

450
00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 11: We all got our things.

451
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Speaker 3: Be better, be better, Kilan.

452
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Speaker 2: Right from the talkbacks, did you, by the way, did

453
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Speaker 2: you listen to this one?

454
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Speaker 3: Is it clean? Yes? Okay, good evening.

455
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Speaker 10: I definitely would get back with the next If she

456
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Speaker 10: got into a lot of money, sure, and I would

457
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Speaker 10: slowly drain your account and put it in my private

458
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Speaker 10: account and then turn around and say, Okay.

459
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Speaker 3: I guess we're not working out anymore. Goodbye. How about that?

460
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Speaker 3: Catch me outside? How about that? How about that?

461
00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:50,439
Speaker 11: Okay, I like that.

462
00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:52,840
Speaker 3: We have all these evil plans that are coming about.

463
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Speaker 3: Be better.

464
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Speaker 2: No stop it not good, not good inside, Brigitta. Yo,

465
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Speaker 2: So suppose something happened between you and your beautiful husband.

466
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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'd get back with him for the money.

467
00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:13,160
Speaker 11: We got a kid.

468
00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, there you go.

469
00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:17,520
Speaker 11: And if you drained all the money, he'd be gone.

470
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Speaker 2: It is not easy being a single mom in Los Angeles, right,

471
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Speaker 2: So nobody wants to do that.

472
00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:26,680
Speaker 3: No, yeah, you get back. So this is my wife.

473
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:28,720
Speaker 2: And I went through some some trouble here in the

474
00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:33,679
Speaker 2: last few years because, uh, you know, I lost my

475
00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:35,000
Speaker 2: gig and I was doing fill in work.

476
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Speaker 3: The Sunday Show was one of my filling jobs.

477
00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:40,160
Speaker 2: I was doing some stuff in San Francisco and Dallas,

478
00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:42,560
Speaker 2: and I was very honored to be doing those things,

479
00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:44,000
Speaker 2: which is a nice little ego boost.

480
00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:46,200
Speaker 3: You know, you're you're getting phone calls from Major Marcus.

481
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:47,600
Speaker 2: They don't want to hire you, but they want you

482
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Speaker 2: on their on their station, So you know, kind of

483
00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 2: a mixed bag. But I I was doing. I was

484
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Speaker 2: contributing to the household income. I wasn't making a bunch,

485
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Speaker 2: but I was doing okay. I was making about few

486
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:04,200
Speaker 2: fifty grand a year doing fill in work. Okay, not great.

487
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 2: My wife was definitely the bread winner. My wife still

488
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:12,399
Speaker 2: makes more money than I do. That's because she's very smart.

489
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:17,239
Speaker 2: She started her own company. So that said, there were

490
00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:19,360
Speaker 2: times when this comes to Kyala's point where you want

491
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:21,480
Speaker 2: a provider and what did you say?

492
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Speaker 11: What were the two words protector and provider?

493
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Speaker 2: Protector and provider okay, And I think she felt like

494
00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 2: I was not protecting so and I felt like that

495
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:35,280
Speaker 2: was really unfair because I wasn't spending my time lying

496
00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:39,600
Speaker 2: around to the couch. I was working, in some cases

497
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:42,680
Speaker 2: more doing fill in work than I was during the week.

498
00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:47,239
Speaker 2: But it was all, you know, sporadic. So I get

499
00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 2: a phone call going, hey, can you cover today? Or

500
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:50,320
Speaker 2: I'd get a phone call saying, hey, we got somebody

501
00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:52,200
Speaker 2: that's taking vacation for two days next week, can you

502
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:52,960
Speaker 2: cover that kind of thing.

503
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:56,200
Speaker 3: So the rest of the time, and you know, I'm.

504
00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 2: Stay in contact with my agent and trying to trying

505
00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 2: to land gigs and this kind of thing. And finally

506
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:04,879
Speaker 2: something came along, and it's great. But I spent so

507
00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 2: much time that I wasn't working that I tried to

508
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:12,440
Speaker 2: fulfill the other roles. So she was working, she worked

509
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:14,679
Speaker 2: from home, so it was I was making her lunch,

510
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 2: I had dinner ready at five or five thirty, whenever

511
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 2: she wanted it. The house was cleaned, the laundry was done,

512
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:25,960
Speaker 2: you know, the lawn was mode, all this stuff, and

513
00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:29,480
Speaker 2: I wasn't really getting any credit for that, And I

514
00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:32,960
Speaker 2: think it was really interesting to see, looking back on

515
00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:40,160
Speaker 2: it now, sort of the the gender role expectations being reversed.

516
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:44,520
Speaker 2: So here I was busting my ass around the house

517
00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 2: while trying to pick up these gigs, and I wasn't

518
00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:53,480
Speaker 2: getting any credit. You know, she wasn't recognizing my value

519
00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:56,280
Speaker 2: because she did zero cleaning at that point, she did

520
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:58,719
Speaker 2: zero laundry. She did because I wanted to take care

521
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 2: of it. I wanted to contribute. She was working, she

522
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 2: was bringing in the money, so I felt really unappreciated. Now,

523
00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 2: how many women out there, and I'm just talking generalities

524
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:12,320
Speaker 2: here about how many women out there have felt wildly

525
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 2: underappreciated because they take care of all the household stuf.

526
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:18,440
Speaker 3: Appreciated raising a kid, right, doing all that.

527
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 16: Does more than fifty percent when like all the time,

528
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:23,040
Speaker 16: and I still feel like he's lacking.

529
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:28,159
Speaker 3: Wow, that like do more is honest.

530
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Speaker 16: No, it's because I also feel stressed. So sometimes it

531
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:34,120
Speaker 16: is hard to recognize that he is pulling more than

532
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 16: his weight.

533
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:36,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, and mine.

534
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:39,919
Speaker 2: But your emotion doesn't match the logic, right, No, and

535
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:42,040
Speaker 2: that's that's not fair to either one of you. But

536
00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:44,800
Speaker 2: it's really hard to like, there's something in our minds

537
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:47,199
Speaker 2: from I don't know, our childhood or something that we

538
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 2: have to overcome to start recognizing the other person. So

539
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 2: I felt unappreciated, and then I felt taken advantage of,

540
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:55,639
Speaker 2: and I thought, well, this is really interesting. Then my

541
00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 2: wife because we did we did talk to therapist, which

542
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 2: was incredible helpful. My wife kind of had to have

543
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:03,639
Speaker 2: her eyes open, although I don't know if she I

544
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 2: don't know how much they were open. My wife is

545
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:08,200
Speaker 2: kind of hard to read. Sometimes she'll she's like, yeah, whatever,

546
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:13,120
Speaker 2: she's she's type A. We're both type A. Sometimes things

547
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 2: sometimes things hit that emotional block wall, right that gets

548
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 2: in the way. But I think I think there was

549
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:22,520
Speaker 2: a slight realization that you know, I was doing stuff

550
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:27,240
Speaker 2: and she wasn't recognizing. But like Brigitta just said, she

551
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:29,439
Speaker 2: felt like all of the pressure was on her shoulders

552
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:34,000
Speaker 2: because I wasn't making very much money. So I'm really interested,

553
00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 2: really fascinating. Oh wait a minute, No, I'm not. No,

554
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:40,639
Speaker 2: I'm not. I need to rethink about it. Be better,

555
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 2: do better.

556
00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:43,000
Speaker 3: Sorry, I will try.

557
00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 2: All right, let's talk to doctor Wendy about this very thing,

558
00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 2: because it is nearly fifty percent that would say money

559
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:56,119
Speaker 2: is more important than love. If you had to choose

560
00:27:56,160 --> 00:27:58,880
Speaker 2: between one and the other, which would you pick? Hmm,

561
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 2: it's next.

562
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:01,360
Speaker 3: I know what.

563
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:04,879
Speaker 2: I know what Hollywood would pick. What's the reality of

564
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:06,400
Speaker 2: the situation. That's next.

565
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:10,240
Speaker 1: You're listening to kf I A M six forty on demand.

566
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 2: Kayla, I think what do you think about the Ali's

567
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:17,920
Speaker 2: performance here?

568
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:21,720
Speaker 11: I think Alie. I think Alie was absolutely smashing. He

569
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 11: was Kayla, Kayla, I'm sorry, don't report me to h appropriation.

570
00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 11: Oh wait, that wasn't me. I'm sorry. Kayla's here now.

571
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 6: Yes, even had Kayla with an American accident. She just

572
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 6: talks British to me the whole time.

573
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 12: That's called tattle telling in the States.

574
00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:43,800
Speaker 6: Thank you so much.

575
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:46,080
Speaker 3: Thank you? All right, Yeah, I'm going to give you

576
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 3: what's a passing grade? Kayla?

577
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 11: That's an A? Chris, No, what's.

578
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 3: A passing minus?

579
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 6: Well?

580
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 3: I don't want him getting cocky?

581
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:58,640
Speaker 12: Can we give him a B B minus B plus?

582
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 3: Be all right?

583
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 6: I'll try to do better next time.

584
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 3: Thank you? Yeah, next time better? Thank you?

585
00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:12,080
Speaker 2: Doctor Wendy Waals, Hey, am I lucky or what?

586
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 3: Look?

587
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 2: We just Ali is the new guy here with us?

588
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:17,200
Speaker 2: You know we lost Raoul. I still talk to Raoul.

589
00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 2: I missed the guy like.

590
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 7: Mad, but it's a hard act to follow.

591
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 3: It's pretty different vibe to the show.

592
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 6: Be able to replace him, but I will bring my.

593
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 2: You're not a replacement, No, you're not a replacement.

594
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:33,200
Speaker 7: Not a replacement is you're a new addition.

595
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 3: That's exactly right, It's exactly right.

596
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 7: What do you want to know?

597
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:40,000
Speaker 3: Hang on here, I gotta say.

598
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,720
Speaker 2: My thank you's Kyle, your spectacular brista, thank you, thank

599
00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:46,240
Speaker 2: you for being very bluntly honest in that last segment.

600
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 3: I think that was. I think that was.

601
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Speaker 11: I do love my husband, though nothing could make me

602
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 11: leave him.

603
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, but let's be honest.

604
00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:59,800
Speaker 2: Marriage is hard, right, It's not all it's not all

605
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:00,840
Speaker 2: unshine rainbows.

606
00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 3: It's tough.

607
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,520
Speaker 11: Just sign does not agree it is Oh, no, it is.

608
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:08,360
Speaker 16: No, it's really tough, especially right after you have a child.

609
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:12,040
Speaker 16: We went through some hard Oh those therapists are great,

610
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 16: Chris story.

611
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I listen. Thank you for your honesty. I

612
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 2: appreciate that. And I'm sure that coming out the other end,

613
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,720
Speaker 2: you love your spouse even more as do Why yep.

614
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 3: I think that.

615
00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 2: I think that the battle scars that we make with

616
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:26,680
Speaker 2: each other are kind of the things that we start

617
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 2: to love about one another. Doctor Wendy is with us.

618
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:31,280
Speaker 2: She will probably tell me I'm all wrong. There was

619
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Speaker 2: a survey done doctor Wendy Walsh, who I look forward

620
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 2: to listening to at seven the month survey done that

621
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 2: revealed sixty one percent of people would marry for love

622
00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:43,560
Speaker 2: even if it meant a lifelong financial struggle. However, forty

623
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Speaker 2: six percent would choose money over love if they had

624
00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:47,040
Speaker 2: to decide.

625
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:49,720
Speaker 17: I know about this study, and if you break down

626
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 17: the numbers, you're going to see that younger people are

627
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 17: more likely to talk about money over love because, think

628
00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 17: about it, this is the building stage of their lives.

629
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Speaker 17: They're freaking out they're not making much money. Many of

630
00:30:59,840 --> 00:31:02,000
Speaker 17: them are failing to launch or struggling to launch, their

631
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 17: making eighteen dollars an hour. And you know what they're like,

632
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:07,880
Speaker 17: survival is coming before love.

633
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:11,280
Speaker 2: And aren't the young people the most idealistic wouldn't They

634
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:12,960
Speaker 2: would be the ones that would say, oh, I need

635
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:14,080
Speaker 2: to have that love in my life.

636
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 17: No, it's once we have our stuff, we're like, oh,

637
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 17: so our stuff doesn't make us happy. Interesting, So it's

638
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:24,000
Speaker 17: actually about having an emotionally intimate relationship with somebody that

639
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:26,400
Speaker 17: is so good for us it makes us feel better.

640
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Speaker 2: Has that changed over the last few decades or is

641
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 2: it just that the circumstances have changed, because we know

642
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:33,680
Speaker 2: that people are waiting to get married, they're waiting to

643
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 2: have babies, they're waiting, you know, to expand the family,

644
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 2: and a lot of younger people are emphasizing careers first.

645
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:42,600
Speaker 3: Is that just sort of.

646
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:45,320
Speaker 17: Like, well, no, this has to do with Okay, let's

647
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 17: compare say the year nineteen fifty to the year, you know,

648
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 17: twenty twenty five. So in nineteen fifty, the only way

649
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 17: a woman could survive economically, or one of the rare way,

650
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 17: the most common way is to align herself with a guy,

651
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:00,840
Speaker 17: to appeal to a guy and have him be the

652
00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:05,440
Speaker 17: primary provider. So as women rose not only in education

653
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:09,960
Speaker 17: and careers, they need marriage less. But at the same time,

654
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 17: we've entered the information age where you don't actually need

655
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 17: to have big muscles or strength or bravery to make money.

656
00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 3: Right.

657
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:20,360
Speaker 17: I saw this really cool pilot at the airport the

658
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:24,600
Speaker 17: other day in New York and she looked like a strong, powerful,

659
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 17: gorgeous black woman and I'm like, yeah, you go girl.

660
00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:28,959
Speaker 17: I didn't say that, but I thought it in my head. Yeah,

661
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:34,280
Speaker 17: And anyway, so the point is what's changed is women

662
00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 17: do not need marriage. However, women have this thing called

663
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 17: a fertility window. So the rubber hits the pavement in

664
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 17: their early thirties and then it's like, oh, so I

665
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 17: have to find a guy now who I connect with

666
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Speaker 17: who might be a good father.

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Speaker 2: And they still seem to want the guy to be

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Speaker 2: very financially capable, ye a lot of money.

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Speaker 17: That's one of the things we're going to talk about

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Speaker 17: in my show later today is how there are some

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Speaker 17: very big celebrity c making news where she is so

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Speaker 17: much more wealthy than he is, and how that's changing

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Speaker 17: how men perceive themselves in relationships. But I think it's

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Speaker 17: really incumbent on women to stop holding out and waiting

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Speaker 17: for this prince charming who's going to have more education

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Speaker 17: and more money than her, and instead think about a

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Speaker 17: guy as a best friend and companion and you know,

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Speaker 17: just a guy who can be helpful, maybe a good dad.

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Speaker 7: Try to date a good dad.

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Speaker 2: Which brings us back to last week and what we

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Speaker 2: talked about with Shreking. Where they're looking for, you know,

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Speaker 2: big bald dumb ogres.

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Speaker 3: With bad skin like me.

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Speaker 2: When is my wife going to realize she got herself

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Speaker 2: a real.

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Speaker 17: Cash It's not that they're looking for people who might

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Speaker 17: be perceived as less attractive. It's that they're understanding that

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Speaker 17: there is more to a person than just what's on

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Speaker 17: the outside.

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Speaker 3: This is why women are the superior sex.

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Speaker 7: Oh well that's without saying Yeah.

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Speaker 2: All right, Dr Wendy Waals, Doctor Wendy after Dark starts

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Speaker 2: at the seven o'clock. I'm looking forward to it. Oh,

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Speaker 2: doctor Wendy, we got to talk back for you. This

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Speaker 2: guy had advice, Yeah, be better, do better. Yeah, so

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Speaker 2: we set the bar lows.

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Speaker 7: I do the best I can, the best I can.

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