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Speaker 1: The next segment we're going to do is called second

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Speaker 1: Date Update because that's what we're going to try and

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Speaker 1: get and that's what the bit is called Second Dight

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Speaker 1: Update starts right now on John Jay and Rich one

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Speaker 1: a four.

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Speaker 2: To seven Kiss FM. John Jay Rich let's not have for

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Speaker 2: a second aight update. You meet somebody, gone a date

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Speaker 2: to have a great time, we expect there to be.

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Speaker 3: A second date. It doesn't happen.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna say hi to Halana because she wants to

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Speaker 2: know why somebody's not calling her back? Am I right, Alta, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: well welcome, what's your story?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so I'm calling because I'm just genuinely confused and

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Speaker 4: I'm feeling a little embarrassed. So I met this guy

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Speaker 4: a few months ago and we didn't even live in

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Speaker 4: the same state, but we talked like all the time,

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Speaker 4: texting all day, facetiming at night, like we were like

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Speaker 4: falling asleep on FaceTime type of thing. Yeah, like it

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Speaker 4: felt really real. So then my friend invited me to

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Speaker 4: her wedding and he literally flies in to Phoenix to

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Speaker 4: be my date. Like, we got an airbnb for the weekend.

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Speaker 4: We were doing coffee runs, wedding events, late night talks,

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Speaker 4: like it just honestly felt like we were playing house

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Speaker 4: for a few days and it was really real and

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Speaker 4: we hooked up and everything, but like it wasn't just that,

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Speaker 4: it was just really fun and comfortable and natural, like

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Speaker 4: we were already kind of a couple and had known

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Speaker 4: each other for a really long time. And so he

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Speaker 4: leaves and then everything seems normal, and then suddenly the

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Speaker 4: text stop like radio silence. I don't know. I just

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Speaker 4: don't get how you go from flying across the country

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Speaker 4: and spending a whole weekend together to just like nothing.

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Speaker 4: So I'm just confused, and I want to know what happened.

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Speaker 3: That's pretty hardcore.

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Speaker 5: Wow, Yeah, it's like something definitely happened.

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Speaker 3: He's your visiting.

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Speaker 5: He noticed something, or you introduced him to someone, or

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Speaker 5: you had a weird habit that was an ick for

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Speaker 5: him or something.

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Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I immediately went to like the wedding, Like somebody at

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Speaker 6: the wedding, at your friend's wedding, maybe they were like

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Speaker 6: drunk and like spilled some beans about you that maybe

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Speaker 6: like turned him off a little bit.

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Speaker 3: That happened the JFK K J yeah.

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Speaker 2: So he was playing football and somebody put an envelope

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Speaker 2: in his workout bag, and the envelope was trashing his girlfriend,

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Speaker 2: all the stuff about her.

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Speaker 3: It was terrible.

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Speaker 2: And in reality they broke up for a year and

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Speaker 2: a half, but in the show they split for about

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Speaker 2: a week or two, because you know, for time they.

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Speaker 3: Came, it was a year and a half the past.

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Speaker 3: In real life it was a year and a half

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Speaker 3: and they broke up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then she was like, you read all these

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Speaker 2: things about me, she was, but you don't talk to

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Speaker 2: me about it. None of these things are true. And

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Speaker 2: so he felt bad because people always wrote about him.

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Speaker 2: And then they got back together, they got married, and

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Speaker 2: they died tragically, even playing crash.

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Speaker 5: So are you saying that Alana could be having a

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Speaker 5: break right now and then eventually they'll get married.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I was going off what you were saying about.

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Speaker 2: Maybe somebody said something to her, someone says something to

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Speaker 2: him about her, Yeah, and which is not right. You

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Speaker 2: can't believe what people tell you. But at any rate,

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Speaker 2: Alana him coming in and staying in AIRBB with you,

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Speaker 2: that means that you guys were probably doing a lot

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Speaker 2: of naked things together, right.

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Speaker 4: It's doing a lot of what naked things. I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 4: you could say.

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Speaker 3: That, all right.

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Speaker 2: I mean maybe because I think maybe when you first

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Speaker 2: meet somebody and you tear something up with you tear

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Speaker 2: them up, maybe you kind of like get sick of

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Speaker 3: So maybe there's that how to build the tension.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I don't I mean.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I felt like we really hit it off.

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Speaker 4: We had a lot of fun together. I just don't

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Speaker 4: something missing, And I'm.

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Speaker 8: Just it is got to feel like the carpet got

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Speaker 8: yanked from right underneath the emotion.

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Speaker 3: Right, you were all in?

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Speaker 4: I mean yeah, I was. I mean I guess so, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I really liked him.

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Speaker 3: What's his name, Brandon?

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Speaker 2: All Right, So we will call Brandon and we're gonna

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Speaker 2: find out why he's blowing you off, because now what

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Speaker 2: is it you're texting him, FaceTime him, he's not picking up,

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Speaker 2: he's not responding.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, just kind of yeah, like classic ghost story.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean after a whole weekend together, that's pretty wild. Okay,

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Speaker 2: we'll track him down, we'll ge him on the phone.

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Speaker 9: Hang title, Okay, thank you, all right, Second date.

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Speaker 3: Upbate continues next with John Jay and Rich.

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Speaker 4: In the eternal battle of morning show supremacy.

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Speaker 3: We are one of them. It's John Jay and Rich,

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Speaker 3: John Jay and Rich. Interesting second date update.

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Speaker 2: You got Alana on the line, who's getting blown off

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Speaker 2: by this guy Brandon.

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Speaker 3: They had like a three day date.

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Speaker 8: Yes, this cross country FaceTime love affair that extended into

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Speaker 8: him traveling to Phoenix for a wedding, a wedding where

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Speaker 8: Alana had an airbnb and they played house. And we're

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Speaker 8: talking about playing house all the way. You know what

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Speaker 8: I'm saying. You know what I'm saying. You guys know

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Speaker 8: what I'm saying. Well, now he's playing breakup because he

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Speaker 8: has gone and she he has no idea what happened,

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Speaker 8: as the romantic carpet has been swept from under her feet.

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Speaker 2: So they spend the whole weekend together, They go to

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Speaker 2: a wedding together, he flies across the country to be

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Speaker 3: What happened?

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Speaker 2: I think Kyle nailed it with a little bit of

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Speaker 2: maybe he experienced an ick from her right or some

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Speaker 2: gossip about her at the wedding. I think it's one

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Speaker 2: of those two things. I think you're onto something, Kyle. Unfun,

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Speaker 2: but We're gonna call him right now. Alana, are you

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Speaker 2: ready what I.

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Speaker 3: Was like at Peyton's theory? Okay? I don't mean to

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Speaker 3: lean all on you. Both of you let me. Okay,

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Speaker 3: you know you're doing good.

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Speaker 9: Sorry, Peyton, so sorry.

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Speaker 6: Hello, Hey is Brandon there?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: This is Brandon.

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Speaker 9: Hey.

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Speaker 6: My name's Staytan. I'm with John Jane Rich. We just

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Speaker 6: wanted to talk to on the radio really quickly if

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Speaker 6: you have time this morning.

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Speaker 7: Okay, sure, I guess.

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Speaker 8: So.

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Speaker 2: We do a radio show, syndicated radio show based out

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Speaker 2: of Phoenix, Okay, And we got a phone call from

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Speaker 2: a girl telling us a story about you and how

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Speaker 2: and so we're kind of going around the room trying

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Speaker 2: to figure it out of why you would blow her off.

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Speaker 2: We have a couple of good ideas, but as we're

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Speaker 2: a brainstorm, we thought maybe we could just call him

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Speaker 2: and hear from him why he's blown her off. So

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Speaker 2: I'm sure I don't have to tell you who it is.

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Speaker 2: You must know exactly who you flew in for her.

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Speaker 7: Right Yeah, yeah, of course.

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Speaker 3: I know, okay, talking about so what's the story?

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Speaker 7: All right, so we're talking about Alana, right, yes, yeah,

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Speaker 7: so she was I mean she was great at first,

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Speaker 7: but stay together for the full weekend changed.

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Speaker 3: Like everything in what way?

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Speaker 6: Like was it like did she give.

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Speaker 9: You an eck?

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Speaker 3: Kind of?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Like it was.

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Speaker 7: It was a bunch of stuff. Like, first of all,

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Speaker 7: every time we hooked up, she would fart like loud, stinky,

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Speaker 7: laugh at off type stuff, and that like killed the vibe,

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Speaker 7: you know, Like and then I realized she's kind of

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Speaker 7: I started to feel like it was less like it

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Speaker 7: wasn't cute. It was just kind of like almost like

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Speaker 7: I was babysitting, you know, like the whole weekend. And

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Speaker 7: then on top of that, she got really drunk at

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Speaker 7: was is the love of her life. And meanwhile, like

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Speaker 7: I'm in the corner like trying to move my flight

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Speaker 7: up to leave.

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Speaker 1: It.

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Speaker 3: She didn't do anything like bad, bad.

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Speaker 7: But it was just like you know that weekend just

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Speaker 7: kind of it showed me too much and it was

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Speaker 4: I guess you know, are you kidding me right now?

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Speaker 7: Like no, I'm really gonna.

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Speaker 4: Talk to you, like are you gonna talk who? It's Alana?

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Speaker 4: And I'm just like so upset right now because I

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Speaker 4: literally opened up my life to you. You're gonna talk

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Speaker 4: and like talk to you like I paid for your flight,

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Speaker 4: I paid for your Airbnb. I brought you to my

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Speaker 7: What wait, hold on a second, what's going on here?

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Speaker 3: Is Alana?

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Speaker 7: You're on the phone right now?

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Speaker 3: Are you?

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Speaker 7: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Just figure out?

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Speaker 4: Get what my voice sounded like? Because it's been so

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Speaker 4: long you've I've heard from you.

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Speaker 7: No, I just didn't know you're on the phone.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well I am.

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Speaker 3: So you paid for him, you flew him, you paid

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Speaker 3: to fly him out to the wedding.

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Speaker 7: Yes, but hold on a second, let me just be clear.

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Speaker 7: Like she offered, you offered to pay like you, I mean, honestly,

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Speaker 7: like you kind of begged me to come to this

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Speaker 7: wedding with you like I didn't force my way into this.

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Speaker 7: It's not like this was some like vacation she paid for.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, I don't like we were on the same

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Speaker 4: Well you seemed down like I'm happy to pay for

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Speaker 4: you because I want to see you, and you seemed

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Speaker 4: excited and down like I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Okay, wait, so let let me help, let me help

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Speaker 2: guide this. So it's not about that. So how do

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Speaker 2: you address about the gas? The gas during intimacy? Like

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Speaker 2: were you laughing or is that embarres? And I guess

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Speaker 2: one time you'd be like oops, But if you're doing

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Speaker 2: it all the time, how do you do that?

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Speaker 3: By the way, no, A lot of that's so embarrassing?

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Speaker 3: What so is that something that happened a lot?

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Speaker 4: Like I don't I felt comfortable with him, like I

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Speaker 4: don't know, it just happened, okay.

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Speaker 3: And what about the party?

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Speaker 2: So he said you were like a mess, uh, like

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Speaker 2: with the.

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Speaker 3: Dishes and everything like that. So how does that make

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Speaker 3: you feel?

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Speaker 2: So you're if you want to know why he's blowing

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Speaker 2: you off, these are the reasons he's blowing you off.

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Speaker 3: You break when you break when when you get intimate, and.

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Speaker 4: Then you what okay, we're on vacation. Like, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 4: I don't need to, like I'm not in my regular routine.

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Speaker 4: It's not like I'm like that at my home. We're

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Speaker 4: just like I don't.

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Speaker 3: Know, like I'm but you're not.

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Speaker 4: Kind of got lots of words right now, Like I

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Speaker 4: I liked you. I'm sorry that I'm comfortable and like

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Speaker 4: release gaff like everyone does that, and you laughed and

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Speaker 4: you laughed and we were like having fun and like.

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Speaker 7: Look I like you too, okay, and first like you're

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Speaker 7: you're gorgeous, You're fun, but like it doesn't outweigh disgusting

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Speaker 4: You know, it's not disgusting behavior. I think that's a

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Speaker 4: crazy thing to say. And also like, can you talk

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Speaker 4: to me about this before ghosting me? And like let

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Speaker 4: me know that these were yellow flags before you just

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Speaker 4: brown flag.

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Speaker 3: They're brown flags.

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Speaker 2: But how's you supposed talk to it? Hey, I got

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Speaker 2: to tell you something. We spent a couple days together.

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Speaker 2: It was awesome. But you keep farting when we're doing it.

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Speaker 3: I can't see that.

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Speaker 2: I can I can see keeping that quiet and not

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Speaker 3: I'm not I am not mad.

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Speaker 5: I mean, at the very least what he could have

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Speaker 5: done and said, Hey, I felt like things moved a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I forgot about that. Yeah, that's a good one

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Speaker 3: right there. It was a lot telling people that he's

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Speaker 7: Yeah. I didn't know how to bring stuff up without

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Speaker 7: sounding like I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't think he sounds like in my opinion, I

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Speaker 2: I can't do this.

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Speaker 3: This is a gross I'd rather just not call back

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Speaker 3: at any right. Do you guys want to see each

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Speaker 3: other again or no? Brandon, No, I can't know.

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Speaker 7: I mean, it's just, you know, things move too fast,

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Speaker 7: Like I just I can't. I'm over it now.

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Speaker 2: You live in different towns, so that's an interesting like

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Speaker 2: dilemma to put yourself in just hypothetically, like you gorgeous

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Speaker 2: if the's gorgeous, gorgeos whoever, whatever your type is in

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Speaker 5: Wouldn't you think like at one point you would just

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Speaker 5: like it would just become.

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Speaker 3: White noise, like you.

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Speaker 5: Know it smells, yeah, like, but it would just be

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Speaker 5: like that's just what she does.

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Speaker 2: That's why you put yourself in that situation. Plus you've

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Speaker 3: It just got too comfortable too quick.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, So they don't want to see each other. Allow,

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Speaker 2: there's your there's your story. He doesn't want to see

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Speaker 2: it because of that. That's why I said the thing

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Speaker 2: about you want to know why he's blowing you off.

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Speaker 2: That's why he's blowing you off.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this is super productive and fun. Thank you so much.

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Speaker 3: You're welcome, of course, anytime we can help. It's a bummer,

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Speaker 3: it does.

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Speaker 5: I mean you didn't want to know?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, good luck with your life, Brandon.

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Speaker 3: All right, all right, you guys, thanks for going on

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Speaker 3: there with us. That's second second Hit update with John

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Speaker 3: Jay Rich