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Speaker 2: Irritation and in some cases divorce. Oh you can thank

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Rovers Morning Glory. The choosing is coming

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Speaker 1: the way, Doug, you're gonna.

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Speaker 3: I know you're a fan of Cash Patel.

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Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, big fan. Yes, he's doing a bang up job.

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Speaker 5: He's in the news because he fired some people. I'll

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Speaker 5: tell you who he fired and why.

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Speaker 1: All right, we'll get to that and just a moment, uh,

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Speaker 1: Pops in North Carolina, you're around Rover's Morning Glory. Good

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Speaker 1: morning Pops, Good morning road House.

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Speaker 4: The gang doing today? Hey, what's happening?

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Speaker 6: Hey, listen on that subject of shifts. Using corn starts, man,

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Speaker 6: I retired after forty years in food service, and corn

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Speaker 6: your like gold bonds and all due.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, anyway, yeah, so you.

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Speaker 6: Just apply it. Just get your handful, Just get your

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Speaker 6: and pulapron of bridges up and dump the handful around

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Speaker 6: your your buddies and the rear end.

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Speaker 4: Now, are you okay? You're washing your hands out?

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Speaker 7: Yeah. I don't want.

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Speaker 1: Everybody dipping into the van of corn starch with their balls, now, okay.

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Speaker 6: No, what you do is just what I used to do,

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Speaker 6: is take like a little measuring cup and dip in

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Speaker 6: you know, then go wash your hands. But you know,

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Speaker 6: when you when you're working on behind equipment at waist tied,

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Speaker 6: it's three hundred and fifty plus flames and all it

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Speaker 6: relieve you, But because if you don't.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna have a miserable look at the end of

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 6: No little little teeny white.

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Speaker 4: Ball okay white ball?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but no, let's talk about the corn stars.

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Speaker 4: What does that look like? Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I'm serious. You go home, you strip down,

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Speaker 6: you gop off you underwear, and you got little white

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Speaker 1: All right, pops, Well, thank you for the inside chef.

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Speaker 1: Uh see, great, thank you, And I'm gonna every time

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be thinking about them differently now, Jeffrey Lover

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Speaker 1: Dave seventy two.

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Speaker 4: You're on Rover's Morning Glory, Good morning, thank you Rover.

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Speaker 6: Hey Rover, Snip's mad at you or something. What do

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Speaker 6: you mean, Well, I'm watching ARMGTV and it's just a picture.

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Speaker 6: I mean you can you can almost see the hairs

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Speaker 1: I'm not a pleasant I'm not a pleasant person to

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, it's just ahead. Usually you see your whole

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Speaker 1: Everyone else is good?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, everybody looks normal.

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Speaker 6: Like I said, it's just a big picture of your head.

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Speaker 1: Usually you remember this story, this poor girl. I mean,

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Speaker 4: Now your daughter participates in this stuff? Have you seen?

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Speaker 1: Are Are the cheer moms really as vile as they

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Speaker 5: I so I'm not part of the cheer world. I'm

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, I thought thought Gianna cheerleader too.

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Speaker 3: But you hear some fun, fun stuff from some of.

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Speaker 4: And I would assume dance moms have the SayMore.

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Speaker 2: So that's all the text messages are about her and how.

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Speaker 1: That's what it is because their parents are That's why

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Speaker 4: She doesn't see this. She's the one getting even be

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Speaker 1: She's only on because her mom works for the dance place.

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Speaker 4: Yes, that's what's going on.

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Speaker 3: Yes, that is true.

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Speaker 5: No, I do believe that if you come from a

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Speaker 5: To be there for one another, and you sure you're

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Speaker 1: So you're loving and supportive. Charlie does do she reich

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Speaker 2: I've never seen her do a loving thing ever, and

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Speaker 2: so it was everything she does is based somewhat in evil, Like.

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Speaker 1: They tried to piss somebody off every room them over.

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Speaker 2: Every move she does, even the most innocuous move, there

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Speaker 4: I don't even perceive it. You don't even know what

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Speaker 1: Like you could go back two years ago somebody at

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Speaker 2: But everything she does has this little evil mission behind it,

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Speaker 3: I don't like people so.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because I love those kids like I honestly, I

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Speaker 1: More so once you sort of like figuratively step on

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Speaker 3: No, I'm a nice mom. I would never do that.

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Speaker 3: I would never do that.

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Speaker 4: You've seen other moms do it.

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Speaker 3: I've heard some horror stories. What just just things.

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Speaker 1: I like what.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Just things happen, and she doesn't want the vile people

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Speaker 3: I actually don't have one.

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Speaker 1: If your kid wins, someone else's mom is gossiping about

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Speaker 4: But look, this lady.

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Speaker 2: Do that about other dance teams or whatever. I think

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Speaker 5: No, we actually, you know when people are good, like

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Speaker 2: You know, you never watched like a YouTube video of

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Speaker 3: I've seen bad dance teams.

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Speaker 4: I don't have any of it.

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Speaker 3: Never show you that a video of a bad dance team.

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Speaker 4: No, no, I didn't say an you didn't.

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Speaker 3: Okay, like no, that makes me sound like a dick.

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Speaker 1: And I'm I'm just because there's a dollar figure here

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Speaker 3: No, my daughter liked it dating you think so, that's

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Speaker 1: Lack of friends and where you have to revolve around

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Speaker 1: it's gone relationship. Yeah, you can't drop your kid off

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Speaker 5: We did soccer, we tried volleyball, we tried karate, we

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Speaker 4: She stuck.

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Speaker 1: It was It is interesting, like I am not Gianna's father.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to have the conspiracy theories. But when

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Speaker 4: Yea interested and you're like you were like.

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Speaker 1: Man, Like it's just different from like maybe it's different

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Speaker 4: Whatever, but like.

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Speaker 1: It's just frustrating as you're like no, like they just

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Speaker 4: What you're putting down. Basically little kids.

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Speaker 3: I know some people who shine in that moment. Some people.

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Speaker 5: You're a little kid and you can sit down at

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Speaker 4: And it's surprising because her father was such a great

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Speaker 3: Right, That's what I heard.

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Speaker 1: Now, there's a dollar figure given by one of these

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Speaker 4: It's not cheap. It's not free to go to the

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Speaker 3: You registered, will you do?

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Speaker 6: So?

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Speaker 5: GIA is in seven pieces, so you have to pay

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Speaker 3: You have to pay.

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Speaker 4: How much is each piece?

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Speaker 3: It all depends. I think a solo might.

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Speaker 5: Be one hundred and fifty bucks, so much if she's

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Speaker 5: Like every thing changes per competitions.

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Speaker 1: Do you have to pay to go because you're a parent?

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Speaker 1: You have to pay? The sit in the audience too,

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Speaker 5: So here's the this is why I was a little

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Speaker 4: It's a thousand dollars. One thousand dollars just to get

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Speaker 3: Oh for me for her to go?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's one hundred and fifty bucks per solo.

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Speaker 2: She said, there's seven different competitions.

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Speaker 5: So, well, here's the thing. Think of your kid cheer

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Speaker 5: many hockey parents are out there when they do travel

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Speaker 4: Sure?

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Speaker 2: But okay, so thousand dollars per per weekend and then

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Speaker 2: we're not gone in the hotel a hotel.

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Speaker 1: Even though she's in here, no wonder, she's always saying,

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Speaker 3: I think I paid?

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Speaker 4: And again she only it is twenty five minutes.

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Speaker 5: Away five hundred, but we also were up until midnight

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Speaker 1: Absolutely drive drive twenty five minutes home. It's a normal,

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Speaker 1: It's a convention in a different city that's two or

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Speaker 1: Why wouldn't you just drive home? And it's nicer to

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Speaker 5: Bed because of the if it's a convention, when they're

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Speaker 5: So that's why hotel this weekend, like all of it is.

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Speaker 4: Where is it anyone else? You have the essence? We're

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: But to do what? Buy fendy clothes or a nice

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Speaker 4: I would rather than a hotel. Don't try to turn

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Speaker 3: I would rather spend money, work hard.

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Speaker 4: So what do we think of you taking twenty five

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Speaker 3: These experiences?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, you cannot be. That can't be real,

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Speaker 1: and that it is. I've been at twenty five hundred.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think with any sport that's not.

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Speaker 4: Do you have to pay for the trophy if you win?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: Okay, well I don't know, know they give you wouldn't

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Speaker 3: But also an older level, like that's the as the

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Speaker 5: If you're younger, you're not starting out by doing all

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Speaker 4: No, I'm not saying that currently right now, I'm the guest.

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Speaker 2: Twenty five hundred a weekend, she's doing oh my god,

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Speaker 2: she's doing three in a row too. She did last weekend.

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Speaker 2: You're doing this weekend and then the next weekend. Right, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: So that's definitely tell me that he's far off with

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Speaker 4: It doesn't matter but you still pay it.

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Speaker 1: That's like saying, you know, you buy something for ten

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Speaker 5: I again, with any parent who has a kid doing

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Speaker 4: There's so many, it's so worth it. Twenty five hundred.

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Speaker 5: She's got to manage her time. She's learning all kinds

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Speaker 1: Give us the fit here. If Charlie's wrong, what is

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Speaker 1: a thousands in the door? Let's say seven hundred. Everyone

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Speaker 3: I just told you.

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Speaker 1: I mean, is Friday night Saturday night?

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Speaker 5: Or how am I not paying for the hotel this

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Speaker 3: I'm using the points. So this weekend I don't pay.

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Speaker 3: Other weekends I split it with two moms.

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Speaker 4: Okay, then there's more no no hold.

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Speaker 5: On the third weekend, I'm not staying at a hotel

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Speaker 1: So when you say you split it with two other moms,

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Speaker 5: No it's the family and my family in one room

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Speaker 2: Eating probably pizza parties. Probably pizza pizza parties. Your snackle box.

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Speaker 2: Charlotte is in full beast mode.

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Speaker 9: What did?

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Speaker 3: I made a peanut butter and jelly sandwiches.

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Speaker 4: Actually, that's all you guys.

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Speaker 3: And then I'm.

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Speaker 5: Doing a big luncheon for this weekend for all the

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Speaker 2: Together, they're going to start door dashing too. They're going

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Speaker 2: to immediately start door dashing. It's raising this cost are

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Speaker 5: To go and have these kids train and then see

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Speaker 3: I'm learning the lessons of life through.

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Speaker 4: You have to do that every weekend? Can you do

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Speaker 3: It's just last weekend and this weekend where's the one?

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Speaker 4: This weekend is it local?

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Speaker 5: It's down south, it's like an hour away. And then

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Speaker 3: But she's doing competing two pieces. Next weekend is that's

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Speaker 4: No states regionals? What was it last season?

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Speaker 3: Just a competition?

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Speaker 4: Convention? So what's this weekend? Nationals?

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Speaker 9: No?

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Speaker 1: Okay, what it's okay, I'm no no, I'm just no,

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Speaker 1: no getting you don't like that. I know that you

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Speaker 1: don't like being put on the hot seat for this.

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Speaker 1: But like what these dance is used to call them conventions.

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Speaker 1: I can think of is if I could create a

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Speaker 1: you and I'll pick like, oh, here's my top favorite girls?

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Speaker 4: Like who, like, why would you do that? Why would you?

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Speaker 4: Why would you? Why would you?

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Speaker 1: I get it if there's some national competition or whatever

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Speaker 4: But why the convention thing? That's where I.

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Speaker 3: Don't even know what a convention is.

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Speaker 5: The convention is when they start at seven am and

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Speaker 5: they have all different classes until one pm, and they

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Speaker 5: picked people out for scholarships, they pick people out for

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Speaker 3: That's what makes them strong.

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Speaker 4: I did see you posted ge you got a scholarship?

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Speaker 4: Yes to what?

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Speaker 5: So next year she does not have to pay to

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Speaker 3: So now she got that for free.

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Speaker 2: Oh she gets to go to that olship.

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Speaker 4: How do you get a Yeah you thought like Ohio

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Speaker 2: I thought, or maybe the dance company. Maybe she gets

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Speaker 4: I didn't know.

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Speaker 2: But the scholarship is you just don't have to pay

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Speaker 3: Not made up fee at all. It's they do a

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, it's real cool that you got it for free.

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Speaker 4: That's great.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, okay, Robert, you still think it's a complete

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Speaker 2: waste of time like you'd said before, No, I did not.

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Speaker 4: I think it can't.

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Speaker 3: Is there what he heard say that? My daughter heard

453
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Speaker 3: you say that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if Gianna's listening right now, I'm fully supportive of

455
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Speaker 1: my daughters, I mean of your Did.

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Speaker 4: He make a contribution? After that? I could see Ruver

457
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Speaker 4: feeling dead.

458
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Speaker 3: He did try to.

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Speaker 5: Call me, he did, yeah, and I didn't pick up

460
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Speaker 5: what what Friday?

461
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Speaker 4: Yeah? After he said that he tried to call. Yeah,

462
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Speaker 4: oh you did.

463
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Speaker 3: I was with my real friends.

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Speaker 1: What are you gonna say? Did you leave a voicemail?

465
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Speaker 1: Did he leave a pathetic voicemail? I did not leave

466
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Speaker 1: a voicemail. I don't I might have called Dougie Friday.

467
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Speaker 1: I don't remember what did he say.

468
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Speaker 5: I was in the middle of watching my kids supporting

469
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Speaker 5: my kid compete.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, yeah, I don't even know why.

471
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Speaker 1: I could've been calling about any number of things. What

472
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Speaker 1: was I calling about?

473
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Speaker 5: Saying you're sorry that you acted like a Did I did? I?

474
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Speaker 4: Really? Because?

475
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Speaker 1: Did I send you a text message to that effect?

476
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Speaker 1: Did I send her a text message to the effect?

477
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Speaker 3: Yeah?

478
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Speaker 5: You said I support you, Gianna, I don't support your mom.

479
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Speaker 4: I did say that. That's that was my repeat what

480
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Speaker 4: that was? During the show.

481
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Speaker 5: Show he texted in the break and he left that

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Speaker 5: part out when he came back, and so she starts

483
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Speaker 5: going at him. She starts texting him back, and I'm like, no, no,

484
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Speaker 5: don't text me support you.

485
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Speaker 4: But I don't support your mom.

486
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Speaker 3: And that made her mad. So why don't you support.

487
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Speaker 4: Why did you say that?

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Speaker 2: Rover explained that I just I don't understand that I'm

489
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Speaker 2: making a gel.

490
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Speaker 1: It's okay, like, oh, thanks for the supply. She said

491
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Speaker 1: support first, okay. I was like, yes, all right, yes,

492
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Speaker 1: and I go. I support you, Gianna, but not your cre.

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Speaker 4: He's going to make a contribution, then, do you think?

494
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Speaker 3: No, I don't mean him to contribute.

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Speaker 7: I knew.

496
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Speaker 1: What you gonna need a car wash? How about this,

497
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Speaker 1: that or the other? Yeah, I'm gonna drive an hour.

498
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Speaker 1: Well you don't have to go the car washes. Give

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Speaker 1: us the money. That's basically what she wants.

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Speaker 3: You called me Friday.

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Speaker 4: What time?

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Speaker 5: It doesn't say I just tried to hit it and

503
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Speaker 5: it accidentally called Rover.

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Speaker 1: Oh well that's interesting because yeah, well let's yeah. Look,

505
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Speaker 1: oh oh there's a missed call from Dougie. So there

506
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Speaker 1: you go.

507
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Speaker 5: So it was eleven thirty nine am, right after the show.

508
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Speaker 5: You must have been driving home many.

509
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Speaker 4: He's like, oh my god, I feel so bad.

510
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Speaker 3: Yeah, the guilt.

511
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Speaker 1: I probably saw some sort.

512
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Speaker 5: Of upbeat news story that made you smile and get

513
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Speaker 5: all warm and fuzzy, and you thought of me.

514
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Speaker 1: No, I probably saw something that reminded me of you.

515
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Speaker 1: I road killed farm animals being.

516
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Speaker 4: Wow, wow, all right, I've got to take a break.

517
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Speaker 1: Eight six six Yo, Rover is our number eight six

518
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Speaker 1: six nine six seven six eight three seven. Brett, Hey, guys,

519
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Speaker 1: daughters in dance competition. He says, what are you spending

520
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Speaker 1: on this?

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Speaker 4: Brett Rover.

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Speaker 7: I think Doozy might be downplaying it a little bit

523
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Speaker 7: on you. I have two daughters in competition. We've been

524
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Speaker 7: to Palm Springs, Phoenix, Chicago, Pittsburgh, Columbus, Cleveland. All I

525
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Speaker 7: added one year with travel, hotel, costumes, door dash, all

526
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Speaker 7: that stuff that Charlie was talking about.

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Speaker 4: Fifty k oh.

528
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Speaker 5: My god, dollars, so that we are so our studio

529
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Speaker 5: doesn't travel.

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Speaker 1: You don't have two kids, you only have one, So

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Speaker 1: it's twenty five thousand travel like that.

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Speaker 3: That's crazy.

533
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Speaker 7: That's that's got to be pretty close to what you say.

534
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Speaker 5: No way, oh yeah, she's she's going seventy five.

535
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Speaker 4: Hundred a month.

536
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Speaker 8: This is not well.

537
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Speaker 4: I did the math. I've already done the mask. Math

538
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Speaker 4: is done. You cannot do my mask. You can't can't

539
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Speaker 4: get their money back either.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I don't want the money back. I

541
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Speaker 3: don't know how to say.

542
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Speaker 1: I understand, like an investment in the future or a

543
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Speaker 1: child is.

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Speaker 5: The investment and the lessons that they learn in life

545
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Speaker 5: because of what she does. I wouldn't trade that for

546
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Speaker 5: the world. And the second she says I don't want.

547
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Speaker 7: To do it anymore is definitely right there.

548
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Speaker 4: It's worth it.

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Speaker 7: They do learn about discipline and teamwork, and.

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Speaker 4: They don't learn the value of a dollar though, that's

551
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Speaker 4: for sure.

552
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Speaker 3: Pushing through supporting their taking.

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Speaker 2: If she spent twenty five thousand dollars a year, that's

554
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Speaker 2: only two thousand and eighty three dollars a month.

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Speaker 4: She's easily clearing that.

556
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Speaker 5: Because competitions all the time, competition high school and one

557
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Speaker 5: is competitive dance.

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Speaker 2: So I mean, we didn't even take into consideration how

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Speaker 2: much it costs to go to the dance studio.

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Speaker 4: That's a that's a fee right there. We didn't even

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Speaker 4: get into.

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Speaker 1: We're just talking actually trained, working there for the for

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Speaker 1: the dance studio.

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Speaker 3: Fore you're not competing all the time. That's the thing.

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Speaker 3: We I think we do six six seven competitions.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I've got to take a break. We'll be right

567
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Speaker 1: back on Over's morning Glory.

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Speaker 2: It's such a life because you're I know you're traveling

569
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Speaker 2: somewhere soon.

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Speaker 3: No I'm not. You're out of state you're not goingwhere

571
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Speaker 3: out of state? Nationals where Connecticut?

572
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Speaker 4: Okay, oh my god.

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Speaker 5: I haven't paid to that yet. I'm still saving for

574
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Speaker 5: that one.

575
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Speaker 4: Let me take a break. We'll be right back. Hang on.

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Speaker 2: Still number one, still addicting, and still something.

577
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Speaker 4: You're afraid to admit that you love. Perfect.

578
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Speaker 10: Welcome back to real this Morning Glory.

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Speaker 6: So there's you.

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Speaker 1: We were talking about the amount of money that you

581
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Speaker 1: spend on dance and all that kind of stuff.

582
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Speaker 4: It really adds up.

583
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Speaker 1: I want to ask you a question about that in

584
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Speaker 1: just a minute, Lisa, though you're on Rovery's Morning Glory.

585
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:32,160
Speaker 4: Good morning, Lisa, Good morning.

586
00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:34,440
Speaker 8: Hi is just calling into Hi.

587
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Speaker 11: I was just calling in to say, I know you

588
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:39,520
Speaker 11: guys talk about the expense of sports and whatnot. And

589
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Speaker 11: I've had two boys in hockey since they've been about

590
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Speaker 11: three years old, and as they get older, I'm going

591
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Speaker 11: to say minimum fifteen to twenty thousand years.

592
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Speaker 1: Minimum from to twenty grand each are for total each.

593
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Speaker 4: Oh oh my god.

594
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Speaker 11: Yes, yes, but in the end it's totally pays off

595
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Speaker 11: because they're such good kids. They're not on the streets,

596
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 11: they're not with gangs, they're not on drugs.

597
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:10,720
Speaker 8: They both had straight aged through school.

598
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Speaker 11: My youngest just got a full ride at the University

599
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:15,000
Speaker 11: of their Beings Alaska.

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Speaker 3: Wow, forty one.

601
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Speaker 4: Thousand dollars a year, so it's.

602
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:21,719
Speaker 8: Totally pay off. So usually keep her in, do whatever

603
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 8: you have to do to pay for that.

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00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,679
Speaker 5: That's congratulations with your son, that's fantastic.

605
00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 4: Thank you.

606
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Speaker 1: Have you guys been there, Yeah, like they do have

607
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:32,479
Speaker 1: to pay people to go to school in Alaska. Nobody

608
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:35,200
Speaker 1: wants to move there, go up there right right?

609
00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:35,880
Speaker 4: Yeah?

610
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Speaker 8: They then to Alaska exact. We went to November to

611
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 8: seem he's out there playing right now.

612
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 4: Oh he's already there.

613
00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 8: Yeah, he's already there.

614
00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:44,880
Speaker 4: Oh cool, he's imagine yet.

615
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 1: But being a college kid, Charlie, and do you go

616
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: where are you going to go to school? You have

617
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 1: all these choices, you know, you could go to Miami,

618
00:28:55,640 --> 00:29:00,600
Speaker 1: Florida State, you could go even Ohio's whatever, and you go,

619
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Speaker 1: let's go to Alaska.

620
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 4: No chicks, like the girls are enrolled like.

621
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 1: Two or three, Like I mean, just the pork kid.

622
00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 1: He's gonna be so foreign chool.

623
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Speaker 8: They have an excellent hockey program at the D one school.

624
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 8: And you got offered a full scholarship. So trust me.

625
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 8: He's taking it all right.

626
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Speaker 1: Well, uh, Lisa, congratulations. Maybe Doogie's will pay off that way.

627
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:36,040
Speaker 1: Thank you, Lisa. Nicolina, you're on Rovery's Morning Glory. Good morning, Nicolina.

628
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Speaker 4: Oh my goodness. Hi Hi Hi.

629
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Speaker 8: Yeah, No, I don't I feel bad. I don't want

630
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 8: to put you on the spot or anything. I'm not trying.

631
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 8: I mean, it's not like people don't put you on

632
00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 8: the spot all the time about you being your daughter.

633
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 8: But I just have like how we're just flying by

634
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 8: the part where you.

635
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Speaker 12: Did say my daughter, Well you did, he said, he's

636
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 12: said my daughter, our daughter.

637
00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:08,360
Speaker 1: Of alaighty and slip a slip of the tongue. I

638
00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:12,920
Speaker 1: lost it all. I'm gonna have You'll have to go back.

639
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:14,720
Speaker 1: Somebody's gonna have to prove that to me.

640
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:18,040
Speaker 13: What all right?

641
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:22,720
Speaker 8: And I like JU would just just just admit just

642
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:24,760
Speaker 8: you got pregnant. He went off.

643
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:27,880
Speaker 12: You guys had your little you know, had your little rendezvous.

644
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:30,160
Speaker 12: You guys have said that before even driving in the car.

645
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:33,400
Speaker 12: You must have did while you were together with your wife.

646
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 12: You went off to get married, and then I can

647
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Speaker 12: see it.

648
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Speaker 14: And JUSI you're an amazing mom by the way, You're

649
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Speaker 14: an amazing you.

650
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Speaker 8: By the way, I'm a mom, an amazing mom. So

651
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 8: anybody give you a hard.

652
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 4: Time to buy me? Am I an amazing dad?

653
00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 7: No?

654
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Speaker 12: I well, well, if you've been doing, if you've been

655
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Speaker 12: behind the scenes doing I sure hope it seems like it.

656
00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:58,120
Speaker 1: I'm like the Wizard of Oz father behind that curtain,

657
00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 1: just controlling everything. I'm back there unseen. All right, Nicolina,

658
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:06,840
Speaker 1: thank you, I appreciate it. Timeline doesn't really match up,

659
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 1: though I was not with my wife.

660
00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:09,520
Speaker 4: You had.

661
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Speaker 2: Oh you were single and ready to mingle at that time,

662
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 2: is what you're saying.

663
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Speaker 1: Well, I don't remember what year Gianna was born in,

664
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Speaker 1: but I hadn't met that. Yeah, I remember that point.

665
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Speaker 1: I don't remember what year I met my wife. Oh

666
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:33,640
Speaker 1: my god, I have no it was it was years

667
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 1: after that. Oh do you not know?

668
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:37,880
Speaker 3: Do you really not know when you met your wife?

669
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Speaker 1: I know when I got married, which was twenty eighteen.

670
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Speaker 1: I don't remember what year we met.

671
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Speaker 3: Day I when did you meet your wife?

672
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Speaker 4: Twenty fifth? Think you need seven?

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Speaker 3: What time?

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Speaker 15: It was about six or seven o'clock a night at

675
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Speaker 15: the Cause? Yes, at the Cause. It's a dance club

676
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Speaker 15: that you uh huh am I was two thousand and

677
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 15: eight July. Also in the evening?

678
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 3: What time?

679
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:10,240
Speaker 4: Uh, probably like ten or eleven?

680
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:10,720
Speaker 3: Nice?

681
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 4: Mm hmmm mine mine, let's see mine.

682
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 1: I met something else? Learner what he's doing Saturday July

683
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:28,280
Speaker 1: twenty seventh? Oh yeah, yeah, twenty thirteen? Yeah, never forget Yeah,

684
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 1: I couldn't forget that date.

685
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:30,600
Speaker 4: Nope.

686
00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:38,560
Speaker 1: And probably about uh five pm, I would say, give

687
00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:38,960
Speaker 1: or take?

688
00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:40,240
Speaker 4: Give or take? Wait?

689
00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 1: What day did you July twenty fifty met your wife?

690
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 1: Or is that what you said to next? Or til

691
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 1: twenty sixth? I said twenty fifth?

692
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:46,280
Speaker 4: Sorry?

693
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 15: Oh oh wow, six Well there's there's another twenty five

694
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 15: in our relationships?

695
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 4: What was that our anniversary? Oh? We're gonna married? H dug.

696
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:03,360
Speaker 1: The question I have for you is do you think

697
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:07,640
Speaker 1: that having and I'll ask this of Sninz, this of you.

698
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 1: I'll ask this of Crystal. Maybe I'll ask Crystal first,

699
00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:14,960
Speaker 1: kind of like you have to ask Jeffrey things first.

700
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 1: All right, so you all have children. Did having a

701
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 1: child or children make you happier, keep you about the same,

702
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 1: or make you less happy in your overall life?

703
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 4: Happier? Happier?

704
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 2: Yeah?

705
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:36,640
Speaker 6: Why?

706
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 3: Her energy, her personality.

707
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:45,080
Speaker 14: I just like her being around she actually brings me

708
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 14: joy just being around me. I also think that she

709
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 14: helped me become an adult, more responsible, just less reactive.

710
00:33:58,080 --> 00:34:00,400
Speaker 14: And imagine how reactive I used to be, So she

711
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:02,239
Speaker 14: has definitely helped me grow up.

712
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:07,200
Speaker 1: All right, Dougi, I'll pose the same question to you,

713
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 1: having a child happier about the same or less happy?

714
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:20,440
Speaker 5: Without a doubt, happier, stressed, but happier because giving your

715
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:25,800
Speaker 5: energy to others, or to your work or just to

716
00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:29,960
Speaker 5: life is awesome. But when you have a child that

717
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:34,279
Speaker 5: you can give your love and energy two, that is

718
00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:36,960
Speaker 5: the biggest reward anyone could hope.

719
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:40,480
Speaker 4: For, and watch them grow and learn and build.

720
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:42,439
Speaker 14: When you see them do something for the first time

721
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 14: or succeed, it's something how much joy it brings us

722
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:47,040
Speaker 14: as parents to watch your child succeed.

723
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:52,279
Speaker 1: Snitzer as the other parent, Jeffrey's already left, but is

724
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:55,880
Speaker 1: the other parent on the show? Would you say having children?

725
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:59,279
Speaker 1: You had four? Did that make you happier? Keep you

726
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:03,279
Speaker 1: about the same or less happy? Worst thing I've ever did,

727
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:08,920
Speaker 1: worst choice, No, no, no. The best thing I've ever

728
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 1: I've ever accomplished in my life is my kids. It's

729
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:17,400
Speaker 1: maybe the happiest person changed my life now. According to research, Charlie,

730
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:21,200
Speaker 1: you and I are the only ones that could be

731
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:24,680
Speaker 1: honest here. They're all lying about their state of happiness.

732
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:25,600
Speaker 4: They have to.

733
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:28,520
Speaker 2: The only person would actually be honest about this is Jeffrey,

734
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 2: and he said multiple times that him and his wife

735
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:32,440
Speaker 2: were happier before they had kids.

736
00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:34,239
Speaker 4: They used to if he could go back in time,

737
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 4: he wouldn't have the kids. They used to do things

738
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 4: together and they were great. They were fun than any

739
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:40,799
Speaker 4: time of his kids.

740
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:41,759
Speaker 9: So uh.

741
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:48,080
Speaker 1: According to research, having children does not make you any

742
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:52,680
Speaker 1: happier at all, and in fact, for many people it

743
00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:56,680
Speaker 1: makes them less happy. It brings them less happiness in life.

744
00:35:56,760 --> 00:36:00,479
Speaker 1: And the reason being that they found out if you're rich,

745
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:05,480
Speaker 1: you have children, and you have about the same level

746
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 1: of life satisfaction and happiness when you have children.

747
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:11,320
Speaker 4: If you're rich, we're well off. If you're rich and

748
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:12,600
Speaker 4: you have children.

749
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:17,600
Speaker 1: Your life happiness and satisfaction stays about the same, doesn't

750
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:20,800
Speaker 1: whether that's right, Whether they have children or no children,

751
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:26,919
Speaker 1: stays about the same. If you are not well off

752
00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:31,600
Speaker 1: and you have children, your life happiness and satisfaction actually

753
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:35,279
Speaker 1: goes right in the toilet, and so the poorer you are,

754
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:37,560
Speaker 1: the less happy children make you.

755
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 6: And so.

756
00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:43,239
Speaker 1: When people say they can't, oh, it's the best thing,

757
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:44,240
Speaker 1: they're all lying.

758
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 4: Charlie, this is the answer.

759
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 1: Kind of like when Jeffrey answers in something and he

760
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:52,200
Speaker 1: reacts in a way where he thinks this is the

761
00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:59,600
Speaker 1: appropriate reaction of somebody dies or whatever. He will fake

762
00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 1: that real reaction and it goes away really quick.

763
00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:05,839
Speaker 2: I see it in my friend's eyes. I could tell,

764
00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:10,440
Speaker 2: I know, defeat. The joy, the spark of their own

765
00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 2: life is gone.

766
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 4: Gone.

767
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:16,040
Speaker 2: And they'll tell, you know, They'll say things privately to

768
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:18,319
Speaker 2: me and I'm like, whoa, all right, you know they

769
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,360
Speaker 2: just you're just like wow, okay.

770
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:23,880
Speaker 4: And I think that they still are happy. They like

771
00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:24,319
Speaker 4: their kids.

772
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:26,200
Speaker 2: They're not like mean to their kids or anything. They

773
00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:28,960
Speaker 2: don't just they don't dislike their kids. They enjoying other kids.

774
00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:31,719
Speaker 4: But I don't. Some of them.

775
00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:34,000
Speaker 2: I feel like they're like, I made a big mistake

776
00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:36,279
Speaker 2: and this is this is it. I'm there are some

777
00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:38,360
Speaker 2: friends that I have that love. I mean, they're absolutely

778
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:41,560
Speaker 2: they're pumped that they have kids.

779
00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 4: Some aren't. Well yeah, she is, Snitzer for sure is.

780
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:51,040
Speaker 2: But it's mostly the guys that I think that are

781
00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 2: their happiness changes for the for the worst. And the

782
00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:58,080
Speaker 2: women they get more happy, but the guy's happiness goes

783
00:37:58,400 --> 00:37:59,120
Speaker 2: it's out the window.

784
00:37:59,160 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 4: At that point.

785
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 1: The women have somebody what I think it is with

786
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 1: the women, they they have a husband or boyfriend, and

787
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 1: it's like my wife, she tries to get me to

788
00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:12,719
Speaker 1: you know, she's very organized. She gets very frustrated with me.

789
00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:14,800
Speaker 1: How come you don't do this? And how come you

790
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 1: like She just she cannot understand why I am the

791
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:21,360
Speaker 1: way that I am, which is just incredible laziness to

792
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 1: be honest, selfish, selfish and very selfish. I will admit

793
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:30,239
Speaker 1: that that's right. And so when the women have children,

794
00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:34,320
Speaker 1: they now have a project, Charlie that they go, I

795
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:38,000
Speaker 1: can mold this little one into exactly what I want.

796
00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:40,320
Speaker 1: It's a lost cause with the husband or the boyfriend

797
00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 1: to go. He's not gonna he's never gonna change. I'm

798
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:46,600
Speaker 1: gonna stop wasting time on that. And I think that's

799
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:49,360
Speaker 1: another reason why somebody guys are unhappy, because that is

800
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:52,839
Speaker 1: the women pay zero attention to the husband after they

801
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:57,319
Speaker 1: have children, Like their level of marital satisfaction goes down

802
00:38:57,440 --> 00:39:01,800
Speaker 1: significantly after you have children, especially with the guys to go.

803
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 1: Wait a second. I used to be the center of

804
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:06,320
Speaker 1: attention around here. I used to come home and a

805
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:08,320
Speaker 1: dinner would be on the table or whatever.

806
00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:08,799
Speaker 6: You know.

807
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 1: What this is how I this happens. Nobody, it happens.

808
00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:19,440
Speaker 1: Nobody I live like that. Yeah, nobody in law lives

809
00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:23,360
Speaker 1: like that. It happens people that are selfish. Sorry, Papa, no,

810
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:24,759
Speaker 1: we just you know what it is.

811
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:27,520
Speaker 4: We manifested this. I said, this is what I want,

812
00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:29,600
Speaker 4: and boom it this is what I got.

813
00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:30,799
Speaker 7: So uh.

814
00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:35,000
Speaker 4: But the guys, many guys are unhappy because of that.

815
00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:37,200
Speaker 1: After the women, women, I think they put their focus

816
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 1: on the kids because they realized the men are never

817
00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:41,880
Speaker 1: going to change.

818
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 4: They're never going to give the women the you know,

819
00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 4: women are very needy when it comes to the kids too.

820
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:54,920
Speaker 15: It's not that's very you're so old fashioned these things

821
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 15: you're saying, and some men are. The women put all

822
00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:00,920
Speaker 15: their you know on the kids. The men are talk generally.

823
00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 1: Yes, there's an exception to every rule, Yes there is.

824
00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:08,880
Speaker 1: And in fact, my father in law is as Italian

825
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:12,440
Speaker 1: as he is, an old school as he is. He

826
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:18,839
Speaker 1: from what my understanding, he was extremely involved in right

827
00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:23,200
Speaker 1: the upbringing, had never missed one of these stupid dance competitions,

828
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:26,480
Speaker 1: was always at every single one, would figure out a

829
00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:27,920
Speaker 1: way to get there and all of that.

830
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:29,840
Speaker 4: So it doesn't even grill. I don't understand that.

831
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:36,080
Speaker 1: Does not grow. That's weird. He's getting No, they're doing

832
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:40,879
Speaker 1: it serving him culture in that culture of the girls.

833
00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:47,080
Speaker 4: Everything. Now the grilling's fun, though, Yeah, I don't like that.

834
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 4: I'll pass.

835
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:49,040
Speaker 8: I don't.

836
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:54,400
Speaker 14: Particularly never let me grill ever. If we're going to

837
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 14: use the grill he's doing. If we're making steaks, he goes,

838
00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:57,719
Speaker 14: I'm doing them.

839
00:40:57,640 --> 00:41:00,040
Speaker 4: On the grill. Well, he's manlier than.

840
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:03,680
Speaker 14: I can do everything else though, all the kitchen, all

841
00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:05,280
Speaker 14: the cooking, all you know, the stuff.

842
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:10,360
Speaker 4: Like don't touch the grill. No, you have nothing to

843
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:11,719
Speaker 4: do with the grill. You don't not even work, you

844
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 4: don't not turn it on, don't touch it. Chuck says

845
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:15,920
Speaker 4: being a parent.

846
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:21,719
Speaker 1: Is hell, at least when they're young, sleepless stress and

847
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:26,640
Speaker 1: this endlessly the woman is a nightmare. They're always worried.

848
00:41:27,239 --> 00:41:30,320
Speaker 1: The older they get, the more fun it becomes.

849
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:33,719
Speaker 5: Times I'm saying that it's easy. That's why I said

850
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:37,480
Speaker 5: it's stressful. You're exhausted all the time, and you're emotional

851
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 5: because your hormones.

852
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:41,919
Speaker 3: You just gave birth to a child. It gets a lot.

853
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 5: It's a lot, especially if you have a guy that

854
00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:47,360
Speaker 5: doesn't understand. Sometimes the wife needs a break, Sometimes she

855
00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:48,240
Speaker 5: just needs a second.

856
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:49,880
Speaker 3: Can you just take the kid to breathe?

857
00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 4: It's hard. I can't.

858
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:56,239
Speaker 3: Right now, I can't with this show anymore. I'm just

859
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 3: saying that.

860
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 5: Sometimes it's nice for the guy to say, here, why

861
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:01,400
Speaker 5: don't you run to the store.

862
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:02,799
Speaker 3: Go let me just take the kid.

863
00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:06,800
Speaker 4: Guys, one of my New Year's resolutions, we had to

864
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 4: try to do that more for.

865
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:10,920
Speaker 3: Does your father in law and mother in law?

866
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:13,960
Speaker 5: Did they ever say we want a grandkid like they're

867
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 5: missing out on grandparents?

868
00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:21,240
Speaker 1: They actually, her mother says, don't have kids. They ruined

869
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:24,000
Speaker 1: my life. And that's where my wife gets it from.

870
00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:28,400
Speaker 1: I mean, Brandon, you're on Rovery's Morning Glory, Good morning Brandon.

871
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:30,480
Speaker 4: Hey, how you doing?

872
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 5: Hey?

873
00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:35,279
Speaker 4: What's having him? How much? So love the show?

874
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 13: But you and Charlie, you guys are talking out your

875
00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 13: ass right now. What Smith's love you man, You're a

876
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:47,439
Speaker 13: great father, but having kids is one of the best

877
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:51,440
Speaker 13: things ever. Like all right, seriously. I've been with my

878
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:54,640
Speaker 13: wife for twenty three years. Started dating sophomore year high school.

879
00:42:56,920 --> 00:42:59,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, Charlie didn't seem to like that. Did you hear

880
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 4: that she doesn't even like that or not?

881
00:43:04,239 --> 00:43:04,520
Speaker 9: He just.

882
00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 4: Go on.

883
00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:14,600
Speaker 13: So high school sweethearts, pronking prom queen, went to the

884
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:20,399
Speaker 13: same college, played sports together. And my daughter, my wife,

885
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 13: got pregnant for senior of college. She's fifteen. She does

886
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:26,120
Speaker 13: the whole dance thing, So I know dude's lying about

887
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:28,960
Speaker 13: the dance costs. First of all, Yeah, yeah, it's.

888
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:31,200
Speaker 1: Very It's way more expensive than she's lighting on on

889
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:36,239
Speaker 1: travel all the time, except you don't have to. But

890
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:39,040
Speaker 1: with all the lessons and the competition and all that

891
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:40,279
Speaker 1: crap that heads up.

892
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:43,319
Speaker 3: No crap, it adds up. But I'm not Yeah, twenty

893
00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 3: five fifty.

894
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 1: Year Yeah, definitely definitely, now that you break it down

895
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:51,560
Speaker 1: like this, Yeah.

896
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 4: All right, so you you like having kids was the

897
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:57,319
Speaker 4: best thing you ever did?

898
00:43:57,520 --> 00:43:58,400
Speaker 3: You sound so excited?

899
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:04,279
Speaker 4: You sound miserable, dud, Be honest, I love my kids.

900
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:07,480
Speaker 13: Guess what I will also say this, and this probably

901
00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:10,400
Speaker 13: knows this. Your kids are also a scapegoat to do

902
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:12,719
Speaker 13: your fun stuff. You teach them what you want to do.

903
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:15,759
Speaker 4: And then you go do it. Well, yeah, yeah, I

904
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:17,880
Speaker 4: could just do that without without even to pay for

905
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:21,239
Speaker 4: another person. I could just do less thing.

906
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:23,480
Speaker 2: There's the fun thing here, you have an excuse to do.

907
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:26,360
Speaker 2: I could just go do I could just any time tonight,

908
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:27,600
Speaker 2: I could just go do that. I don't have to

909
00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 2: come up with an excuse me.

910
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 4: But you do it by yourself. No, I don't. Are

911
00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 4: you doing with your friends that don't know what they're doing?

912
00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:35,239
Speaker 8: Like?

913
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 1: Are you friends dwindling, Charlie, like in what they actually do.

914
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:43,360
Speaker 1: I'm not saying like the number of friends that you

915
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:47,799
Speaker 1: have are dwindling. I'm saying their participation in things as

916
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:52,040
Speaker 1: it has it dwindled or tapered off because they have kids,

917
00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 1: so you would be hanging out all the time.

918
00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:56,359
Speaker 4: Or now are they doing less and less as these

919
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:58,520
Speaker 4: kids get older and older? Well, of course, I mean

920
00:44:58,600 --> 00:44:59,359
Speaker 4: some of them, of course.

921
00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:01,160
Speaker 2: But yeah, no, I mean I still have a lot

922
00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:03,279
Speaker 2: of friends that don't have kids and don't plan on

923
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:06,919
Speaker 2: having kids, So they still got a pretty big group

924
00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 2: of friends that can do stuff, and they do things.

925
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:13,760
Speaker 2: But the friends with kids, obviously they can't do everything

926
00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:16,280
Speaker 2: that we're doing, because that's crap.

927
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 9: To do.

928
00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 4: But do they still come around. I've got to take

929
00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:21,560
Speaker 4: a break.

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00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:25,359
Speaker 1: Eight sixty six Yo Rover Jay in New Jersey here

931
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:27,720
Speaker 1: has an idea quickly, Jay, can you throw this idea

932
00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:29,120
Speaker 1: out very very quickly before I.

933
00:45:29,120 --> 00:45:29,640
Speaker 4: Go to break?

934
00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 9: Sure? Yeah, So, jeff we wanted Jeffrey's tax return on

935
00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:40,880
Speaker 9: his whatever card he's got now, right, Emeralds card? Can

936
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 9: we do? Can we do a comparison, maybe month by

937
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:48,279
Speaker 9: month on what Jeffrey spends on his card and what

938
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:50,200
Speaker 9: Dougie spends on dance?

939
00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:50,919
Speaker 5: Oh?

940
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:55,920
Speaker 1: I love that A dance, a dance, tally d and

941
00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:59,960
Speaker 1: every every dollar that is spent on something dance, really,

942
00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:07,800
Speaker 1: whether it's the president, whether it's snags, whether it's costumes, entry, fees, hotels, travel.

943
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:11,480
Speaker 5: I'm the president of Absolute Dance Company, and I have signed.

944
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:14,920
Speaker 5: I want to talk, Slaty says I cannot.

945
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:17,520
Speaker 4: That's how she gets That's how she gets cheaper for

946
00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 4: her because she likes to throw that out there.

947
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:21,960
Speaker 3: Those any kind of information.

948
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Speaker 1: Uh, that would be great. I'd love to do that

949
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Speaker 1: for a month or two and track that. All right,

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Speaker 1: let me take a quick break. We'll be right back.

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Speaker 4: Hang on