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Speaker 1: John Jay and Rich.

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Speaker 2: Hey, we need a contestant to play a game to

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Speaker 2: win tickets to see Zane in Las Vegas Tunited State

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Speaker 2: the Park, MGM gas card and tickets to the show

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Speaker 2: called eight seven seven nine three seven one oh four seven.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna play that right now. We also just announced

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Speaker 2: they just Bruno Mars tickets. We got Bruno Mars so

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Speaker 2: I love the way this unfolds. Two days ago, Bruno

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Speaker 2: posts I just finished my album. Uh today we got

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Speaker 2: tickets to give away to his concert.

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Speaker 1: I don't know the details of the concert. Do we eat, Nick?

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Speaker 1: Do you know?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I've gott pulled up here. The Romantic Tour featuring Bruno

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Speaker 3: Mars uh April fourteenth at State Farms Stadium Anderson Park

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Speaker 3: will be joining.

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Speaker 4: As well as Leon Thomas. So huge, cool, that's wild.

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Speaker 4: That said State that's the State Farm Stadium tours. The

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Speaker 4: stadium tours are so what did that stuff?

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Speaker 1: I remember? It was like a big deal a long

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Speaker 1: time ago. Was it Beyonce?

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Speaker 5: I think she did it for the Lemonade tour? She

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Speaker 5: did a stadium tour?

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Speaker 1: Wow? Was she the first one I.

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Speaker 5: Remember seeing her? I think at the Chargers Stadium in California,

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Speaker 5: and I remember being like, this is absolutely insane. I've

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Speaker 5: never experienced anything like it. So she may have been

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Speaker 5: one of the first I.

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Speaker 1: Went to a football game at a stadium.

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Speaker 5: Remember when they used to do that?

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 2: Eight seven seven nine seven.

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Speaker 6: So this is for yes, just in case someone fact

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Speaker 6: checks us, Elvis Presley played stadium.

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Speaker 1: All right, Adriana, good morning, good morning.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you were playing the Zay game for tickets, he'saying

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Speaker 2: in Las Vegas.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, we switched things up today.

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Speaker 7: Guys.

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Speaker 3: Uh, these are Zane or Insane song lyrics. So some

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Speaker 3: of these some of these lyrics or is from Zain's

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Speaker 3: actual music. Some of them are ones I just made up.

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Speaker 3: And let me tell you, I'm really proud of the

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Speaker 3: ones I made up to. So just get ready, we're

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Speaker 3: gonna start with John Jay Zay or Insane. I found

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Speaker 3: my life between a first kiss and a last goodbye.

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Speaker 1: I think that's Zane.

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Speaker 3: You think that's Zane's amazing, and you know what, You're right,

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Speaker 3: It is.

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Speaker 7: Sane to our right music.

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Speaker 3: I immediately am like, should I just lie and say

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Speaker 3: it was my lyric? Okay? Rich, just hirt, I've been

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Speaker 3: racking my brain calling your name, trying to decide between

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Speaker 3: passion and fame.

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Speaker 8: I kind of feel like that's from pillow Talk. I

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Speaker 8: think that's Zane. Okay, uh, it's insane.

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Speaker 7: You just made it up.

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Speaker 3: That is a lyric. I feel the women swooning.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, as you should have.

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Speaker 1: Someone's been through relationship up and downs.

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Speaker 3: All right, Peyton, it was real to me. Damn waiting

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Speaker 3: to hear from you but only getting spam.

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Speaker 5: That is almost like so obvious that I feel like, hmm,

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna say that's insane. I don't think Zane checks

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Speaker 5: his spam folder.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 3: Okay, and you know what, Peyton, You're right, that is

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Speaker 3: one that I made up. So good job. Rich on

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Speaker 3: the board.

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Speaker 8: Peyton on the board, Oh no, I got mine wrong.

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Speaker 8: I'm definitely not wait yeah no wait sorry John J

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Speaker 8: on the board. Rich is wrong. Kyle, you give and

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Speaker 8: give and I take it for granted. Now you're gone

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Speaker 8: and I'm just not broken. I'm feeling heavy handed.

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Speaker 2: Hm.

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Speaker 6: Well, I could see that lyric being written about GID,

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Speaker 6: so I will say, sane.

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Speaker 3: Okay, and that's incorrect. That's one that I made up,

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Speaker 3: so made up.

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Speaker 1: I just took from an email from your wife.

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Speaker 3: She's like, you play these games with me all the time. Okay,

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Speaker 3: all right, well do you get the game, Adrian?

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Speaker 7: I hope I get it. I'm nervous, rightfully, So okay,

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Speaker 7: this one's yours.

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Speaker 3: It's a thin line. I'm seeing the pain, seeing the pleasure.

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Speaker 3: Nobody but you, body but me, body but us bodies together.

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Speaker 2: I think it's him.

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Speaker 7: I don't know, sure, let's go.

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Speaker 3: Okay, after one round, we've got Payton on the board

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Speaker 3: and we got John Jay on the board and Adrian

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Speaker 3: on the board. Round two kicks off with John Jay

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Speaker 3: like a champagne hurricane. I lost all my senses back

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Speaker 3: to the bar, only to see you left me the expenses.

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Speaker 2: It's I want to say, zaying, but damn it, Nick,

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Speaker 2: I could see you doing that too.

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Speaker 1: You're so good. I'm gonna go Nick. I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: go zaying.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that was, in fact tricky, Nick. John Jay.

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Speaker 2: Head open. He set you up with a record label.

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Speaker 2: It's pretty strong, all right.

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Speaker 3: Rich You thought you had me, didn't you. When you

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Speaker 3: lied to my face. I could see the truth every

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Speaker 3: step of the way. I knew how you fooled me.

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Speaker 3: Boo boo, because you put boo in there. I think

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Speaker 3: it's insane. I'm gonna say insane. Yeah, you're wrong, that

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Speaker 3: is that's it.

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Speaker 7: Makes a better songwriter than way better.

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Speaker 3: All right, big goose egg in this game today, Rich,

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Speaker 3: I'm so sorry, but that's how another day. That's how

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Speaker 3: good you are at this, Peyton. Now we're back in

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Speaker 3: my bed. You said to take it slow, but my

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Speaker 3: heart is pumping fast and I don't know I can

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Speaker 3: let go. Hmmm, Peyton, that was me that. Let me

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Speaker 3: tell you, I am a dad, a master here, Kyle.

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Speaker 3: I love to hold you close tonight and always. I

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Speaker 3: love to wake up next to you.

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna say.

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Speaker 7: That is my bad.

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Speaker 3: That was a text I sent you, Yeah, my dad,

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Speaker 3: it's okay. I gotta delete that one to Joey Bradfish. Okay,

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Speaker 3: uh Adriana, if you can get if you get this,

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Speaker 3: I'm so sorry for this one, uh adri I you

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Speaker 3: can get this, You're gonna win the game. You're gonna

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Speaker 3: go see Zaye in Vegas.

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Speaker 7: My name is Zane.

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Speaker 3: My name is Zaye, and this is my song. If

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Speaker 3: you thought this was real, you would be wrong.

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Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, that's wrong.

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Speaker 3: That's insane.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna shut you up.

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Speaker 2: You got tickets to go see Zaye in Las Vegas,

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Speaker 2: a two nights stay at the park MGM, and one

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Speaker 2: hundred dollars guest car to get you there.

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Speaker 1: Congratulations.

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Speaker 5: Oh I'm gonna cry a little cry.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh my god.

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Speaker 7: I want to tell my best friend Dandy. I'll be

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Speaker 7: like Daddy, were going, all right, I'm so happy.

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Speaker 2: Hold on, you know, I thought of another game during

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Speaker 2: that game or just something to do is to all

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Speaker 2: of us to write lyrics, one lyric, one lyric, and.

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Speaker 1: We have the guess who writes the lyric.

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Speaker 2: Because I was thinking if I was in charge of

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Speaker 2: playing this game and it was either a Zaye lyric

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Speaker 2: or John J.

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Speaker 1: Lyric, John J. Lyric would be like, how are you?

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Speaker 9: I am fine, So I couldn't do it.

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Speaker 2: I couldn't do it, Okay, So now again real quick,

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Speaker 2: that was Zane. Now, Nick, what is the details of

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Speaker 2: the Bruno Mars sing because we're gonna come up with

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Speaker 2: a way to give way Bernda Mark tickets.

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Speaker 3: This morning we literally just found this out because the

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Speaker 3: tours announced this morning. Bruno Mars bringing his Romantic tour

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Speaker 3: to State Farm Stadium in Glendale April fourteenth, and we

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Speaker 3: have tickets today, we have a pair of tickets tomorrow,

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Speaker 3: and we're gonna have tickets all next week as well.

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Speaker 7: That's awesome.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna come up with a way to do that.

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Speaker 2: But coming up next, rich what's the relationship thing? We're

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Speaker 2: what's the relationship thing?

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Speaker 8: Well, they call it the three six nine rule for relationships,

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Speaker 8: and if you started a new relationship, this is sort

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Speaker 8: of your checklist to know if you want to stay

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Speaker 8: in or maybe just get out of the relationship if

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Speaker 8: they don't meet these criteria.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we will inform you and teach you about relationship

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Speaker 2: next John Jay and Rich one four seven Kiss FM,

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Speaker 2: John Jay and Rich Before we get to the relationship thing,

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Speaker 2: because what is it, rich The three six nine.

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Speaker 7: Relationship three six' nine relationship.

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Speaker 2: RULE a couple of. Things, one we've Got brunomar's. Tickets

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Speaker 2: we also Got Renaissance festival tickets about an hour from,

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Speaker 2: now but we Got brunomar's. Tickets we're trying to figure

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Speaker 2: it out in the next half, Hour so you got

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Speaker 2: to keep. Listing in, fact you could probably even participate

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Speaker 2: whatever this is right.

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Speaker 1: Now explain, This richard Bear all.

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Speaker 8: Right so the psychologists, people the relationship people have gotten

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Speaker 8: together and they say you should have a timeline for

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Speaker 8: your relationship and they call it the three six nine timeline.

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Speaker 8: Rules so it's basically a rough timeline to help you

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Speaker 8: see if it's like maybe progressing your relationship or if

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Speaker 7: Out it's not a strict, rule just.

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Speaker 8: Guideline, so like they, say the first three, months that's

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Speaker 8: your honeymoon. Stage this is the new couple. Phase you're

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Speaker 8: getting to know each, other things feel. Easy it's too

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Speaker 8: early to make big. Commitments but you really shouldn't have

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Speaker 8: any big fights within the first three months or that's

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Speaker 8: a red. Flag four to six months that's the conflict.

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Speaker 8: Stage that's when it starts showing, up like you may,

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Speaker 8: fight you may see habits that you didn't notice. Before

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Speaker 8: test how you solve problems, together how you handle. Conflict

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Speaker 8: here tells you a lot about if you're. Compatible four

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Speaker 8: to six, months you should have your first fight and

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Speaker 8: fix it like relatively. Calmly seven to NINETH.

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Speaker 2: I feel like you should do it and then we

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Speaker 2: should discuss. It, okay, yeah go, ahead, Right i'm still

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Speaker 2: on three. Months you should be just great in the

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Speaker 2: first three, Months, OH i, know But i'm Thinking i'm

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Speaker 2: going over my relationship And i'm going, okay, wait first

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Speaker 2: three months WAS i there?

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Speaker 1: WAS i? Not there? WAS i went? There, okay that's.

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Speaker 1: Interesting so now where are you?

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Speaker 8: Now now you're in four to six. Months this is

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Speaker 8: still the first year that you're, dating and you should

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Speaker 8: probably have a, fight but you should probably be able

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Speaker 8: to work it out without it blowing up in your,

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Speaker 8: face okay or else that's a bad news. Thing and

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Speaker 8: then seven to nine months, in now you've seen enough

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Speaker 8: of the good and the. Bad this's the point where

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Speaker 8: is it better.

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Speaker 7: To end the.

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Speaker 8: Things has anybody dipped out in the six to seven

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Speaker 8: MONTH i KNOW i, Have like you kind of get

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Speaker 8: a look at your future and you're, like, EH i don't,

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Speaker 8: KNOW i don't know If i'm.

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Speaker 5: In, YEAH i feel Like i've had plenty of talking

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Speaker 5: stages that go that. Long, yeah it's LIKE i don't

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Speaker 8: Point you can talk for seven to nine. YEARS i

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Speaker 8: You so within the first seven months you should know

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Speaker 8: are they good to keep or DO i need to move?

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Speaker 7: On so follow. That we'll post that up at Jun

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Speaker 2: Too it's funny BECAUSE i think one of the things

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Speaker 7: Good, YEAH i was going to say.

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Speaker 6: THAT i think on there somewhere should be like you

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Speaker 8: THEM i remember a psychologist or a counselor saying the

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Speaker 8: four seasons rule is. Good so in four seasons you

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Speaker 8: should have a, trip in a, fight and like some

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Speaker 8: type of problem solving that you have to do, together

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Speaker 8: and then you know if they're good enough to keep

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Speaker 8: or to. Ditch SO i think that's. Good within a

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Speaker 2: This i've been married and with my wife for a

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Speaker 2: RIGHT i mean it reminds me Of. Peyton you said

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Speaker 5: Years, YEAH i had no, idea AND i swear up

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Speaker 1: Maybe he goes to the.

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Speaker 7: Toilet, well how does that come? Up, HEY i just.

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Speaker 5: TO i don't remember how it got brought. Up he was,

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Speaker 5: LIKE i can't eat. That i'm lactose. INTOLERANT i was,

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Speaker 7: REALLY i don't.

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Speaker 2: Okay So i've been with my wife a long time

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Speaker 2: AND i know certain things like she doesn't like, eggs

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Speaker 2: do you not like? Eggs but we've been together a long.

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Speaker 2: Time but something happened the other day which just blew my.

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Speaker 2: Mind it's kind of completely changed my perception of my

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Speaker 2: those people that post like happy, Birthday you're my rock

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Speaker 2: and they have like a whole post of Stuff you're my?

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Speaker 2: Right so what does that?

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Speaker 2: Rock you're the, Person you're the person in their, Life

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Speaker 2: River if there's issues in your life and your, relationship

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Speaker 1: A given to.

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Speaker 2: Me. Then my wife is my. ROCK i would THINK

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Speaker 2: i am her, rock but, ALAS i am not her.

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Speaker 1: Rock, no who. Is she even told Me i'm not

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Speaker 7: Rock i'm with.

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Speaker 2: her sister got really ill and right before we went on,

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Speaker 2: emergency room crying, Going, brooks you can't.

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Speaker 1: DIE i love, You you're my, Rock you're my. Rock

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Speaker 1: and then later And brooks is, Like i'm not gonna.

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Speaker 2: now she's doing.

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Speaker 1: i just you, Know brooks is my. Rock she's just my.

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Speaker 7: Rock you're my, rock.

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Speaker 5: And then and then and.

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Speaker 1: Then here's what my brain.

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Speaker 2: Man i've been doing a bunch of interviews on, podcasts right,

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Speaker 2: Stuff no one has actually asked me about my, relationship

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Speaker 2: which for the most part is pretty. Successful we've had

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Speaker 2: some ups and downs in our. Relationship there' stuff you gotta,

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Speaker 2: about relationships and.

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Speaker 1: Success how do you have such a strong? Marriage what

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Speaker 2: Then i'm, like here's what it comes downd. To you

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Speaker 2: be there, rock make sure their rock is somebody.

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Speaker 7: Else which she tells you that you're not her, rock you.

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Speaker 2: ASKED i have not had a conversation with her about

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Speaker 2: Rock What i'm, Saying, Yeah Like, Kyle i've heard you

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Speaker 1: Rock he's.

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Speaker 2: Right she made a big post about it on their.

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Speaker 2: Anniversary another you will bothers me when people go another

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Speaker 2: The, center happy? Birthday, well are you trying to say

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Speaker 1: IN i am not my wife's.

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Speaker 7: Rock i'm so.

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Speaker 6: Sorry, OUCH i to make you want to do things

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Speaker 6: differently so that, you like can become the. Rock like

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Speaker 6: are you going to be a little competitive With?

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Speaker 2: Brooks, hey my heart's beating a little bit stronger Than

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Speaker 2: i'll be around the longer consider. Position, Oh i'm. Sorry

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Speaker 2: That, No i'm not going to change anything, because LIKE i,

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Speaker 2: said you should have a successful. Relationship that's the key

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Speaker 2: to not be the other person's.

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Speaker 5: Rock but you said she's your.

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Speaker 2: Rock one of us has to not be the other person's.

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Speaker 2: Rock the key to successful. Relationship somebody in the couple

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Speaker 8: It i'll tell YOU i would ask you about that

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Speaker 8: all day on a podcast that sounds.

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Speaker 2: Amazing you can See i'm working it out right now,

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Speaker 2: Somehow but she has no idea how much my feelings were,

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