1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,759 Speaker 1: More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today 2 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:05,680 Speaker 1: it's Star one on one three. It is Marcus. It 3 00:00:05,760 --> 00:00:08,799 Speaker 1: is Thursday, good morning. It is time for a second 4 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:10,959 Speaker 1: date update. Y'all already know how it works. We've done 5 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: it for what I almost a decade. But so you've 6 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:16,560 Speaker 1: been on a first date, you've been ghosted. We call 7 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:19,120 Speaker 1: your date because you've probably called them a few times, 8 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:21,440 Speaker 1: and then we try to ask them how the date went, 9 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:24,079 Speaker 1: Why did they ghost? Did they ghost at all? Was 10 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:27,480 Speaker 1: it a misunderstanding? Jared is holding hoping for a misunderstanding. 11 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:28,160 Speaker 1: I'm sure, Jared. 12 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 2: Are you there? 13 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, Hey, I want to talk about Cassie. So let's 14 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:35,879 Speaker 1: talk about A how did you meet? And then B 15 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:38,280 Speaker 1: what did you do on your date? Because I understand 16 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:40,200 Speaker 1: she's ghosted and let's try to figure this out. 17 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 3: Yeah. So we met online and that was, you know great. 18 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:49,839 Speaker 3: We just started off texting and then eventually we met 19 00:00:49,880 --> 00:00:52,840 Speaker 3: and I felt like things were going good. And then 20 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 3: you know, we had this like rooftop kind of drinks 21 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 3: day thing that was going on, and I think the 22 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 3: looptop drinks were easy. I mean, we talked about traveling, 23 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:09,560 Speaker 3: we laughed, we talked about bad dating profiles, like like, 24 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 3: I could give you a few examples. 25 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 2: Oh god, please venom me for. 26 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 3: Good vibes, And so she had some too, Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, 27 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 3: there was one that she mentioned. She it was, if 28 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 3: you can't handle me at my gym selfies, you don't 29 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:29,400 Speaker 3: deserve me at brunch. 30 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:30,040 Speaker 2: Wow. 31 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 1: Now, let me ask you she was as engaging in 32 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:36,679 Speaker 1: person as she was like on text or online, because 33 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: I know, sometimes, like you meet somebody in person, all 34 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 1: of a sudden, it just kind of falls flat, like 35 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:42,279 Speaker 1: you feel like you've been texting with AI or something. 36 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:47,039 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, and this wasn't the case. Like we were 37 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 3: just having fun, lapping about the profiles, having great drinks 38 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 3: and I thought that was great, you know. 39 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 2: Okay, and she has ghosted sense yeah yeah, just can't 40 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 2: figure it's Marcus. We're in the middle of second date update. 41 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 1: I've got Jared on the phone, and I feel like 42 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 1: there has been a just a glut of rooftop first 43 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:11,520 Speaker 1: dates only because the weather's been so nice. Jared, it 44 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: doesn't even feel like October right now. I mean, Halloween 45 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 1: is what like a week away. It was eighty degrees 46 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:18,799 Speaker 1: on Monday, you know what I mean? 47 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I. 48 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 1: Like that he's in position ready to go. So you 49 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 1: guys had drinks and everything went cool. She's ghosted. Let's 50 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 1: call her and figure some things out. Go ahead and 51 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 1: go back on mute. 52 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 2: Okay, Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Cassie. 53 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:43,240 Speaker 3: That's me. 54 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 1: My name is Marcus. I do a Hi So I 55 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 1: do a morning radio show here in the Bay and 56 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: oh hey it's Star one on one three. I'm wondering 57 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:55,640 Speaker 1: if you have a second. 58 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:59,360 Speaker 2: To chat on the air. Okay, so we're doing second 59 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 2: date update right now. 60 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 4: No, yes, I know who you're talking about too. So 61 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:09,640 Speaker 4: a baller move on his part for Colin. 62 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 2: I don't know if that's good or bad. 63 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 4: Jared, right, it is. I know it because he loves 64 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 4: your show. Jared there, yes, wow, Okay. 65 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:27,640 Speaker 1: So let's let's seat it out. Let's adult for a second. 66 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 1: I mean, Jessey, you know how it works. 67 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, liked you. He liked you. He did so I 68 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 2: know I too. 69 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 4: But stuff was weird. 70 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 2: Okay, what happened? 71 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 3: Ed? 72 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 2: Did you ghost? 73 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 3: I did? 74 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 4: I mean, I flat out ghosted you. Okay, sorry, I 75 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 4: just can't like you. Literal tet peeves were happening and 76 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 4: I just can't. 77 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 2: What did he do? 78 00:03:56,080 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 4: Okay, you corrected the bartender not once, but twice about 79 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 4: the pronunciation of negroni. And honestly, I think she had 80 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 4: a little bit of a plang to her voice, so 81 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 4: I think she was pronouncing it correctly. But like it 82 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 4: just I don't know. That's like a big pet peeve 83 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 4: of mine. 84 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 2: Well, sidebar, how are you supposed to pronounce negroni negroni? 85 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 3: It's nigronie. She said negronie. Like that's awful, it's disrespectful. 86 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 2: It's the same thing. 87 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 3: Mcgarnet say, mgronie, not nigronie. Negronie e. No. 88 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:38,239 Speaker 4: Wow, yeah, see, okay, but now now you're hearing it. Also, 89 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:43,719 Speaker 4: you have date cards, man, you had date cards, like 90 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 4: date cards, things written down of like just like notes 91 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:49,240 Speaker 4: to himself. 92 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 3: Well, nobody just goes out and doesn't know what they're doing. 93 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:55,280 Speaker 3: I mean, everybody's got to do some sort of study 94 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:57,839 Speaker 3: and before they go out to the real test, you know. 95 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:01,359 Speaker 4: Yeah, but you had no about me, have since we 96 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 4: talked about online. That was just so weird. 97 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 3: I mean it just made me feel like a compliment. 98 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 3: I mean, I put in at the effort to know you. No, 99 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:12,040 Speaker 3: it just. 100 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 4: Felt like a job application. Yeah, Like I just felt 101 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 4: like you were interviewing me to be your future girlfriend. 102 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 3: Isn't that what we were doing? 103 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, but that's kind of and it shouldn't feel like 104 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 4: a job. No, but it shouldn't feel like a job interview. 105 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, some of the questions that you were 106 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 4: asking just felt so like you read a book about dating? 107 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 4: Where do you see yourself in five years? 108 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 1: Like no, come on, okay, so that's like a hard note, 109 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 1: like no second date No. 110 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 3: No. 111 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 1: So that was a second Date update replay, obviously from 112 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 1: about a month ago, and I apologize for that. We 113 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 1: had if I'm pulling the curtain all the way back, 114 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:50,720 Speaker 1: we had huge technical issues yesterday which prevented me from 115 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 1: being able to make phocals 116 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 2: And you know what, Second Date up base got to 117 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 2: go on.