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Speaker 1: Tell me what happened over the weekend, the awkward moment

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Speaker 1: of Thanksgiving weekend?

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Speaker 2: What happened?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I had to come, I had to build someone.

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Speaker 3: So okay, I went home to Dayton for Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 2: Beautiful up there, huh.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and my cousin e J and his girlfriend announced

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Speaker 3: that he proposed. Okay, we all take congrats. We're super

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Speaker 3: excited for him. But it's not the first time he's

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Speaker 3: been engaged. He was engaged to another girl maybe like

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Speaker 3: a year and a half ago, but they called it off.

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Speaker 3: They called it off the two months before the win.

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Speaker 1: That happened. Sometimes you know it is not the right one. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So but now EJ is engaged to his new girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: They tell everybody, Oh, that's great news. Ejay.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so yeah, yes he brings this girl. We're all like, oh,

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Speaker 3: another one, but we don't say anything. Everybody's cool. We're

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Speaker 3: celebrating until like, maybe, I don't know, fifteen minutes later,

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Speaker 3: my aunt asked to see the ring. Yeah, and Ejay's

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Speaker 3: new fiance starts launching this ring around on the dinner table,

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Speaker 3: and my grandma, who's a little scene. I all goes,

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Speaker 3: that's the same ring you proposed to Amelia.

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Speaker 1: List oh no, oh no, right in front of the

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Speaker 1: new girl.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, and Eve tried to change a subject. But

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Speaker 3: then my Grandma's like, let's and fucket that again. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: that's Amelia's old ring.

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Speaker 2: Grandma, please zip its? What are you doing? Did you

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Speaker 2: crawl under the table and hide? What did you do

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Speaker 2: at this point? Mary?

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Speaker 3: I mean I was kind of laughing. Everybody was like

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Speaker 3: covering up their laugh It was so awkward, and it

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Speaker 3: just she really she really biffed it. Uh my grandma,

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Speaker 3: but you know, she's she's getting older and she is

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Speaker 3: not all there.

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Speaker 4: It was just so awkward after that.

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Speaker 3: I don't I really don't know.

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Speaker 1: Here's the question, though, Mary, what do you think is

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Speaker 1: it okay to propose with an old ring that you

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Speaker 1: used a couple of years ago?

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Speaker 2: Is that okay?

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Speaker 3: I feel if? I don't know. I really I'm torn

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Speaker 3: a miss because it's a beautiful ring, right, I don't.

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Speaker 2: Want to go to waste. I don't waste the money.

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Speaker 2: I don't really have a problem with it. I mean,

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Speaker 2: it didn't work out with the other girl. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I guess you should take it back to wedding day.

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Speaker 1: Diamonds and exchange it and get another one.

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Speaker 5: Upset If somebody proposed to you with the ring that

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Speaker 5: they proposed to their last.

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Speaker 2: You wouldn't know till Grandma told. Yeah, if you found

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Speaker 2: out from Grandma.

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Speaker 6: I would be super upset. Yeah, if I found out

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Speaker 6: about it, sure, But if I didn't find out, No,

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Speaker 6: I probably wouldn't care as long as I liked it.

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Speaker 1: If you didn't find it. But if you found out,

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Speaker 1: would you care? I would you would care?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, because I think that that like takes it a

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Speaker 6: lot of like the love that you have.

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Speaker 5: Really, it's not lazy. I wouldn't do it, But I

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Speaker 5: don't think it's lazy because he did go look for

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Speaker 5: the ring, just not for her, he looks he looked

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Speaker 5: for a ring for somebody else.

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Speaker 1: That's got somebody else's like juju all over it, I guess.

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Speaker 1: But you've got what's the other girl's name, Amelia. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's got got Amelia's juju all over it. They were engaged,

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Speaker 1: she wore it, She sweated in that ring. They made

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Speaker 1: love in that with that ring. I don't imagine that

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Speaker 1: they's sweet, sweet loving with that. I don't think Mary

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Speaker 1: does either. So how did it end up? Did they

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Speaker 1: just change the subject, or did grandma go take a

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Speaker 1: nap or what happened?

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Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, I felt like the new girl.

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Speaker 4: I wasn't even sure she pieced it all together.

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Speaker 3: It was awkward. My grandma does say a lot of

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Speaker 3: things that are kind of off off the cuff. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: so I will have to like check back in with

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Speaker 3: my family.

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Speaker 6: I don't.

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Speaker 3: I just I think that the girl was having trouble understanding.

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Speaker 3: I think she knew he'd been engaged before, but I

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Speaker 3: don't think she was.

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Speaker 1: I can't imagine the car ride home, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean, the car ride home between EJ and his

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Speaker 1: new fiance. Yeah, what now you were again? This is

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Speaker 1: your ex fiance's ring.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I can just see her sitting there in the passenger seat,

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Speaker 1: arms folded. Yeah, pissed off, staring out on the other

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Speaker 1: side of the window. Don't talk to me.

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Speaker 5: Well, here's a text message at five three nine two

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Speaker 5: one says no, no, no, no, no, at least reset

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Speaker 5: it or something.

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Speaker 2: Put it in a new setting, exactly him. Mary.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for calling with your story. I appreciate it. Have

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Speaker 1: a good day, all right. I have a question for

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Speaker 1: you guys, and I want to see whether you think

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Speaker 1: this is legit. We were on a road trip. We're

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Speaker 1: going to Colorado for Thanksgiving, and I'm driving and I've

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Speaker 1: set the cruise control and let's say the speed limit

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Speaker 1: was seventy five. So we're on Interstate seventy and we're

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Speaker 1: going seventy five miles an hour and Susan's like, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: you're going too slow. And I'm like, well, the speed

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Speaker 1: limit is seventy five. She said, you set your cruise

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Speaker 1: control nine miles higher than the speed limit. The cops

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Speaker 1: won't pull you over for nine miles over, but they'll

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Speaker 1: pull you over for ten miles over.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, where do you get this? She's like, I

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Speaker 2: saw it online.

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Speaker 1: So if you're driving on a sixty five mile an

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Speaker 1: hour road, my wife's theory is, set your cruise control

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Speaker 1: for seventy four miles an hour and the cops won't

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Speaker 1: pull you over. Has anybody else ever heard of this before?

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Speaker 6: I mean, I feel like it is kind of just

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Speaker 6: like an unsaid rule that people follow quite often. Because

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Speaker 6: you've heard of it, then well, because there are different

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Speaker 6: fines for different speeds you go, so I think once

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Speaker 6: you hit ten and above, it is a higher fine

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Speaker 6: for so you can still get I don't know. I

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Speaker 6: think that you can still definitely get pulled over if

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Speaker 6: you're going nine miles oh the speed limit, but at

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Speaker 6: least it'll be a lesser fine. But I would say,

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Speaker 6: I'm like, I'm Susan side on this one. It is

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Speaker 6: kind of how I go about.

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Speaker 1: Really, do you I maybe do like three miles over

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Speaker 1: the speed limit?

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Speaker 6: Rampa slow.

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna just speeding. I'm not in the fashion.

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Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna call a friend of mine who's

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Speaker 1: a cop and see whether she would pull me over

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Speaker 1: for going let's say, eighty four in a seventy five.

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Speaker 7: Probably depends on if she's busy like eating.

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Speaker 2: Actually solving crimes.

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Speaker 1: Are you actually making a cop donut joke?

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Speaker 8: She did?

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Ginny just made a cop eating a donut joke,

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Speaker 1: Like it's nineteen eighty five all over again. Okay, nobody

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Speaker 1: makes that joke anymore.

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Speaker 7: You said it to her yesterday when you called her.

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Speaker 6: She said she was on the treadmill, and you were like,

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Speaker 6: what are you doing needing donuts on the treadmill?

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Speaker 1: Is this woman will eat anything? You'll eat anything, won't you?

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Speaker 1: Kelly no, no, yeah, hey, officer Kelly, how are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm just you know, if we if you saw me driving,

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Speaker 1: or anybody driving. Let's say that we're going in a

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Speaker 1: seventy five speed limit and they're going eighty four, do

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Speaker 1: you pull them over?

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Speaker 6: Probably not, But it depends on the day.

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Speaker 2: Okay, if I'm working.

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Speaker 8: If I'm working and my thing I'm supposed to focus

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Speaker 8: on is speeding, then.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh you would. Okay, good, yeah, okay, Now what

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Speaker 1: if I'm going twenty over. Let's say the speed limit

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Speaker 1: is fifty five, I'm going seventy five. Do I get

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Speaker 1: pulled over?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Every time?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Well how do I get a warning? How do I

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Speaker 1: do I cry?

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Speaker 2: How do I totally? What I What do I do

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Speaker 2: to get a warning?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 6: Crying? Probably not?

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Speaker 2: No, Okay, if you're.

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Speaker 8: If you're honest, usually if you own it, I'll.

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Speaker 2: Give you a warning.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, but then you're incriminating yourself.

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Speaker 6: I've always said that you're not supposed to be like, yeah,

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Speaker 6: I know I was speeding.

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Speaker 8: Well.

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Speaker 9: To be fair, though, when you get pulled over, we

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Speaker 9: have to tell you why you got pulled over.

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Speaker 7: We can't ask you anyway.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, kidding, that's a change. They used to say,

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Speaker 1: do you know why I pulled jover? And I read

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Speaker 1: somewhere you're not supposed to say, yes, I was speeding,

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Speaker 1: because now you've incriminated yourself. But if you say no,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, then you sound like you're a troublemaker

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Speaker 1: and you're gonna get pepper sprayed. So when so, well, no, okay, tased,

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Speaker 1: You're gonna get tased, so so so. No longer are

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Speaker 1: cops allowed to is it a Minnesota thing? Or is

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Speaker 1: this like a city by city? You're not allowed to say,

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Speaker 2: It's Minnesota.

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Speaker 1: Say it's a Minnesota thing, So you can't say so

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Speaker 1: the cop has to say, I pulled over because you

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Speaker 1: were going thirteen over the speed limit.

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Speaker 2: Right. Are you eating right now, Kelly? No, it sounds

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Speaker 2: like it sounds like that. It sounds like.

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Speaker 5: Radio right because he can't eat.

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Speaker 2: Kelly, You know I can't.

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Speaker 1: I can't eat until like eleven o'clock or like twelve

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Speaker 1: because I got a camera pill swallow later today. I

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Speaker 1: haven't eaten since this time yesterday. It's killing me.

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Speaker 7: That's why you're so crabby. No, has nothing to do

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Speaker 7: with the food.

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Speaker 2: All right, So is a good rule.

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Speaker 1: Let's say we're on Interstate seventy and we're driving to

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Speaker 1: Denver and the speed limit seventy five. If we go

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Speaker 1: eighty four, we're probably going to be okay, I.

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Speaker 6: Mean probably it's speeding in general.

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Speaker 7: You're playing Russian rouletteless wherever you're driving through.

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Speaker 2: Look at the text what's what's the text safe on?

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Speaker 7: It says nine you're fine, ten you're mine.

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Speaker 6: And there's a lot of people that texted.

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Speaker 1: That nine you're fine, ten your mind? Have you heard that?

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Speaker 1: Officer Kelly? Yeah, okay, gotcha.

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Speaker 7: I'm just not going to tell.

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Speaker 2: You what to do.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, no, that's fine.

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Speaker 6: You shouldn't do that, totally sir, and a very sophisticated

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Speaker 6: lady that helps the community. We won't ask you that.

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Speaker 6: But another person said the ten percent rule. So if

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Speaker 6: they're doing sixty five, they'll do six over.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, so ten percent.

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Speaker 1: So if you're if you're if the speed limits fifty

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Speaker 1: ten percent of that five, you can go fifty five

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Speaker 1: or so speed live in seventy five, you can go

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Speaker 1: seven and a half miles over that.

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Speaker 2: Something like That's that's a decent rule.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, like you're not going nine over in a twenty five.

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Speaker 1: Okay, And that's the worst. When you know you were

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Speaker 5: God, and now whatever you are going over you put

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Speaker 2: Like, but this trooper said, I can go fifteen over there? Right? Okay?

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Speaker 2: What's up about Christmas?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I decided that I'm I'm going to quiet quit Christmas.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you're a mean one, missus grinch. I can't believe no,

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Speaker 7: But go on, what if she's the only one doing it?

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Speaker 3: Exactly, I've been.

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Speaker 9: I've done all the work, and it's like everything goes

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Speaker 2: Yes, you are right about that.

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Speaker 7: It's so cute.

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Speaker 9: I do, but I've just had to do it all.

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Speaker 1: What did they say when they said, Okay, we're not

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Speaker 5: Maybe you don't even got to put anything in them,

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Speaker 2: But you can't ruin it for your kids. Your kids

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Speaker 6: That's like normal stuff. I feel like she's quite quitting

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Speaker 6: Well, but like so to do a lot of these

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Speaker 8: It's not even just expensive for like money, though, Jenny,

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Speaker 7: Because I said earlier, it's like she's party.

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Speaker 7: Don't have kids if you can't do it.

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Speaker 8: But like I understand, like like dialing back on what

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Speaker 1: I think sometimes Christmas became it became an orgy of

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Speaker 1: gifts at our house, and we finally said about five

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Speaker 1: years ago, we said we are dialing it back. Because

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Speaker 1: Carson would get he'd get the PlayStation five, and then

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Speaker 1: he would get a pair of beats by Dre whatever

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Speaker 1: the current thing was that he had to get, and

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Speaker 1: Allison would get a brand new coat that was three

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Speaker 1: hundred dollars, and Susan would get like you know what,

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Speaker 1: And we finally said, no, that we just don't need

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Speaker 1: it to be an orgy of presents. So now we're

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Speaker 1: going to have maybe two presents for each of us

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Speaker 1: under the tree.

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Speaker 5: I think that's different for you though, still because five

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Speaker 5: years ago your youngest kid was eighteen, his kids are

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Speaker 5: four and six. You know, yeah, so they I mean,

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Speaker 5: I don't know how much Joy Carson at eighteen years

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Speaker 5: old would get out of building a gingerbread house as

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Speaker 5: much as her four and six year old.

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Speaker 1: That is a good point, So I Sady's like, sign

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Speaker 1: me up. Well, there's a bunch of a bunch of

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Speaker 1: tax messages. At the very least, do elf on the shelf.

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Speaker 1: My kids are seventeen and nineteen and asked this year

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Speaker 1: where Barley is Barley the apparently somebody else via tax

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Speaker 1: says ad school and sports, holiday stuff as well. It's

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Speaker 1: all too much. And then you've got your office Christmas party,

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Speaker 1: and then you've got your whatever that you're volunteering for.

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Speaker 1: So there is a lot, but I think that it's

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Speaker 1: just that's part of the season. It's kind of an overwhelming,

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Speaker 1: exhausting season. But it's good stuff. It's not like you're

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Speaker 1: you know, digging a ditch or something. You're having fun.

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Speaker 1: But do what works for you. We're gonna get Jenny.

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Speaker 1: Jenny's been She's been on Reddit all morning. Yeah, what

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Speaker 1: I can't get you're not paying any attention.

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Speaker 7: Oh, I have a good one though.

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Speaker 2: Jenny's been on Reddit, people.

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Speaker 6: Who canceled their weddings last minute are sharing what happened.

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Speaker 6: Let's year about, let's get let's get messy. This person

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Speaker 6: said they died or so I was told nope, he

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Speaker 6: actually moved to Japan with his LoVa Craig and they

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Speaker 6: are super happy.

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Speaker 2: Now good.

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Speaker 6: So this person said that they didn't find out until

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Speaker 6: a year later. I feel like, I don't know how

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Speaker 6: you don't find out until a year later, but good

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Speaker 6: for you that you did find out. But she says

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Speaker 6: it's a great opening story whenever I start with a

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Speaker 6: new therapist.

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Speaker 7: So there's that.

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Speaker 6: Another one was my ex's family had a lot of money,

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Speaker 6: so they were going to buy the house we wanted

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Speaker 6: in cash, but basically future mother in law started telling

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Speaker 6: her exactly how the house was going to be renovated, decorated,

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Speaker 6: done up. And she also said, well, we're actually probably

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Speaker 6: going to live in it with you for like a

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Speaker 6: year before you guys can fully have it, So that

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Speaker 6: wedding was called off.

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Speaker 1: I want to give you a piece of advice that

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Speaker 1: if you let them in laws or your parents pay

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Speaker 1: for your lifestyle, they will think that they can call

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Speaker 1: the shots for you. I knew somebody who's mom and

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Speaker 1: dad paid for their house most of it anyway, made

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Speaker 1: the big down payment or whatever. Mom and dad dropped

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Speaker 1: in without notice anytime they wanted and stayed as long

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Speaker 1: as they wanted. And I went over there one time

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Speaker 1: and it was like, does she come by whenever? She's like, yep,

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Speaker 1: she comes by whenever she wants. So if you take

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Speaker 1: financial assistance for mom and dad, mom and dad will

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Speaker 1: call the shots in your life.

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Speaker 2: So try not to.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Ill, that's awful. It's not your space anymore.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, all right, Well these are reasons people cancel their

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Speaker 6: weddings last minute. Two months before the wedding, a day

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Speaker 6: after we mailed the invitations, my boss told me he

512
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Speaker 6: needed me to go work in another country for three months.

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Speaker 6: At least you paid for my fiance to go with me.

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Speaker 6: But they ended up not having the wedding because he

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Speaker 6: didn't end up going with her.

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Speaker 2: And they broke up.

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Speaker 7: They broke up.

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Speaker 6: SID said it wasn't exactly last minute, but my ex

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Speaker 6: wanted to postpone our wedding day for someone else's birthday. No, no,

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Speaker 6: oh gosh, I planned our wedding day. Our hour planned

521
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Speaker 6: wedding day came and went, and we just never got

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Speaker 6: the momentum back and we broke up by the end

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Speaker 6: of the year.

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Speaker 5: Basically, well, now I need to know whose birthday it was, like,

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Speaker 5: how close his birthday?

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Speaker 7: She always goes all out. I can't miss it.

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Speaker 6: I mean, you would think that you probably wouldn't plan

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Speaker 6: your birthday or your wedding around someone's birthday. But at

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Speaker 6: the same time, if that's the only time a venue

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Speaker 6: is available, I'm sure your close family member is not

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Speaker 6: going to mind. No, I don't know whatever. My friend

532
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Speaker 6: canceled her wedding when the cops showed up to question

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Speaker 6: her fiance about some crazy allegation. He said, goodbye, goodbye

534
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Speaker 6: to you. Let's see a couple more. My fiance saw

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Speaker 6: me gardening and freaked out. He said he couldn't marry

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Speaker 6: someone who did manual labor.

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Speaker 2: What wow, gardening?

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Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, I thought it was the other thing at first.

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Speaker 7: It's not no actual gardening.

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Speaker 6: What I want I would love I do manual labor,

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Speaker 6: and I want my partner.

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Speaker 7: To a labor so dirty hands.

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Speaker 6: But one other one, my fiance met me for lunch

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Speaker 6: and slid a prenup in front of me two weeks

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Speaker 6: before the wedding.

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Speaker 7: I wouldn't have gotten anything.

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Speaker 6: Meanwhile, I would have had to help him take care

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Speaker 6: of his mother, and there were so many other provisions

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Speaker 6: in it for me. And he took me somewhere to

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Speaker 6: get it notarized and I refused to sign it. He

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Speaker 6: tried to bargain with me, but I was just not

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Speaker 6: having it. Yeah, I really feel like if you're going

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Speaker 6: to do a prenup, which I'm actually all four having

554
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Speaker 6: prenups just to like keep things more civil if anything

555
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Speaker 6: bad does happen. But if you're gonna have a prenup,

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Speaker 6: you can't do that two weeks before a wedding. Yet's

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Speaker 6: too close to the wedding. And so they called it

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Speaker 6: off and that was the end of it. And there

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Speaker 6: you go, reasons people call off their.

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Speaker 1: Wedding and random phone calls this morning, So let's find

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Speaker 1: out what Phoebe has to talk about. Good morning, Phoebe. Hey,

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Speaker 1: what is your issue that we need to put on

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Speaker 1: the radio. What's going on?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I just need you guys to talk my

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Speaker 3: friends out of doing.

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Speaker 2: Something, Okay, what is she doing?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 9: So, basically she wants to like act a fool at

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Speaker 9: our friend's wedding.

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Speaker 4: And I just need you to like get this out.

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Speaker 7: What do you mean like she's gonna get hammered or.

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Speaker 2: White?

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Speaker 7: Oh to a wedding?

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Speaker 6: Big, that's like the only rule you have to follow

575
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Speaker 6: going to a wedding. Get as drunk as you want,

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Speaker 6: but don't wear white.

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Speaker 2: Why does she want to wear white to your friend's wedding?

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Speaker 3: She's being abnorming obnoxious.

579
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Speaker 4: She just literally wants to be obnoxious.

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Speaker 7: Okay, wh.

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Speaker 2: Why though? And why haven't you able to talk her

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Speaker 2: out of it?

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Speaker 8: What?

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Speaker 1: Because everybody knows that you're not supposed to wear white too,

585
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Speaker 1: that's even I'm a dude, and you're not supposed to

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Speaker 1: wear white or red to a wedding.

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Speaker 2: I heard of red, I never heard. Well, I don't

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Speaker 2: understand why white?

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Speaker 7: Well because the yeah, but I mean that's typical for a.

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Speaker 1: Go down vont Avenue on this that is, No, we

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Speaker 1: are not von Avenue, von Avenue. You know what, I

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Speaker 1: don't turn right on. No, we don't have time for

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Speaker 1: vont Avenue today. So what do you have any idea?

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Speaker 2: Do you want? You want us to talk her out

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Speaker 2: of it.

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Speaker 3: We have tried. It is falling on deaf ears.

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Speaker 9: She's going full of lexus from Ship's.

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Speaker 10: Creek like it's okay, it's okay, it's okay.

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Speaker 2: It's a real show. It's a real show.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So we are going to do we have her number,

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Speaker 1: give me a second.

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Speaker 6: She emailed it, Yeah, she emailed it over. So I

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Speaker 6: didn't know if we did want to actually call her not.

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Speaker 6: But I can try calling her if you want.

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Speaker 1: Why you try calling her and then I will give

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Speaker 1: you a second. And while you're trying to call her,

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Speaker 1: let me turn your microphone off, Jenny, I will tell

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Speaker 1: you a couple of update updates. Okay, Number one, I

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Speaker 1: got Wordlin three today. Congrats number two. There's a certain

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Speaker 1: police department that heard us talking about how I got

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Speaker 1: Wordlin three today, and they brought it up in their

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Speaker 1: roll call meeting this morning. And I don't want to

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Speaker 1: shout him out or anything. Wow, but a local police

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Speaker 1: department said, yeah, I heard Dave Ryan Tay's plays wordle

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Speaker 1: every day. Yeah, I got it in three. I got

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Speaker 1: connections with no clues and I got strands with only

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Speaker 1: one clue.

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Speaker 5: Don't wait a minute, Wait a minute, So the police,

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Speaker 5: the police, they said, all right, here's our morning meeting.

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Speaker 5: We got to do this this there's an accident. Oh it,

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Speaker 5: make sure you do word because they've got it in.

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Speaker 5: That's that was the meeting this morning, pretty much.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Wow, And they all trade their words because you know what,

625
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Speaker 1: you guys are not intellectuals.

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Speaker 2: I am. I do wordle with the other smartness. You

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Speaker 2: get what?

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Speaker 6: Oh she didn't answer at first, but I tried her again.

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Speaker 7: She's here, are you serious? We have more on the phone.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Now, if you didn't hear this a minute ago, Morgan,

631
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Speaker 1: we've been talking about you.

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Speaker 3: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Yes, we're on the radio right now.

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Speaker 1: Your friend Phoebe called in and she told us that

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Speaker 1: you're gonna wear white at a friend's wedding, and she

636
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Speaker 1: wants us to talk you out of it. But I

637
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Speaker 1: got to hear why you want to wear white at

638
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Speaker 1: this friend's wedding.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I decided I'm going to.

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Speaker 9: No.

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Speaker 4: The bride slept with my ex.

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Speaker 3: Back in the day.

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Speaker 4: And she doesn't know that I know, but I'm just

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Speaker 4: going to go to the wedding and embarrass.

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Speaker 7: Her a little bit.

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Speaker 5: But it's her day, So how long back in the day,

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Speaker 5: was this, like, why are we still holding a grudge?

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Speaker 4: She was like six years ago. I was dating the

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Speaker 4: guy for like three and a half years, so going and.

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Speaker 1: She knew that you were dating this guy, and she

651
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 1: hooked up with him anyway, And so now she doesn't know.

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Speaker 1: So you're still on the guest list for the wedding.

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Speaker 1: So your plan is to wear white to the wedding.

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Speaker 1: Now I would say just either. I mean, if you're

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Speaker 1: determined to do it, then you go whatever, but just

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Speaker 1: don't go. But I think you're gonna embarrass herself more

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Speaker 1: than you're gonna embarrass her.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I can cause her a little stress on

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Speaker 4: her big days. I mean, I'm not going to wreck

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Speaker 4: her relationship by wearing white. She wrecked my relationship.

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Speaker 6: This was like six years ago. Why are you still

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Speaker 6: holding on to this? You should have confronted her by now.

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Speaker 2: Some people want a confrontational like that.

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Speaker 5: They'd rather just make a statement and showing up to

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Speaker 5: the wedding in white is her statement.

666
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 8: Could come in white with like shades on and like

667
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 8: a bottle and a brown bag. Just sit in the back, yeah,

668
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 8: hammer with their sunglasses on and dress.

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Speaker 1: Phoebe has tried to talk you out of this. Phoebe,

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00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:55,200
Speaker 1: I can't get through to her. What have you tried

671
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Speaker 1: to tell her?

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Speaker 3: Literally, she's being petty and crazy, like if you don't

673
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:01,960
Speaker 3: want to do this, like this is how you want

674
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Speaker 3: to act, and like, don't go.

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Speaker 1: Are you going to be a Phoebe? You're you're going

676
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 1: to be there right? Yes, it's gonna be embarrassing. Do

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00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,360
Speaker 1: you want to embarrass Phoebe? Because Phoebe is probably gonna

678
00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 1: hang out with you and sit with you and be

679
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 1: at your same table.

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00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 10: You're gonna be not if you're gonna be dressed in white.

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00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 1: Oh, you're not going to So you're gonna avoid You're

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00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 1: gonna avoid Morgan at the wedding.

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00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:27,760
Speaker 2: Morgan sitting alone? I mean, what do you say, Morgan?

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Speaker 4: Phoebe is one of the good ones, Like our entire

685
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:33,720
Speaker 4: friend group knew and didn't tell me. So I don't

686
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:37,719
Speaker 4: really care what people think of me, but I need

687
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 4: a good guest otherwise, like I got them a gift

688
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 4: off their registry, I went to the bridal shower everything else.

689
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:46,920
Speaker 4: I just think it's time to make a little statement.

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Speaker 6: But don't you think that it's just going to be

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Speaker 6: embarrassing for you, because I don't really feel like it

692
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 6: embarrasses the bride. I think that it's embarrassing for everyone

693
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 6: to be talking about me in a room and not

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Speaker 6: in a positive way, which is what's going to happen.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's a win, though, isn't it. Though, that's a win.

696
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 1: You take one for the team and everybody's talking about you.

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00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 1: But at the same time, you're a major distraction from

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Speaker 1: this bride's wedding, So that's a win. I'm on I'm

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00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 1: all of a sudden on morgan side.

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Speaker 2: There's a bunch of text messages.

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Speaker 10: You were supposed to help me.

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00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:21,239
Speaker 7: Yeah, maybe I'm not on Morgan's side here at all.

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00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:23,720
Speaker 3: Yeah.

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00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:28,960
Speaker 1: No, because the bride slept with Morgan's boyfriend instead, we're

705
00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 1: red instead, because that's what that means usually.

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00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 6: No, it means that you slept with the groom. Morgan.

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00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 6: Have you slept with this girl getting married her groom?

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00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 3: No?

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00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:42,160
Speaker 7: Okay, well that's not yeah though, because.

710
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:46,200
Speaker 2: What a bunch of text messages.

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00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:50,200
Speaker 5: Text messages say, does she realize that she will not

712
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 5: embarrass the bride and will only make her look like

713
00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 5: an a hole? And then some people say, I agree, Dave,

714
00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:56,720
Speaker 5: she's gonna embarrass herself more than the actual bride, looking

715
00:30:56,760 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 5: like an idiot. And then there are some people team Morgan.

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00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 2: I'm team Morgan.

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00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:03,240
Speaker 8: Someone says if I were Phoebe, I would pour red

718
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:05,760
Speaker 8: wine all of her Morgan's white dress, just saying.

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Speaker 7: Oh, it's gonna be a That is the wedding I

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Speaker 7: want to go to.

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Speaker 1: That is a wedding I want to go to. A

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00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:14,320
Speaker 1: text message up by the way, Morgan Morgan plans on

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Speaker 1: wearing white to her friend's wedding because her friend slept

724
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Speaker 1: with Morgan's boyfriends six years ago and the bride knew

725
00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 1: that they were seeing each other. So Phoebe called us

726
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 1: and said, talk my friend Morgan out of wearing white

727
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:26,640
Speaker 1: to the wedding, and we're not.

728
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 2: Able to do it. So she's determined.

729
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 9: Uh.

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00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:31,720
Speaker 1: This text says, my ex mother in law wore white

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00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 1: to my wedding. It only embarrassed her. I did not

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00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 1: give two f's about her wearing white, but she looked

733
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Speaker 1: like the crazy monster in law that she truly was see.

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Speaker 7: And going down vont Avenue.

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Speaker 5: I just I've been to a lot of weddings, never

736
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:48,800
Speaker 5: ever heard of that rule or understood why it.

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00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:50,480
Speaker 1: Was guys can wear, Guys can wear. You know, no

738
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 1: guy's gonna wear like a white suit to a wedding.

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Speaker 5: He's surprised you might find an old pop up that

740
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:58,440
Speaker 5: pulls a soup like his grandson's baptism.

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Speaker 1: Morgan, Team Morgan. I'm on your side, only for the drama.

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00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 1: I hope that you get wine port on your dress.

743
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 1: Happy wedding, Happy holidays.

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00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:10,000
Speaker 3: Thanks guys.

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00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 2: Yeah buddy, He's like, I'll never calling you guys. I

746
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:13,120
Speaker 2: don't know, I don't know what else to say.

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00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 8: Thanks.

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Speaker 2: Bye,