WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Her Bedtime Selfie  

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<v Speaker 1>It's the second date update Mojo in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Why are you not getting a call back? Second date

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<v Speaker 2>update right now? Gina not getting a call back? How

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<v Speaker 2>did you guys meet Gina?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, we met at work?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you not only went on a date with

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<v Speaker 2>a guy that's not calling you back now, you got

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<v Speaker 2>to see him at work. Yeah, that's always weird, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>that's that's one of the ones why I think that

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<v Speaker 2>inner office romances probably are yeah, frowned upon, because what

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<v Speaker 2>happens if it goes bad?

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<v Speaker 1>So? What was the date? What did you guys do?

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<v Speaker 3>We went to a bar?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, did anything? Did anything romantic happen or anything?

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<v Speaker 4>Like?

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<v Speaker 5>How did it end at my place?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh? Okay? Did he spend the night?

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<v Speaker 6>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>And was this on a weekend and then you went

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<v Speaker 2>to work the next week? Or was this on the

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<v Speaker 2>night before work?

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<v Speaker 1>It was uh?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, it was like the friday, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So then the weekend, so you had the weekend, because

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<v Speaker 2>that would be wonder wondering something wondering and like would

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<v Speaker 2>you guys go to work together at that point, like

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<v Speaker 2>or would you guys have him leave a little earlier

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<v Speaker 2>than you to go home and stuff?

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<v Speaker 1>That would be weird. But so when you came in

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<v Speaker 1>on Monday, what did he do?

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<v Speaker 3>He like kind of like looked up like half waved

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<v Speaker 3>and then like went right back to his.

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<v Speaker 2>Theater and and never has talked it all about that

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<v Speaker 2>date since then.

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<v Speaker 3>No, And he's like always like on the phone or

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<v Speaker 3>like on the computer, like he was always like really

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<v Speaker 3>like busier, occupied or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>So what's the story behind this? Say hello to Paul, Gina?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, hey Jena.

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<v Speaker 1>Paul.

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<v Speaker 2>First off, Paul, you spend you spend the night, and

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<v Speaker 2>you guys obviously had a good time, and you can't

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<v Speaker 2>even look up at her and say hi to her

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<v Speaker 2>or talk to her.

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<v Speaker 4>Or okay, okay, yeah, let's I don't know why we're

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<v Speaker 4>being cool here. I feel like Gina should know why.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not like hitting her back up at this point,

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<v Speaker 4>we were all adults here.

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<v Speaker 1>We had a fun night.

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<v Speaker 4>But like that being said, she's she's acting crazy. She's

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<v Speaker 4>acting crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, why that? Why Why do you think he's

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<v Speaker 1>saying that, Gina? I have literally no idea. Why is it? Paul?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, look, I think we were both pretty drunk, so

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't really know how to handle this in the moment.

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<v Speaker 4>But after we hooked up, I'm pretty sure she was

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<v Speaker 4>like taking selfies of us in bed and what And

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<v Speaker 4>then at some point late okay, wait wait, and then

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<v Speaker 4>late shortly after you're like out, you're getting a call

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<v Speaker 4>from someone middle and I having this like a tense

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<v Speaker 4>argument and like I don't know, I'm connecting thoughts here,

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<v Speaker 4>like how long have you been single?

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<v Speaker 1>What does that have to do with anything?

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<v Speaker 4>Me? Well, I just think checking in on Like I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold up on in a second, go ahead, Gina, what

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<v Speaker 1>are you gonna say?

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<v Speaker 5>First of all, like what are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 3>I am not in a relationship, so like, what is

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<v Speaker 3>what's going on? Why are you?

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? Gina?

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<v Speaker 2>Let me ask a couple of questions though, real quick?

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<v Speaker 2>Though were you taking pictures? Were you guys?

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<v Speaker 3>Yea of myself, so you were doing went to the

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<v Speaker 3>bathroom and I looked cute?

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<v Speaker 2>So you were So you did not take any pictures

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<v Speaker 2>of yourself with Paul. You just took pictures of yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>You took selfies? And why you were doing this after

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<v Speaker 2>you guys had been together? And what were you doing

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<v Speaker 2>with those pictures? Did you send them to somebody or

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<v Speaker 2>did you just hold on to them for yourself.

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<v Speaker 5>I posted them on my ig have you in bed?

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<v Speaker 2>Like it was like stories, uh okay, But Paul was

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<v Speaker 2>not in any of the pictures.

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<v Speaker 5>No, not even like his shoulder, so that it was

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<v Speaker 5>people were aware that you were with somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>Talk about the I mean, look.

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<v Speaker 3>Could people think I was with somebody?

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, but like I was in bed showing that post

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<v Speaker 1>d glow? What about is that what it's called? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, Paul?

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<v Speaker 2>What about Paul saying that you were fighting with somebody?

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<v Speaker 2>Were you fighting with somebody?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, somebody like started dming me and getting weird and

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<v Speaker 3>then called me and like we had to like he

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<v Speaker 3>was just getting crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>So I did talk to him for a second. What

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<v Speaker 1>are they getting weird? They didn't like the pictures you posted.

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<v Speaker 7>They liked them too much, it seems they were like,

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<v Speaker 7>what are you doing? Who are you with?

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<v Speaker 1>Blah blah blah. It's like in your business?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So Paul, all this stuff is going on, she's

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<v Speaker 2>taking the pictures, she's doing this whole thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do you not why do you not? Roll over?

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<v Speaker 2>However, you were in bed and say who's that?

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? Is everything? Okay? Did you say that.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, like I.

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<v Speaker 4>Said, this was just this was just a hook up

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<v Speaker 4>and we were both, like I said, pretty drunk. It

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<v Speaker 4>was we are already hooked up. I didn't really think

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<v Speaker 4>there was anything else to be said or done. It's

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<v Speaker 4>clearly a messy situation. Again, I'm not I'm not coming

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<v Speaker 4>from a place of judgment here, Jeana, but like, I know,

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<v Speaker 4>you got a kid, and I'm assuming again I'm connecting

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<v Speaker 4>docs Like I figure that's probably who's who's angrily, You're

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<v Speaker 4>who you're talking to, And yeah, I don't want to

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<v Speaker 4>feel like a rebound's that's not chill.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not even cool.

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<v Speaker 5>It's not even that to me. It just feels like

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<v Speaker 5>there's a lot of drama.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, messy, Yeah, and that's whatever. That's then I wash

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<v Speaker 4>my hands.

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<v Speaker 2>Like this is I have the My issue is that

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<v Speaker 2>you guys were together and the idea that you guys

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<v Speaker 2>are messing around and then now you got to work together.

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<v Speaker 2>And I necessarily don't blame Gina as much for it

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<v Speaker 2>as Paul, like, just at least come to an understanding

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<v Speaker 2>about what's going on. I know you're kind of taking

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<v Speaker 2>back by what happened that night with her on the phone,

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<v Speaker 2>But Anthony, what do you think?

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, So let me get this straight. They did whatever

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<v Speaker 8>they did or whatever, and she decided to just take

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<v Speaker 8>pictures and all that afterwards somebody who else she's messing

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<v Speaker 8>with her. She's not gonna admit got but hurt and

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<v Speaker 8>do her phone up. So dude got every right to

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<v Speaker 8>be mad, like why is he blowing up her phone?

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<v Speaker 8>And lets y'all in some type of relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Or goddy Anthony, that's where he's thinking about.

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<v Speaker 5>Sure, And it does feel like it's a little antagonistic

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<v Speaker 5>on her part of like baby daddy obviously know Like

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 8>I mean, that's exactly what it is, because I've had

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<v Speaker 8>the same issue with my sons and mother, Like I

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<v Speaker 8>might be out with somebody if somebody see something and

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<v Speaker 8>here come her sister or somebody. Oh girl, guess I've

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<v Speaker 8>seen such us. I mean, I don't have that problem,

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<v Speaker 8>not because I'm in a really with somebody else. And

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<v Speaker 8>is she not gonna say nonhe to plout it what

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<v Speaker 8>it is, just a simple point. You're not going to

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<v Speaker 8>mess up what I got going on.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of people, by the way, also texting similar

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<v Speaker 2>to that saying that Paul is justified.

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<v Speaker 1>She is weird? Jen, comment from you, Hi, Hi.

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<v Speaker 7>She's lying because first she said she was in the

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<v Speaker 7>bathroom taking the pictures, but she was like, I was

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<v Speaker 7>in bed, yes.

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<v Speaker 1>Too?

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<v Speaker 2>Which pictures were you posting, Gina?

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<v Speaker 3>The ones of me in bed?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>Jen?

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<v Speaker 7>And why were you talking about you in the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't mean to say he was in the bathroom,

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<v Speaker 1>but she might have got that stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Jen, what do you think about the fact that she's

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<v Speaker 2>posting while she's in bed, Like, put your damn phone

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<v Speaker 2>down and have fun. You guys just got done fooling around, right.

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<v Speaker 2>It's almost kind of like, hey, let me show off

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<v Speaker 2>a trophy here for a second. But I what do

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<v Speaker 2>you think of Paul about the idea that you guys

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<v Speaker 2>work together? And also how close do you work together?

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<v Speaker 2>Like do you guys see each other every day? Like

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<v Speaker 2>we are all in one room together or you guys work.

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<v Speaker 4>In a different areas yea, it's a big office. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Think the reason why people discourage this type of workplace,

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<v Speaker 4>you know stuff, is for this very reason. I was

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<v Speaker 4>to be clear, this was unexpected, and I think we

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<v Speaker 4>will figure out a path forward.

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<v Speaker 2>I just did you really go into this for a

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<v Speaker 2>long term relationship or were you doing come on, no, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So so it's the unexpectedness of this. You had to

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<v Speaker 2>think though, this is going to get weird after we

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<v Speaker 2>full around, like the idea that she's inviting you back

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<v Speaker 2>to her place. Mess Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say this.

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<v Speaker 2>We've had people in our office as recently is not

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<v Speaker 2>that long ago, where they'll go out with each other,

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<v Speaker 2>they'll hang out, they'll do their thing, and then they

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<v Speaker 2>expect that going to come in the next couple of

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<v Speaker 2>days and everything's going to be good. One person at

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<v Speaker 2>least is going to get weird about it. And if

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<v Speaker 2>one person gets weird about it, then it's weird. Then

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<v Speaker 2>it's a weird situation. Yeah, and it's something that you

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to have to deal with it, Megan, what's

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<v Speaker 2>going on?

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<v Speaker 1>It's Mojo in the morning. Hi, Hi, Mojo.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey, I'm calling in regards to Gina in this whole situation.

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<v Speaker 6>Coming from a woman that has two crazy excess she

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<v Speaker 6>was finally feeling herself, she's trying to move on.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh. Yeah, it's always going to be a.

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<v Speaker 6>Messy situation when there's kids involved.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't think that, you know, she is.

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<v Speaker 6>A bad person.

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<v Speaker 1>She was just.

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<v Speaker 6>Feeling herself and finally, you know, got to break free

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<v Speaker 6>and have some fun.

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<v Speaker 5>I think there was a lot more calculation behind that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but she she was trying maybe to put a

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<v Speaker 2>little seat out there to the baby daddy, what's up Sierra,

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<v Speaker 2>what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Last call?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it's like, you know, she probably did that on

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<v Speaker 7>purpose because whatever her her baby daddy might be going through,

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<v Speaker 7>they might be fresh off their breakup. She probably was

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<v Speaker 7>just trying to make him jealous, like, oh, let me post,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, being be in the bed so he can

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<v Speaker 7>assume that I'm with somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I even said start calling.

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<v Speaker 5>Was his shoulder, like any part of him, so that

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<v Speaker 5>the baby daddy could look and be like hmm.

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<v Speaker 7>But even if it was like, you know, it's not

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<v Speaker 7>her bed, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know a Friday, well it was a Friday night.

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<v Speaker 2>Bed pick is not something that you just post because

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<v Speaker 2>you're watching movies in your bed a Friday night, you know.

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<v Speaker 7>So it was right she did say it was her bed,

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<v Speaker 7>but you know he's not there, Like, okay, why are

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<v Speaker 7>you posting pictures in the bed.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, somebody must be over there, That's why he said

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<v Speaker 1>who you with?

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<v Speaker 7>Who was over there with you?

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly she she was.

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<v Speaker 7>It was well calculated on her part.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks Sierra, appreciate it. The roses to tell your mom

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<v Speaker 1>Boujour in the morning.