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Speaker 1: More variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today

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Speaker 1: it's Star one on one three, It's Marcus and we're

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Speaker 1: back with second date update. We've got Ben on the phone.

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Speaker 1: Ben say hi, Hello, Hello, thank you for listening to

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Speaker 1: the show every morning. That I appreciate. I want to

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Speaker 1: try to help you out with this lady Carly that

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Speaker 1: you took out. It was a first date in the city.

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Speaker 1: I'm going over my notes here and she has ghosted,

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Speaker 1: so let's give me a little bit more detail. What

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Speaker 1: was she like, what was the date like? How did

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Speaker 1: it go.

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 3: I guess that's the strangest part is that the date

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Speaker 3: went really well. She's funny, she quick witted, She matched

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Speaker 3: my sarcasm like right out of the gate, which was great.

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Speaker 3: We ended up talking about first dates, bad first dates,

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Speaker 3: favorite bars in the city, and even had a pretty

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Speaker 3: in depth conversation over whether or not Ranch belongs.

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Speaker 1: On pizza, the hard hitting stuff, the.

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Speaker 3: Real yeah, life change And I honestly I thought everything

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Speaker 3: leading up to it, I thought was leading to a

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Speaker 3: second date. Just sure, what's going so well?

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Speaker 1: And she just to confirm she you have not heard

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Speaker 1: from her, and you've reached out a few times correct, okay,

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Speaker 1: were variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today.

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Speaker 1: It's Star one O one three. It's Marcus. We're doing

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Speaker 1: second Date update. Ben is on standby.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm still here.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So we're gonna call your date Carly and figure

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Speaker 1: out why she ghosted on you. Go ahead and go

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Speaker 1: back on you so she can't hear you. Here we go. Okay, Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: I'm looking for Carly. Please. Yeah, this is she Carly.

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Speaker 1: This is Marcus calling from Star one one three. Good morning, Hi,

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Speaker 1: good morning. How are you. I'm good.

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Speaker 2: I kind of like recognized.

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Speaker 4: I was like, is this I heard your voices? Like,

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Speaker 4: oh my gosh, I I just recognize it right away.

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Speaker 1: I love you for it. Hey, you want to be

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Speaker 1: on second date update?

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Speaker 4: Oh sure, okay.

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Speaker 1: I have never heard somebody so excited to be on

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Speaker 1: second date update.

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Speaker 2: I've just this is this never happened.

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Speaker 4: It's one of those like will this ever happen to me?

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Speaker 5: And here we are?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what's up?

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Speaker 2: Is? Uh?

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Speaker 4: Is Ben on the phone? Is he listening in?

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Speaker 1: He is? Hey?

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Speaker 3: Ben?

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Speaker 1: Are you there?

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Speaker 3: I'm here?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, Carly, you already know the million dollar question.

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Speaker 1: Well two of them did you ghost? And then why

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Speaker 1: did something happen? Or you just been busy? I said this.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's the holidays, it's Christmas week, so you

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Speaker 1: know I get it.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, I mean admittedly I did.

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Speaker 1: I did ghosts Okay, how was the date?

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Speaker 4: It started out fine, totally normal, But about ten minutes.

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Speaker 2: In I realized that, uh, there was something going on

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Speaker 2: that I would describe as a full running commentary on

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Speaker 2: the entire night.

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Speaker 1: Can you elaborate on that little bit?

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Speaker 4: So it was like a like every sip of his

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Speaker 4: drink came with an observation and be like, oh, that's

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Speaker 4: a strong pore, or uh that's that's smoother than I expected,

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Speaker 4: you mean, like out loud, yes, with every every sip Okay,

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Speaker 4: like everybody of food the same thing, but like that

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Speaker 4: there's a nice crunch on the or like oh wow

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Speaker 4: that's a balanced meal.

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Speaker 1: It wasting.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it became more just like everything, even like basic

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Speaker 4: movements came with a play by play, like just checking

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Speaker 4: the time if you looked at his watch, or gonna

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Speaker 4: grab a napkin or like that.

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Speaker 1: I mean it's my best impersonation. Yeah, okay, all right, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: It just kind of felt like less of a date

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Speaker 4: and more like sitting next to someone recording voice notes

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Speaker 4: or something.

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Speaker 1: Okay, was that it?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 1: No, no, No.

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Speaker 4: Another thing was every time the server drops something off

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Speaker 4: like drinks, plates, the check anything, then would give a soft,

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Speaker 4: polite little clap, not like not like a round of applause,

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Speaker 4: loud enough to be rude, but just loud enough to notice.

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Speaker 4: And I couldn't unhear it once I noticed. I can

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Speaker 4: unsee it once I noticed.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's go to Ben. Ben. You have some quirks, yes.

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Speaker 3: I suppose I do. Okay, Yeah, I'm a verbal guy.

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Speaker 3: Huh I could be. I don't know. If it helps

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Speaker 3: me stay present, and you know, it's like the silence

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Speaker 3: is awkward and it makes me feel uncomfortable, so I

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Speaker 3: just fill it with stuff like clasping. What about the clapping, Well,

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Speaker 3: that's that's just positive reinforcement. I mean, that's like my

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Speaker 3: way of saying thank you. You know, I just I've

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Speaker 3: always done it. I don't mean it to be rude

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Speaker 3: by any stretch. Sure that everybody likes appreciation, Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I get it. It's like I appreciate the enthusiasm, but

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Speaker 5: it it seemed at least at first, like condescending, and

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Speaker 5: the commentary was just strange, like some stuff I feel

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Speaker 5: needs to like be your insight voice.

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Speaker 2: In your head.

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Speaker 1: So is there any chance to maybe have a do

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Speaker 1: over now? I mean, did anything go terribly wrong?

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Speaker 4: No, nothing was like wrong per se And like Ben,

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Speaker 4: I don't want to change you. I fully appreciate who

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Speaker 4: you are as a person. I just don't think we're

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Speaker 4: well matched. I just kind of like knew at the

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Speaker 4: end of the night that I didn't want to do

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Speaker 4: that again