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Speaker 1: Star one on one three. It's Marcus, good morning. We

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Speaker 1: were about to get into second date updates. So let

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Speaker 1: me just real quick. If you've never heard it, if

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Speaker 1: you're new to the show, this is our dating segment.

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Speaker 1: And if you go on a date and you get

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Speaker 1: ghosted and it just stings and you want to know why,

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Speaker 1: we will call your date for you with you on

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Speaker 1: the phone listening so you can hear it from them.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes we get second dates out of it, because sometimes

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Speaker 1: it's a misunderstanding. So let's see what happens. Let's bring

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Speaker 1: Connor on. Good morning, Connor morning, how you guys doing

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Speaker 1: good man? How are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm pretty, I'm great, you know, aside from this saying

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Speaker 2: all thanks considered, you're doing all right? Yeah right, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean I'm excited that you're having me on and

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Speaker 2: then hopefully we'll get to the bottom of this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, let's let's talk about Valerie. So how did

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Speaker 1: you guys meet? Run me through the date? How did

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Speaker 1: she look when she showed up? How were you dressed up?

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Speaker 2: Hot? Amazing?

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Speaker 1: You were hurt?

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Speaker 2: I got excited?

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Speaker 3: No her?

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Speaker 2: Hell come on please?

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Speaker 1: How'd you guys meet?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 2: So, yeah, I mean we met on the apps. You know,

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Speaker 2: to be totally honest, I don't remember which one. You know,

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Speaker 2: there's so many and you don't even think about it. Swipeswipe, whatever. Sure,

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Speaker 2: she was like better than the pictures. She was super sharp,

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Speaker 2: and she just like you don't meet those people with

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Speaker 2: that like confidence that's like it's not overstated, but it's

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Speaker 2: just like this, I don't know, it's like this calm

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Speaker 2: confidence or something that she was a catch all right.

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Speaker 2: So on on the date itself, you know, we we

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Speaker 2: were like, you know, really connecting about restaurants, We loved

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Speaker 2: terrible roommates we used to have, you know, we both

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Speaker 2: love true crime documentaries. And it was just like one

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Speaker 2: of those dates where like the conversation never stopped till

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Speaker 2: I said goodbye at the end of the night. And

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Speaker 2: you know, there was no kiss or anything like that.

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Speaker 2: But you know, I'm a gentleman, so like I didn't

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Speaker 2: like a really good fit, and so I kind of

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Speaker 2: stopped swiping for a bit. I was wondering, you know,

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Speaker 2: I thought this might.

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Speaker 1: Be compliment by the way I stopped swiping. Yeah, it

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Speaker 1: makes you oh right, She was hot enough, I stopped

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I mean, you know, like she hasn't responded, so.

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Speaker 1: Now you know, yeah, you gotta start swiping again.

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Speaker 2: But like that's the thing. I thought, like this could

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Speaker 2: be a real potential thing. Why I jump back into

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Speaker 2: the pool. I want to. I want to see if

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Speaker 2: we can make something happen.

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Speaker 1: All right, well, let's call her. Let's try to figure

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Speaker 1: this out. Because I would love to get you a

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Speaker 1: second date, as I mentioned at the beginning, but i'd

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Speaker 1: love to get you some answers too. So why don't

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Speaker 1: you hang out for a song and then we'll give

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Speaker 1: Valerie a call? Casey, what's up?

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Speaker 2: Cool? Thank you?

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Speaker 1: Doing second date update. I've got my guy Connor on

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Speaker 1: the phone. He has been waiting patiently because we need

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Speaker 1: to call his date Valerie and try to figure out

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Speaker 1: why she ghosted on him. Connor, now you've had more

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Speaker 1: time to think about this date. Nothing weird happened.

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Speaker 2: I mean maybe I mentioned a restaurant that she didn't like,

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Speaker 2: but right, I don't know, I feel like it was

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's give her a shout. Go ahead and go

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Speaker 1: ahead and go back on you here we go. Okay, Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: I'm looking for Valerie.

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Speaker 2: Please, yes, this is she.

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Speaker 1: Hi Valerie, It's Marcus from Star one on one three.

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Speaker 1: Good morning.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god?

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Speaker 1: What's all? Do you listen to the show? I'm assuming

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Speaker 1: I love your show.

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Speaker 3: You I'm a big fan.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, wow?

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Speaker 2: Who?

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry to what do I owe? This call?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 3: I don't want to talk about it?

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Speaker 1: Second date update anything?

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Speaker 3: Yes, I don't want to talk about it though. Is

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Speaker 3: he on the line?

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Speaker 1: I mean yeah? Does that make her? Does that make

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Speaker 1: it weird?

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Speaker 3: Yes? Fine, this is crazy.

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Speaker 1: Consider yourself the star of the show.

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Speaker 4: I'm just beyond I can't. We need to help Connor.

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Speaker 4: Connor needs all right, Connor needs some.

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Speaker 1: Guys to stop pretending like you're not there.

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Speaker 2: So, hey, Connor, did you go? Yeah? I did.

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Speaker 3: He did not deserve a reply.

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Speaker 2: Oh boy, what are you talking about?

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Speaker 4: You don't show forty minutes late.

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Speaker 3: You don't show up forty minutes late to a first

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Speaker 3: date and then come in like nonchalant. That was a

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Speaker 3: bad first impression. Let me tell you never do that

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Speaker 3: to another girl.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that was like, okay, traffic, you know crazy.

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Speaker 4: You're handsome. I think you're handsome. You have potential, but

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Speaker 4: you cannot smack your food like you're it's it's disgusting,

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Speaker 4: Like that was the biggest turn off. You need to

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Speaker 4: close your mouth.

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Speaker 1: Hold on. I'm trying to keep up.

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Speaker 3: Oh, it's multiple things. I keep going if we're doing.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we're doing this, Okay.

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Speaker 2: I've been called a passionate eater. You know, it's it's uh,

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Speaker 2: my friends love it, they say they think it's like

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Speaker 2: enthusiastic and it makes the food even more appetizing to

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Speaker 2: them when they see how much I love my food

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Speaker 2: and you didn't say anything about it during the day.

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Speaker 1: That is a bizarro statement.

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Speaker 4: By the way, I was very bizarre.

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Speaker 3: Like you eat like no one taught you how to eat,

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Speaker 3: Like you need to like have a little bit of etiquette.

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Speaker 1: But what about I'm still hung up on forty minutes

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Speaker 1: late to a first date.

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Speaker 3: Blurp, No one.

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Speaker 2: You live in the city, you know, traffic is nuts.

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Speaker 2: It's like there's like a grace period, you know, and

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Speaker 2: and it's like unspoken and it's just yeah, I didn't

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Speaker 2: realize it was forty minutes. I thought it was close

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Speaker 2: you were still getting ready and you were late too.

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Speaker 2: You know, I thought I was being respectful by like

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Speaker 2: just not texting. I showed up and you were there,

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Speaker 2: and I was like, oh, you you must have just

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Speaker 3: I haven't even mentioned the fact that he didn't have

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Speaker 3: his wallet. He like hit his pockets like he or

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Speaker 3: his other jacket, and I was like, at that point,

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Speaker 3: I was like, why the hell am I here?

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Speaker 1: So wait? Did you pay for everything?

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Speaker 2: Valerie?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 4: I had to.

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Speaker 3: It was so awkward.

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Speaker 2: Are you going to tell you so hard? Are you

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Speaker 2: going to tell them how? I venmoed you immediately once

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Speaker 2: I got home, and I even left you a funny note.

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Speaker 3: That wasn't funny. You're kind of a tool. I'm going

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Speaker 3: to a tool. Yeah, you are kind of a tool.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I did a tool emoji and everything, like,

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Speaker 2: come on, like that's the funny thing.

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Speaker 3: I didn't say. You weren't funny.

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Speaker 4: But you don't have it together, buddy. You need to

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Speaker 4: fire you sit out. You're so good looking, Connor, but

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Speaker 4: you are a man child. You need to grow up

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Speaker 4: or you're never going to find someone. You're like a man, baby.

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Speaker 2: You already said I'm good looking, and you said that

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Speaker 2: I'm funny. So why don't we go out again? No,

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Speaker 2: go have some drinks. You can be late this time,

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Speaker 2: and I won't.

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Speaker 3: Say anything to raise a grown ass man. I am

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Speaker 3: not trying.

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Speaker 2: To raise you. We just go out. We'll have a

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Speaker 2: good time.

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Speaker 3: It's like almost a yes, but it's a no.

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Speaker 1: Connor, Okay, I thought I had all right. Here's what

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna do, Valerie. You guys want to put you

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Speaker 1: just put you on hold for a second to marinate,

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Speaker 1: think about it. Maybe there's an outside chance you have

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Speaker 1: each other's number.

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Speaker 2: I feel like coming back around.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's gonna take a lot, Connor. Jewelry

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Speaker 3: is all I have to say.

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Speaker 2: I can't you too fine Jewelry, I'm good for it.

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Speaker 2: I just I want to go out again, like you know.

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Speaker 2: Hearing your voice, I'll.

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Speaker 1: Do whatever I mean, Valerie. They do need to be

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Speaker 1: trained sometimes I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 3: So I mean he is he is kind of cute.

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Speaker 1: How about a second date?

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Speaker 3: No? Yes, fine, Tiffany, I.

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Speaker 2: Will make it up to you. It's gonna be amazing.

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Speaker 1: Did this just happen? Hold on, hang on, I got

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Speaker 1: to ring the cow bell of destiny. I'm so excited.

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Speaker 1: Hang on, we have a second date.

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Speaker 2: Oh you guys are the best.

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Speaker 1: Wow, Connor, you must be one charming anyway, all right,

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Speaker 1: you two, you're adorable. Hang on the line for me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, thank you, thank you, Vali. I can't

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Speaker 1: Hang on, you love birds. My god, I can't. This

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Speaker 1: has made my whole week. Second date update right after

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Speaker 1: seven o'clock weekdays, so it'll be back on Monday. We'll

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Speaker 1: do it again at nine o'clock, all right, about nine

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Speaker 1: oh five or so. And of course you got the podcast.

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Speaker 1: You can listen to all the episodes. It's on the

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