WEBVTT - 30 Day 30 Dates 0:00:00.960 --> 0:00:03.400 We talk about something kind of interesting that I wanted 0:00:03.440 --> 0:00:05.440 to bring up on the show and see what your guys' 0:00:05.480 --> 0:00:09.600 thoughts are about this. Chelsea and I have a list 0:00:09.800 --> 0:00:13.200 of thirty things that we want to try to do 0:00:13.800 --> 0:00:16.520 over the course of the next year, not like from 0:00:16.520 --> 0:00:18.400 now until the end of the year, but the next year, 0:00:19.000 --> 0:00:21.240 and see how many of these things we can accomplish, 0:00:21.480 --> 0:00:25.440 and then how many of these things we set to accomplish. 0:00:25.760 --> 0:00:29.000 There are thirty dates, and we listed it up on 0:00:29.040 --> 0:00:31.159 our Instagram so you can go see it. It's a 0:00:31.200 --> 0:00:33.840 post that was posted just a couple of days ago. 0:00:34.400 --> 0:00:36.360 But some of these things are worth even bringing up 0:00:36.360 --> 0:00:38.440 to see if you guys could do it with your 0:00:38.640 --> 0:00:42.919 significant others, or when you find a significant other you 0:00:43.400 --> 0:00:45.600 try this with them, because I will tell you I 0:00:45.600 --> 0:00:48.720 don't think it's easy. Let me go through the list. 0:00:48.880 --> 0:00:51.600 Number one on the list go on a phone free 0:00:51.680 --> 0:00:54.800 date and be fully present. So go out on a 0:00:54.920 --> 0:00:58.400 date and keep your phone either in the car, in 0:00:58.440 --> 0:01:01.600 your purse, in your pocket and not the whole day, 0:01:01.880 --> 0:01:04.080 which which Chelse and I talked about. That's one of 0:01:04.080 --> 0:01:06.160 our biggest issues we have in our relationship is she says, 0:01:06.200 --> 0:01:08.600 I'm on my phone too much, and I'll be honest, 0:01:08.959 --> 0:01:10.759 I think she's on her phone too, but she's also 0:01:10.959 --> 0:01:12.720 I think doing it in retaliation to me. 0:01:12.920 --> 0:01:14.760 I feel like that's the easy one, y'all both can do. 0:01:14.880 --> 0:01:18.080 We can definitely do that. Number two, plan a weekend 0:01:18.200 --> 0:01:22.039 get away to a place that we've never been. That 0:01:22.600 --> 0:01:24.200 is one of those things I've been wanting to do 0:01:24.280 --> 0:01:26.920 for the longest time. I like the idea of just 0:01:27.280 --> 0:01:30.000 randomly going somewhere. And it doesn't have to be on 0:01:30.000 --> 0:01:32.759 an airplane. It could, you know, whatever, You could drive 0:01:32.800 --> 0:01:35.319 it a little bit, but it goes somewhere that takes 0:01:35.360 --> 0:01:39.200 a little effort to go to from doing it, I 0:01:39.240 --> 0:01:42.280 think that you go into your normal routines and I 0:01:42.319 --> 0:01:45.200 think that you know, it's funny it starts off with 0:01:45.319 --> 0:01:46.840 Monday and next thing you know, it's Sunday. 0:01:46.959 --> 0:01:47.240 Yeah. 0:01:47.319 --> 0:01:50.360 Right, So kind of things kind of move together. Number three, 0:01:50.800 --> 0:01:56.080 create a shared bucket list of for the next five years, 0:01:56.160 --> 0:01:58.000 like where you guys, I don't know if you have 0:01:58.080 --> 0:01:59.920 you ever done that in any relationships? Have you ever? 0:02:00.760 --> 0:02:02.960 So we we kind of have that. We have a 0:02:03.000 --> 0:02:05.640 shared like notes that we do some of. 0:02:05.560 --> 0:02:07.880 That, but it's not just that, not things that you 0:02:07.920 --> 0:02:09.000 want to do, like accomplish. 0:02:09.760 --> 0:02:12.720 It's goals, it's restaurants we want to visit together. It's 0:02:12.760 --> 0:02:14.639 movies we want to see together. It's books we want 0:02:14.639 --> 0:02:16.280 to read together. It's like a shared list of all 0:02:16.560 --> 0:02:17.120 these things. 0:02:17.160 --> 0:02:19.240 Yeah, Chelsea and I have like the shows we want 0:02:19.280 --> 0:02:23.240 to watch. We don't really like there's not really a 0:02:23.280 --> 0:02:25.080 bucket list. I don't think Chelsea and I have ever 0:02:25.919 --> 0:02:28.440 sat down. I think as we started having kids right away, 0:02:28.480 --> 0:02:29.000 and yeah. 0:02:28.840 --> 0:02:30.839 They were places we want to visit. Is on there, 0:02:31.200 --> 0:02:31.880 but it would. 0:02:31.680 --> 0:02:36.320 Be it would be cool take a cooking class or 0:02:36.560 --> 0:02:41.960 cook a full themed dinner at home together. Fine, Typically 0:02:42.040 --> 0:02:46.040 it's either I'm making something or she's making something. More 0:02:46.160 --> 0:02:46.639 likely us. 0:02:46.639 --> 0:02:48.480 DoorDash What do you what do you think you would 0:02:48.520 --> 0:02:50.680 be more likely to do the cook at home or 0:02:50.720 --> 0:02:51.440 to take the class. 0:02:52.080 --> 0:02:54.760 Uh, probably cook together, like. 0:02:54.960 --> 0:02:55.919 Somebody come to your house. 0:02:56.040 --> 0:02:57.000 I would actually do that. 0:02:57.520 --> 0:02:58.720 I have a friend and that's what she does. 0:02:58.800 --> 0:03:01.280 I would actually like to if we could. I would 0:03:01.320 --> 0:03:04.799 like to go to one of those like was it 0:03:04.840 --> 0:03:08.200 williamsin Omas or whatever, like in the mall, like go 0:03:08.240 --> 0:03:09.919 to it and just take Like I would like to 0:03:09.960 --> 0:03:12.040 take a class with her. Yeah, and I know this 0:03:12.120 --> 0:03:14.640 sounds bad to say this because I will say I'll 0:03:14.680 --> 0:03:16.480 do this, and then will happen and I'll go, do 0:03:16.560 --> 0:03:19.000 we have to whatever? But I really want to. I 0:03:19.000 --> 0:03:21.360 want to try to like make myself more fully present. 0:03:21.440 --> 0:03:23.440 And I'm not just saying that for the air, but 0:03:23.480 --> 0:03:27.160 I truly think that there would be something fun to accomplish. 0:03:27.280 --> 0:03:31.400 Number six, Chelsea said this was the hardest one watch 0:03:31.520 --> 0:03:35.800 a sunrise together at least once. Chelse and I watch 0:03:35.840 --> 0:03:38.680 a lot of sunsets together, Like we will look at sunsets, 0:03:38.720 --> 0:03:41.040 especially when we're down in Florida, because they go right 0:03:41.120 --> 0:03:43.400 off the water and it's like it looks like the 0:03:43.440 --> 0:03:48.200 sun goes right into the water. But watch the sun rise. 0:03:48.480 --> 0:03:52.640 We never do because I work in the morning and 0:03:52.680 --> 0:03:55.880 she's she actually said she goes at that time I 0:03:55.960 --> 0:03:58.400 want to be sleeping because she hasn't sleep. Is so hard, 0:03:58.840 --> 0:04:02.000 but a sun rise, there's something as beautiful about a 0:04:02.040 --> 0:04:03.560 sunrise as there is about a sunsets. 0:04:03.640 --> 0:04:05.480 Yeah, I got to be committed today. I don't tried 0:04:05.480 --> 0:04:07.320 it out a few times and just row back over, 0:04:07.400 --> 0:04:08.760 like maybe try it more. 0:04:09.680 --> 0:04:13.440 Uh, here you go a couple more of these things, Uh, 0:04:13.680 --> 0:04:16.839 start a new tradition, just the two of you. I 0:04:16.960 --> 0:04:17.479 like that one. 0:04:17.640 --> 0:04:18.880 That's a good one for you guys too at this 0:04:18.920 --> 0:04:19.560 stage of life. 0:04:19.640 --> 0:04:21.599 Yeah, come up with something kind of cool. That's just 0:04:21.640 --> 0:04:25.160 the two of us. Number seven unfollow people online who 0:04:25.240 --> 0:04:27.919 drain your energy and focus and uh, I thought I 0:04:28.000 --> 0:04:33.240 lost an that's a yeah, Kevin. Number eight follow accounts 0:04:33.279 --> 0:04:35.960 that help you grow. Chelsea turns me onto all these 0:04:36.000 --> 0:04:39.000 accounts now like that are you know, trying to keep 0:04:39.040 --> 0:04:44.440 me like mentally healthier and honestly some of them physically healthier, 0:04:44.480 --> 0:04:46.919 Like things I gotta, you know, get out of my 0:04:46.960 --> 0:04:50.040 life that I like so much that cause me issues. 0:04:50.720 --> 0:04:56.120 Number nine have a deep life goals or uh, you know, 0:04:56.720 --> 0:05:02.760 conversation about the future talking over wine or coffee. We 0:05:03.320 --> 0:05:05.400 did that just like a week or so ago. It 0:05:05.480 --> 0:05:07.159 seems like something that you should what what do you 0:05:07.200 --> 0:05:08.800 mean you just did it a week or so ago. 0:05:09.600 --> 0:05:11.880 A week or so ago, Chelsea and I sat on 0:05:11.920 --> 0:05:14.720 the couch and just kept everything off and just started 0:05:14.720 --> 0:05:19.479 talking for maybe two hours, and it was the one 0:05:19.480 --> 0:05:21.720 of the coolest things that we've done in the thirty 0:05:21.800 --> 0:05:24.279 years thirty plus years that we've been married. With coffee 0:05:24.320 --> 0:05:27.039 or one I think I was having I think I 0:05:27.080 --> 0:05:29.880 was drinking bourbon, but it was we just sat there 0:05:29.880 --> 0:05:31.919 and talked and it didn't lead to me then trying 0:05:31.960 --> 0:05:34.440 to you know, have sex or anything like that, because 0:05:34.520 --> 0:05:36.240 usually you sit there and go, God, if I'm doing 0:05:36.279 --> 0:05:38.760 this for this long, I want to get something out 0:05:38.800 --> 0:05:40.760 of it. And I know this sounds weird, but when 0:05:40.839 --> 0:05:43.400 you get into routine, you don't do stuff like this 0:05:43.440 --> 0:05:47.760 in your relationship. You kind of give up on this. Uh, 0:05:49.600 --> 0:05:52.960 next one, here go on a spontaneous day trip with 0:05:53.080 --> 0:05:53.680 no plan. 0:05:54.560 --> 0:05:55.359 I like that one. 0:05:55.400 --> 0:05:57.800 Would you ever just get in the car and next 0:05:57.800 --> 0:06:00.400 thing you know, you're just driving somewhere and you're not 0:06:00.520 --> 0:06:01.159 driving away. 0:06:01.440 --> 0:06:02.320 But I love that idea? 0:06:02.360 --> 0:06:08.560 Wait gasp, right now, but can I count? 0:06:08.640 --> 0:06:10.920 Can I tell you? That would be good? Yeah, that 0:06:10.960 --> 0:06:14.080 would be really good. I had a friend of mine 0:06:14.720 --> 0:06:18.160 who he and his girlfriend he's now dating. So this 0:06:18.240 --> 0:06:20.400 is the thing you do, STU. You know, stupid stuff 0:06:20.400 --> 0:06:22.760 like I say, stupid stuff you do romantic stuff like this. 0:06:23.320 --> 0:06:26.240 He got in the car, they drove up north and 0:06:26.279 --> 0:06:29.560 they decided how far can we go where we can 0:06:29.600 --> 0:06:32.240 just go to a town and have a meal, And 0:06:32.279 --> 0:06:34.240 then they drove right back. They made it all the 0:06:34.240 --> 0:06:38.560 way to Charlotte Boy aid and Charlote Boy hung out, 0:06:38.600 --> 0:06:40.480 walked around the town, and then came back late that 0:06:40.520 --> 0:06:40.960 same night. 0:06:42.839 --> 0:06:43.320 They do that. 0:06:43.480 --> 0:06:44.800 They said, it was an incredible day. 0:06:44.880 --> 0:06:46.680 You spend more time in a car together than you 0:06:46.720 --> 0:06:47.760 do at the place you're going to. 0:06:48.320 --> 0:06:53.160 But that then, but that then allows for those good conversations. 0:06:53.240 --> 0:06:57.640 Yeah. Number eleven, recreate your first date. What was your 0:06:57.680 --> 0:07:00.599 first date? Our first day was Olive Garden. We went 0:07:00.640 --> 0:07:03.480 out Olive Garden and just ate you know, there and 0:07:04.240 --> 0:07:06.520 talked and laughed and it was It was one of 0:07:06.520 --> 0:07:09.320 those things. But try to recreate that that first date 0:07:09.360 --> 0:07:11.360 would be. And that's the easy one that we could do. 0:07:11.800 --> 0:07:13.360 But it's one of those ones where it's like, hey, 0:07:13.400 --> 0:07:16.280 you want to go to Olive Garden. But make it intentional. 0:07:16.400 --> 0:07:18.680 You could mix in the first thing on the list 0:07:18.720 --> 0:07:20.600 with that one with the fall get. 0:07:20.480 --> 0:07:23.000 It for one. Yeah, and I can do it as 0:07:23.040 --> 0:07:26.000 a spontaneous day and drive old in another. 0:07:26.240 --> 0:07:28.080 I don't think the goal is to combine as many 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:28.800 as possible. 0:07:29.240 --> 0:07:34.680 Why not Number twelve learn a new skill together, dance, language, pottery, 0:07:35.440 --> 0:07:38.680 I don't know. Yeah, I want to take a class. 0:07:38.840 --> 0:07:43.560 Number thirteen write each other a letter to open in 0:07:43.640 --> 0:07:44.120 one year. 0:07:44.880 --> 0:07:46.040 Oh, I love that one. 0:07:46.280 --> 0:07:47.920 Isn't that a great one? 0:07:47.320 --> 0:07:49.040 That's a good one. 0:07:49.240 --> 0:07:53.560 Number fourteen have a no spend date and get creative. 0:07:55.280 --> 0:07:57.880 We used to do and we it was all Chelsea 0:07:57.960 --> 0:08:00.000 that one. We did picnics like we would just say 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:02.800 up like literally, like an old fashioned picnic basket and stuff, 0:08:03.200 --> 0:08:04.840 and we would do that from time to time. That 0:08:04.920 --> 0:08:09.440 was so cool. Number fifteen do a digital detox weekend. 0:08:09.960 --> 0:08:12.800 I actually mentioned to Chelse that we should go on 0:08:13.000 --> 0:08:16.040 like what Lydia went on? Lydia, What was that? Like 0:08:16.040 --> 0:08:18.360 a retreat or something that you did, But do a 0:08:18.360 --> 0:08:21.160 couple's version of that. Yeah, they do have couples versions 0:08:21.160 --> 0:08:21.480 of that too. 0:08:21.520 --> 0:08:24.000 They're actually coming up with a marriage retreat soon. 0:08:24.120 --> 0:08:27.960 Honestly, I would think about that. What is the time 0:08:28.080 --> 0:08:30.480 you bringing it up? And God has provided you an 0:08:30.480 --> 0:08:31.600 opportunity you gotta. 0:08:31.400 --> 0:08:33.400 Take you bro, do it? Do on? You think I 0:08:33.440 --> 0:08:35.360 get last? Yeah? Why not? 0:08:35.880 --> 0:08:36.440 No phone? 0:08:37.559 --> 0:08:39.040 You got to you gotta want to do it? You 0:08:39.080 --> 0:08:40.960 know I would. I would, I honestly, I think it 0:08:40.960 --> 0:08:42.640 would be cool. And then I'd like to be able 0:08:42.679 --> 0:08:45.720 to sit with other couples and have us all talk 0:08:45.760 --> 0:08:48.559 about the commonality of relationship. Because I think people think 0:08:48.600 --> 0:08:51.840 that their relationship is a If you're thinking your relationship 0:08:51.880 --> 0:08:53.600 is a bad relationship and then you hear other people 0:08:53.600 --> 0:08:55.680 talk about it, you realize you ain't that bad. You 0:08:55.679 --> 0:08:59.160 should host a seminar or something. Couple. Chelsea and I 0:08:59.240 --> 0:09:01.800 talked about that with We Don't. We talked about having 0:09:01.920 --> 0:09:03.760 like a we get together like kind of how we 0:09:03.800 --> 0:09:06.080 do the more Mojo podcast on the road. We talked 0:09:06.120 --> 0:09:08.360 about doing that with We Don't, and couples come to 0:09:08.400 --> 0:09:10.600 it and we go and we try and we try 0:09:10.600 --> 0:09:12.959 to like book like some good speakers to come and 0:09:13.280 --> 0:09:18.079 have conversation. Next one here, volunteer together for a cause 0:09:18.120 --> 0:09:22.080 you both care about. That's cool idea. Number seventeen take 0:09:22.120 --> 0:09:26.880 a road trip and make a shared playlist. Ain't gonna happen. 0:09:28.080 --> 0:09:32.280 Chelsea likes music that I don't like. Actually she doesn't 0:09:32.320 --> 0:09:35.040 like my music, yeah, and she thinks my music's bad. 0:09:35.640 --> 0:09:39.680 Number eighteen. Try something slightly out of your comfort zone together. 0:09:40.000 --> 0:09:42.520 I think all of these kind of are Number nineteen 0:09:42.840 --> 0:09:45.680 have a home spa night. We used to do that 0:09:45.800 --> 0:09:48.360 during COVID. We talked about it on the podcast. We 0:09:48.400 --> 0:09:51.000 would be involved. Chelsea made me do like these masks, 0:09:51.040 --> 0:09:51.960 face masks and. 0:09:51.880 --> 0:09:57.440 Things to No, we had actually actually Chelsea helped. 0:09:57.559 --> 0:10:00.160 Yeah, she did trim me up a little bit. You 0:10:00.160 --> 0:10:03.760 did that and then but remember came to the house 0:10:03.800 --> 0:10:11.560 and cut number twenty. Go star gazing or watch a 0:10:11.640 --> 0:10:15.000 media meteor shower. It ain't happening. 0:10:16.760 --> 0:10:18.160 To find this lister or did you? Guys? 0:10:18.320 --> 0:10:21.040 We saw there? We found Uh, we found a bunch 0:10:21.080 --> 0:10:22.920 of these. Yeah, we found we found a bunch of these. 0:10:23.200 --> 0:10:25.760 Question number twenty or number twenty one? Not question? But 0:10:26.040 --> 0:10:29.640 have task to do on a date? Plan a dream trip, 0:10:29.920 --> 0:10:35.120 even if you can't take it yet. Just plan one together. 0:10:35.520 --> 0:10:38.520 The idea of planning one together sometimes is as fun 0:10:38.520 --> 0:10:42.840 as the trip. Going on a trip. Don't don't say 0:10:42.920 --> 0:10:47.920 tasks to do. I'll say that things to spend time with. Yeah, 0:10:48.800 --> 0:10:52.600 messaging is important. Do a vision board for your future together. 0:10:52.920 --> 0:10:55.280 That's like little kid stuff though, isn't it. I don't 0:10:55.280 --> 0:10:57.160 think so. Now, just see if you'll be an intention 0:10:57.240 --> 0:11:02.439 with our relationship. Start a shared journal or memory book. 0:11:04.160 --> 0:11:06.920 Go on a double date with another couple you admire. 0:11:07.000 --> 0:11:08.280 We did it with Shannon. 0:11:09.480 --> 0:11:12.600 Because that was a wedding gift, not a couple. So 0:11:12.640 --> 0:11:16.240 you can't take that off. I'm not ing about the hook. 0:11:16.320 --> 0:11:21.480 I'm sorry. How about a ten an event or a 0:11:21.520 --> 0:11:26.679 concert together? That's easy. Chris Brown and Usher have a 0:11:26.800 --> 0:11:30.000 game night together, just the two of you. We can't 0:11:30.040 --> 0:11:30.800 do it, okay. 0:11:30.559 --> 0:11:32.840 So we do that and that's fun. Really love doing that. 0:11:32.920 --> 0:11:34.760 You know. They say Monopoly is the biggest game that 0:11:34.760 --> 0:11:35.760 people are playing nowadays. 0:11:35.800 --> 0:11:39.680 So we do scrabble. I've kicked every single time. It's 0:11:39.760 --> 0:11:41.839 so good, but it is really fun. 0:11:41.960 --> 0:11:46.480 We fight whenever we do games. We used to play 0:11:46.600 --> 0:11:49.200 Monopoly with another couple, like we would play it and 0:11:49.240 --> 0:11:51.640 she would get so mad because in the end I 0:11:51.720 --> 0:11:54.160 always wanted the other there was something psychological to it. 0:11:54.600 --> 0:11:56.520 I wanted the other woman to win. I don't know 0:11:56.559 --> 0:12:00.800 what the real Yeah, Chelsea, Chelsea. I can say that 0:12:01.320 --> 0:12:06.000 Chelsea would get mad. Number twenty No, she knows that 0:12:06.400 --> 0:12:11.280 number twenty seven. Cook each other's favorite childhood meal? What 0:12:11.280 --> 0:12:15.600 would Georsby? We talked in the thing about it, and 0:12:15.640 --> 0:12:18.400 I think it. What did I say for my childhood meal? 0:12:18.600 --> 0:12:18.760 Oh? 0:12:18.920 --> 0:12:23.960 I know what I said, Filet Mignon math I'm just kidding. 0:12:24.360 --> 0:12:27.320 I like that Roccalini with the side. I like that 0:12:28.400 --> 0:12:33.160 number twenty eight. Do a gratitude ritual weekly or month monthly. 0:12:33.480 --> 0:12:35.640 Just be grateful for what you are doing and what 0:12:35.679 --> 0:12:38.559 you guys are all about. Number twenty nine. There's only 0:12:38.559 --> 0:12:42.840 two more left. Number twenty nine. Take a class or 0:12:43.240 --> 0:12:46.680 workshop focused on growth or mindset. It's kind of like 0:12:46.720 --> 0:12:49.000 what we were saying about going to like a retreat. 0:12:49.360 --> 0:12:52.640 But we work on so much of our work life 0:12:53.040 --> 0:12:54.920 we don't work on in our home life, like we 0:12:54.960 --> 0:12:58.840 don't do this at all. And number thirty in the 0:12:58.960 --> 0:13:02.280 year with a reflect a date and celebrate how far 0:13:02.440 --> 0:13:06.079 you come? You don't do? You have your anniversary and 0:13:06.120 --> 0:13:09.080 you celebrate. Okay, this is the anniversary I think honestly, 0:13:09.840 --> 0:13:13.880 I think you should think about that with relationships about hey, 0:13:13.880 --> 0:13:15.360 you know what, I made it through another year and 0:13:15.360 --> 0:13:16.679 we're still here. That's right. 0:13:16.720 --> 0:13:19.000 Those are They're. 0:13:18.600 --> 0:13:20.600 Just some ideas. You can go listen to the podcast 0:13:20.640 --> 0:13:23.880 and Chelsea's perspective on it is way better than my perspective. 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:25.760 So you can hear her on the We Don't podcast. 0:13:25.520 --> 0:13:28.120 If we can be honest, Yes, out of the thirty, 0:13:29.160 --> 0:13:31.520 maybe give me a couple you are really excited for 0:13:31.600 --> 0:13:33.320 and maybe something actually dreading. 0:13:33.600 --> 0:13:38.480 No, honestly, the phone free date is one and this 0:13:38.600 --> 0:13:41.840 big The go on a route road trip to somewhere 0:13:41.920 --> 0:13:44.960 you don't really have planned, and the go out of 0:13:45.000 --> 0:13:48.840 town to someplace you've never been, exploring, somewhere we've never been, 0:13:49.400 --> 0:13:51.680 would be amazing, it'd be cool. Those are the ones 0:13:51.720 --> 0:13:56.120 that are most excited about. Okay, the cooking ones, eh, 0:13:56.800 --> 0:13:59.800 you know, kind of But I was Terry. Would you 0:13:59.840 --> 0:14:10.320 want to say, Hi, Hi, Terry? Did I lose Terry? Terry? Terry? 0:14:10.400 --> 0:14:13.400 You muted? What do you got going on there? Terry? 0:14:14.320 --> 0:14:17.960 I know I'll come back. Hold on, Jody, what's up? Jody? 0:14:19.760 --> 0:14:21.200 Hi, it's Judy. 0:14:21.280 --> 0:14:23.240 I apologize. Yeah, it is Judy. What's up? 0:14:24.320 --> 0:14:27.000 Only I never got a long time listener. 0:14:26.640 --> 0:14:27.440 First time calling? 0:14:31.560 --> 0:14:32.320 What's happening? 0:14:33.480 --> 0:14:34.000 Thank you? 0:14:34.080 --> 0:14:38.120 This this list sounds like it's going to lead to disappointment. 0:14:38.120 --> 0:14:39.840 You're doing all these in a year? 0:14:40.280 --> 0:14:40.840 In one year? 0:14:41.280 --> 0:14:43.960 No, it's see how many you can try to accomplish 0:14:44.040 --> 0:14:44.480 in a year. 0:14:46.560 --> 0:14:47.680 You're not shooting for all. 0:14:47.800 --> 0:14:49.840 No, you don't have to shoot. I mean, listen, even 0:14:49.880 --> 0:14:52.720 if you did five of them and you enjoyed, you know, 0:14:52.920 --> 0:14:57.760 three out of five, that would be kind of cool, Judy, 0:14:57.080 --> 0:15:00.560 be honest, are you saying it would lead to disappointment 0:15:00.560 --> 0:15:09.960 because Chelsea has to do them with me. You know what, 0:15:10.120 --> 0:15:12.280 sometimes she ain't a peach, you know what I mean? 0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:14.600 Like sometimes come on. 0:15:17.080 --> 0:15:17.320 With you? 0:15:17.440 --> 0:15:19.960 I think, why do people say that so much? I 0:15:21.160 --> 0:15:22.080 do great things? 0:15:22.560 --> 0:15:23.880 You make yourself? 0:15:25.120 --> 0:15:27.640 Well, you're right with that, that's true. I self deprecate 0:15:27.680 --> 0:15:29.360 a lot. What's up, Erica? How you doing? 0:15:30.920 --> 0:15:31.160 Hey? 0:15:31.280 --> 0:15:34.200 I just wanted to suggest that you guys go to 0:15:34.720 --> 0:15:37.240 the it's called a candlelight concert. 0:15:39.080 --> 0:15:41.480 So good? Really? 0:15:41.840 --> 0:15:42.120 Yeah? 0:15:42.240 --> 0:15:44.200 I just the Taylor Swift. It's phenomenal. 0:15:44.320 --> 0:15:46.280 Where is that at? We're semple. 0:15:46.760 --> 0:15:50.440 They do them all different traces, Yeah, gorge. 0:15:50.640 --> 0:15:52.960 And so, so you go there as a couple. Is 0:15:53.000 --> 0:15:54.560 it romantic? It's kind of a cool thing. 0:15:56.280 --> 0:15:57.119 It's beautiful. 0:15:57.640 --> 0:15:59.160 Yeah, it is beautiful. 0:15:59.520 --> 0:16:00.440 You guys have to go. 0:16:01.080 --> 0:16:03.160 Chelse and I went to dinner and we just sat 0:16:03.240 --> 0:16:06.520 together by ourselves with no other people there, and it 0:16:06.600 --> 0:16:09.400 was an outdoor patio that we were sitting on, and 0:16:09.440 --> 0:16:11.280 I will say this to you, it was probably one 0:16:11.320 --> 0:16:13.200 of my favorite things that we've done in like the 0:16:13.280 --> 0:16:16.280 last week or so. And it was just us having 0:16:16.320 --> 0:16:20.360 conversations about anything that came up, like we had no 0:16:20.920 --> 0:16:23.480 you know, normally right now, we talk about the boys, 0:16:23.720 --> 0:16:27.280 Joe's wedding, Luke and school like stuff like that. We 0:16:27.320 --> 0:16:29.160 never talk about us. We talked about us for a 0:16:29.200 --> 0:16:32.880 little bit. 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