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Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning, and we're back with second

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Speaker 1: date update this morning. Literally, if you go on a

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Speaker 1: first date and get ghosted on you, just call me,

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Speaker 1: call me immediately and we will call your date on

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Speaker 1: your behalf and try to figure out A what went wrong? B.

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Speaker 1: Can we maybe salvage it and get a second date?

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Speaker 1: It's why we're here. Why else is holding a Lisa

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Speaker 1: You there? Yes, Hi, Hey, good morning. You're about to

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Speaker 1: be the start of the show. This has to be

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Speaker 1: This is very exciting.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm kind of nervous.

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Speaker 1: Sure, of course. I want to talk about your date

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Speaker 1: with Jordans. So let's I understand you guys met online

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Speaker 1: and that you met in San Mateo, but like, how

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Speaker 1: did it go down?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? So we had drinks and San Mateo was great.

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Speaker 2: We had a really good time. We were like ordering

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Speaker 2: the same drinks, like, you know, having a lot in

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Speaker 2: common talking. He was charming, he was funny. We've all

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Speaker 2: talked about like work stress. We totally meshed and we

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Speaker 2: were talking about how like first dates shouldn't feel like

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Speaker 2: interviews and if it just it was very, very natural.

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Speaker 2: So I loved feeling totally optimistic.

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Speaker 1: And he's disappeared completely. Yeah, okay, and how many times

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Speaker 1: have you replayed the date in your heads?

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Speaker 2: A lot many times actually, because it's also like, it's

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Speaker 2: such a lovely memory. It was such a great date. Sure,

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Speaker 2: but I'm also like, where did it go? I just

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Speaker 2: can't ten point like when it could have gone wrong?

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Speaker 1: Okay, well we'll just ask him. Are you ready to

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Speaker 1: do this? Call?

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Speaker 2: I am?

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Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. Go ahead and mute up and

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Speaker 1: me called Jordan.

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Speaker 2: Hello, is this Jordan?

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Speaker 1: This is Marcus calling from Star one oh one three,

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Speaker 1: the radio station. Good morning, I do the morning show.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, what's up, Marcus.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you're familiar with second date update

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Speaker 1: that we do on the show every morning. Oh yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's one of those.

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Speaker 3: This is about a lease, isn't it it?

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Speaker 1: It is?

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Speaker 3: Hi? Hey, Haley, I said, I probably followed up. I'm

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Speaker 3: sorry about that.

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Speaker 1: So you did ghost. I don't even have to ask.

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Speaker 3: We're having a good time. I just want to put

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Speaker 3: that out there. I think she's really nice, but it's

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Speaker 3: just there was a couple of things and it's all good.

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Speaker 3: I think she was a great person. I just don't

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Speaker 3: know that she's right for me, okay.

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Speaker 1: Can you elaborate?

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Speaker 3: Uh, well, it's kind of embarrassing. But she said that

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Speaker 3: she she doesn't sit on public toilet seats like ever.

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Speaker 3: Like she says that she squats fully on them every

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Speaker 3: time and considers it core engagement. And she, uh, I

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Speaker 3: don't know. She just said it really proudly, like it

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Speaker 3: was like a fit in his hack.

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Speaker 1: And she's not the only person I know of that

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Speaker 1: does that. Though it's not that serious.

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Speaker 3: That's another thing.

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Speaker 1: But there's another thing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Later in the date, she she said that she

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Speaker 3: won't sleep in bed that aren't heard, including hotels, said

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Speaker 3: that she brings her own travel matt and pillows and

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Speaker 3: usually would just lay on the mat on the ground

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Speaker 3: in the hotel room. And I just I can't. That's

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Speaker 3: just not something I'm willing to do.

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Speaker 1: Sure, so at least you don't sleep in anybody else's

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Speaker 1: bed but your own.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't. And I didn't think it was that

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Speaker 2: big of a deal.

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Speaker 1: How do you navigate How do I put this? If

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Speaker 1: you ended up at Jordan's house, how would you navigate intimacy?

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Speaker 3: Then?

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Speaker 1: Like you're not you're not sleeping in his bed? No,

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Speaker 1: I mean, how does that work out.

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Speaker 2: I bring my mat, you know, if I'm sleeping somewhere,

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Speaker 2: it's a travel mat. And then if you could still

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Speaker 2: do stuff, you know, I mean he could lay down

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Speaker 2: next to me on like near my mat.

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Speaker 1: Is he allowed on that?

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Speaker 2: I mean sure? Yeah, I mean it's small, it's only

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Speaker 2: like one person can really be on there. So if

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Speaker 2: he also had a mat, then that would be okay,

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Speaker 2: like ideal.

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Speaker 1: So you guys would connect and then you go to

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Speaker 1: your separate spot, presumably on the floor on the mat.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I can't like actually go to sleep in someone else's,

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Speaker 2: like in something that's not mine.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Jordan, this is this is not your vibe.

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Speaker 3: It's not And look I appreciate donesty. I think it's great,

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Speaker 3: I really do, but it's just it's just not for me.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna call it. Then you guys hang on, uh,

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Speaker 1: I mean to each his own. I guess their own.

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Speaker 1: That's really okay. Second date up, They