WEBVTT - EITM: Split Support 10/15/26 0:00:01.550 --> 0:00:03.710 Somebody sent me this story. 0:00:03.750 --> 0:00:04.150 Here it is. 0:00:05.040 --> 0:00:06.480 About a guy named Michael Sear. 0:00:06.500 --> 0:00:13.200 And I guess this guy's story took off everywhere. The guy, 0:00:13.220 --> 0:00:15.740 it's Michael and Chloe. I don't know how long they 0:00:15.760 --> 0:00:18.680 were married for, but they're getting divorced. But the guy 0:00:18.750 --> 0:00:21.790 put out a divorce FAQ online. 0:00:21.810 --> 0:00:26.940 I didn't see that. And it spread like wildfire. wildfire. 0:00:27.020 --> 0:00:29.520 I think you like, is he an attorney or no, 0:00:29.640 --> 0:00:31.570 not at all. He's just one of the people getting 0:00:31.610 --> 0:00:32.050 a divorce. 0:00:32.210 --> 0:00:32.470 Yeah. 0:00:32.750 --> 0:00:35.490 And he was like, listen, people are going to ask. 0:00:35.890 --> 0:00:39.430 People are awkward. People don't know what to say. So they, 0:00:39.610 --> 0:00:42.890 they both posted divorce FAQ. 0:00:42.909 --> 0:00:45.950 And it was meant just for like friends. 0:00:46.490 --> 0:00:50.310 Well, hers is private. Her account, Chloe, that's her name. Her, 0:00:50.409 --> 0:00:52.870 her account is private. So only like her friends saw it. 0:00:53.220 --> 0:00:56.450 His is public. So it was for anybody. And it 0:00:56.470 --> 0:00:58.150 started getting shared like crazy. 0:00:58.390 --> 0:00:58.670 Why? 0:00:59.710 --> 0:01:02.090 I don't know. I don't know. 0:01:03.580 --> 0:01:04.529 Did people like it? 0:01:05.459 --> 0:01:09.050 For the most part. For the most part, people liked it. 0:01:09.360 --> 0:01:11.100 So it was more praise than it was criticism? 0:01:11.200 --> 0:01:11.480 Yeah. 0:01:14.800 --> 0:01:15.470 Divorce FAQ. 0:01:15.480 --> 0:01:15.720 Question. 0:01:15.750 --> 0:01:17.250 What happened? What happened? 0:01:18.610 --> 0:01:20.869 And he posted it himself. It's not like, you know, 0:01:21.209 --> 0:01:22.750 he was like, I know people are going to ask. 0:01:22.810 --> 0:01:25.350 People are awkward. People don't know what to do. So 0:01:25.390 --> 0:01:26.270 he just posted it. 0:01:26.430 --> 0:01:27.570 Oh, I'm good. 0:01:27.890 --> 0:01:31.390 This might be good for you, actually. You love to 0:01:31.450 --> 0:01:34.800 ask questions. And if these are the ones you'd be asking, 0:01:34.840 --> 0:01:37.280 you don't have to inquire. 0:01:37.340 --> 0:01:39.180 Well, it starts with number one. I always want to 0:01:39.200 --> 0:01:41.600 know why somebody got divorced. I always want to know. 0:01:42.270 --> 0:01:45.429 But I think that shows that you're interested in the person. 0:01:45.580 --> 0:01:47.780 But his response is going to be like, that's personal. No, 0:01:47.800 --> 0:01:48.480 you want gossip. 0:01:49.420 --> 0:01:53.060 No, no. He says why. He answers the question. 0:01:53.080 --> 0:01:53.600 What did he say? 0:01:54.420 --> 0:01:57.460 We both feel that our lives are no longer compatible 0:01:59.140 --> 0:02:03.010 and that a future together would lead to unfair compromises 0:02:03.110 --> 0:02:04.050 on both sides. 0:02:04.690 --> 0:02:06.210 It's a very mature way to look at things. 0:02:06.550 --> 0:02:08.109 Yeah, it's disappointing. 0:02:08.950 --> 0:02:09.329 You want juicy. 0:02:09.350 --> 0:02:09.769 For sure. 0:02:10.010 --> 0:02:13.390 Oh, I definitely want gossip. But it's honest. I mean, 0:02:13.410 --> 0:02:15.410 I believe the guy. He's got no reason to lie. 0:02:15.750 --> 0:02:18.500 And we are to think that the private account had 0:02:18.520 --> 0:02:20.240 a similar post. 0:02:20.320 --> 0:02:20.620 Answer. 0:02:21.100 --> 0:02:23.780 It wasn't like a different perspective. Oh, hell no. 0:02:23.919 --> 0:02:27.200 No, except I think where it says Chloe, the wife, 0:02:27.220 --> 0:02:28.600 hers would have said Michael. 0:02:28.940 --> 0:02:29.139 Okay. 0:02:30.580 --> 0:02:31.900 What about Millie and Bug? 0:02:32.660 --> 0:02:32.919 Pets. 0:02:34.120 --> 0:02:35.500 Chloe will be taking them. 0:02:36.610 --> 0:02:39.649 Hmm. You would ask that question too. 0:02:39.730 --> 0:02:41.220 I was just thinking, would I ask that? And I 0:02:41.240 --> 0:02:42.480 think the answer is yes. 0:02:42.980 --> 0:02:47.900 So are you frequent or are you basic? 0:02:47.940 --> 0:02:52.870 Number three, how do I navigate their relationship going forward? 0:02:53.930 --> 0:02:55.730 Like meaning do you have to choose a side? 0:02:56.550 --> 0:02:56.910 Yes. 0:02:57.010 --> 0:02:57.269 Okay. 0:02:57.650 --> 0:03:00.790 And he says, Chloe and I are still friends and 0:03:00.870 --> 0:03:01.670 still hang out. 0:03:02.270 --> 0:03:05.169 Please don't be shy to invite.... 0:03:05.940 --> 0:03:08.840 Either or both of us to events he has a 0:03:08.880 --> 0:03:11.220 typo he put with her uh chloe and i are 0:03:11.260 --> 0:03:13.320 still friends and still hang out please don't be shy 0:03:13.340 --> 0:03:16.250 to invite either or both of us to events okay 0:03:16.280 --> 0:03:17.100 that's a big one. 0:03:17.160 --> 0:03:21.310 That's no picking sides like diane said oh always yeah 0:03:21.410 --> 0:03:23.030 always so you don't like that they're saying you can 0:03:23.070 --> 0:03:23.830 invite both of us. 0:03:23.910 --> 0:03:26.810 No no i would never do that i would never. 0:03:26.630 --> 0:03:28.630 Do that it's not it shouldn't be awkward for you 0:03:28.690 --> 0:03:29.530 if they're okay with. 0:03:29.470 --> 0:03:33.590 It it's awkward for it's it's awkward for the party. 0:03:35.340 --> 0:03:36.580 And when he says they're hanging out, does he just 0:03:36.600 --> 0:03:37.870 mean because they have the dogs? 0:03:38.090 --> 0:03:38.490 I guess. 0:03:38.530 --> 0:03:38.950 I don't know. 0:03:39.070 --> 0:03:41.150 It says still friends, still hang out. Or maybe just 0:03:41.170 --> 0:03:42.529 because it's fresh. I don't know. 0:03:42.550 --> 0:03:45.200 Because I hear they're not hanging out at Elliot's get-togethers. 0:03:45.500 --> 0:03:45.700 No. 0:03:46.760 --> 0:03:48.660 If you have friends that get divorced, do you invite 0:03:48.740 --> 0:03:49.280 both of them? 0:03:49.640 --> 0:03:53.839 No. I have friends that have gotten divorced and were 0:03:53.960 --> 0:03:58.400 friendly with the ex-husband and the ex-wife, Jackie and I are. 0:03:58.800 --> 0:04:01.150 But I would never invite them to do something together. 0:04:01.390 --> 0:04:05.250 But maybe many divorced couples would be okay with this. 0:04:05.890 --> 0:04:07.970 Then do it somewhere else. You're not doing it with me. 0:04:09.950 --> 0:04:11.050 You're their friend. 0:04:12.410 --> 0:04:13.840 Really? Yes. 0:04:14.850 --> 0:04:18.409 But I like now that they've decided they can't be together. 0:04:18.430 --> 0:04:19.770 Then they're happier, right? Yes. 0:04:20.170 --> 0:04:24.230 And I've decided that I will keep them. I don't 0:04:24.290 --> 0:04:26.450 even like if one of them knows that we saw 0:04:26.490 --> 0:04:28.270 the other one. That bothers me. 0:04:29.070 --> 0:04:30.950 So wouldn't it be a lot more comfortable for you 0:04:31.050 --> 0:04:32.589 if you can just see them together? 0:04:32.690 --> 0:04:35.810 No, that would be so uncomfortable for me. Because I 0:04:35.860 --> 0:04:37.280 know they don't want to be together. 0:04:38.029 --> 0:04:40.270 This couple still hangs out. They sound fine. 0:04:40.290 --> 0:04:43.630 You know what? If you're fine, why aren't you still married? 0:04:43.650 --> 0:04:51.950 Because they realize that. 0:04:48.860 --> 0:04:51.300 Their wants and needs were different. 0:04:51.400 --> 0:04:51.680 No, no. 0:04:51.839 --> 0:04:54.560 I understand that. Actually, I think that was the first answer. 0:04:54.600 --> 0:04:57.160 We both feel our lives are no longer compatible. If 0:04:57.200 --> 0:05:00.440 your lives aren't compatible, don't hang out together with me. 0:05:00.880 --> 0:05:03.920 If you guys think you could put up that facade 0:05:04.380 --> 0:05:06.060 for a while, God bless you. 0:05:06.240 --> 0:05:08.400 You know what I mean? Go to dinner together. Do 0:05:08.440 --> 0:05:09.339 whatever you want to do. 0:05:09.920 --> 0:05:12.160 I'm not going to be responsible for putting my two 0:05:12.279 --> 0:05:15.570 friends in a situation where they have to fake interact. 0:05:15.610 --> 0:05:18.650 But don't you have friends who you don't mind being with, 0:05:18.770 --> 0:05:21.630 but your lives, like if you had to. live not 0:05:21.750 --> 0:05:24.210 with them but next door to them, it would probably 0:05:24.290 --> 0:05:25.130 ruin the friendship. 0:05:25.310 --> 0:05:26.180 Yes, of course. 0:05:26.210 --> 0:05:29.620 Yes, that's what they're saying. We're fine in bits and pieces. 0:05:29.860 --> 0:05:33.320 Right, but let them decide those bits and pieces. They did. 0:05:33.360 --> 0:05:34.620 They said, please invite us both. 0:05:34.680 --> 0:05:36.599 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. 0:05:36.680 --> 0:05:39.460 I can't believe you're running around with one half of 0:05:39.500 --> 0:05:42.820 the divorced couple and praying that no one says anything 0:05:42.860 --> 0:05:44.080 or posts anything about it. 0:05:44.560 --> 0:05:46.800 No, I'm not embarrassed to hang out with either side 0:05:46.820 --> 0:05:47.240 of the couple. 0:05:47.279 --> 0:05:49.599 You just said you don't want the other one knowing. 0:05:49.720 --> 0:05:52.310 I said I feel awkward. I feel awkward because then 0:05:52.350 --> 0:05:58.740 it's like, oh, well, you haven't seen me. I would 0:05:58.800 --> 0:06:00.540 never invite a divorced couple. 0:06:01.000 --> 0:06:01.440 I think the. 0:06:01.620 --> 0:06:05.719 Yeah, I don't I don't think I would ever invite 0:06:05.760 --> 0:06:08.380 a divorced couple like to come. Like if Jackie and 0:06:08.420 --> 0:06:10.560 I were like, hey, we're going out to dinner. Does 0:06:10.620 --> 0:06:12.880 divorced man and divorced woman want to come to dinner? 0:06:12.920 --> 0:06:14.360 I'd be like, why are we inviting both of them? 0:06:15.870 --> 0:06:17.310 I think you would revel in the gossip. 0:06:17.550 --> 0:06:18.770 Yeah, from one of them. 0:06:18.790 --> 0:06:20.050 And you'd be trying to pull it out of them 0:06:20.070 --> 0:06:21.850 while they're sitting next to each other at dinner. 0:06:22.170 --> 0:06:23.070 That would be awkward. 0:06:24.950 --> 0:06:28.760 And didn't they say, didn't the answer say events? Going 0:06:28.820 --> 0:06:29.940 to dinner with two couples? 0:06:30.060 --> 0:06:32.680 Yeah, this is probably like a 4th of July picnic 0:06:32.720 --> 0:06:35.400 or something. They're cool with both attending. If you're having 0:06:35.440 --> 0:06:37.020 a big cookout or something, you know? 0:06:37.040 --> 0:06:41.350 I definitely wouldn't do that. Like for Thanksgiving at my 0:06:41.370 --> 0:06:42.090 house is massive. 0:06:42.230 --> 0:06:42.430 Right. 0:06:43.410 --> 0:06:47.310 If I had I'm trying, I don't want. 0:06:47.230 --> 0:06:49.190 To even make names because I don't want people going like, 0:06:49.250 --> 0:06:50.770 oh my God, they must be having trouble. 0:06:51.350 --> 0:06:52.430 Like I'm trying to name names. 0:06:52.470 --> 0:06:55.349 Just you say you've, you've never, or I shouldn't say 0:06:55.370 --> 0:06:58.909 you've never, but you have had to pick one or 0:06:58.970 --> 0:07:01.290 the other in a divorced scenario. 0:07:02.290 --> 0:07:06.710 There's definitely been divorced people there who were, who there, 0:07:06.790 --> 0:07:09.510 there've been people at Thanksgiving who were there with their 0:07:09.550 --> 0:07:13.960 spouse one year and then not with their spouse the 0:07:14.040 --> 0:07:14.520 next year. 0:07:14.670 --> 0:07:16.310 How'd you pick the one you invited? 0:07:17.610 --> 0:07:20.530 Number one, who are we closer with? And who's more fun? 0:07:21.290 --> 0:07:21.990 Who's more fun? 0:07:22.210 --> 0:07:22.430 Yeah. 0:07:23.230 --> 0:07:26.320 But what if I tried to set this up to 0:07:26.340 --> 0:07:29.020 be like, not your story for them? Like, what if 0:07:29.060 --> 0:07:33.720 you were equally committed to both sides? Then who's fun? 0:07:33.780 --> 0:07:34.360 Who's more fun? 0:07:34.640 --> 0:07:34.840 Yeah. 0:07:35.060 --> 0:07:36.930 But even if I said to the one that was 0:07:36.970 --> 0:07:39.790 there as married and then one that was there as single, 0:07:40.290 --> 0:07:44.300 if that person would have said, hey, Do you mind 0:07:44.340 --> 0:07:47.320 if I bring? I would have been like, yeah, actually 0:07:47.380 --> 0:07:50.400 I do. Please don't bring them. Because it's going to 0:07:50.440 --> 0:07:50.860 be awkward. 0:07:50.880 --> 0:07:55.430 Did you feel uneasy knowing that person was there without 0:07:56.030 --> 0:07:57.910 the partner who was there a year or two before? 0:07:58.050 --> 0:07:59.830 Why would that bother me? I didn't get divorced. 0:08:00.350 --> 0:08:02.470 You said it makes you uncomfortable. 0:08:03.210 --> 0:08:06.150 If they're there with somebody that they're divorced from, that 0:08:06.180 --> 0:08:06.700 would bother me. 0:08:06.690 --> 0:08:10.360 No, you said it makes you anxious being around someone 0:08:10.440 --> 0:08:11.770 if the other person finds out. 0:08:12.720 --> 0:08:14.380 Oh, no, I didn't care about that because we weren't 0:08:14.460 --> 0:08:16.030 equally as close with the other spouse. 0:08:16.090 --> 0:08:18.550 So you didn't worry in that situation? 0:08:18.730 --> 0:08:18.950 No. 0:08:18.970 --> 0:08:21.610 Oh, it didn't even cross my mind. Couldn't care less. 0:08:21.630 --> 0:08:21.690 Oh. 0:08:22.350 --> 0:08:24.710 Yeah. No, no. It's only if we're still friends with them. 0:08:24.750 --> 0:08:26.670 Did you encourage the divorce? 0:08:28.150 --> 0:08:29.970 Did I encourage it? I supported it. 0:08:30.620 --> 0:08:32.420 That's different than triggering it. 0:08:32.559 --> 0:08:34.140 I don't know that I've ever gone to somebody and 0:08:34.160 --> 0:08:37.099 been like, you should divorce. I can't say that. That 0:08:37.160 --> 0:08:38.059 I know I can't say. 0:08:38.590 --> 0:08:40.710 Yeah, no, but I don't know. Wait, what else is 0:08:40.809 --> 0:08:41.590 on here? Here we go. 0:08:41.650 --> 0:08:42.809 Thanksgiving is an event. 0:08:42.990 --> 0:08:43.310 It is. 0:08:43.429 --> 0:08:44.370 Oh, it's massive. 0:08:44.429 --> 0:08:44.689 Yeah. 0:08:45.290 --> 0:08:46.590 It's 40, 50 people. 0:08:47.309 --> 0:08:49.689 And you don't, Michael and Chloe, you would not take 0:08:49.710 --> 0:08:50.050 them both. 0:08:50.230 --> 0:08:52.990 I would take Michael or Chloe, but not, I would 0:08:53.030 --> 0:08:54.230 definitely not invite them both. 0:08:55.150 --> 0:08:55.910 Zero chance. 0:08:56.790 --> 0:09:00.480 What about, or Sam or Sophia or Marcus, the Taylor 0:09:00.510 --> 0:09:01.199 Swift reference. 0:09:01.880 --> 0:09:07.990 Are you staying, question to Michael, are you staying in Lansing? Answer, 0:09:08.210 --> 0:09:10.460 Chloe is. We are selling the house. 0:09:10.960 --> 0:09:14.620 Chloe will move into an apartment, and I will temporarily 0:09:14.700 --> 0:09:18.700 be staying here until my opera contracts send me elsewhere. 0:09:18.880 --> 0:09:19.800 I guess he's in the opera. 0:09:19.900 --> 0:09:20.140 Okay. 0:09:21.360 --> 0:09:23.540 I think this is genius. Now I see why it 0:09:23.580 --> 0:09:25.920 went viral. I can't believe it didn't pop up anywhere 0:09:25.940 --> 0:09:30.079 for me because that's another thing you always wonder. 0:09:30.100 --> 0:09:30.720 Always. 0:09:31.260 --> 0:09:36.150 Always. Maybe this is really good, but not for me. 0:09:37.630 --> 0:09:39.120 What, being so forthright about everything? 0:09:39.559 --> 0:09:41.000 Well, just getting ahead of it. 0:09:41.179 --> 0:09:41.359 Yeah. 0:09:41.540 --> 0:09:42.199 Getting ahead of it. 0:09:42.200 --> 0:09:43.459 I think that's kind of smart. 0:09:44.340 --> 0:09:45.550 Then why don't more people do it? 0:09:45.600 --> 0:09:47.640 The tone sounds too amicable for you. 0:09:47.760 --> 0:09:48.020 Yeah. 0:09:48.100 --> 0:09:48.670 Very much so. 0:09:48.760 --> 0:09:51.490 I mean, if it's going to be ugly, I'm sure 0:09:51.500 --> 0:09:53.910 that there are people posting about stuff like that, but. 0:09:54.990 --> 0:09:56.410 Yeah, I mean, why why wouldn't everybody. 0:09:56.270 --> 0:09:59.829 Example it's a good example for people are who feel 0:09:59.850 --> 0:10:01.450 like they're in the same situation. 0:10:01.090 --> 0:10:03.350 But you you could i could almost see it being 0:10:03.390 --> 0:10:05.400 more beneficial if it's ugly. 0:10:06.650 --> 0:10:08.840 No because then it's just you're slamming your partner. 0:10:08.550 --> 0:10:11.020 No no no i don't mean like she cheated on 0:10:11.080 --> 0:10:15.020 me or you know whatever but just like listen um. 0:10:16.730 --> 0:10:18.510 That's where the dirty laundry comes in that you want 0:10:18.530 --> 0:10:18.990 to read about. 0:10:19.090 --> 0:10:22.189 Debra has a bad gambling habit, and we couldn't settle it. 0:10:22.290 --> 0:10:22.579 Okay. 0:10:22.630 --> 0:10:24.240 No, but I mean, if that's the truth, what does 0:10:24.300 --> 0:10:24.740 it matter? 0:10:25.500 --> 0:10:26.120 That is the truth. 0:10:26.140 --> 0:10:29.260 That's the second time today you've thought maybe gambling was 0:10:29.320 --> 0:10:30.260 involved in something. 0:10:30.400 --> 0:10:34.840 Oh, because I'm gambling more now than I have been. 0:10:34.860 --> 0:10:37.090 Oh, so you're just projecting. 0:10:37.110 --> 0:10:38.349 Yeah, it's top of mind. 0:10:38.390 --> 0:10:38.590 Yeah. 0:10:38.929 --> 0:10:40.730 Well, I came off the frozen frenzy hot. 0:10:40.830 --> 0:10:41.030 Yeah. 0:10:41.270 --> 0:10:44.610 I got 11 games tonight. I went two for two 0:10:44.650 --> 0:10:45.109 last night. 0:10:47.450 --> 0:10:49.349 Elliot, I just separated with my partner of 11 years. 0:10:49.510 --> 0:10:52.190 Can I ask, wait, you know, don't finish it. Will 0:10:52.230 --> 0:10:56.709 he call? And I want him to declare who, wait, what? 0:10:56.970 --> 0:10:58.870 Give me that first sentence again. I just. 0:10:58.890 --> 0:10:59.750 There are more sentences. 0:10:59.790 --> 0:11:00.990 Wait, but just give me the first one. 0:11:01.000 --> 0:11:03.160 I just separated with my partner of 11 years. 0:11:03.620 --> 0:11:03.880 Okay. 0:11:04.160 --> 0:11:05.780 Here's what I would like to do. Would that person 0:11:05.820 --> 0:11:09.439 call me and let's go public. Let's go public. 0:11:09.460 --> 0:11:11.660 Do you want me to keep reading? 0:11:12.800 --> 0:11:14.309 Is it going to ruin the public part? 0:11:15.440 --> 0:11:18.420 He's still invited to dinner at my aunt's in two weeks. 0:11:18.800 --> 0:11:19.610 No way. 0:11:19.620 --> 0:11:21.670 And my nephew's birthday party in January. 0:11:21.970 --> 0:11:22.930 January? 0:11:23.630 --> 0:11:26.189 Like, in two weeks? I'll tell you this right now. 0:11:26.610 --> 0:11:29.970 If it were, if it were, what is, like, what's 0:11:29.990 --> 0:11:34.550 a life event? If my son is getting married, right? 0:11:34.570 --> 0:11:34.990 He's not. 0:11:35.130 --> 0:11:37.120 But if I'm just saying, if he was getting married. 0:11:37.940 --> 0:11:41.329 And we sent out the save the dates. Oh, I'll 0:11:41.350 --> 0:11:44.570 give you a perfect example. I'll give you the perfect example, right? Well, 0:11:44.670 --> 0:11:48.360 I can't use that one. If my son was getting married, right? 0:11:48.679 --> 0:11:51.010 And I'm going to use you and Lindsay. is getting 0:11:51.050 --> 0:11:54.390 married and we invited you and Lindsay to my son's wedding. Yes. 0:11:54.770 --> 0:11:58.950 And then between save the date and the wedding day, you, 0:11:59.190 --> 0:12:00.750 you had told me, Hey, you know, Lindsay and I 0:12:00.790 --> 0:12:01.280 split up. 0:12:01.410 --> 0:12:03.650 I would have been like, great. You're not, then you're 0:12:03.700 --> 0:12:04.150 coming alone. 0:12:04.290 --> 0:12:04.960 You've made that clear. 0:12:05.100 --> 0:12:05.320 Yeah. 0:12:05.580 --> 0:12:09.960 Like, so going to somebody's birthday party. No, you're not. No, 0:12:10.000 --> 0:12:10.500 you're not. 0:12:10.900 --> 0:12:11.660 Sounds like he is. 0:12:11.820 --> 0:12:12.140 No. 0:12:12.540 --> 0:12:15.000 How awkward is that? You got to walk around the 0:12:15.020 --> 0:12:17.920 birthday party and everybody's going, Oh, there's the, uh, there's, 0:12:18.059 --> 0:12:20.810 there's the, uh, I don't know why they split up. 0:12:21.309 --> 0:12:23.710 But to me, it sounds like it's not because the 0:12:23.750 --> 0:12:27.500 invitation is just out there still. It sounds like Matthew 0:12:27.520 --> 0:12:32.300 is saying he is still invited. No. They're mature enough. 0:12:32.300 --> 0:12:32.620 11 years? 0:12:32.620 --> 0:12:35.750 11 years almost makes it worse. 0:12:36.530 --> 0:12:36.750 Why? 0:12:36.770 --> 0:12:39.210 You're together a long time. 0:12:39.230 --> 0:12:40.170 Scorch it more! 0:12:42.420 --> 0:12:43.840 But we don't know why they split. 0:12:43.980 --> 0:12:46.079 Now, Matthew says I should have done an FAQ like 0:12:46.100 --> 0:12:48.140 this because it would have saved a lot of time 0:12:48.179 --> 0:12:51.460 instead of having to tell everyone individually. 0:12:51.860 --> 0:12:54.380 So get on the air and let's tell everybody. 0:12:54.420 --> 0:12:57.490 And you said get out in front of it, too. 0:12:58.610 --> 0:13:00.890 So it doesn't allow for gossip and rumors. 0:13:02.270 --> 0:13:04.390 So why don't we're still going to do that? I'm 0:13:04.410 --> 0:13:07.850 going to read between the lines. Tell Matthew to call. 0:13:07.890 --> 0:13:08.190 Let's go. 0:13:08.650 --> 0:13:09.729 Let's get it out there. 0:13:11.210 --> 0:13:12.569 It sounds like they have done their part. 0:13:12.610 --> 0:13:15.250 No, but they're like, not everybody knows and you got 0:13:15.270 --> 0:13:15.940 to get ahead of it. 0:13:15.990 --> 0:13:16.869 Let's get ahead of it. 0:13:16.870 --> 0:13:18.650 Well, who are you hoping to call? The aunt and 0:13:18.670 --> 0:13:19.189 the nephew? 0:13:19.370 --> 0:13:21.230 No, I just, I want somebody to call and go, hey, 0:13:21.970 --> 0:13:24.690 I just split up with my wife, my husband, whatever 0:13:24.730 --> 0:13:25.990 it was a week ago. 0:13:26.710 --> 0:13:28.980 We haven't really gotten around to telling everybody. There's no 0:13:29.050 --> 0:13:29.620 formal way. 0:13:29.980 --> 0:13:32.220 So Elliot, if I can borrow the airways, I'd like 0:13:32.260 --> 0:13:34.180 to declare this is why we split. 0:13:34.500 --> 0:13:35.660 Like, I am into that. 0:13:35.860 --> 0:13:36.260 Hi. 0:13:36.400 --> 0:13:38.640 I was told Elliot was going to tell me something 0:13:38.700 --> 0:13:39.660 about my uncles. 0:13:42.080 --> 0:13:45.240 Yeah, they split up. Yeah. 0:13:45.470 --> 0:13:48.530 And honestly, son, they should not both be at your 0:13:48.610 --> 0:13:55.330 birthday party. They walk around holding hands like nothing happened. 0:13:55.350 --> 0:13:58.449 No, they're not acting like they're still together. They show 0:13:58.530 --> 0:13:59.110 up together? 0:13:59.250 --> 0:14:01.429 Is that what you think? You don't know if they're 0:14:01.450 --> 0:14:02.970 showing up together after 11 years. 0:14:03.010 --> 0:14:06.100 You think Uncle A shows up at 45 minutes, Uncle 0:14:06.130 --> 0:14:09.000 B shows up and they pretend like they don't even talk? 0:14:09.059 --> 0:14:09.420 Maybe. 0:14:09.520 --> 0:14:11.540 No, it's not that they're not going to even talk. Oh, 0:14:11.740 --> 0:14:12.780 is it hallway sex? 0:14:12.960 --> 0:14:13.900 F you, F you. 0:14:13.920 --> 0:14:16.360 No, I don't get that message from that tweet. 0:14:18.580 --> 0:14:20.460 Because he's not giving me enough information. 0:14:24.270 --> 0:14:27.870 Then post something to Instagram and FAQ. 0:14:29.550 --> 0:14:31.730 Is where, where, where does Matthew live? 0:14:32.370 --> 0:14:33.330 I don't know. 0:14:33.430 --> 0:14:36.010 Is he, is he staying there? Is he staying in Lansing? 0:14:39.140 --> 0:14:42.040 I need to know. Like, don't come half public. Let's 0:14:42.060 --> 0:14:42.680 go public. 0:14:43.900 --> 0:14:45.380 Is that it for the FAQ? 0:14:45.400 --> 0:14:45.980 Yeah. 0:14:46.340 --> 0:14:49.110 I thought there would be more, but I guess when 0:14:49.140 --> 0:14:51.260 it's all like, everything's fine. 0:14:51.460 --> 0:14:53.540 There were a lot of people who were like, no, 0:14:53.700 --> 0:14:55.760 don't do this. Like, do you have no problems? 0:14:56.250 --> 0:14:56.650 Oh, there is. 0:14:56.810 --> 0:15:00.350 If you have any further questions, please message me. I 0:15:00.370 --> 0:15:03.120 will answer them as I have best. I can. 0:15:04.420 --> 0:15:07.120 I don't know what other questions I have. Are you dating? 0:15:07.280 --> 0:15:08.120 I'm sure you have a few. 0:15:08.140 --> 0:15:08.320 Yeah. 0:15:09.970 --> 0:15:12.270 Also, please send love to me and Chloe as this 0:15:12.370 --> 0:15:14.020 is a big transition for both of us. 0:15:14.090 --> 0:15:15.860 I'm definitely not sending love to both of you. 0:15:15.880 --> 0:15:18.360 Not even an invite to Thanksgiving. 0:15:18.780 --> 0:15:22.380 No, I wouldn't do that. I would not. Why would 0:15:22.400 --> 0:15:25.960 you want that? Also, why would you want that uncomfortableness? 0:15:28.660 --> 0:15:30.730 It sounds like you're more uncomfortable than they ever would be. 0:15:30.750 --> 0:15:32.630 No, because you know it's going to be uncomfortable at 0:15:32.650 --> 0:15:34.930 the birthday party. You know what everybody– you know what 0:15:34.950 --> 0:15:37.270 they're not doing? They're not talking about the five-year-old having 0:15:37.310 --> 0:15:41.210 a party. They're talking about like, oh, there's Matthew and whatever. 0:15:42.670 --> 0:15:45.910 They're not together anymore. I saw on Instagram they're not 0:15:45.950 --> 0:15:46.790 together anymore. 0:15:46.810 --> 0:15:49.530 Oh, so you think it takes away from the focus. 0:15:49.770 --> 0:15:53.090 You become the story. But if you're there by yourself, 0:15:53.210 --> 0:15:56.700 I mean, everybody still knows you're divorced. But it's not like, oh, 0:15:56.720 --> 0:15:59.140 my God, look how awkward this is. You know what? 0:15:59.320 --> 0:16:03.239 No invites for either one. 0:16:03.360 --> 0:16:04.360 Hi, Elliot in the morning. 0:16:05.500 --> 0:16:07.900 Hey, this is the Matthew you're talking about. 0:16:07.920 --> 0:16:13.020