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Speaker 1: Alrighty, here we go with the Minnesota Goodbye Friday Day edition,

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Speaker 1: and it looks like today is going to be a

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Speaker 1: lot of emails, which I love. I always love to

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Speaker 1: see what you're thinking of, and let's see what we got. Hello, Dave,

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Speaker 1: Jenny Bay Levant. This is from Anders First. I'm sure

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Speaker 1: you will read this in the morning. So Happy Friday.

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Speaker 1: My wife and I have today Friday off for work

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Speaker 1: of work for her twenty ninth birthday. Wondering if you

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Speaker 1: can give her a shout out. Her name is Alexandria.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely so happy twenty ninth birthday, Alexandria. Second, I listened

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Speaker 1: to the clarifying cows Ass episode from yesterday. Love the

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Speaker 1: title Bailey and the part where you're discussing young men

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Speaker 1: and Professor G's new book. As a thirty year old man,

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Speaker 1: I somewhat resonate with the loneliness feeling mostly stemming from

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Speaker 1: attempts to connect with other men around me on a

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Speaker 1: deeper level but getting mostly brushed off. I've got two

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Speaker 1: maybe three guy friends who actually listen to who I

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Speaker 1: feel actually listen when there's a serious topic at hand,

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Speaker 1: which is sad and as a man, I wish men

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Speaker 1: felt more comfortable talking to each other. But I think

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Speaker 1: for the young men who are coming into adulthood now,

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Speaker 1: for the last five years, a lot of them are

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Speaker 1: confused about their plays in this world. Society does. Societal

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Speaker 1: dynamics are changing, and for some reason, young men are

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Speaker 1: having perhaps the toughest time. Maybe not, I could be wrong.

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Speaker 1: I guess Scott Galloway's book may help shine some light

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Speaker 1: on the topic. Anyway, I wanted to share my thoughts

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Speaker 1: and thank you for discussing it. I think we need

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Speaker 1: to bring up the fact that men are struggling and

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Speaker 1: we need each other. So I think that's true, and

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Speaker 1: I think that, yeah, I think it's true. And I

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Speaker 1: worry about my boy Carson because I don't he's so quiet.

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Speaker 1: I never know exactly what he's thinking or worried about.

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Speaker 1: But I think he has buddies that he can talk to,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like if something's going wrong,

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Speaker 1: I hope he has somebody to talk to.

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Speaker 2: Which I think I like about what Anders said is

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Speaker 2: that we need each other. And I think men need

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Speaker 2: each other like they need each other men, you know,

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Speaker 2: And I think that's where they could have, you know,

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Speaker 2: better relationships with other guys, so you know, talk about

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Speaker 2: your feelings because it's not gay to talk about your

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Speaker 1: Like I get to talk about my feeling I have

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Speaker 1: one friend that I really talk about my feelings, whether

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Speaker 1: that's Curtis, and Curtis is gay, and I think that

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Speaker 1: makes him softer, if that's the right word for it.

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Speaker 1: So I can talk about, you know, whatever's going on

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Speaker 1: that's troubling me or whatever. And he's a great listener

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Speaker 1: to the point where it's almost flawed. He is like

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Speaker 1: an interviewer. So how is that going with Alison?

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Speaker 3: Does he work in like therapy?

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Speaker 1: No, he and I told him one time, I said,

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Speaker 1: you should be a therapist. He works in design. He

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Speaker 1: works in it's a little interesting what he does. He

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Speaker 1: is a buyer and a designer. So he goes to

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Speaker 1: shows and he'll set up a display for a company

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Speaker 1: that sells things, seasonal things, for example. So he'll go

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Speaker 1: to an empty space and he'll set up an entire

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Speaker 1: display of Christmas things, because there's an art to setting

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Speaker 1: up a display. Then buyers retailers will come by and

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Speaker 1: look at it and go, oh, those little lamps that

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Speaker 1: look like a Christmas tree. I want to order fifty

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Speaker 1: of those for my shop in shockapie type of thing. Okay,

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Speaker 1: but he's like nationwide, he goes to Atlanta.

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Speaker 3: What nothing about therapy?

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Speaker 1: Then nothing about therapy now so they want a staff

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Speaker 1: writers sticker and secretary Brie has got your email and

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Speaker 1: a mail and we're gonna send that over.

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Speaker 3: To you, Nance Anders and happy birthday to your wife.

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Speaker 1: Very cool.

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Speaker 3: I your friends, Anders, ask them how they are?

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Speaker 1: Well, I think that's the thing he said he does,

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Speaker 1: but again gets brushed off, like, you know, if somebody

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Speaker 1: I don't know, if somebody came to me is like, man,

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Speaker 1: I'm just really having trouble, you know, with my marriage,

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Speaker 3: That's what's a bummer to me.

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Speaker 2: And that's what I've seen with like people responding to

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Speaker 2: but I do think he's saying, like, hey, in order

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Speaker 4: I think it's just the fact though that like men

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Speaker 5: And I just I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I can speak as a woman, but let

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Speaker 1: As a guy. I will say, it's that it's not

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Speaker 1: just really is and always a guy to talk to.

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Speaker 1: My best friend Mike or Brintley was my guy to

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Speaker 1: Brintley because I could talk to that guy about a

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Speaker 1: testing the waters. It wasn't like, well, now can I

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Speaker 3: Tony where he's like, is it gay that I do

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Speaker 1: See, if I would have played with his nipples, I'd

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Speaker 1: be like, look at how gay you are. You're letting

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Speaker 1: all right? Next one, Kaylee writes in Longtime No Talk

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Speaker 1: life has been lifing, but I'm happy to be throwing

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Speaker 1: my two cents in again, Jenny. I was cracking up

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Speaker 1: if it makes them happy, good for them. Also, sorry,

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Speaker 1: you're feeling sore, but get it girl. Dave says that

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Speaker 1: last part in the Alison voice for full effect. Please

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Speaker 1: and thanks. Okay in the Allison voice, Oh my god, dad,

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Speaker 5: Yes, I will. No, I won't. Honestly, I don't want,

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Speaker 1: You will, though, I hope so, Bailey. I have been

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Speaker 1: thinking about what you said about not knowing if you're

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Speaker 1: As your resident gen Z therapist, let me say, being

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Speaker 1: the whole point. You're not accidentally enjoyable. You are enjoyable.

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Speaker 1: You got this, girly, I think that's true. I think

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Speaker 1: there are people you remind me of, like Steve in

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Speaker 1: You're always comfortable to be around, and it's like you're

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Speaker 4: sort of know because he'd make like a joke about it,

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Speaker 1: He was just a funny guy. And I remember one

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Speaker 1: I remember Fallin and Meatsaw showed up and they sat

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Speaker 1: And I don't fault them for it. You can do

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Speaker 2: So can I take the nacho platter and just like

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Speaker 2: put it on my lap like it's a regular plate.

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Speaker 3: Is that what I can do at your party?

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Speaker 4: Well, he means more like you're talking to everyone, not

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Speaker 2: Not just eating all the nachos. Yeah, no, that's not

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Speaker 2: what I can do at your party. No, that's what

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Speaker 1: Well, I think I might have one more super Bowl party,

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Speaker 1: but the staff here is so small now, that like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: if half the staff didn't show up, that would mean

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Speaker 1: three people would show up at my super Bowl party,

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Speaker 1: So all right. Next one. Lastly, Dave Bailey's impression of

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Speaker 1: you licking your lips on Instagram had me absolutely crying

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Speaker 1: laughing because I'm not gonna lie. It was painfully accurate.

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Speaker 1: Now I can see it when I watch YouTube live

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Speaker 1: and I kind of hate that for me. Lmaoh, all jokes, Dave,

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Speaker 1: Do I lick my lips a lot?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: I don't realize that at all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, You're not like you don't lick your lips. You

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Speaker 2: just like put your tongue down in the bottom, in

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Speaker 2: your bottom lip. Yep, that's what you do. I do

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Speaker 2: all the time.

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Speaker 3: Yepper wow, like a little lizard.

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Speaker 5: I see.

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Speaker 1: while listening talking about listening to audiobooks rather than reading sometime.

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Speaker 5: Faily really quickly, what can you get?

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Speaker 4: You can get something from the library that's digital, right, yeah,

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Speaker 2: The app is called Libby, and that's it's a library app.

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Speaker 4: And just trying to figure out what to ask for

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Speaker 4: My mom always, my mom goes really crazy with Christmas still,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like top of this, I'm gonna write it down,

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Speaker 1: Next one last one from Taylor. I randomly remember a

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Speaker 1: And well, what were your favorite field trips? I'll start

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Speaker 1: She was great. She read Charlotte's Web to our class

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Speaker 4: Mine was always town to Milwaukee. They had the Mitchell

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's cool when you're a little kid.

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Speaker 1: so in a recording studio the ceiling and the floor

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Speaker 1: are not perpendicular or any of the walls, and they

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Speaker 1: tend to like bounce the sound into a corner. That's

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