1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,560 Speaker 1: Variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's 2 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 1: Star one on one three, it's Marcus back with second 3 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 1: date update. 4 00:00:06,000 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 2: Just quick recap. 5 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:08,840 Speaker 1: So basically, if you went on a date but you 6 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 1: get ghosted and you're sitting there going why what happened? 7 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:13,080 Speaker 2: What I do? 8 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 1: That's where we swoop in and help. We're gonna call 9 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:16,279 Speaker 1: your date with you on the phone and try to 10 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:19,479 Speaker 1: figure it all out. Let's say good morning to Trevor. Hello, Trevor, Hey, 11 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 1: what's up? 12 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:20,319 Speaker 3: Budd? 13 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:20,600 Speaker 2: Hey? 14 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:20,800 Speaker 3: Man? 15 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 2: You got ghosted? Right like? 16 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:22,880 Speaker 4: That? 17 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:24,760 Speaker 2: Did happen a hardcore yeah? 18 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, it doesn't always happen. Sometimes it's a slow play, 19 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 1: backpedal Homer into the bushes. 20 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 5: This one doesn't. It doesn't make any sense to me. 21 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:34,519 Speaker 2: So okay, let's talk about it. 22 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 1: So her name is Melissa, and then so how did 23 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:39,480 Speaker 1: you guys meet and what did you do on your date? 24 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 5: We might online and first day on date we ended 25 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 5: up going to this brewery in San Jose and we 26 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 5: had we had talked before, we had texted before, and 27 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:53,239 Speaker 5: she was she was saying she was down for your 28 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 5: place that at Beard Nachos. You gotta respect that, you 29 00:00:56,360 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 5: gotta love. 30 00:00:57,120 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 2: The lady doesn't mind eating with her hands. I'm in. 31 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 2: I'm in on that. 32 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:05,199 Speaker 3: So I mean he's talk about like the favorite road 33 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 3: trips and h Pixar movies, like which one's the best 34 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 3: and which one's sucking? 35 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 5: Know how they've gone downhill? Stuff like that. She due. 36 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 5: She was effortlessly funny, Okay, hilarious. 37 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 1: Hold on, she's a humor and eats nachos. We're green 38 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 1: flat and all the way to the finish line. 39 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 5: Well, you think I'm calling you because she's awesome. 40 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 3: I don't know what happened. I even admitted to her 41 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 3: that I sleep. 42 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 5: With a fan on full blast, you know. 43 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 6: Okay, next day sent a text nothing and then after 44 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 6: that then attacks nothing something? 45 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 5: What uh? What are we doing here? 46 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 3: What happened? 47 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 2: Like? 48 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 3: Did I miss something? 49 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 2: All right? Got my guy Trevor on the phone, and 50 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:45,959 Speaker 2: he is smitten. 51 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 1: He's sprung. I hope you don't mind him talking about 52 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 1: you like you're not here, Trevor. But Melissa, I wrote 53 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 1: it down. She loves nachos, she loves beer, and she 54 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 1: has a great sense of humor. We need to figure 55 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 1: out what's going on, because you said you got hardcore ghosted. 56 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 1: Does that correct, let's figure this out. Go ahead and 57 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 1: meet your phone and we'll give her a shout. Right 58 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 1: now here we go. Hello, Hi, may I speak to Melissa? 59 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 2: Please? 60 00:02:17,400 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 4: Uh? Yeah, this is Melissa. 61 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:22,679 Speaker 2: Guys you calling Hi Melissa. It's Marcus calling from Star 62 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 2: one O one three. Good morning. 63 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:27,800 Speaker 4: I'm sorry. 64 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 1: I work for Star one O one three. It's a 65 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 1: radio station out of San Francisco. I don't suppose you 66 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:33,920 Speaker 1: listened to the show. 67 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:35,919 Speaker 4: No, I don't really listen. 68 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 2: That's cool. 69 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 4: Sorry, what's this about? 70 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 2: Sorry? 71 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:41,680 Speaker 1: I'm wondering if you have a minute to discuss a 72 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:44,080 Speaker 1: date you've been on recently. So we do something on 73 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 1: the show called second Date Update. And I'm calling on 74 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 1: behalf of a guy who says he just took you out. 75 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 1: He's feeling like maybe you ghosted. I'm trying to figure 76 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 1: out what. Frankly, nine point nine out of ten times 77 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: somebody did something wrong. So did he do something wrong? 78 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 1: His name is Trevor. Would you mind talking about your 79 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 1: date with Trevor for a sec? 80 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 4: Oh? Do I's going to be like on the air. 81 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,080 Speaker 5: Yes, Yeah, that's so. 82 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:11,919 Speaker 4: He called you guys to talk about the date. 83 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 2: Yes, can you tell me about it? 84 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 4: I feel I don't really like to talk bad about people, 85 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:21,399 Speaker 4: you know, like behind your back or whatever. But I mean, 86 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 4: what do you do? Yeah, we did. We totally, We 87 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 4: totally went on a date. Yeah, we had been texting 88 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:30,640 Speaker 4: and things were feeling pretty good. I'm not he's not 89 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 4: like like a monster. I'm not gonna be like He's like, 90 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 4: that's fine, it's went pretty good. I don't know what 91 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 4: he told you, but yeah, we did go to this 92 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 4: like brewery. We got some we got some food, and 93 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 4: conversation was going pretty good. She got like a little weird. 94 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 4: I don't know. He pulls out his phone and he's like, hey, 95 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 4: do you want to take this compatibility quiz? 96 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 2: And I'm compatibility quiz? How do you mean? 97 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:02,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, see if we're like compatible as a couple. I 98 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 4: guess I don't know. I used to take those a 99 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 4: like BuzzFeed or whatever, like that's the kind of saying 100 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 4: things of like what what house? 101 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 3: And Harry Potter or you whatever. 102 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:13,119 Speaker 4: I don't know. But he's like, yeah, take this quiz. 103 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:16,600 Speaker 4: This thing must have been like a hundred questions. He 104 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 4: was crazy. And then I'm going through it. I'm like 105 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 4: trying not to take it too seriously because of like 106 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 4: all right, we're just like waiting for more drinks or whatever, 107 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:29,479 Speaker 4: and he kept savings like oh wow, like we're really aligned, 108 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:32,919 Speaker 4: and oh yeah, this seems like I can see this 109 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:36,039 Speaker 4: being long term, like your answers are like still on point. 110 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:39,360 Speaker 4: And then so there was that. 111 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 3: And I'm like, all right, like once. 112 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 4: This is done, like we can just kind of move on. 113 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:47,160 Speaker 4: But then he had the weirdest eye contact. I don't 114 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:50,360 Speaker 4: know what, but it was freaking. 115 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:52,480 Speaker 2: Me the hell out. 116 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, he was like texting me after I don't know. 117 00:04:56,920 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 4: I sent the one text to Limo like I got 118 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 4: home okay, but then after that I didn't really I 119 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 4: got it. 120 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:06,919 Speaker 1: The other part of this is that so Trevor is 121 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:11,720 Speaker 1: actually on the phone listening again. Sorry, trying to create 122 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 1: teachable moments. 123 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:15,800 Speaker 5: Here, Melissa. It's science. 124 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 3: It works. 125 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:19,279 Speaker 5: It's the did you I read you? The thing? 126 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:22,280 Speaker 1: You're hot right now, You're a little hot, so to 127 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 1: take it down, you're to ten. 128 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:27,279 Speaker 3: The thing is, it's like it's a built in conversation starter. 129 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 3: So I think, I mean, it's basically you're basically playing 130 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:34,840 Speaker 3: that game would you rather? But you know, but as 131 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:37,240 Speaker 3: well as that, it's like, you know, wouldn't you rather 132 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 3: know that instead of wasting your time, you know, you 133 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 3: might be with the right person instead of the wrong person. 134 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 4: Uh huh, Yeah, I don't really believe in that kind 135 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 4: of thing. It was a lot at one, you know, 136 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:52,360 Speaker 4: I got it, But I think you could totally find 137 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:54,360 Speaker 4: someone who is into that and like wants to take 138 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:55,119 Speaker 4: quizzes together. 139 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, Trevor, I feel like this is a little aggressive 140 00:05:57,320 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 1: for a first date. 141 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 2: Maybe like a third Yeah, you know. 142 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 5: Well, here here's the thing. 143 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 6: First off, thank you for calling her, and I just 144 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 6: want to officially say, you know what, Melissa, I don't 145 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 6: think we are a match. So I'm glad we got 146 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 6: that settled. And you know what, I think we're there. 147 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 6: I don't even I don't need this science to prove 148 00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 6: that because here we are. 149 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 2: All right, hang on, then that's not happening. It's a 150 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 2: second date update. There you go.