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Speaker 1: The next segment we're going to.

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Speaker 2: Do is called second Date Update, because that's what we're

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Speaker 2: going to try and get and that's what the bit

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Speaker 2: is called. Second Date Update starts right now on John

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Speaker 2: Jay and Ridge one A four to seven Kiss FM

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Speaker 2: Johntay and Rich. It's time for Second Date Update. You

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Speaker 2: meet somebody, you got a date, have a great time.

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Speaker 2: You expect it to be a second date. It doesn't happen.

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Speaker 3: So you come to us, Uh, Tiana, good morning.

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Speaker 4: Hey, how are you good?

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Speaker 1: How are you welcome to second Update? We want to

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Speaker 1: hear your story that we're going to call the guy

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Speaker 1: to blee off. What's your story?

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Speaker 4: Hey?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, So I'm calling because I genuinely feel like

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Speaker 5: I'm being ghosted like or kind of ignored. So I

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Speaker 5: went out with this guy and it was very much

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Speaker 5: like a Netflix and Chill situation. And I'll just be

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Speaker 5: really honest, like we're both big stoners. So the plan

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Speaker 5: was honestly just to stay in and watch a movie

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Speaker 5: and smoke, so like no pressure, like just super chill,

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Speaker 5: but I'll be honest. I definitely outsmoked him and liked

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Speaker 5: by a lot, so he appeared like he just kind

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Speaker 5: of couldn't hang and he started like low key tripping,

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Speaker 5: and after a bit, I just went home because it

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Speaker 5: got awkward. And we were like totally fine when I left.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, but we even made plans for the weekend.

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Speaker 5: And now he's being super weird, like barely responding, and

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Speaker 5: I can't tell if he's embarrassed or I I don't

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Speaker 5: know if he like freaked himself out or I don't know,

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Speaker 5: it's just blowing me off. And I'm confused because we

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Speaker 5: had sex, and like, I don't know, I'm just I'm

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Speaker 5: really I'm really confused as to where he stands.

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Speaker 6: Wow, I wonder if he like got upset that you've

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Speaker 6: left him while he was tripping out, you know what

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Speaker 6: I mean? Like this, he figured you're just gonna you're

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Speaker 6: gonna leave.

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Speaker 7: Me like that?

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Speaker 6: Howaru Like that's like a red flag side like you

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Speaker 6: don't take care of the person you're with. Or he

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Speaker 6: really just was in it to get it and that

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Speaker 6: was it.

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Speaker 8: Right, Or he's embarrassed because when you get out smoked

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Speaker 8: by a girly pop every now and then, it could

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Speaker 8: take a shot a tree.

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Speaker 7: You go, what kind of weed does?

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Speaker 1: It doesn't matter what kind of weed. It was like,

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Speaker 1: you know it was it light potent? Was it very potent?

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Speaker 7: You know?

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Speaker 1: Was it purple monkey balls?

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Speaker 9: No, it's fine for me.

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Speaker 1: Was it wizards glue?

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Speaker 7: What it was great?

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Speaker 3: I'm just trying to think of some of the names

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Speaker 3: of weed I used to back in the day, back

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Speaker 3: when I partied.

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Speaker 10: Was it Scooby snacks, No, it was it was fine,

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Speaker 10: giggle nuggets? Were you smoking a fluffy cushions?

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Speaker 5: Strong stuff but not like crazy?

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Speaker 1: Was it a Laska thunderfunk?

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Speaker 11: No?

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Speaker 5: I don't even know what those are.

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Speaker 1: Well, those are the kind of if you smoked all

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Speaker 1: that of mine, I wouldn't call you back either.

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Speaker 8: Top shelf.

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Speaker 5: Well, no, it's just that snither your north air. We

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Speaker 5: had a good time, and I don't understand though, I

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Speaker 5: don't get it.

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Speaker 1: You think, John Jay, he's because she smoked all his weed.

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Speaker 3: He probably got enough weed for the night to impress

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Speaker 3: this girl. She smoked it all, and he's like, dangre man.

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Speaker 1: I can't give all this woman. What do I know? Anyway?

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Speaker 1: All right, well, let's call him and find out how

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Speaker 1: long ago was his date? I was week in a hospital, okay,

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Speaker 1: And what's his name?

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Speaker 5: His name is Solomon.

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Speaker 1: A very simple.

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Speaker 3: Premise, right, go on a date, smoked a lot of weed,

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Speaker 3: had sex, and then he's not calling anymore. But why

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Speaker 3: we will find out? We will call Solomon. Second ate

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Speaker 3: update continues next for John Jay and Rich.

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Speaker 1: John Jay and Rich, John Jay and Rich.

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Speaker 3: Keana is getting blown off by Solomon Portiana.

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Speaker 11: She likes the weed, so did her date. They had

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Speaker 11: a Netflix and inhale night she outtoked him, and now

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Speaker 11: he's vaping her like vapor get it?

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Speaker 1: I did well?

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Speaker 11: She wants to know where he is and who's bringing

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Speaker 11: the snacks for the next day.

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Speaker 1: All right, town, that's a good recap.

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Speaker 5: All right, all right, all right?

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Speaker 1: You also had right, I.

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Speaker 5: Mean more than just smoke. We like, we like were physical.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't know how to put that in the recap.

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Speaker 1: It seemed like I was a little too invasive. All right,

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call Solomon. You hang tight, We'll get him

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Speaker 1: on the phone figure out what went wrong. Okay, So

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Speaker 1: just hang tight.

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Speaker 7: Here we go. Okay, Hello, Hi is this Solomon?

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Speaker 1: Yeah speaking Hi.

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Speaker 7: My name is Speyton.

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Speaker 8: I'm with John Jay and Rich and we just wanted

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Speaker 8: to talk to you on the radio really quickly.

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Speaker 1: This morning, if you're free, I guess maybe, Solomon, But

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Speaker 1: is that cool? We put you on the radio.

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Speaker 3: Sure, Solomon Salamander, Solo mio, Solomon Selement.

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Speaker 1: Hey, so here's the deal. We were talking to this

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Speaker 1: really nice girl. She said, she went out of a

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Speaker 1: day with you.

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Speaker 3: You guys, went back to your house, smoked a lot

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Speaker 3: of weed or her house, I don't know who's how

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Speaker 3: she went back to smoked out of weed.

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Speaker 1: U even got pretty intimate, and she hasn't heard from

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Speaker 1: me since.

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Speaker 3: So she was telling us the story, and we figured,

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Speaker 3: since you smoked weed, we could just talk to your

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Speaker 3: point blank and just say what happened.

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Speaker 1: She says, you're blowing her off. Why, Solomon, Why.

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Speaker 4: I didn't think I was blowing her off. It's just

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Speaker 4: I'm not on my so like that, and I'm pretty

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Speaker 4: bad at texting in general.

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Speaker 1: What you answered, we called so grateful for that. So

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Speaker 1: you know we're talking.

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Speaker 4: We're talking about looks like something I needed to pick up.

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Speaker 1: So I picked up. Okay, so we're talking about so

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Speaker 1: are you So you're not blowing her off?

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Speaker 7: Then?

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Speaker 6: No, not at all.

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Speaker 4: Like everything went great. The only thing that kind of

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Speaker 4: bothered me a little bit. Was like she ate all

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Speaker 4: of my mom's film made sour cream dip, Like that

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Speaker 4: wasn't store bother that was like family made dip. But

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Speaker 4: like we even talked about hanging out this coming weekend,

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Speaker 4: and I thought that was like the plan that we set.

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Speaker 4: So I don't know why she thinks I'm blowing her off.

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Speaker 1: Have you checked in? Yes?

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Speaker 6: Have you checked in, like hey, just making sure we're

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Speaker 6: still on from plans?

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Speaker 4: No, I honestly haven't, but like I probably should shoot

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Speaker 4: your text breds Okay, wait Solomon, Hi, Hi, Yeah it's me,

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Speaker 4: so it's counting at me.

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Speaker 11: My bad.

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Speaker 5: I I know, I caught you off guard, and I

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Speaker 5: was just confused because you are kind of like low

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Speaker 5: key ghosting me, you know, because you were texting me

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Speaker 5: back like all all the time before we hung out,

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Speaker 5: and then after it just felt different and I got worried.

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Speaker 4: I guess, yeah, it's not me, it's my bad, But

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Speaker 4: like I still want to weekend if you're down for.

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Speaker 5: It, well, like okay, but listen, like I'm not asking

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Speaker 5: for constant communication, like we're not really even dating. Like

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Speaker 5: I just didn't want to look stupid and feel stupid.

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Speaker 5: I guess, like for you not responding to me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not a problem. It's my bad completely, Like

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Speaker 4: I wasn't trying to go shoot, It's just like I

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Speaker 4: move a bit slow sometimes and.

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Speaker 1: I guess I wasn't really checking that.

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Speaker 4: It's actually I thought we made the plan. So like

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Speaker 4: it's my bad, I'll do better nice.

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Speaker 7: Accountability is hard, like silence.

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Speaker 8: Feel sorry, I said accountability it's hard to come by.

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Speaker 8: And I feel like he's you know, and he's admitting

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Speaker 8: I probably should have texted you bad.

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Speaker 1: She was about to say something very powerful. Silence feels

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Speaker 1: I'm dying what silence feels what?

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Speaker 5: Oh, I was just gonna say that. Silence feels like

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Speaker 5: a message. Yeah, and I understand, like I'm grateful to

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Speaker 5: hear that. Maybe this is just you know, we we

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Speaker 5: have to learn each other's communications styles. Like I totally

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Speaker 5: get it, but maybe this is just good for you

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Speaker 5: to know Solomon that like it doesn't feel very good.

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Speaker 1: You know, I just wrote that down.

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Speaker 4: I saved it in my nap.

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Speaker 1: I don't as.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So, like, are you still down to hang out

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Speaker 4: this weekend? Like no pressure if you're not, but like

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Speaker 4: I'd like to see you again.

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean I'm happy to hear the hut. I

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Speaker 5: I'm really happy to yah.

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Speaker 1: How wonderful.

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Speaker 3: Listen, Peyton will give you guys her VIP code to

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Speaker 3: get a bunch of weed from one of the places

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Speaker 3: she goes.

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Speaker 1: All right, got you guys, All right, just say you

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Speaker 1: know pee wit and you can get in anywhere. Oh god,

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Speaker 1: what a blast from the past.

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Speaker 8: I don't know how I.

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Speaker 5: Feel about to actually thank you guys.

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Speaker 9: And you know, we'll have some fun things to talk

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Speaker 9: about afterwards and we see each other again, and maybe

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Speaker 9: this is just a little like flip and you know,

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Speaker 9: but I appreciate.

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Speaker 5: I feel better, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, good, hold on the line, you guys. I want

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Speaker 1: to connect you guys, even though you heard you have

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Speaker 1: each other's numbers. I just don't know what to say

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Speaker 1: to end this segment

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Speaker 2: On hold on yay, that's second date Upate John Jay

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Speaker 2: and Rich