WEBVTT - Mason tested Bianca, Bianca passed but Mason failed

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<v Speaker 1>Let's bring in our guy Mason for a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Mason? Good morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you guys? I'm good, man. We're going to

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<v Speaker 1>get right to it. We want to talk about your date.

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<v Speaker 1>We want to talk about this lady.

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<v Speaker 3>And we're going to try to figure out, A, if

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<v Speaker 3>she ghosted, and B, try to secure you a second date.

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<v Speaker 3>Tell me about your date with Bianca.

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<v Speaker 2>So we went to downtown Campbell. We just went down

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<v Speaker 2>there to get, like, dinners and drinks.

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<v Speaker 4>Sure.

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<v Speaker 1>It's cute there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it is.

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<v Speaker 4>It was really nice.

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<v Speaker 2>And the conversation was even better. We were really hitting

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<v Speaker 2>it off, got another round of drinks. And then at

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<v Speaker 2>the end of everything, she told me, she said, I

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<v Speaker 2>had a really good time.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>So I felt everything was good.

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<v Speaker 1>What has been the aftermath?

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<v Speaker 2>So I text her the next day and got nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>And I knew she had to work, so I kept

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<v Speaker 2>it cool. So I tried again a couple days later

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<v Speaker 2>and still nothing.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, so you feel like it's been a reasonable

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<v Speaker 3>amount of time.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not spamming her with the texts or the calls.

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<v Speaker 2>Nope.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, well, let's try it one more time. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>going to have you mute your phone. We're going to

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<v Speaker 3>call Bianca. I'll ask her a couple of questions, and

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<v Speaker 3>let's try to figure out if we can get a

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<v Speaker 3>second date.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that cool? Sounds good to me. All right, give

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<v Speaker 1>me a couple songs. We'll get it done. It is

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, star 1013. Hello? I'm looking for Bianca.

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<v Speaker 4>That's Bianca.

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<v Speaker 2>Who's this?

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<v Speaker 1>Bianca, it's Marcus calling from Star 101.3. Good morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you?

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<v Speaker 2>Confused, I guess. Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Why are you calling?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you listen to the show in the morning?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, God.

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<v Speaker 4>Is this a second date update?

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<v Speaker 1>It is.

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<v Speaker 4>And this must be about Mason then, right?

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<v Speaker 1>It is.

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<v Speaker 4>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Mason. Mason, are you there?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>All right.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I am.

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<v Speaker 1>It's on you guys. Bianca, Mason, Mason, Bianca. So Bianca,

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<v Speaker 1>did you ghost Mason?

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<v Speaker 4>I guess you can call it that. Sure.

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<v Speaker 1>How was the date? Tell me everything.

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<v Speaker 4>The date was good until he like tested me.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean? Oh, come on. Tested you how?

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<v Speaker 4>So like about like halfway through our dinner, he like

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<v Speaker 4>got up to use the bathroom. Uh-huh. And He put

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<v Speaker 4>his phone down on the table, like right next to

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<v Speaker 4>me unlocked. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was just like, all right, like whatever. And

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<v Speaker 4>I just left his phone there. And then he comes

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<v Speaker 4>back from the bathroom. He picks up his phone. He

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<v Speaker 4>looks at it. He goes, nice.

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<v Speaker 1>What does that even mean?

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<v Speaker 4>Right. I was kind of like, nice. What, like, what

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<v Speaker 4>are you talking about? And he was just like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 4>you didn't look at my phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, Mason. Hold on. What does this even mean?

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<v Speaker 4>I guess he was, like, testing me to see if

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<v Speaker 4>I would, like, look through his phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Mason, is this legit?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I did.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I was wondering if she was going to

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<v Speaker 2>try to snoop through my phone. You know, I just

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to see what she'd do.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, but, like, on a first date, it's kind of

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<v Speaker 4>crazy to do that, no?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's not a big deal that she didn't

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<v Speaker 2>even look at it.

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<v Speaker 4>She passed. Yeah, but that's the problem. Like, why am

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<v Speaker 4>I being tested on a first date? That is so

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<v Speaker 4>weird to me. Hey, not everybody passes. I don't think

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<v Speaker 4>you're understanding that, like, nobody wants to be tested, especially

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<v Speaker 4>on a first date, you know? And then I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like sitting there wondering, like. if he's testing me

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<v Speaker 4>about that on the first time I'm meeting him, what's

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<v Speaker 4>he going to test me about in the future? Is

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<v Speaker 4>he going to like send a friend to flirt with me?

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<v Speaker 4>Is he going to like leave money around to see

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<v Speaker 4>what I do? Like, I don't know. I'm just like,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to be tested for a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, look, I mean, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I've had trust issues in the past.

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<v Speaker 4>You know? And so it's like, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, but you're making me sound insane.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm just telling you where my brain went. And that,

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<v Speaker 4>I think, is valuable information for you to know moving forward.

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<v Speaker 1>Mason, you get how this feels manipulative, right?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, maybe I should have just told her that I

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<v Speaker 2>had trust issues up top. Maybe I should have told

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<v Speaker 2>her trust is a big deal to me.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, maybe you should have done that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Now that we know that, and I'm sorry I acted

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<v Speaker 2>that way, does that change anything?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, yeah, like, it really bothered me because I

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<v Speaker 4>liked you. But I'm not about to date someone who's

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<v Speaker 4>just going to, like, test me over and over and

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<v Speaker 4>over again. And I don't know that I could trust

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<v Speaker 4>you now. You know, you're saying you have trust issues, but,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, that makes me not trust you. Fair enough.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on. So no second date, Bianca?

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<v Speaker 4>Not from me, no.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, hang on.