1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,160 Speaker 1: John Jay and Rich Good morning, Kendrick, thanks. 2 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:04,440 Speaker 2: For holding Hey, thanks for having me. 3 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 1: What's up? 4 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 2: Me and my best friend of fifteen years were roommates 5 00:00:08,840 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 2: and I just found out that he's been comforting my 6 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:17,960 Speaker 2: ex girlfriend behind my back for like the last three weeks. 7 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:23,400 Speaker 2: And like this is even worse this entire time, Like 8 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:26,720 Speaker 2: he just had a deafinite family and lost his job. 9 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 2: So I've been trying to cheer him up, but he 10 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:33,200 Speaker 2: has been lying to my face, like he's been staying 11 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:35,320 Speaker 2: at the house when I go to work, and he's like, oh, 12 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:37,640 Speaker 2: I'm trying, I'm trying to get a new job. I'm 13 00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 2: trying to get a new job. But I find out 14 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:43,200 Speaker 2: that he's been going to her place and I don't 15 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:47,199 Speaker 2: even know what they's been doing, right, But you can't. 16 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:47,600 Speaker 1: Figure that out? 17 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 2: But do you do? 18 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:50,319 Speaker 1: You get the vibe that he's trying to move in. 19 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:52,879 Speaker 3: See, I don't know if he's trying to move in 20 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 3: with her, but I will tell you this, I can't. 21 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 3: I can't believe that he's gonna like betray me that way. 22 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 3: You know, he's out here spending time with my ex 23 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 3: girlfriend and look, yes, I know what they're doing, Okay, And. 24 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:09,560 Speaker 2: So eventually I just got so mad. I finally I 25 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 2: just went to the house. I even left work early. 26 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:13,039 Speaker 2: I went to the house when I knew he was 27 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 2: gonna be there, and I told him I know what 28 00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:18,839 Speaker 2: you're doing. And turns out she was there too. Oh no, 29 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:20,960 Speaker 2: he's been bringing her to our place. 30 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 4: Oh man, awkward. Well she's probably using him to get 31 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 4: to you, right, to mess you up. 32 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 1: That's happening, he said. 33 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 2: Well, I just wouldn't understand their deep connection. 34 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you're was it a bad breakup between you 35 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 4: and your ex? 36 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 1: Who broke up with who? 37 00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 2: I broke up with her, But it's because she was 38 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 2: like becoming super controlling, wanted to know everything I was doing, 39 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 2: and I never caught her. But it felt like one 40 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 2: of those things where somebody changes, like maybe she cheated 41 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 2: and so she started to who's on your phone? Who's 42 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 2: that Ryan? So, But when he said that I wouldn't 43 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 2: understand it connection, I was like, you know what, that's it. 44 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 2: I'm done being the bigger person. I'm done being the 45 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:14,960 Speaker 2: person that's like, well, this is my friend. And so 46 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:18,080 Speaker 2: I told him, I said, dude, I gave him aviction. Notice, 47 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 2: I said, you got thirty days to get out of 48 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:20,600 Speaker 2: my apartment. 49 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 1: You know, can I can? 50 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 5: I present a couple of things your way, And they 51 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 5: asked you a couple of questions. You said, You're trying 52 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 5: to do everything you can to comfort him because there 53 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:29,639 Speaker 5: was there's a death who died in his family. 54 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 2: I think it was it was like a cousin or 55 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 2: a cousin. They were really close. 56 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:44,639 Speaker 1: Okay, there was a cousin emotions. You are doing everything you. 57 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 5: Can to comfort him. She's obviously doing a better job 58 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:51,080 Speaker 5: comforting him through this tragedy. But why don't you look 59 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:54,520 Speaker 5: at it like you're you like, that's your ex and 60 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:57,640 Speaker 5: you're kind of letting it happen, Like you're kind of 61 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 5: like that's your way of like you continuing to keep 62 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 5: the friendship. You're like, I'm letting I'm comforting him by 63 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:07,119 Speaker 5: letting him do this, like you know, and then maybe 64 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:08,639 Speaker 5: at some point a couple of months, we do, what's 65 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 5: the deal with you be with Francine, dude? 66 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 1: Because your cousin died. I was like, I was like, 67 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 1: letting it chill. 68 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:15,359 Speaker 5: But now that a couple of times months have gone by, 69 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 5: you can be like if they form a great relationship 70 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:19,920 Speaker 5: with their boyfriend, and girlfriend then it was meant to be. 71 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 5: If they're not, you can then then approach him and say, 72 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 5: you know, what's what gifts? 73 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 2: I mean that makes sense, but I mean I just can't. 74 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:30,239 Speaker 6: I wouldn't want to too like that in my life, 75 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 6: Like no, yeah, I'm my friend. 76 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 4: You don't understand our deep connection is probably him giving 77 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 4: himself permission to do what he's doing. 78 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:42,360 Speaker 6: Right, He's choosing her over you, which I mean, everyone 79 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 6: makes their own decisions, but I think you're absolutely right 80 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 6: by giving him that eviction you know nos, and say hey, 81 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 6: get your stuff and get ready to be done with 82 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 6: that friendship and that relationship. 83 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 4: It's a messy. 84 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, that sucks. 85 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 2: I'm stuck living with this guy for like thirty more days, 86 00:03:57,480 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 2: but it's worth the awkwardness to so that I don't 87 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 2: have to live with a backstabber. 88 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 4: Yeah ahead, all right, man, Well thanks for sharing that 89 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 4: with us, Kendrick. 90 00:04:09,360 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 1: What a great story. 91 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 4: Was great? 92 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 1: Now it was great? Thanks all right? Not for Kendrick. Now, 93 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 1: I'm glad you came to us. Have a great day 94 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 1: you too.