1 00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:05,480 Speaker 1: Well we're back, and I will take full credit for 2 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:10,400 Speaker 1: last week's non podcast issue. Well, well, we knew Genny 3 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:12,440 Speaker 1: went be able to do Monday, which we talked about. Yeah, 4 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:15,200 Speaker 1: but then I had forgotten that I scheduled something Tuesday, 5 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 1: and I was, like, I told Jenny, even today, we're 6 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:22,079 Speaker 1: recording later than we normally would. It's gotten very difficult 7 00:00:22,079 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: for me to Oh. Mine last week was a hair appointment, 8 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 1: and that might sound ridiculous, but you know how girls 9 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 1: hair usually takes like two hours to color at least, 10 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 1: Well that's the only amount of time I have in 11 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:34,919 Speaker 1: a window, so I have a window. So I have 12 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:38,280 Speaker 1: to find an eleven fifteen am appointment with my girl, 13 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 1: which is basically impossible, and I have to tell her 14 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:44,199 Speaker 1: I have to be out by like one it is, 15 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 1: and I haven't had my hair done and probably like 16 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 1: I had it cut, like not the longo, but I 17 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 1: haven't had it colored. And I was like, I'd like 18 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 1: to not have grace for my friend's wedding next weekend. 19 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 1: So anyway, today I had a doctor's appointment and the 20 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 1: only time I have Basically here's what I've decided. I 21 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 1: am only going to do this schedule for one more year, 22 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:04,040 Speaker 1: and I don't know what that means. I don't know 23 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:06,120 Speaker 1: if that means I quit one of my jobs, but 24 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 1: I will. I have one more year left in me 25 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:12,480 Speaker 1: of this psychotic schedule, and then something has to give. 26 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:15,320 Speaker 2: I mean, I don't even know how you've been doing 27 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 2: it as long as you've done it. 28 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 1: It's been two years now, Well that's a lie. It's 29 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:23,199 Speaker 1: been over a year with that schedule, like the both 30 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 1: jobs schedule, right, and it has felt like ten years 31 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:30,120 Speaker 1: has been taken off of my life. And then now 32 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:32,039 Speaker 1: Jake has a new job and he's been traveling a 33 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:34,319 Speaker 1: lot more for work, and it's all hands on deck. 34 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 1: So I had all up by myself all weekend and 35 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:40,120 Speaker 1: he comes back tomorrow. And so she's sick. So last 36 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 1: night I didn't get any sleep because she just coughed 37 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 1: in my face all night and I couldn't get mad 38 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:45,399 Speaker 1: at her. I mean, she's sick, what do you you know? 39 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 1: And then she woke up and she felt better, and 40 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, she didn't have a fever. So 41 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: I did send her to school, but like Jake's mom 42 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 1: has to get her today and then I'll have to 43 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 1: go home and immediately tag back it and as soon 44 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 1: as I'm done with the afternoon show, I have to 45 00:01:56,400 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 1: go to a client meeting. Dinah, I'm a snap one day, 46 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:03,240 Speaker 1: I don't know, I can't remember things, and a lot 47 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:06,559 Speaker 1: of businesses they closed for lunch hours. It's really weird. 48 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:09,359 Speaker 1: So okay, that's why I have to change dentists, which 49 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 1: I talked about. That's a lot of information. But I 50 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 1: just like both jobs so much, so it's like really 51 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 1: hard to say no to doing all the things. Uh huh. 52 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 1: But yeah, I do think I have about one year 53 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 1: left in me and then one of the jobs will 54 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 1: have to change. Yeah, I mean realistically, Yeah, I. 55 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 2: Don't blame you when you took on because I know, 56 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:32,239 Speaker 2: like you did the maternity leave one Kendo, who was 57 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 2: Jason's kind of sidekick at the time, was gone. And 58 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 2: even then I was like, good for you that you're 59 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 2: doing that. And then when like everything changed around there 60 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 2: and they're like, well, fall and you want to come 61 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:43,240 Speaker 2: back and do this all the time, I was like, damn, girl, 62 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 2: good for you, but I probably couldn't handle it, and 63 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:47,240 Speaker 2: I don't even have a kid. 64 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:50,079 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's just like I went to the doctor to 65 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 1: day and they asked about exercise, and I was like, 66 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 1: I don't not have time. I just don't know where 67 00:02:57,200 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 1: to find the time. I can't do anything that gets 68 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 1: it's me super sweaty early before the TV starts, and 69 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 1: then I can't really like I don't have I don't 70 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:09,800 Speaker 1: want to get something super sweaty in between the shows, 71 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 1: and by the time I'm done with the shows, I'm 72 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 1: exhausted and I want to spend time with Olive. So 73 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:18,560 Speaker 1: I was like, I was doing walks over my lunch break, 74 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:20,919 Speaker 1: but I haven't even even been able to go home 75 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 1: over a lunch break more than once a week in 76 00:03:23,480 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 1: the past like two months, because I've had I have 77 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:28,680 Speaker 1: meetings or I have like to catch up on doctors' 78 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 1: pliments or hair or whatever it may be. And so 79 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 1: I was like, I can go to plates sometimes at 80 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 1: seven am, but then I'm also really exhausted because then 81 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 1: I get up even earlier than I would. So I've 82 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:44,119 Speaker 1: been really slacking on like an exercise. So when they're 83 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 1: like how many times a week are you doing, and 84 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't have time. When I did the 85 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 1: morning show, it was awesome. I mean I had what 86 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 1: do you have? You're done? By noon most days, and 87 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 1: so from noon until six pm, you have the option 88 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 1: of like going to work out, And I'm like, I 89 00:03:57,800 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 1: did take that for granted. I definitely did. So Yeah, 90 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 1: I mean not to say you don't have other things 91 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 1: planned throughout the day, but that is like a big 92 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 1: chunk of time to be able to like fit Stefan, 93 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 1: It's a huge chunk. 94 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 2: And yet I don't always find any motivation to go 95 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 2: even though I have all that a BA a. 96 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 1: Long time, I would go home and take a nap 97 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:17,160 Speaker 1: and then I'd wake up and be like drowsy and 98 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 1: not want to go work out. So I was like 99 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 1: half to work out before I take a nap. But yeah, 100 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 1: so anyway, that's a little bit about me. How about you, Jenny. Well, 101 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:30,720 Speaker 1: since we're sort of on like bitch Fest two thousand, 102 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:31,920 Speaker 1: that's exactly what I say. 103 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 2: So I don't have a normal period, and I've talked 104 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 2: about having the birth ConTroll implant in my arm before. Yeah, 105 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:44,480 Speaker 2: so I get it randomly whatever. Last week, I was 106 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 2: so cranky, I was down, I felt like depressed, I 107 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 2: was so bloated. I had zero motivation when I would 108 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:55,560 Speaker 2: try to work out. It was like half assed. I 109 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 2: just felt awful. My boobs felt like boulders, like just 110 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 2: rap hard. And I don't ever know what phase of 111 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 2: a cycle I might be in, but I know that 112 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 2: that's like the luteal phase, which usually means you should 113 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 2: just like chill, maybe do like some light yoga or something, 114 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 2: but like, I don't know how to do that. If 115 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 2: I'm working out, it's like a little bit harder than that. Yep. 116 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:20,279 Speaker 2: But man, was I in a funk for a handful 117 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:22,160 Speaker 2: of days last week, I feel like, and it bled 118 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 2: into the weekend, and I woke up Saturday morning and 119 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, just get started. 120 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 1: I'm painting the kitchen because I've got my. 121 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:33,480 Speaker 2: Walls done finally and I just want to get it 122 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:35,480 Speaker 2: painted and then I can get the shelving in and 123 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 2: be almost done. 124 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:39,719 Speaker 1: And I couldn't. I laid on my couch. 125 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 2: I was watching two Dogs, and I fucking laid there 126 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:44,840 Speaker 2: and fell back asleep for another like thirty minutes, even 127 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:46,919 Speaker 2: though I wasn't tired. It was bright as hell in 128 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:50,840 Speaker 2: my son room. And then I finally like sort of 129 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:54,160 Speaker 2: got up and moving had some stuff to do, but 130 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 2: I was just in such a funk, and like, I know, 131 00:05:57,600 --> 00:05:59,720 Speaker 2: that your hormones get messed up, and I don't know 132 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 2: what it's called when you kind of get like anxiety 133 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 2: and depression around your period time. I know there's a 134 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:06,599 Speaker 2: medical term for that, right, but I don't feel like 135 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 2: I normally get hit with a lot of that. But 136 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 2: my anxiety has been kind of bad lately, and I 137 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 2: was just, yeah, like I was not happy this last week. 138 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 2: So anyways, my bitch fest is I feel much better. Yeah, 139 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:22,600 Speaker 2: I was like pretty successful since we didn't put record 140 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:24,719 Speaker 2: till little bit later. I did go squeezing out work 141 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 2: out real quick. And Mondays are usually my days where 142 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 2: I can't, for the life of me, get my ass 143 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:30,840 Speaker 2: to the gym or get any kind of at home 144 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 2: workout in because I'm just it's my longish days at work. 145 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:36,920 Speaker 2: So I feel like I'm pretty mentally drained from that. 146 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 2: But yes, I feel much better. But I was not 147 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:44,599 Speaker 2: doing well this past weekend. 148 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:50,040 Speaker 1: So did you do anything this weekend that of like 149 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:53,160 Speaker 1: fun excitement that you forced yourself out to do that 150 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 1: you want to. 151 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:56,840 Speaker 2: Talk about or I did I So I did go 152 00:06:56,960 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 2: meet with some girlfriends on Friday night, And originally our 153 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 2: plan was to go to Balluto because I've still never 154 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:04,400 Speaker 2: fucking tried it, and I've heard from you for forever 155 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:05,920 Speaker 2: how good it is. Good. 156 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:08,159 Speaker 1: So we were going to go downtown by the way, Yeah, 157 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:10,560 Speaker 1: like what is it? It's well, they have like impinadus too, 158 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 1: but it's like an Argentinian, a Argentina Argentine. I think 159 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 1: you were at the First Canyon. I'm going to mess 160 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 1: that up style pizza and it's so good. So yeah, 161 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 1: still have never been. 162 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 2: We all agreed like we wanted to go there, and 163 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 2: then we didn't realize because we're going to go downtown 164 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:27,240 Speaker 2: that it was the Paul McCartney concert that night. So 165 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 2: we're like, yeah, we're not gonna go out because you 166 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 2: can't get a reservation. Uh, So we ended up going 167 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 2: to Park Tab middle of the afternoon. I am just 168 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 2: like not having it, and I'm like, I might just 169 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 2: tell the girls I'm not coming, but I hadn't seen 170 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 2: them in forever. One's gotten married and I couldn't go 171 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 2: to her wedding because I had to be at the 172 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:45,000 Speaker 2: State Fair for work and all the stuff. So anyways, 173 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 2: I did get out and I got to that and 174 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 2: it was fun. I feel like I wasn't as like 175 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 2: upbeat as I probably normally would have been, but it 176 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 2: was nice to do that. And then uh, Saturday, I 177 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:58,720 Speaker 2: did go to a fall orchard, so that was fun. 178 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 1: And I had went out by me I know, I'd 179 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 1: never been there. Minutes talk to and I was like, Jenny, 180 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:06,160 Speaker 1: are you coming to visit me? She did. 181 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 2: Right as I'm like getting out there, I get a 182 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:10,600 Speaker 2: text from her and being like are you having to 183 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 2: see me? 184 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:13,320 Speaker 1: And I'm like, god, I always forget you have my location. 185 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 1: So when I read these texts, I'm like, what bitch, 186 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 1: It's just a sweet little that I'm watching. 187 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 2: But anyways, and also I will add this on I'm 188 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 2: very excited, but like full disclosure. So I announced I'm 189 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 2: hosting a group trip. Yes yes, yes, yes, going to 190 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:34,360 Speaker 2: Bali for it. But I have been very stressed since 191 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:36,840 Speaker 2: launching it on Friday because and I know if Allan 192 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 2: knows how this goes, this is what she was texting 193 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 2: me about. 194 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:43,200 Speaker 1: You feel like a salesperson? Yes, very It reminds me 195 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:45,599 Speaker 1: of why I never want to be a salesperson. 196 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:49,240 Speaker 2: Actually yeah, because I you know, you have to get 197 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 2: a minimum amount of people to be able to have 198 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:53,960 Speaker 2: the trip happen and it's eight and I was like, 199 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:56,679 Speaker 2: oh my god, that'll be so easy. Well, after twenty 200 00:08:56,679 --> 00:08:59,160 Speaker 2: four hours only one person had signed up. Yeah, I'm 201 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 2: just in my head constantly checking back to see and 202 00:09:02,760 --> 00:09:05,040 Speaker 2: as of right now, three people have signed up. I've 203 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:07,080 Speaker 2: had a ton of people reaching out to me about it. 204 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:09,080 Speaker 2: A lot of people are nervous because I know, like 205 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 2: the plane ride is really long, like it is a 206 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:19,080 Speaker 2: long travel days, not day travel days, and so I 207 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 2: understand that aspect, but just like behind the scenes, pull 208 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 2: the curtain back a little bit. 209 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 1: All of the other. 210 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 2: Trips were either way too overpriced in my opinion, or 211 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 2: they involved too much like four hour bus rides here 212 00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 2: and like travel transfer here and all this stuff. And 213 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 2: so the Bali itinerary was really, in my opinion, nearly 214 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 2: perfect for everything that like I would be interested in 215 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 2: doing in Bali, and the other ones just weren't as 216 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 2: great itineraries and just weren't They were expensive, and they 217 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:53,680 Speaker 2: involved too much travel and stuff, and nobody wants to 218 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:56,080 Speaker 2: go on a trip. Like we have someone we work 219 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:58,840 Speaker 2: with who did a group trip recently and she was 220 00:09:58,920 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 2: just go, go go, and she didn't like it, and 221 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:03,679 Speaker 2: so I wanted to make sure I was looking out 222 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 2: for that when planning this trip. From learning from her 223 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 2: experience and founds giving me tips too with your group trips. 224 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 2: But that's been an added stressor over my bitchiness, crabbiness, sadness. 225 00:10:14,800 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 2: The last week is launching something for the first time, 226 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 2: having no idea how people are going to respond to it, 227 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 2: and as of right now, still plenty of openings. I 228 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 2: have twenty four spots that I could potentially fill, but 229 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 2: I have three people for sure signed up and quite 230 00:10:29,640 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 2: a few who have messaged and they're like, you know, 231 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 2: I'm just waiting for maybe a friend, maybe I'll just 232 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:37,960 Speaker 2: go solo whatever. But yeah, so I will say, and 233 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 2: this is going to sound saalesy, but it's like something 234 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:43,240 Speaker 2: I always say to everyone that like so many Okay, 235 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 2: I feel like there are so many different levels of 236 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:49,600 Speaker 2: wanting to travel. So you have people who just like 237 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:51,199 Speaker 2: just want to go to Paris or whatever, like they've 238 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:53,839 Speaker 2: always dreamt of that, And I do think Bali seems 239 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 2: like a more adventurous spot. But to me, that seems 240 00:10:57,280 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 2: I feel like for people like a place you would 241 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:02,839 Speaker 2: want to do a group trip, because I don't, by 242 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 2: any means think Bali is dangerous, but in your heads 243 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 2: it's more unknown than like a Paris. So the idea 244 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 2: of going with a group, this is what I always say, 245 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 2: like when I'm selling my trips or whatever, and it's 246 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 2: so true. 247 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:15,480 Speaker 1: It's like sometimes you have a group of friends and 248 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:17,240 Speaker 1: you're the only one in that group of friends that 249 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 1: can afford like a trip to Europe, and it stinks 250 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:21,960 Speaker 1: because you want to go and you want to go 251 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:24,080 Speaker 1: with your friends, but then you just don't ever go 252 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:26,920 Speaker 1: because they can't afford to go, and it sucks. But 253 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:29,720 Speaker 1: one of the things about like the trip is like 254 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 1: you get to go on the trip that you've always 255 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:35,440 Speaker 1: wanted to go on. And the I've for my group 256 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 1: chairs on the yours. The solo rooms are kind of limited. 257 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 1: It's definitely made for like two people. Number one. I 258 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:44,680 Speaker 1: like partnered some people up last year and they you 259 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 1: have to take the risk that you're partnered and it 260 00:11:46,960 --> 00:11:49,560 Speaker 1: worked out, Thank god, everyone loved their Like I think 261 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 1: two or three people did that. They partnered with someone 262 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 1: then maybe they saw on a previous trip, but they 263 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 1: didn't know them personally and it worked out really well. 264 00:11:55,880 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 1: But also it's I always talk about my first one 265 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 1: I did four girls all went solo and they became 266 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:06,319 Speaker 1: like best friends. They to this day. That was in 267 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:09,439 Speaker 1: like twenty eighteen to this day, I follow all of 268 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:12,240 Speaker 1: them on Instagram. They still hang out like that's who 269 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 1: they actively choose to hang out with, and it is 270 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:17,800 Speaker 1: so it warms my heart so much. Yeah, so I 271 00:12:17,840 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 1: always look at it like you could go on this 272 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 1: trip that you want to go on, but you don't 273 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:23,839 Speaker 1: know anyone to go with, but you don't you do 274 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:27,880 Speaker 1: know Jenny. But also like it's you can make friends. 275 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:30,480 Speaker 1: And the thing I was so stressed about, I was like, 276 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 1: oh God, what kind of fucking group am I going 277 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:35,080 Speaker 1: to get? What if there's one person who's like a racist, 278 00:12:35,120 --> 00:12:37,120 Speaker 1: What if there's one person who's a drunk, what if 279 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:39,959 Speaker 1: there's one you know what I mean? I swear Minnesota 280 00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:43,400 Speaker 1: people they just travel well like every p I have 281 00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:46,120 Speaker 1: not had a single person I'm like, I'm fucking kill 282 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:49,839 Speaker 1: that person. So it just immediately just makes the whole 283 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:53,240 Speaker 1: vibe different. And the fun thing too is once you 284 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:55,559 Speaker 1: get your core group and they go with you one 285 00:12:55,640 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 1: time and they have the best time, they will probably 286 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:00,920 Speaker 1: want to go on future trips with you. So basically, 287 00:13:00,960 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 1: get in soon with Jenny because you just I don't 288 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:07,040 Speaker 1: know like I would go if I had the vacation time. 289 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:09,080 Speaker 1: But we are doing like Dylan's trip next year, and 290 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 1: by Dylan, I mean my steps and we're taking him 291 00:13:10,640 --> 00:13:14,240 Speaker 1: on a trip next year for his graduation present, because 292 00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:16,680 Speaker 1: I feel like I would want to do Bali on 293 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 1: a group trip. 294 00:13:17,480 --> 00:13:20,199 Speaker 2: And that's also was kind of my mindset too, because 295 00:13:20,360 --> 00:13:22,679 Speaker 2: Ireland and Italy were pretty high up on like the 296 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 2: survey results that I'd put out there. But once again, 297 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:29,080 Speaker 2: I just didn't love those itineraries and they were just 298 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:32,840 Speaker 2: so expensive, like triple the cost of what BALI is, 299 00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:35,040 Speaker 2: and that also didn't include a flight. 300 00:13:35,200 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 1: So yeah, it's just it's I'm so excited. 301 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:41,120 Speaker 2: I think it'll at least get the minimum of aid 302 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:43,080 Speaker 2: according to the amount of people who have been reaching 303 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 2: out to me. But uh, yes, if you're interested and 304 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:48,320 Speaker 2: you don't know anything about what I'm talking about, I 305 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 2: do have it linked in my bio and also one 306 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 2: of my highlights on my Instagram. 307 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 1: When did they have to sign it by? And it's 308 00:13:54,440 --> 00:13:56,520 Speaker 1: a it's a small deposit to sign up right and 309 00:13:56,559 --> 00:13:58,440 Speaker 1: then because then you can cancel closer to the trip, 310 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:01,000 Speaker 1: But yes, you hopefully won't do. I believe it's ninety 311 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:01,680 Speaker 1: days ahead. 312 00:14:01,800 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 2: You have to be like fully signed up, I think 313 00:14:04,320 --> 00:14:06,120 Speaker 2: paid out in everything. 314 00:14:05,760 --> 00:14:07,880 Speaker 1: But right but right now when as you're like. 315 00:14:07,960 --> 00:14:09,959 Speaker 2: Right now, you just have to put twenty five percent down, 316 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:11,720 Speaker 2: which is like four hundred and twelve. 317 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:13,160 Speaker 1: Dollars, but they have until when to do that. 318 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:17,560 Speaker 2: Well, the first eight spots are like a little bit 319 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 2: cheaper than the rest. Okay, so whenever those fill, it's 320 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 2: like that amount of money, but you do have to 321 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:25,480 Speaker 2: put that down immediately. If you sign up, you have 322 00:14:25,520 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 2: to put that money down. So if you sign up today, 323 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 2: you got to put that for twenty whatever it is down. 324 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:32,400 Speaker 2: I find that in the beginning, the first few days, 325 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:35,320 Speaker 2: you start getting like super stressed out, and it's because 326 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 2: people need a deadline. 327 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:39,440 Speaker 1: They do. They like have to have one, and there 328 00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 1: has to be like the scarcity and until then, like 329 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 1: it'll be My people are kind of slow. I can 330 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:47,840 Speaker 1: tell they're texting their people feeling it out, deciding can 331 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:50,040 Speaker 1: they get those days off work? Do they have it 332 00:14:50,040 --> 00:14:51,240 Speaker 1: in the budget? I don't know how. I just did 333 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:54,200 Speaker 1: a kitchen renovation whatever it may be. And then when 334 00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 1: then like all out of nowhere, multiple people will sign 335 00:14:58,200 --> 00:15:00,560 Speaker 1: up and I'm like, oh crap, okay, guys, I only 336 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 1: now actually have ten spots left, and then it puts 337 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:05,080 Speaker 1: a little fire under everyone's ass. But Jenny and I 338 00:15:05,160 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 1: are using we used are using different groups too. Yeah, 339 00:15:08,120 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 1: like posts, I guess, so I will be curious how 340 00:15:10,680 --> 00:15:14,160 Speaker 1: your experience is with this one. Yeah, I've seen. So. 341 00:15:14,200 --> 00:15:16,520 Speaker 2: The reason I decided to go with the company that 342 00:15:16,560 --> 00:15:19,320 Speaker 2: I'm working with is because a lot of van life 343 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:23,640 Speaker 2: people people do their trips through this company. And there 344 00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:26,160 Speaker 2: was a Mount Kilimanjaro one that I almost signed up for, 345 00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:28,400 Speaker 2: but I just couldn't have the time off from work 346 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:31,120 Speaker 2: because it was such as a really long travel to 347 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 2: there and then also the hike itself. It just would 348 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:37,040 Speaker 2: have been like over two weeks I think I needed 349 00:15:37,080 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 2: off total, and so I couldn't swing it. And it 350 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:44,160 Speaker 2: was very expensive it too. Yeah, so I was quite 351 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:45,960 Speaker 2: sure if I was willing to put that amount of 352 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:49,560 Speaker 2: money doing yet. But I have been interested in some 353 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:52,480 Speaker 2: of those trips. There's another girl that's done Alaska one 354 00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 2: that I thought was so amazing. But I see those 355 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 2: girls do it, and of course they've got way more 356 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 2: followers than me, and stuff like they'll sell out in 357 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:05,119 Speaker 2: like two days or like a day, and I'm like, oh, 358 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 2: like it's just yeah, it's just a little stressful. But anyways, 359 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 2: on my Instagram linked in my bio is the link 360 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 2: to show you the itinerary what it all includes, how 361 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 2: the cost, the payment plan, whatever you need to know. 362 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:20,120 Speaker 2: And then I do have a highlight of just some 363 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:22,640 Speaker 2: more information too as well, and some questions I've gotten. 364 00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:24,760 Speaker 2: Guys are allowed to come. That was one of the 365 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:28,080 Speaker 2: first questions I started getting from people. And I think, like, 366 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 2: there's a couple that have signed up solo, and I 367 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:36,120 Speaker 2: said I would connect everyone soon so that like we 368 00:16:36,200 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 2: can maybe try to coordinate getting on flights together, because 369 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:40,640 Speaker 2: I think that that's what's kind of being the biggest 370 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:42,720 Speaker 2: halt on a lot of people signing up is they're 371 00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:46,040 Speaker 2: a little scared to fly that they're not necessarily scared 372 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:48,520 Speaker 2: to go on a solo group trip, they're scared. 373 00:16:48,280 --> 00:16:50,880 Speaker 1: To fly that long by themselves. You should create a 374 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:54,000 Speaker 1: WhatsApp group. That's what we always have. Our host usually 375 00:16:54,080 --> 00:16:58,400 Speaker 1: creates it. But then it just is helpful with everything. 376 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 1: One you'll need that for when you overseas, but also 377 00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 1: it lets people communicate and share you like that information, 378 00:17:05,119 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 1: or like we like on our trips. It'd be like, hey, 379 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:08,720 Speaker 1: a few of us are going to meet down in 380 00:17:08,760 --> 00:17:10,440 Speaker 1: the hotel and go grab a beer at this place 381 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:12,920 Speaker 1: across the street if anyone wants to come. Or one 382 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:14,879 Speaker 1: girl like in Spain, was like, hey, I rented a 383 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:16,600 Speaker 1: boat and I have like six extra spots. Who wants 384 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:18,240 Speaker 1: to come? I'm like, fuck yeah, sign me up, girl, 385 00:17:19,080 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 1: And then it's just a really great or like hey, 386 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:25,320 Speaker 1: for some reason things are delayed a little bit, it's 387 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:27,720 Speaker 1: gonna be like twenty minutes later. So it's justly helpful 388 00:17:27,760 --> 00:17:29,400 Speaker 1: to create that WhatsApp group and you can just add 389 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:31,560 Speaker 1: numbers as people come in, which is nice too. 390 00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:35,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, with your trips, did it like, did you guys 391 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:38,840 Speaker 2: have just activities were obviously included this day all that 392 00:17:38,840 --> 00:17:40,560 Speaker 2: good stuff, And then I know you guys would have 393 00:17:40,600 --> 00:17:42,640 Speaker 2: some days that were kind of free time. So then 394 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:44,600 Speaker 2: that was like you said, that girl went and rented 395 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:46,800 Speaker 2: a boat that day, so that was an included And 396 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:49,600 Speaker 2: one thing I would just say about this Bali trip 397 00:17:49,720 --> 00:17:53,040 Speaker 2: is there is free time for sure, and just Southeast 398 00:17:53,040 --> 00:17:56,119 Speaker 2: Asia as a whole is like very cheap to travel around, 399 00:17:56,560 --> 00:17:59,040 Speaker 2: so it's just a little bit different than European countries, 400 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:01,199 Speaker 2: where like you can do a lot of things in 401 00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:04,359 Speaker 2: Bali or Thailand or whatever for really cheap. 402 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:04,919 Speaker 1: Yeah. 403 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:06,880 Speaker 2: So if you're a little intimidated by the fact that 404 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:10,359 Speaker 2: like not every single thing is packed with stuff and 405 00:18:10,440 --> 00:18:12,840 Speaker 2: like includes everything, I just don't think it's going to be. 406 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:17,919 Speaker 1: Like that much added on dollars. Yeah for that part, gotcha. Well, 407 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 1: I will say that you'll be proud to know that 408 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:24,920 Speaker 1: I waited until three days before my friend's wedding to 409 00:18:24,960 --> 00:18:28,119 Speaker 1: buy shoes for her wedding, and she was on that 410 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:30,480 Speaker 1: big of a deal, is it? Well, she got on 411 00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:32,280 Speaker 1: too made I tell you this whole story. And then 412 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:34,200 Speaker 1: I hadn't altered my dress, so I got my dress 413 00:18:34,320 --> 00:18:35,120 Speaker 1: months in advance. 414 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:36,760 Speaker 2: I didn't know if I could bring that part up 415 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:38,639 Speaker 2: because you have talked to me about how you hadn't 416 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:39,840 Speaker 2: like tried your dress on yet or. 417 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:42,880 Speaker 1: Something tried on. If it's like a fucking glove, okay, good, 418 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:44,719 Speaker 1: But if I gain a pound, it's gonna be bad 419 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:48,000 Speaker 1: days anyway, don't tell her. And then it's like one 420 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:50,520 Speaker 1: hundred miles too long and all the bridesmaids are the 421 00:18:50,560 --> 00:18:53,320 Speaker 1: same shortness, So anyway, she was like, do you she 422 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:55,080 Speaker 1: I think maybe I did talk about on the podcast. 423 00:18:55,080 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 1: She's just like, you better not wait until the last 424 00:18:57,640 --> 00:18:59,320 Speaker 1: minute to try that on. Don't you remember what you 425 00:18:59,320 --> 00:19:03,640 Speaker 1: did at Heidi's And I'm like, no, well, I guess 426 00:19:03,720 --> 00:19:06,560 Speaker 1: at Heidie's wedding, my fat ass waited until like the 427 00:19:06,640 --> 00:19:08,439 Speaker 1: day before the one had tried on. The dress was 428 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:11,240 Speaker 1: so skin tight and it was that silk satiny material 429 00:19:11,280 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 1: that doesn't breathe stretch. Yeah, So I was like, I 430 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:17,680 Speaker 1: will do this ceremony with it zipped, but then it's 431 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:19,760 Speaker 1: being unzipped thrust of the time with a cardigan on. 432 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:22,800 Speaker 1: So I had a hideous cardigan on, like a black 433 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:25,640 Speaker 1: cardigan with a yellow dress like a bumblebee for everything 434 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:28,120 Speaker 1: at Heidie's wedding. And she's like, you need to try 435 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 1: to fucking don't you dare do to me what you 436 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:31,440 Speaker 1: did to Heidi. And I'm like, oh, I'm sorry. I 437 00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:33,439 Speaker 1: was miserable all night, but I was like her dress 438 00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 1: Abby's dress material is stretchy. So I told Hidi this story. 439 00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:38,680 Speaker 1: She's like, I hate I look back and hate those 440 00:19:38,760 --> 00:19:41,800 Speaker 1: dresses I got. And I was like, well, everyone looks 441 00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 1: back at dresses from twelve years ago and hates their 442 00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 1: bridesmaid dresses because they're out of date. Now they're out 443 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:50,160 Speaker 1: of style. But anyway, got to try it on, went 444 00:19:50,200 --> 00:19:52,480 Speaker 1: to a lady. She's altering it. I get to get 445 00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:55,119 Speaker 1: it on Wednesday, so that's great. Found some shoes at 446 00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:58,920 Speaker 1: Old Navy for ten dollars. So now just gotta fly 447 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:02,040 Speaker 1: to Indiana and get that horror married. You know, Oh, Darren, 448 00:20:02,080 --> 00:20:04,040 Speaker 1: you could talk about her like that. She has been 449 00:20:04,040 --> 00:20:06,040 Speaker 1: trying to find love for a long and she's been 450 00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:08,159 Speaker 1: horn in the process. What else is she supposed to do? 451 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 1: That's how you find love. She loves She actually might 452 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:12,760 Speaker 1: send her a link to this. She'd be honored to 453 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:15,480 Speaker 1: hear we talk about this. Abby. Let's go back. Let's 454 00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:17,920 Speaker 1: go really quick down memory road. When I first met Abby, 455 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 1: we were so how my college dorm was set up 456 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:22,640 Speaker 1: as we were four of us in a dorm room. 457 00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:25,359 Speaker 1: We had like a shared living room kitchen at TV area. 458 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:27,920 Speaker 1: One side was me and Amy. It was shaped like 459 00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:29,720 Speaker 1: an L with our beds, and then we had our 460 00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:32,040 Speaker 1: own bathroom. The other side was hiding Abby. They went 461 00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:34,640 Speaker 1: to high school together, shaped like an L their own bathroom. 462 00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:38,879 Speaker 1: I get there and no one's there. They had already 463 00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:40,800 Speaker 1: moved in, and so I go in their room obviously 464 00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:42,480 Speaker 1: to like look at their pictures they've hung on the wall. 465 00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:46,879 Speaker 1: Abby had the fucking curl bangs. Oh yeah, the words, 466 00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:50,000 Speaker 1: one huge round curl like, oh God, this bitch is 467 00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:53,720 Speaker 1: out of style. Who wears their hair like that? Well, 468 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:56,640 Speaker 1: I find out later, and I have no idea why 469 00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:59,720 Speaker 1: I brought this. I had a Bible, Okay, I feel 470 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:01,800 Speaker 1: like I did know that. Sorry, I don't know why 471 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:03,880 Speaker 1: I had it. I never went to church. I never 472 00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:05,600 Speaker 1: I think I thought. I was like, it's something you're 473 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:07,800 Speaker 1: supposed to have. So they did the same thing. They 474 00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:09,440 Speaker 1: went to my room like, oh god, we have a 475 00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 1: Jesus freak. And obviously I'm not a big religion. I'm 476 00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:15,800 Speaker 1: not not religious, but I'm not a practicing religious person. 477 00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:18,840 Speaker 1: So anyway, we all had well. Abby still was hideously 478 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:20,560 Speaker 1: out of style with those banks, but they all we 479 00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:23,359 Speaker 1: all had bad perceptions. So Abby then quickly became the 480 00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:26,439 Speaker 1: roommate who would flash her tittas for five dollars. So 481 00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:28,240 Speaker 1: we put a sign on our door. Two men took 482 00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:29,720 Speaker 1: her up on it, and. 483 00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:32,920 Speaker 2: You put a sign that said will flash for five dollars, Yes, 484 00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:34,800 Speaker 2: did you specify who was going to do it? 485 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 1: I think everyone just knew. I can't remember the exact 486 00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:39,920 Speaker 1: and then everyone took on their own characters. And yeah, 487 00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:41,560 Speaker 1: Abby was a little freak. She hooked up with a 488 00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:45,240 Speaker 1: guy on our spring break trip who looked identical. Do 489 00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:48,040 Speaker 1: you remember when Hollister had Club CALLI. It was like 490 00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:50,520 Speaker 1: a card, it was like a credit card, and it 491 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:53,320 Speaker 1: was super hot guy. This guy looked so much like him. 492 00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 1: No one knew his name. We all called him club CALLI, 493 00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:59,119 Speaker 1: and Abby let him finger bang her behind the lifeguard 494 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:01,560 Speaker 1: stand in Panama City Beach, Florida. We're really proud of 495 00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:01,919 Speaker 1: her for that. 496 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:04,600 Speaker 2: If there was ever had time to do something like that, 497 00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:06,600 Speaker 2: it might as well be in pc BE on spring break. 498 00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:08,520 Speaker 1: But in honor of Abby, she would never say the 499 00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:10,720 Speaker 1: words fingerbang. This is what she would say. She would go, 500 00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:13,879 Speaker 1: did hands go places? Did mouths go places? Like? You 501 00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:17,040 Speaker 1: were like the most that To this day, I will 502 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 1: still say that to her. Yeah, and Colt brought up 503 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:22,639 Speaker 1: the fact he goes, is Abby your fucking weird friend 504 00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:25,240 Speaker 1: with pills? And I go, yes, So let me explain. 505 00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:28,760 Speaker 1: She's on a pill head. She cannot take pills, so 506 00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:30,680 Speaker 1: it was my job as a roommate. I had to 507 00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:32,760 Speaker 1: take my finger, dab it on her tongue to get 508 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:35,480 Speaker 1: it wet, put it on my pointer finger, then touch 509 00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:37,360 Speaker 1: the pill so it stuck to my finger, and had 510 00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:39,639 Speaker 1: to stick my finger down her throat and if it 511 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:41,600 Speaker 1: didn't go far enough back, she'd be like and spit 512 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:43,119 Speaker 1: it out and have to do it again. And Colt's like, 513 00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:44,960 Speaker 1: why did you have to get your finger wet on 514 00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:47,159 Speaker 1: her tongue. Couldn't you do water? I'm like, you have 515 00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:49,280 Speaker 1: a cook point, you have a good point. 516 00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:50,280 Speaker 2: I don't know. 517 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:51,520 Speaker 1: That was a little weird. 518 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:53,520 Speaker 2: I wanted she had to get a little taste of 519 00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:55,720 Speaker 2: herself on the pill to then swallow it. 520 00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:58,000 Speaker 1: I don't remember. It was just convenience or what. But 521 00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:00,199 Speaker 1: I was like, you have a point, But I have 522 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:02,760 Speaker 1: so many abby stories. We were roommates for years. She 523 00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:06,359 Speaker 1: is she has to have everything perfect, and I'm surprised, surprise, 524 00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:08,879 Speaker 1: not like that. So she would put my shoes up 525 00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:10,359 Speaker 1: before I could even like put them back on to 526 00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:12,080 Speaker 1: leave for school, and I get so mad because my 527 00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:14,280 Speaker 1: room was upstairs and so there was a rule she 528 00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:16,680 Speaker 1: wasn't allowed to touch my shoes for twenty four hours, 529 00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:19,439 Speaker 1: and then I'd go through and move all of her stuff, 530 00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:21,960 Speaker 1: like her remote control. I'd three I'd like turn it 531 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:23,800 Speaker 1: one to eighty. I'd turn the light on our alarm 532 00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:25,760 Speaker 1: clock to a different color. And she'd come home and 533 00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:29,359 Speaker 1: she'd notice everything was changed and she'd lose her mind. Anyway, 534 00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:30,920 Speaker 1: that was a really cool roommate, is what I'm saying. 535 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:34,040 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, So we got to revert back a 536 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:36,399 Speaker 2: little bit. So does Abby still have the same problem 537 00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:37,439 Speaker 2: with the pills or does she? 538 00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:39,600 Speaker 1: I think so? And she's also still I know you're 539 00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:41,640 Speaker 1: not supposed to joke about OCD, so I don't want 540 00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:44,280 Speaker 1: to joke about it. I do think Abby has it, 541 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:46,720 Speaker 1: and she just has never gone to get a diagnosis 542 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:49,119 Speaker 1: for it, but I think she does have a version 543 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:51,240 Speaker 1: of it. Yeah. She's also said her soon to be 544 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:55,280 Speaker 1: husband does as well, but he has different things. So 545 00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:57,840 Speaker 1: I go because she kept explaining like various things that 546 00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:00,800 Speaker 1: are weird or annoying about him on our thing, like 547 00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:02,919 Speaker 1: lovingly nothing, and I go and I started laughing. I'm 548 00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:05,520 Speaker 1: like you, this is this man's perfect for you. Every 549 00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:07,760 Speaker 1: fucking weird thing is just like your weird shit, but 550 00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:09,600 Speaker 1: just a little bit different, and she's like, I guess 551 00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:10,119 Speaker 1: you're right. 552 00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:13,440 Speaker 2: Well tell her, or Abby, Hi, if you're listening, try 553 00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:15,120 Speaker 2: just swallowing pills with apple sauce. 554 00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:16,840 Speaker 1: She doesn't have problems swallowing anything else. 555 00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:20,960 Speaker 2: All right, you can't say things what that was. 556 00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:27,400 Speaker 1: Your she's loving. I am sitting here in this episode, 557 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:29,119 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna say, don't listen to this with you. 558 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,399 Speaker 1: You can't sit and say all these things about her. 559 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:34,160 Speaker 1: But she's not here to defend herself. The poor girl. 560 00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:39,440 Speaker 1: This is her send off from Single Tum podcast. I 561 00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:42,960 Speaker 1: should call this Abby's horror and Away. And like I said, 562 00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,040 Speaker 1: going away to her horror and away, she could still 563 00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:46,359 Speaker 1: be a hoe with her husband, though. 564 00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:49,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I don't really know what that means, 565 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:50,880 Speaker 2: because I feel like a hoe is defined by having 566 00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:53,160 Speaker 2: multiple partners and not an Abby's case. 567 00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:56,080 Speaker 1: Okay, well whatever I mean. I hope I'm a hoe 568 00:24:56,119 --> 00:25:02,560 Speaker 1: for my husband, my Abby or Heidi God for her bachelorette. 569 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:07,040 Speaker 1: Heidi got Abby a yellow nightie thing that looked and 570 00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:10,640 Speaker 1: then a beast mask. She said, you could role play 571 00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 1: beauty and the beast and we're all just crying laughing 572 00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:16,240 Speaker 1: because it's the most Heidi we all have our shit, right, 573 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,800 Speaker 1: We're all weird different ways. That is the most tidy 574 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:22,399 Speaker 1: thing ever. We couldn't stop laughing. And because Heidi is 575 00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:24,720 Speaker 1: like the kind of person that'll buy anything as long 576 00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:28,440 Speaker 1: as the packaging's cute, and so it's she's but we Yeah, 577 00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:30,080 Speaker 1: so I was like, oh, so I have to ask her. 578 00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:32,919 Speaker 1: Maybe that's how she's a hoe. She's portraying a different person. 579 00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:35,520 Speaker 1: He's a different he's the beast. Okay, yeah, I like that. 580 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:37,720 Speaker 1: I like the role play games. I think that that 581 00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:39,600 Speaker 1: would be in my future if I ever get married. 582 00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:41,600 Speaker 1: You know what I was thinking about this other day. 583 00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:45,359 Speaker 1: I don't think that Jake and we don't really do 584 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:47,359 Speaker 1: like role play kind of stuff. But I also like, 585 00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:50,560 Speaker 1: I do not listen to music ever when I'm having sex. 586 00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:53,199 Speaker 1: I was like, if there was a soundtrack to my 587 00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:56,359 Speaker 1: sex life, it would be white noise that plays through 588 00:25:56,400 --> 00:26:00,359 Speaker 1: Olive's monitor in our room, which is disturbing on but 589 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 1: I'm like, everyone's always like, oh, that's a set, I'd 590 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 1: have sex to that, or you have like a playlist. 591 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,280 Speaker 1: That's how I do have a playlist. I had never 592 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:10,399 Speaker 1: I never put music on. Is that weird? 593 00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:14,640 Speaker 2: No? I think I created it because of a bit 594 00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:15,320 Speaker 2: for the show. 595 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:17,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, and so then I just had it. 596 00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:20,359 Speaker 2: So I had used it for like a handful of 597 00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:22,080 Speaker 2: times just because it was like top of mind. 598 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:23,879 Speaker 1: But I never put it on when you're grinding on 599 00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:25,959 Speaker 1: the couch arm yeah with yourself. 600 00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:28,840 Speaker 2: Okay, why do you always have to say all of 601 00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:30,960 Speaker 2: these things that people aren't supposed to learn about me? 602 00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:35,040 Speaker 1: Okay, I have to know what that couch. I tell 603 00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:35,840 Speaker 1: you things in confidence. 604 00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:38,840 Speaker 2: Just for the record, this is actually sarcasm that does 605 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:41,000 Speaker 2: not happen. It is true, though, that I will hug 606 00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:43,000 Speaker 2: a pillow and pretend it's like a man. That's a 607 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:43,600 Speaker 2: true statement. 608 00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:44,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. 609 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:47,400 Speaker 2: Anyways, No, I swear that like it was just top 610 00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:49,480 Speaker 2: of mind when I was using a sex playlist for 611 00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:51,840 Speaker 2: a while and then I forgot about it. And I 612 00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:53,960 Speaker 2: don't think I have access to that playlist anymore, so 613 00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 2: I couldn't even tell you what was on it. 614 00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:58,159 Speaker 1: Do you know what you're I don't know what's on 615 00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:00,080 Speaker 1: going on with my brain today. Do you do you 616 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:04,200 Speaker 1: know what you're gonna be for Halloween? Yet? Yes? Because 617 00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:05,840 Speaker 1: I'm doing well. 618 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:07,840 Speaker 2: We have Boo Bash for the morning show, yes, girl, 619 00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:11,200 Speaker 2: So I am not saying what I'm going to be 620 00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:13,360 Speaker 2: because Bailey and I are actually doing a duo thing 621 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:15,359 Speaker 2: that she sent me that's like kind of funny. And 622 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:19,120 Speaker 2: I spent way too much fucking money on my costume 623 00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:21,760 Speaker 2: because there was one website I could find that had 624 00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:25,520 Speaker 2: what I needed. So anyways, that's a surprise. But I 625 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,520 Speaker 2: do have my girlfriend tips Halloween party this weekend, okay, 626 00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:31,679 Speaker 2: And I gotta be honest, I'm kind of over going 627 00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:34,000 Speaker 2: so all out like I do every year. I've always 628 00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:38,240 Speaker 2: done like really creative couples costumes in the past, like 629 00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:39,760 Speaker 2: handful of years. 630 00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:40,880 Speaker 1: And I'm not doing that anymore. 631 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:43,600 Speaker 2: So I think I'm going to be a taco because 632 00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:46,399 Speaker 2: I have a leftover taco costume from one year, and 633 00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:48,400 Speaker 2: I think I'm through. It's one of those things where 634 00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:50,040 Speaker 2: like you were a pickle one year, It's like one 635 00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:52,000 Speaker 2: of those costumes. If you need to borrow that, let 636 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:54,359 Speaker 2: me know, Yeah, maybe I should, because I'm like, well, 637 00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:57,399 Speaker 2: I don't know, I have so many costumes I have, Well, 638 00:27:57,440 --> 00:27:59,760 Speaker 2: I have a full Leopard body suit. 639 00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:01,040 Speaker 1: It might be too big for you. 640 00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:03,439 Speaker 2: I don't want to do anything like that for Tips 641 00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:06,240 Speaker 2: because I was Grapes last year for her Halloween party 642 00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:09,320 Speaker 2: and I couldn't even reach the goodies on the table 643 00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:12,440 Speaker 2: to feed myself because the balloons were so in my way. 644 00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:13,879 Speaker 1: I was just like constantly. 645 00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,159 Speaker 2: Eventually I had to take some off because I just 646 00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:21,440 Speaker 2: couldn't sit comfortably on anything. Yeah, So anyways, just a forewarning. 647 00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:23,720 Speaker 2: If you see an easy costume like just putting a 648 00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:26,560 Speaker 2: bunch of balloons attached to you, good luck having fun 649 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:28,720 Speaker 2: at a party where you need to get yourself food 650 00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:30,919 Speaker 2: or drinks or I don't know, body shots. 651 00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:33,240 Speaker 1: Just wrap yourself in a luminum foil the old classic 652 00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:34,200 Speaker 1: your owners left over. 653 00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:37,520 Speaker 2: Oh, I've never I've never heard of that. I thought 654 00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:38,960 Speaker 2: you were going to say, wrap yourself in like toilet 655 00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:39,880 Speaker 2: paper and be a mummy. 656 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,600 Speaker 1: You could do that too, But as often as you're 657 00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:44,479 Speaker 1: gonna have to go to the bathroom because you'll be drinking, 658 00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:47,440 Speaker 1: I don't think you it'll rip, you know. Michael Kevin Handy. 659 00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:49,720 Speaker 2: My girlfriend's party is not like a let's go get 660 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:51,640 Speaker 2: fucked up kind of party. It's more of a like 661 00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 2: expect that very very Halloween themed She's got like the 662 00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:59,280 Speaker 2: bloody fingers as like decor and just the cauldrons and 663 00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:03,080 Speaker 2: all of that good. But it's not uh, nobody ever 664 00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,960 Speaker 2: gets lit uh okay by any means, I was pretty 665 00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:09,320 Speaker 2: sure Tony every year gets lit up. It just depends 666 00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:12,240 Speaker 2: on the evening for him because I think sometimes he 667 00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:15,320 Speaker 2: dabbles in some THHC as well, So it just depends 668 00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:18,320 Speaker 2: on what's happening. But I'm not sure. But what are 669 00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:21,040 Speaker 2: you doing for Halloween? Do you guys have a family costume? 670 00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:23,440 Speaker 1: No, we don't. Olives being one of the K Pop 671 00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:25,840 Speaker 1: Demon Hunters if that ever comes in from Amazon. It's 672 00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:29,920 Speaker 1: like whatever kid's being this year. But we are at time. 673 00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:32,200 Speaker 1: But I was going to ask you if you want 674 00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:34,719 Speaker 1: to go across the street to get a salad with 675 00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:38,360 Speaker 1: me because Jenny mentioned that she via text did something 676 00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:42,000 Speaker 1: so disgusting and despicable a couple of weeks ago that 677 00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:44,600 Speaker 1: she got it and she said, yeah, wouldn't text it 678 00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:46,280 Speaker 1: to me because I would use it for a blackmail 679 00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:48,360 Speaker 1: against her. So I still don't know what it is, 680 00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:49,520 Speaker 1: So if you want to go get a salad with 681 00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:50,560 Speaker 1: me so you can tell me what it is. 682 00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:53,560 Speaker 2: Yes, I did eat in between him going home real 683 00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:55,440 Speaker 2: quick and coming back here, so I'm not going to eat, 684 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 2: but I will sit across from you and watch you 685 00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:58,040 Speaker 2: eat Okay, but you're not. 686 00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:03,160 Speaker 1: You're not gonna go want to eat? Okay, alright, sorry 687 00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:05,720 Speaker 1: we can't share, but you know, put tunes together is 688 00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:09,880 Speaker 1: probably involves Jenny pooping herself. So oh, got it? All right, 689 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:10,800 Speaker 1: I have a great week.