1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: Sule of cars cashing gas by Gordon Chevroletine Garden City. 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:06,920 Speaker 2: Get in in a few minutes on Mojo in the Morning. 3 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:08,840 Speaker 2: All right, time for second date update. 4 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: It's the second date update on Mojo in the Morning. 5 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 3: Second Date Update. We're gonna find out why you're not 6 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:20,160 Speaker 3: getting a call back. Adam went on a date with 7 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:24,759 Speaker 3: a guy named Teddy and is not hearing back from Teddy. 8 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 3: What's going on, Adam? 9 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 2: How you doing? Hey, good morning, Good morning. 10 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 3: So Teddy is not getting back to you or not 11 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 3: wanting to go on another date. Did he put an 12 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:41,599 Speaker 3: end to your guys's quick relationship or did he just 13 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 3: go dark on you and go ghosting you. 14 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 4: I don't really know he I haven't heard from him, 15 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 4: Like we he's ghosting me. 16 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 2: What was the last date that you guys went on. 17 00:00:57,040 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 4: We went to a winery and then went back to 18 00:01:01,640 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 4: my place and it was great. 19 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 3: Did you guys do anything at your place besides drinking wine? 20 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 2: Hmmm? 21 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 4: Yeah? 22 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 2: How was that? 23 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 4: It was? Oh? It was awesome. 24 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 3: Okay, all right, so we're gonna figure out what's going on. 25 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 3: Teddy is on the phone with us right now. Adam, 26 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:29,319 Speaker 3: say hi to Teddy. Hey, Teddy, Hi, where have you 27 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 3: been Teddy? Teddy's mojo and just wanted to know what's 28 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 3: going on here for Adam. 29 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:40,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, you know, we we had a good time, 30 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 5: but then when. 31 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 3: We got back to his place, he was just sitting 32 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 3: there still swipe it away really. 33 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 2: Like r like an app, Like what do you mean, yeah, 34 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 2: on an app swiping looking at other guys. 35 00:01:59,040 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 6: Right there? 36 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 2: Did you call him out? 37 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 6: No? 38 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 5: I didn't say anything, but it was super rude, disrespectful, 39 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 5: like I don't need that. 40 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 2: Was it before or after you bake cookies? You know, 41 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 2: right before? Oh wait, yeah, quit what I'm saying. 42 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 3: So right before you guys baked cookies, he's swiping away? 43 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 3: Yeah you still beg cookies? You were so upset about it? 44 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 3: You still baged cookies with him? 45 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:31,120 Speaker 2: Well yeah, I mean yes, still did that, but I 46 00:02:31,120 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 2: don't need to do it again. Okay, all right, Adam? 47 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:37,240 Speaker 3: Were you doing that or were you just on your phone? 48 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 4: No, he's right, I was, But like, I mean, we 49 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 4: met on Grinder and I don't know it was one 50 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 4: date and did we have a conversation that I forgot 51 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 4: about Teddy about like wanting to be exclusive or like 52 00:02:52,240 --> 00:03:00,959 Speaker 4: moving forward? Well, I just didn't think it was that 53 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 4: big of a deal and he never said anything about it. 54 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 3: So it is that something you have to have in 55 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:12,639 Speaker 3: this day and age of relationships. Do you have to 56 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 3: like say, hey, we're dating to be exclusive or dating 57 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 3: just to have fun? 58 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 2: Like you have to say that? 59 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 3: Initially because of the idea that he just said, that 60 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 3: made sense to me, like, Okay, well they're really not dating, 61 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 3: they just areffing, you know what. 62 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 7: I mean, maybe not on the first date, but like 63 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 7: eventually you need to figure out. 64 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 8: What Also, even if you're on a first date and 65 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 8: you all are dating other people, it's still rude to 66 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 8: be sitting there planning your next date. 67 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 4: Are you going to say, Teddy, I've been on a 68 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 4: lot of dates. I've been on a lot of dates 69 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 4: off Grinder. I'm not the only person who does this, 70 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 4: do you know what I mean? Like, it's it hasn't 71 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 4: bothered me in the past. 72 00:03:54,480 --> 00:04:00,120 Speaker 2: Well, let's ask me a question. Any other Grinder customer 73 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 2: out there that are that do this and start swiping? Teddy? 74 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:05,800 Speaker 2: What were you going to say? You got it cut off? 75 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 2: Oh just that you know, yeah, we never said anything 76 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 2: about being exclusive. 77 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 5: But you're already planning your next thing moments before we're 78 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 5: gonna big cookies. 79 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:22,159 Speaker 2: Uh, you know, I just think it's rude. I just 80 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 2: think it's rude, and that's rude at the. 81 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 5: Radio station that I'm I'm ghosting you, but clearly you're 82 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 5: already onto your. 83 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 2: I don't even care. 84 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 9: What do you care? 85 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 2: That's actually a really good point. 86 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:37,599 Speaker 4: I never thought of decency. I mean, I wish that 87 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 4: you had told me that you didn't play. I wish 88 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:41,480 Speaker 4: you had brought it up and we could have had 89 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 4: to talk about it, and we could. 90 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:44,800 Speaker 2: Have in bed, we could have got. 91 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:49,040 Speaker 5: Is not flirting with other people or trying to get 92 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:50,679 Speaker 5: with other people. 93 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 4: I wasn't flirting with anybody. I didn't have any messages 94 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:57,240 Speaker 4: open or DMS. I was just looking. I was looking around. 95 00:04:57,640 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 2: He look at what's right? 96 00:04:59,160 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 4: You've never done that. 97 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 2: I'm right there, look at me. 98 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 3: By the way. You guys, I don't know if you 99 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:07,719 Speaker 3: sound like a match with each other. I'm listening to 100 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 3: the two of them talk like. I got to see 101 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 3: what you guys look like. I don't know why that 102 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 3: is why it intrigues me more with two gay guys 103 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 3: and it does with a guy and a girl. I 104 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 3: don't know, don't you want to know what they look like. Absolutely, 105 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:22,719 Speaker 3: I want to know what Teddy is all about. I 106 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 3: want to see what Adam's got going on. All right, 107 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 3: let's get on Grinder, guys, let's go, let's try it. 108 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 3: What's going on? 109 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 1: Noah? 110 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 5: You there? 111 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:31,040 Speaker 2: Noah? 112 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 9: Yes, Hi guys. Hi, I think I think it's common Curtincy. 113 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 9: You could wait until things are done and then you 114 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 9: can swipe away like that. You couldn't wait, like what 115 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:50,040 Speaker 9: was the worst? Like you was at bored that you 116 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 9: just had to go swiping. 117 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 2: That's the other scene. I'm just curious, Yeah. 118 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 9: Like you were that not interested and then you just 119 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:03,280 Speaker 9: it's so mechanical, like it's so automatical. 120 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 4: There's a lull in. 121 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 8: The conversation or what we're doing to the point where 122 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:09,800 Speaker 8: I pick up my phone and start scrolling on a date, 123 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:13,360 Speaker 8: whether it's Instagram or grind, whatever it is. 124 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 2: I feel like that's to be fair. 125 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 4: I mean, he came back into the room like he 126 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 4: had gone to the bathroom. Oh app and I was, 127 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:25,760 Speaker 4: you know, I was taking a look, but it wasn't 128 00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:27,599 Speaker 4: like he was sitting on the couch next to me, 129 00:06:27,640 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 4: and I just. 130 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:32,159 Speaker 2: Okay, that is how I picked her day. Yeah, hold on, do. 131 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:36,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, you shouldn't have gone to the bathroom, Teddy, Danny. 132 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 3: I guess, so, Danny, what did you want to say? 133 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 2: Danny? 134 00:06:41,440 --> 00:06:46,919 Speaker 6: The gay community is known for pretty much introducing themselves 135 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 6: without clothes on or after stuff has been done. I mean, 136 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 6: I don't see it being uncommon and open relationship. I've 137 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:59,719 Speaker 6: been asked why I'm met in a relationship, and it's 138 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:04,280 Speaker 6: I I we all screw each other anyway. So okay, 139 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:07,720 Speaker 6: I go home and I don't have to hear anybody 140 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:08,520 Speaker 6: nagging at me. 141 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 2: Really, I did not know that. That's kind of wild. 142 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:17,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, oh yeah, Like. 143 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 3: Man, I did not know that that was the case. 144 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 3: What's going on? Travis? 145 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 5: Hi? Hey, happy Monday? 146 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:31,760 Speaker 2: Everyone, Happy Monday. What's up? 147 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 9: So? 148 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 5: I am very free. I love to bake cookies with one, two, 149 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 5: three plus partners, But like, unless you have the conversation 150 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 5: you're wanting to bring someone else in or your or 151 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 5: it's casual, it's incredibly rude because all you're doing is 152 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 5: trying to inflate your own ego and feed into, like 153 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 5: get the validation of like those likes and matches, like 154 00:07:57,520 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 5: he's right there in front of you. If it's not 155 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 5: if you don't want them, don't bake cookies with them. 156 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:04,360 Speaker 5: More like, get upset if he doesn't call you back. 157 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 5: All you all this guy wants is like to do 158 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 5: you want it? He doesn't actually care about that, He 159 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 5: just wants to be wanted and him getting. 160 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 2: I know you pretty well. I've met plenty of you. 161 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 5: You're not that. 162 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 2: Special, Travis. Travis. Are you gay? 163 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 4: Okay? 164 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 6: Oh? 165 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 2: Very gay? Okay? I love me a man okay gay sex? 166 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 7: Whoa? 167 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:31,080 Speaker 2: All right? Okay, it's making make sure that. 168 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 4: Like, Travis, what are you doing? 169 00:08:33,800 --> 00:08:34,320 Speaker 2: Am doing? 170 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 4: I didn't hear the question do you want to find out? 171 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 4: Do you want to find out? If I'm a diamond 172 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 4: dozen or I'm good? 173 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 2: What are you doing? I'm good? 174 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 7: I'm good. 175 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:47,840 Speaker 2: I have better options. Wow here to try and get me? 176 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 2: And I was picking hold on, Phoenix? What did you 177 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:53,680 Speaker 2: want to say? Phoenix? 178 00:08:55,640 --> 00:08:59,160 Speaker 7: I justly he was rude for being on grinder while 179 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 7: being on a date. Respect very disrespectful. I felt like 180 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:05,200 Speaker 7: he was looking for, like you said, the next guy 181 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,480 Speaker 7: after they were done on the date, and there's a 182 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 7: disrespectful I don't blame him for not returning him. 183 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:14,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, although I got to be honest, with you. I 184 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:15,560 Speaker 3: think I like Adam. 185 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 2: I do like. 186 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 3: I think Adam's personality is great. I think you guys 187 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 3: should give each other a second chance. I think you should. 188 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 3: Why well, we could just. 189 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 4: Have a talk about it. At least that's why. 190 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:41,199 Speaker 1: Community, the Roses, the five Lite, to tell your Mom, 191 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:43,720 Speaker 1: phone scams, and Shannon's dirty on the thirty. 192 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 2: This is in the morning.