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Speaker 1: It is Marcus in the morning. It is everybody's favorite

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Speaker 1: second date update. Let's get into it. You know what,

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Speaker 1: Let's just bring Gavion on right now. Gavin, are you there?

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Speaker 2: I am, yeah, all right.

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Speaker 1: So we've been doing this for almost a decade. Everybody

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Speaker 1: knows the rules, basically, like, you got ghosted, and we're

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Speaker 1: gonna call your date, Elouise and just see if we

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Speaker 1: can broke her a second date. Like, I don't know

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Speaker 1: if you if something happened if I hate to say it,

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Speaker 1: but did you do something, I mean, if you did

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Speaker 1: something weird. Tell me now we can wrap this up quick.

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Speaker 3: No I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't think so, Okay, I'm interested to see what

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Speaker 2: you can find out.

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Speaker 1: Sure, tell me about the date.

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Speaker 2: You know, it was really smooth. It was really easy

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Speaker 2: as far as first dates go. We met at a

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Speaker 2: smart social in Mission Bay.

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Speaker 3: Okay. You know.

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Speaker 2: There were food trucks, string lights, fire pits. It was

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Speaker 2: super fun. She looks stunning. She showed up right on time,

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Speaker 2: so we were off to a good start. Grabbed some drinks.

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Speaker 1: Were you on time?

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Speaker 3: I was on time.

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Speaker 2: I was already there when she got there. I just

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Speaker 2: you know, we hit some food trucks, tacos, some fries,

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Speaker 2: and uh a little something sweet after that.

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Speaker 1: Sure, what was the conversation, like, like, what did you guys

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Speaker 1: talk about?

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Speaker 2: We got into family travel, you know, some playful teasing.

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Speaker 1: You didn't do any politics or anything, did you?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: No, no, nothing heavy?

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Speaker 4: No, I asked, because you you you would be shocked

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Speaker 4: at the number of like important details that get omitted

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Speaker 4: that could have really just made so a phone call

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Speaker 4: wasn't even necessary.

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Speaker 2: But no, no, no, I mean it was just really solid. Hey,

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Speaker 2: ho combo. And you know she liked to eat, which

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Speaker 2: I love a girl who loves to eat.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my wife got told all the time that she

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Speaker 1: eats like a trucker and she carries that with her

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Speaker 1: as a badge of courage.

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Speaker 2: She should I was gonna say that that's something she should.

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Speaker 3: Be proud of.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so here's what we do. We'll call Eloise. Might

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Speaker 1: have you on the line. Obviously you're going to be

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Speaker 1: muted out so she can't hear you. So let's see

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Speaker 1: if we can figure this out. Go ahead and mute

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Speaker 1: your phone. We're gonna give Elouise a call right now.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, thank you, Hello, Hi.

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Speaker 1: I'm looking for Eloise.

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Speaker 5: This is Eloise.

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Speaker 1: It's Marcus calling from Star one on one three. Good morning, Hi.

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Speaker 1: How are you?

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Speaker 5: I'm fine?

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Speaker 2: How are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm doing well?

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Speaker 3: Thank you?

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Speaker 1: Do you listen to the show in the morning?

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Speaker 2: I do.

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Speaker 1: Sweet. So we're doing second date update right now. You

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Speaker 1: want to be on it?

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Speaker 5: Oh wow?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, let's go.

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Speaker 5: Does this mean Gavin is on the phone or something?

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Speaker 1: Absolutely does Okay, Gavin are you there?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yes.

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Speaker 1: See this is the problem with doing this thing for

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Speaker 1: ten years. At some point everybody anyway, doesn't matter, Eloise.

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Speaker 1: We know why we're here. Gavin really liked you. He

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Speaker 1: had the best time on your date. He'd like to

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Speaker 1: take you out again. He's feeling ghosted. So where are we?

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Speaker 1: Did you ghost on our guy here?

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Speaker 5: So the date was good?

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Speaker 3: Huh?

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Speaker 5: And I really like talking to him and thought he

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Speaker 5: was funny and really easy to be around. So the

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Speaker 5: vibes were all good.

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Speaker 2: No, come.

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Speaker 3: There, I know.

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Speaker 5: All right, so I know how this goes, so I'll

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Speaker 5: just cut to the chase. There was a moment that

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Speaker 5: really did completely change things for me.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 5: So you know how when you're that spark, there's like

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Speaker 5: communal tables seating, other people can join, all right, So

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Speaker 5: people would rotate in and out. And first it was

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Speaker 5: a couple and then a single guy. And this guy

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Speaker 5: drops his phone and its lights right near Gavin's feat.

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Speaker 5: So Gavin picks it up, hands it back. No theg deal.

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Speaker 5: But as he's handing it over, Gavin makes a joke

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Speaker 5: like careful, man, I could have just kept that and

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Speaker 5: sold it so it it didn't just sound like a

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Speaker 5: joke like it's how he said it. Yeah, everyone laughed

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Speaker 5: except me, But I just thought it wasn't entirely a joke.

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Speaker 2: That was obviously a joke.

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Speaker 5: Something about it just didn't land right with me, and

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Speaker 5: it just kind.

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Speaker 1: Of stuck, like you thought he was sort of low

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Speaker 1: key series.

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Speaker 5: I'm just really big on reading small signals like the

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Speaker 5: tone and delivery and just little comments people make when

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Speaker 5: they're not thinking too hard. And for me, that one

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Speaker 5: line just flipped a switch.

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Speaker 2: Okay, wait, I mean that feels like like a stretch there,

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Speaker 2: because I mean it was obviously a joke. Other people laughed.

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Speaker 2: It's not like I actually was going to take the

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Speaker 2: guy's pat. It's fell it.

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Speaker 1: I mean, was that yeah.

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Speaker 5: But that's it? But I just think it kind of

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Speaker 5: points to a bigger thing, like it just kind of

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Speaker 5: sealed the deal for me. I know it sounds small,

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Speaker 5: but after that, I just started noticing all these little things,

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Speaker 5: like how quickly he made jokes at other people's expense

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Speaker 5: and a couple of sarcastic comments forward this truck staff.

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Speaker 5: It wasn't like rude enough to call out in a moment,

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Speaker 5: but enough that just combined with at first comment, it

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Speaker 5: just it painted a picture for me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Uh, you know, I I get that

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Speaker 2: not everybody has the same humor, but you know that

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Speaker 2: that's just kind of my humor. I was, like you said,

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Speaker 2: I wasn't being rude. Nobody, nobody was offended by this.

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Speaker 2: I mean, he doesn't even tell me what you were offended.

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Speaker 5: It doesn't mean it's just not my kind of humor,

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Speaker 5: Like sarcasm and low key making fun of people just

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Speaker 5: isn't funny to me.

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Speaker 2: But it's like, you know, it's people watching, it's who

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Speaker 2: doesn't want to watch people? You know, I don't mean

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Speaker 2: anything by it?

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Speaker 1: All right? Do you should we even keep trying for

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Speaker 1: a second date here, Elouise.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, no, Uh, He's just not it's

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Speaker 5: not he Gavin is not my kind of guy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I guess I just I completely misread you. I

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Speaker 2: thought we were way more compatible than we obviously are.

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Speaker 1: All Right, you guys hang on for me. Okay, that's

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Speaker 1: not gonna work. Second date Update