1 00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 1: Welcome to another award winning episode of the Minnesota Goodbye. 2 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:09,800 Speaker 1: Let's dig into the emails, which is mostly what we 3 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 1: do in the Minnesota Goodbye. Once in a while we 4 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:14,319 Speaker 1: get caught, you know, doing other things. We get I 5 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: don't know a on a tangent. But today we're gonna 6 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 1: start up with this one. Kristin, who writes in semi regularly, 7 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:25,600 Speaker 1: says random questions. Listen to the show yesterday with him 8 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 1: a boyfriend. He had mentioned Tony Fly, Dave, I know 9 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 1: you talked about almost all your co workers. Did you 10 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 1: work with Tony Fly? And if so, is there a 11 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:35,279 Speaker 1: reason why his name never comes up? Is it kind 12 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 1: of like where Chrisco's name is never mentioned? Thanks guys, 13 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:43,639 Speaker 1: all right, Chrisco. We don't mention his name because he's 14 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 1: on a competing radio station. So if I say his name, 15 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:50,199 Speaker 1: then it's kind of like, you know, if you work 16 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 1: for Coca Cola and you're giving a speech and you 17 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:55,320 Speaker 1: mentioned PEPSI, well you just don't. Now I got nothing. 18 00:00:55,360 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 1: I love Chrisco. He left the show under some dubious 19 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:03,959 Speaker 1: circumstances that really I had a problem with. It was 20 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 1: extremely unfair to me as a person. But Steve said 21 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 1: he's Crisco and that kind of explained it. Chrisco is, 22 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 1: you know, he's a lovable, care free, wonderful person, but 23 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:22,320 Speaker 1: he didn't get how hard it was to do what 24 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 1: I had done for Crisco and then have him walk 25 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 1: away and cross the street to work at a competing 26 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:31,479 Speaker 1: radio station. So, Tony Fly, I just have nothing to say. 27 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 2: Did you work with Tony Fly? Because he wasn't on 28 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 2: the morning show? 29 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 1: No, No, he did a night show. I've got nothing 30 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 1: to say about him. Yeah, so that's why he never 31 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:44,480 Speaker 1: comes up. Okay he's talking about but no, Chrisco is 32 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 1: a great guy and I love Crisco, but he just 33 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: didn't realize what he had done and probably never will. 34 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 1: All Right, Next one, Becky says, I got a email. 35 00:01:57,920 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: I've been thinking about it for at least a year. 36 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 1: Both Jenny and Bailey need to give up your eyeliner wings. 37 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 1: I don't like to shame women, but I keep telling 38 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:10,800 Speaker 1: myself if you both were in my immediate friend group, 39 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:12,959 Speaker 1: I would tell you so here I am. And it 40 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:14,640 Speaker 1: came up on the show this morning, so that was 41 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 1: the push I needed. I'm a woman with dark features, 42 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 1: dark hair, black eyes, and olive skin, and I switched 43 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 1: to cinnamon eyeliner years ago. I still use black Messcarra. 44 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 1: I think you should both see a professional makeup artist. 45 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 1: They will know the current trends, what looks best with 46 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 1: your shape of face shape and eye shape. They will 47 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 1: give you the recommendations. When I got married last fall, 48 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 1: I simply searched makeup artists in the Twin Cities on Instagram, 49 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: and so many came up. I read a lot of reviews, 50 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 1: ended up using a lady from Stillwater. She is fantastic. 51 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 1: I can send either of you the list of artists 52 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 1: out of a society between let me know any interest 53 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 1: in responding. 54 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 2: Who's gonna pay for that? That's what I'd like to know. 55 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 3: I'm going to text Tina right now that used to 56 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:58,239 Speaker 3: work on the show web Girl Tina and ask her 57 00:02:58,280 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 3: for her opinion, because Respelly, I disagree with you because 58 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:05,079 Speaker 3: I think that, like, I still look good with winged 59 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:08,920 Speaker 3: eyeliner and dark stuff, and I just feel like you 60 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 3: just said this, you have dark features. Do you know 61 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 3: what it's like to be a blonde with literally like 62 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 3: nothing that accentuates your features? So I go with dark 63 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:22,920 Speaker 3: makeup because that's the best it can do. If I 64 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 3: put brown stuff on, I'm going to try it. I'm 65 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 3: not saying I'm not. I'm going to try it. 66 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 4: It's just it. 67 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 3: Doesn't do the same. It still makes me look dead 68 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 3: as fuck with that, like as if I didn't have 69 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 3: makeup on a lot of times. Yeah, so respectfully, I 70 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 3: think that I disagree with you, but I'm willing to 71 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 3: try different things. I'm not. I don't want to be 72 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 3: like Dave said, the woman with hot dog curls in 73 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 3: my hair. Yeah, and not understanding like that that's out right. 74 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 3: But I'm texting Tina right now and I'm going to say, 75 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 3: I need you to come to my makeup and. 76 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 2: I mean i'd like have a makeup artist fix me 77 00:03:57,400 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 2: and tell me what looks good with my face. But 78 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 2: I'm not paying for any of you. 79 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 1: You should do that because I mean paying for it though. No, 80 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 1: but I understand, but you should find somebody, maybe somebody 81 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: who can come in because we are not only just 82 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 1: an audio show, We're a visual show too. We do 83 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 1: all kinds of stuff on the GRAM and we're also 84 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:16,200 Speaker 1: on the webcams every morning too, So I think that 85 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 1: you should do that. 86 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 2: I mean, if someone wants to come in and do 87 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:21,720 Speaker 2: mine and Jenny's professional makeup and tell us what looks 88 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 2: good with our face? 89 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 3: Well, like, I want like for it. I want like 90 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:26,800 Speaker 3: every day makeup. I don't want you doing my makeup. Yeah, 91 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:28,480 Speaker 3: I was like, I don't want I don't want wedding makeup. 92 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:30,279 Speaker 3: I don't want e vent makeup. I want to understand 93 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:32,839 Speaker 3: what I'm supposed to be doing. That's more with the 94 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:35,960 Speaker 3: trends of twenty twenty six. Because I've tried to not 95 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 3: do the wing eyeliner now in the last twenty four hours, 96 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 3: and I don't know what to do. 97 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 4: I literally don't know what to do. 98 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 2: Right, So it has to be everyday makeup, because yeah, 99 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 2: she found a makeup artist. This person emailing, but it 100 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:51,159 Speaker 2: was for her. Wedding and bridal makeup is one different 101 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 2: than everyday makeup. 102 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 1: Okay, well, I have no opinion on that one, except 103 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 1: that I think that you both look great. Hey, thanks, Dave, 104 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:04,159 Speaker 1: Calli writes in and this is a funny one, she said. Okay, 105 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 1: so I had a few drinks on Saturday night and 106 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 1: I was a little horny. I texted my husband, you 107 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 1: want to fuck? When he didn't respond, I looked and 108 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 1: I had sent it to my family wordle group Jesus, 109 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 1: which is pinned under my husband instead of him. I 110 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 1: tried to and thought I deleted it before anybody saw it. 111 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 1: I was wrong. The people on this group range from 112 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 1: twelve to eighty. 113 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 2: Oh my god, girl, you are more than a little tipsy. 114 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:36,479 Speaker 1: My super religious aunt who hates the word fuck. My 115 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:39,279 Speaker 1: cousins thought it was hilarious, but I am completely mortified. 116 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 1: It reminded me of the time that you texted something 117 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:45,880 Speaker 1: raunchy to Susan in your group, and it was with Carson, 118 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:50,600 Speaker 1: but much worse. Yeah, that is what do you want 119 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 1: to fuck? That's funny. I can see how people would 120 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:58,279 Speaker 1: think it's funny, but also mortifying. I texted to Susan 121 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 1: probably Carson was maybe twelve years old, how's that pussy? 122 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:06,599 Speaker 1: And she wrote back juicy And then we realized that 123 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 1: we had sent it to Carson. Oh right, another one, 124 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:20,920 Speaker 1: Megan ride seeing She's say hers, I'm listening to the 125 00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:22,600 Speaker 1: podcast while getting up in the middle of the night 126 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 1: with my ten month old son to feed and comfort. 127 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 1: To twenty five in the morning, I'm writing this. Do 128 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:31,719 Speaker 1: you have any subscriptions or I'm sorry, superstitions or rituals 129 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 1: you need to follow in certain instances. Something I'm superstitious 130 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:38,039 Speaker 1: about is I feel like anytime somebody asked me, how 131 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:40,800 Speaker 1: is my baby sleeping through the night, and I say 132 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 1: it's going well, the following night he wakes up, and 133 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:46,039 Speaker 1: I feel like it's linked to me talking about it 134 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 1: that day. Dave, I'm curious if you have any superstitions 135 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:53,159 Speaker 1: about or rituals before flying that you feel you need 136 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 1: to do, or Jenny before solo camper traveling. I did 137 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:01,480 Speaker 1: for a long time when I first learned to fly. 138 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:05,919 Speaker 1: That song You say, I only hear what I want to, 139 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 1: but don't live in hard and don't pay attention. And 140 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 1: Lisa Lowe, that was big, And I used to think 141 00:07:11,560 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 1: I had to sing that song to myself while I 142 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 1: was taxing you out to take off to be safe 143 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 1: when I was flying. And I don't do it anymore, 144 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 1: but I used to sing enow that I sing that 145 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 1: song to myself. You say, I only hear what I 146 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 1: want to, don't listen hard, don't pay. When I sing 147 00:07:30,120 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 1: that to myself now, it gives me a flashback of 148 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 1: taxinging out to take off. Jenny, what about you camper van. 149 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, my routine is taking seventy five milligrams of ceartraleine. 150 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:47,120 Speaker 3: That's my anxiety medication, and really making sure I can survive. 151 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 3: I don't have a ritual to call me down. It's 152 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 3: just I genuinely think that I I don't know that 153 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 3: I could go wild camp by myself. 154 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 2: Up. 155 00:07:54,840 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 4: I was not personally on anxiety medication. 156 00:07:57,360 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 1: Wow. Now I was on klon or klansapam or whatever 157 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 1: their little green pills about. Man. I don't want to 158 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 1: say when, but I was going through some really hard 159 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: stuff and I remember I would take them. I didn't 160 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 1: want to take them, but sometimes I'd be on my 161 00:08:14,800 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 1: way into work and I'd be like, fuck, I cannot 162 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 1: and I would take like a quarter or a half 163 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 1: and the doctor would say a half is enough, and 164 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 1: I could feel somehow magically the anxiety release from my 165 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:33,360 Speaker 1: body and my brain. Do you feel it work? 166 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 3: Well? This is something I take every day, every day, 167 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:38,040 Speaker 3: I got gotcha. This is something that, like, I genuinely 168 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 3: think my brain needs to be able to function in 169 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:44,600 Speaker 3: a normal society because without it I can't function as well. 170 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 4: So I make a joke of it, but it's not 171 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:47,560 Speaker 4: a joke. 172 00:08:47,640 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 3: I actually do need anxiety medication, and I didn't realize 173 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 3: that until I really hit a breaking point like two 174 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:56,560 Speaker 3: years ago. So yeah, sorry, I don't really have a 175 00:08:56,600 --> 00:08:59,840 Speaker 3: great tip for you in terms of preparedness. 176 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,040 Speaker 1: Okay, Bailey, do you have anything that you have a 177 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 1: ritual four before you do a show or a play 178 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 1: or a speech. 179 00:09:05,320 --> 00:09:05,520 Speaker 3: Um? 180 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:10,240 Speaker 1: No, I'll take that as a no. Okay, this person 181 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 1: went to high school with you. What their name is, 182 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:13,559 Speaker 1: Megan Long? 183 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 2: Hi, Meghan Long? 184 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:17,680 Speaker 1: And they said you were a mean girl in high school. 185 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:19,559 Speaker 1: They did not say that, No, they didn't. I just 186 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:20,959 Speaker 1: thought i'd get your reactions. 187 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 4: Since let's get around the show. 188 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:27,960 Speaker 2: It's like, what the hell I was nobody in high school? 189 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:29,079 Speaker 1: You're a mean girl. 190 00:09:29,200 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 2: I was the voice of Annaver High School. 191 00:09:32,280 --> 00:09:35,200 Speaker 1: Kyle writes in Salutations my fine Friends. Am I the 192 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 1: only one that wasn't fooled by the Vikings April Fools prank? 193 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:41,200 Speaker 1: I knew right away. I'm pretty good at keeping tabs 194 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 1: on the local squad, so if it would have been real, 195 00:09:44,559 --> 00:09:46,439 Speaker 1: I would have heard about it leading up to it. 196 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 1: To hear so many people say they were fooled, it 197 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 1: astounds me. Did everyone forget April first is April Fool's Day. 198 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:54,960 Speaker 1: And I get it. People are busy and they have 199 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 1: kids and other things to put it in front of 200 00:09:56,400 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 1: their minds. But y'all, every April first is April Fool's Day. 201 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 1: Keep your guard up, don't be gullible. Sorry not sorry, 202 00:10:02,880 --> 00:10:06,600 Speaker 1: have the best dart licking day, Kyle? Well, Kyle, aren't 203 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:09,559 Speaker 1: you just the special one? No, I'm just giving you 204 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 1: a Kyle. You know what, if we would have done 205 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 1: something about I don't know, a volcano erupting and on 206 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:21,280 Speaker 1: the north Shore, you would have bought it. So just 207 00:10:21,320 --> 00:10:23,439 Speaker 1: because you were all up on the vikings doesn't mean 208 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 1: that you would not have been fooled. I don't know, Kyle. 209 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 1: I'm glad that you weren't fooled, and I'm glad you wrote. 210 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:30,760 Speaker 3: In Can I read you what Tina just texted me 211 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 3: because I asked her to. I kindly requested she would 212 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:35,360 Speaker 3: do my makeup for what makes sense in twenty twenty six. 213 00:10:35,400 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 4: Ye, this is her exact response. 214 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:38,599 Speaker 3: Okay, because I said that people are telling me to 215 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:42,440 Speaker 3: stop using wing eyeliner. Oh Jesus, people fucking suck. You 216 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 3: should do your makeup however you feel best. But if 217 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 3: you want any tips, tricks, advice to update. I'm happy 218 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:49,720 Speaker 3: to help Eyeliner in general right now is quote unquote 219 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 3: out because that natural makeup is in it literally means 220 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:53,760 Speaker 3: fucking nothing. 221 00:10:54,880 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 4: So she said that basically, do you. 222 00:10:57,920 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 3: But I still think I'm gonna have her like try 223 00:10:59,880 --> 00:11:02,080 Speaker 3: to do a new look and see if I can 224 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:02,679 Speaker 3: do it on. 225 00:11:02,640 --> 00:11:03,840 Speaker 4: My own too. 226 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:06,200 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, she should. Tina should come in and do yours. 227 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:10,000 Speaker 1: I think that'd be a great idea. Okay, all right, 228 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:14,280 Speaker 1: next one, Dave. It was so interesting here in your 229 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 1: side of the not injecting yourself into Alison's family life 230 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 1: for Easter, because we talked about this in the middle 231 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 1: of last week and I said, you know what, Alison's 232 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:26,280 Speaker 1: got her other family, and she's got three little girls 233 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 1: and a husband, and I said, you know what, we 234 00:11:29,480 --> 00:11:31,800 Speaker 1: don't need to see them on Easter. We'd love to, 235 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 1: but she's got her own little family and she probably 236 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 1: wants to do her own little family things. We're not 237 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:38,960 Speaker 1: going to say, Wow, you got to come over for 238 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 1: Easter brunch and then we're going to do an Easter 239 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 1: egg hunt. No, let her go do her own thing. Well, 240 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 1: Sidney writes in She's a regular contributor to the show 241 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 1: Thank You. I can understand why it might work for Allison, 242 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 1: but here's my perspective. As a kid, I loved going 243 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:57,880 Speaker 1: to my grandparents for these things and playing with my cousins. 244 00:11:58,320 --> 00:12:01,959 Speaker 1: Acknowledge that Alison's daughter cousins is not likely to attend 245 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:04,560 Speaker 1: an Easter egg hunt at your house, but that's the best. 246 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:07,440 Speaker 1: And as a mom, I have so much expectation to 247 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:10,080 Speaker 1: give my kids a wonderful childhood, and the added pressure 248 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:12,840 Speaker 1: of being Santa or the Easter Bunny is overwhelming. I 249 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 1: welcome my and my husband's parents given my kids that 250 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:20,199 Speaker 1: magic of Easter egg hunter, special Christmas traditions. We will 251 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:22,840 Speaker 1: certainly develop our own, but I feel like holiday magic 252 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:26,439 Speaker 1: is the addition of grandparents that can add to our family. 253 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 1: Just my two cents from staff writer Sydney. I think 254 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 1: that's true. We love going to my cousins for Christmas 255 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 1: and Thanksgiving and then having them come down to our 256 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 1: house in Colorado. But I think that Allison has expressed 257 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:51,200 Speaker 1: desire to just have her family, and that's yeah, So 258 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:54,120 Speaker 1: I have no problem with that. I would feel like 259 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:56,320 Speaker 1: I would love and she'd be like, oh my god, Dad. 260 00:12:56,679 --> 00:12:58,480 Speaker 1: Of course, we're going to come over with the girls. 261 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:01,000 Speaker 1: You're a part of our Easter. I'd love that, But 262 00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:03,839 Speaker 1: she doesn't say that, and I don't get hurt by that. 263 00:13:03,920 --> 00:13:06,360 Speaker 2: But there are other holidays where you are a part 264 00:13:06,360 --> 00:13:07,280 Speaker 2: of it, right. 265 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:08,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, you guy. 266 00:13:10,120 --> 00:13:12,720 Speaker 2: So if it's not every single one, it's not the 267 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 2: end of the world. 268 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:15,280 Speaker 1: I do feel a little bit bad for Allison in 269 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:17,280 Speaker 1: a way that, you know, both of her sets of 270 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:19,760 Speaker 1: grandparents live here in town, and they're both the other 271 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:22,400 Speaker 1: set of grandparents. They're so wonderful, they're so kind and nice. 272 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:27,560 Speaker 1: But I do feel bad that Alison feels that pressure 273 00:13:27,600 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 1: to probably around Christmas. Well, we got to go to 274 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:33,040 Speaker 1: dad's house on Christmas Eve, yeah, and then we got 275 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:34,680 Speaker 1: to go to the other mom and dad's house on 276 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:37,200 Speaker 1: Christmas Day. When are we going to get time for 277 00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 1: just our little family? Yeah, but I guess that's part 278 00:13:44,040 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 1: of one of the drawbacks. Along with all the positives 279 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 1: of having a family close by, one of the positives 280 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 1: is we're watching Little Olivia and the girls this weekend, right. 281 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 4: And I'm watching all of them. 282 00:13:54,440 --> 00:13:57,680 Speaker 1: I think we're watching all of them. 283 00:13:55,640 --> 00:14:02,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. It's interesting because now in my adult life, my 284 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 2: sister is married, and so she'll spend half of the 285 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:09,120 Speaker 2: holiday with my family and then half of the holiday 286 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 2: with her spouse's family. But like when I was growing 287 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:14,840 Speaker 2: up there, you didn't have like family that would split 288 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:17,200 Speaker 2: their time. You would just like, I mean, my parents 289 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 2: were divorced, so like every other year we'd be at 290 00:14:19,400 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 2: my dad's house for Christmas and then my mom's house 291 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 2: for Christmas, my dad's house for Thanksgiving, and then my 292 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 2: mom's house for Thanksgiving. But like, we never had to 293 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:29,480 Speaker 2: deal with family members who would be like, well, got 294 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 2: a head on over to the other person's house. You 295 00:14:31,800 --> 00:14:34,000 Speaker 2: just had one place that you went. And so it's 296 00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 2: interesting now as an adult, and I don't think anything's 297 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 2: necessarily changed. I just didn't see it growing up that 298 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 2: people would just like have to split their time between 299 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 2: two different places when that can get hard too. Yeah, 300 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 2: if you're splitting your time between this grandparent's house and 301 00:14:48,560 --> 00:14:51,280 Speaker 2: this grandparent's house, you don't get any time just by yourself. 302 00:14:51,400 --> 00:14:53,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, with your own little family, you could just. 303 00:14:53,040 --> 00:14:55,080 Speaker 2: Decide, hey, we're not going to split our time between 304 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:56,800 Speaker 2: anyone's house. We're just staying home. 305 00:14:56,720 --> 00:14:59,040 Speaker 1: And that would be fine. 306 00:14:59,120 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 3: Yeah. 307 00:14:59,280 --> 00:15:01,160 Speaker 1: If Allison said, do you know what We're not going 308 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:03,040 Speaker 1: to their house. We're not coming to your house. We 309 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:06,760 Speaker 1: just want our own little family. I'd feel ten percent hurt, 310 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 1: but at the same time, it's like, that's fine. You've 311 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:15,240 Speaker 1: got your own five person family. Go. If you just 312 00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:17,280 Speaker 1: it was the two of you and you want to 313 00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 1: spend it together, Yeah, that's fine too. I mean we 314 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:22,400 Speaker 1: see him other It's not like they don't see us 315 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:24,440 Speaker 1: other times during the year. 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