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Speaker 1: This portion of the Joe Show podcast is powered by

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Speaker 1: Fair and Farah Tampa accident Attorneys. Men should obey women

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Speaker 1: or women should obey men? Katie, what what stat did

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Speaker 1: you see? So?

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Speaker 2: This is according to a new survey in the New

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Speaker 2: York Post, one third of gen Z men think that

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Speaker 2: the women should obey their husbands.

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Speaker 3: So what is even that?

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Speaker 4: What do they expect?

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Speaker 3: What do men want so bad? What do they What

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Speaker 3: do men want from women? I think with the thirty

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Speaker 3: three percent that Katie's taught talking about, I just think

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Speaker 3: they just want somebody who they want like basically an

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Speaker 3: Amish wife. They want somebody who's going to be super

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Speaker 3: submissive and just to have kids and take care of

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Speaker 3: the house.

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Speaker 4: But a third of guys, that's a big number.

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Speaker 3: That's gen Z, correct Z, and that's gen Z. They're

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Speaker 3: the ones who that's the problem. You don't have this

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Speaker 3: problem with millennials, gen xers or baby boomers. It's the

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Speaker 3: gen z ors that are looking at all these What

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Speaker 3: are you, I'm a millennial.

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Speaker 1: You don't think you're a part of that thirty three percent?

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Speaker 3: No? Really, Let's know, I never would consider myself part

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Speaker 3: of that. Part of being in the marriage and a relationship.

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Speaker 3: As a partnership, you can't just be controlling.

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Speaker 4: It's changed.

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Speaker 3: But no, it's it's It's true. I'm not gonna say.

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Speaker 5: Hey, in the kitchen years ago you were like, no,

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Speaker 5: I want the complain.

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Speaker 3: Though I want somebody. I mean, you want some submissive submissiveness.

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Speaker 3: For sure. I'm not saying I'm not saying like, hey,

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Speaker 3: you can't leave the house, get back in the kitchen woman.

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Speaker 3: Oh by the way, we have two children, No, stay

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Speaker 3: here and raise them. I'm not saying that at all.

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Speaker 1: Any guys willing to call in right now and it

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Speaker 1: meant that that's what they're looking for. Eight hundred four

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Speaker 1: oh nine ninety three ninety three texts at ninety seven seven.

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Speaker 3: Two zero.

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Speaker 6: U.

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Speaker 1: So what do you want? Because yeah, I guess I

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Speaker 1: am a little bit shocked. I thought that you were

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Speaker 1: definitely a part of the thirty three percent, Like what

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Speaker 1: do you go ahead.

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Speaker 2: Katie, because I was thinking that you would be like

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Speaker 2: a trad wife kind of guy, like a traditional traditional wife.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I would like secret lives and Mormon lives.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't like I wouldn't mind it. But also I'm

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Speaker 3: not at the same point in time going to tell it,

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Speaker 3: bark orders that my spouse and have them do everything.

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Speaker 3: You know what I mean. I just don't. I feel

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Speaker 3: like it's disrespectful. Are you answering this more so.

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Speaker 1: Not because you're trying to be honest, but because you're

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Speaker 1: trying to impress someone?

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Speaker 3: No, Okay, to make sure no, no, I believe. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I think that there's good old school tradition, traditional values

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Speaker 3: that men and women should both have, but they have

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Speaker 3: to come together and share them as one. It's not

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Speaker 3: just like nineteen fifties nuclear family, right. Yeah, what are

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Speaker 3: you looking at a woman, Ashley? Do you want a

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Speaker 3: woman to be submissive?

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Speaker 5: H I do want them to be submissive, but I

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Speaker 5: also like my woman to have her own life and career.

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Speaker 3: Because you don't want.

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Speaker 7: Hey, Mariah, good morning.

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Speaker 3: Good morning, Mariah.

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Speaker 1: Katie just said that there's a study that says thirty

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Speaker 1: three percent of jen Zeer's they want a submissive woman.

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Speaker 7: Well, it's a good thing that they're not gen X first,

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Speaker 7: because absolutely not.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 7: When I got married to my husband, I told the

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Speaker 7: preacher when we were doing when we figured out our vowels,

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Speaker 7: I was like, okay, so you can say love, honor,

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Speaker 7: and cherish, but I don't say obey, and he was like, well,

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Speaker 7: it's part of the vowels. I said, if you say obey,

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Speaker 7: I will walk off and leave you both standing there.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, So he was like, you promised to love, honor, cheerish.

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Speaker 7: And I stared at this man, dead in his face

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Speaker 7: in the middle of my ceremony, waiting for the word

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Speaker 4: Obey is pretty.

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Speaker 1: God be honest, though, Mariah, like with you saying, thank

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Speaker 1: God they're not gen xers. I think that there's probably

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Speaker 7: Zers, but they're too afraid of us to say that.

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Speaker 3: I'm a gen Zer, and I agree, I am.

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Speaker 6: Afraid, but I'm just saying gen xers are fair.

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Speaker 7: Oh, we can't help that.

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Speaker 3: Look at that. I love it.

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Speaker 1: Mariah, you're the best. Hey, Mike, you like the gen

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Speaker 1: Z whole thought process. You say, I want a submissive woman.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's that's the way I have mine. So I mean,

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Speaker 6: all your parents, if you want to have kids, oh

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Speaker 6: my god, I guess you can. You could just it's

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Speaker 6: easier that way. But if you don't plan on having kids.

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Speaker 6: Your wife should not work.

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Speaker 4: Why do you feel that way, Well.

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Speaker 6: Because you gotta. It works out perfect. So let's say

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Speaker 6: it gives you time. Let's not get home. You can

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Speaker 6: cook the laundry, take care of the kids. If you

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Speaker 6: work and do all that, it's just too much.

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Speaker 4: What if she wants to work, Well.

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Speaker 6: Most of them actually don't want to work. The ones

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Speaker 6: that I think a.

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Speaker 3: Lot of I don't want to work.

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Speaker 4: You say that, now, imagine not having worn it every day,

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Speaker 4: and it's all man, I know people who want to work.

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Speaker 3: Not me.

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, it's just not like a woman and a

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Speaker 1: man thing. I think that there are human beings who

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Speaker 1: don't want to work. That's me.

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Speaker 6: I'm pretty sure if let's say, Joe, you actually end

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Speaker 6: up doing that with your what's your fiance? Ask her

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Speaker 6: if she rather work or stay home and take care

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Speaker 6: of the kids.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't want to work, Well, she doesn't. There are

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Speaker 1: some people who don't want to work. She doesn't want

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Speaker 5: See my girl, she wants to work. She's like, I

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Speaker 5: want to make my own money. I want to have

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Speaker 5: my own like money flow. And I'm like I love that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think it's just like if you have someone's kid once.

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Speaker 1: I know stay at home dads really do need to

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Speaker 1: shout out to mister m again.

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Speaker 6: Now that's embarrassing because.

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Speaker 4: Talking about that real quick.

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Speaker 5: Let's talk about that because I do have a friend

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Speaker 5: who is a stay at home dad, and I will

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Speaker 5: say it is a double standard because I was just

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Speaker 5: like bro like as a man. I don't know how

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Speaker 5: I could feel my wife going out there bringing home

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Speaker 5: the bread and butter and I'm just here watching the kids.

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Speaker 5: I think that it is a double standard. Again, I'm

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Speaker 5: gonna say double standard. Double standard. Men, Oh please, don't

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Speaker 5: crucify me. Should go out there and get the money, man,

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Speaker 5: Branna Bacon, I would. Yeah, Sorry, guys, I do think

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Speaker 5: men should work.

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Speaker 3: No, I think that most you.

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying I don't agree with you, but I'm

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Speaker 1: saying I would like to be a well kept man.

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Speaker 5: You think you would make you feel less of a

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Speaker 5: man by not being able to have your own money

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Speaker 5: and you would have to act your fiance.

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Speaker 4: Hey, babe, can I get like a forty bucks?

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Speaker 3: I feel?

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Speaker 4: Can I borrow the credit card?

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Speaker 1: If I had a meter of how much of a

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Speaker 1: man I feel like at all times? Probably so I'd

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Speaker 1: probably take me down to a thirty two, but I'm already.

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Speaker 5: Down, so I don't know. It's not about getting you

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Speaker 5: all money. Some about just going out and grinding.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Like my neighbor wife is a nervous Imagine watch

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Speaker 6: the kids.

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Speaker 1: Imagine this. Imagine having uh, you know, like three kids

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Speaker 1: and they're all toddlers, and you have to work a

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Speaker 1: and take care of them all night and everything like that.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes it's easier if you don't have to go to work,

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Speaker 1: because that is a full time job.

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Speaker 3: It is.

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Speaker 6: That's what I'm saying. That's what my wife does. See

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Speaker 6: even homeschool my kids.

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Speaker 1: Oh dang, you don't get an opportunity to do.

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Speaker 4: That though not a lot of people have the money

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're going to struggle. Yeah, you struggle a little bit.

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Speaker 6: Struggle as long as your bills are paid. As long

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Speaker 6: as your bills are paid, are fine. Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 6: I got lucky to I have a good job. I

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Speaker 6: make good money for her eight nice. But I understand,

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Speaker 6: you know, and everybody can do it. But I feel

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Speaker 6: like you can make a sacrifice as a man. You

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Speaker 6: can actually work two jobs, you know, just just make

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Speaker 4: You're that jo. You can work two jobs.

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Speaker 3: You and I are gonna be doing. Plus driving ubers buddy. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: they were making Chipotle Bowls's got a connection.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I can get into Chipotle free free bowls for

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Speaker 4: Your wife is living a life, though, Goodness, I.

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Speaker 6: Too.

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Speaker 1: I think sometimes the job of a parent is fulfilling

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Speaker 5: I'm saying she's living a life cause she gets to

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Speaker 5: Like my sister Megan, when she was to stay at

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Speaker 5: Madeling my niece, seeing these moments and be with her.

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Speaker 4: But she does like making working.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but sometimes they can get to her though, Like

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Speaker 6: I was like, not today, talk.

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Speaker 2: To her, take her out.

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Speaker 6: What's just pissed off with the kids. It's like if

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Speaker 6: I was there passing her off, I ain't do nothing.

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Speaker 4: Look at that and just taps out.

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Speaker 1: You're amazing because you're always honest. Whether I agree or

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Speaker 1: disagree with you, you're always honest. And I do love that.

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Speaker 1: Mike will talk to you later.

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Speaker 6: Oh, I see you guys. Guys.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I hope everyone listening right now. If you

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Speaker 1: are stay at home dad or mom or whatever, listen,

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Speaker 1: take it from me. You're definitely not being shamed. My

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Speaker 1: mom is stay at home mom. And if you got

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Speaker 1: and everything like that, not shaming you either.

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Speaker 3: You do what you gotta do.

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Speaker 1: I will like to end this though by saying, I

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Speaker 1: would love to be a well kept man. If listens

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Speaker 1: listening right now and she wants to further her career,

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Speaker 1: go ahead to be a trad husband.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I would love to be a trad husband, steadman.

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Speaker 4: Who would I want to be at?

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Speaker 1: Fara and Farah, Tampa Accident Attorneys