WEBVTT - Hook Up in Grand Forks

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<v Speaker 1>I got an email I gotta read to you about

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<v Speaker 1>a hookup that had a twist. This person would not

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<v Speaker 1>be on the radio, but I'm gonna read it to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Dave Jenny Bailevant. I am exhausted because you guys are

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<v Speaker 1>practically my life Monday through Friday mornings. I got to

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<v Speaker 1>share my story with you. Why am I exhausted? Here's

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<v Speaker 1>the story. I wasn't meeting anybody on Hinge because apparently

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<v Speaker 1>my radius of men was too small. So I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna make it bigger and go all the way

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<v Speaker 1>to Grand Forks, down to Moine and out to Green Bay.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care. So they got They just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>cast a bigger net. Yeah, you got to. So I

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<v Speaker 1>met this guy who lives up in Grand Forks like

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<v Speaker 1>a month ago. We seemed to click, and pretty soon

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<v Speaker 1>he's calling me to He's telling me to come up

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<v Speaker 1>for the weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of a risky little venture. You know, he's

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<v Speaker 1>not across town. You're not meeting over a caribou for

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<v Speaker 1>a coffee. You're going all the way with Grand Forks

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<v Speaker 1>for the weekend. Apparently she packs bag heads on up.

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<v Speaker 1>He says, he has horses and we can go horseback riding.

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<v Speaker 1>It's going to be great. Well, that's kind of cool.

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<v Speaker 1>There's like a place, and the guy puts some thought

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<v Speaker 1>into this, got a plan. So I drive up there.

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<v Speaker 1>I go to his place, which is kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>a little rundown but it was cool. Used to belong

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<v Speaker 1>to his parents. He shows me around. We go horseback

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<v Speaker 1>riding on Friday. So here they are on Halloween. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess it was just this past Friday is Halloween. They

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<v Speaker 1>are on the horses and he's like showing her around

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<v Speaker 1>and their horseback riding, and that's kind of cool. That

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like a great start, right. We get back to

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<v Speaker 1>the house and immediately ran out of things to talk about. Hmmm,

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<v Speaker 1>like nothing, and he was nervous and uncomfortable. So I said,

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<v Speaker 1>is there a bar in town we can go to? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good idea. Yeah, So we go to this

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<v Speaker 1>bar in town and immediately a guy he knows comes

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<v Speaker 1>up to say hi, and that guy and I hit

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<v Speaker 1>it off right away, like one of those instant chemistry

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<v Speaker 1>kind of things. Here, she is how far is Grand Fort?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I was curious.

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<v Speaker 3>It's four and a half hours from the Twin Cities.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's up at the bar. They've run out of

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<v Speaker 1>things to talk about. It's night number one. They've still

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<v Speaker 1>got all of Saturday and Saturday night and part of Sunday,

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<v Speaker 1>and things are not looking good. They're at this bar

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<v Speaker 1>and here comes a guy that she's got some chemistry with.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh rand so is the online guy is sitting there

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<v Speaker 1>playing on his phone, pretending not to notice. The other

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<v Speaker 1>guy and I are dancing. How awful would that be

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<v Speaker 1>for the other guy?

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<v Speaker 4>It doesn't sound like it is at all. He's just

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<v Speaker 4>chilling doing his own thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know he had this girl come up, And anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>they're dancing and pretty soon getting pretty cozy with each other.

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<v Speaker 1>So we agreed we wanted to leave with each other.

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<v Speaker 2>But who's gonna tell Guy number one?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, she's staying at the hinge guy's house. Correct, Well

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<v Speaker 5>that's gonna hold. Oh sorry, I gotta go out and

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<v Speaker 5>be with this other guy for a while, but then

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<v Speaker 5>I'll stop back in for my stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, there's where the change of plans came in. So

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<v Speaker 1>I let his friend go tell him that we were

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<v Speaker 1>going to leave together, and the guy and I left together.

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<v Speaker 1>Only thing was my stuff was still at his house,

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<v Speaker 1>so we had to ask if we could go buy

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<v Speaker 1>his house to pick up my stuff. Okay, so not

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<v Speaker 1>only are you saying, hey, guy number one, I really

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<v Speaker 1>like your friend. We're gonna leave, can we come by

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<v Speaker 1>the house and pick up my stuff?

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<v Speaker 5>That is such like a I don't That was if

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<v Speaker 5>I was the first guy, the hinge guy, I would

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<v Speaker 5>be so not sad, but like my pride would be

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<v Speaker 5>definitely shaken.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And then she kind of mentions that Guy number

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<v Speaker 1>one pretended not to mind, and honestly, I think he

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of relieved. You would be relieved. You'd be

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<v Speaker 1>a little hurt, a little sad, but you'd be.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, oh, thank god.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh if you weren't hitting it off, yeah, probably cool.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd probably be okay.

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<v Speaker 3>If a guy came to come see me and they

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<v Speaker 3>hit it off with my friend and I wasn't vibing

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<v Speaker 3>with them, I'd.

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<v Speaker 2>Be like cool.

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<v Speaker 1>So we go back to Guy number tues place and

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much banged all weekend, That's what she said.

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<v Speaker 2>Pretty much banged all weekend, so that's why she's tired.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, he did leave to go to a quick trip

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<v Speaker 1>to get a pizza on Saturday night. But we probably

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<v Speaker 1>hooked up eight times, eight times from Friday night to

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<v Speaker 1>yesterday afternoon. When I left. I'm exhausted. I can't walk,

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<v Speaker 1>but I can't stop smiling eight times in disguise.

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<v Speaker 2>Ever see that dude? Ever again? Is that how it ends?

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<v Speaker 3>She doesn't tell us to follow up, like have they

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<v Speaker 3>been Well, I guess this just happened this weekend, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Like yesterday, this time yesterday, she had one leg over

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<v Speaker 1>here and one leg over there.

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<v Speaker 2>I wonder if she weday, well, we're exactly.

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<v Speaker 5>I wonder if she knows his name, maybe I have

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<v Speaker 5>any short something.

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<v Speaker 2>I wonder if she knows his last name, maybe she'll

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<v Speaker 2>write in, maybe she'll call in. Maybe we can get

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<v Speaker 2>her on tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>She would not be on the radio, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's because she's probably a little bit embarrassed but also proud. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that is a crappy thing to do, to like abandon

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<v Speaker 1>your rank. But at the same time, I think all

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<v Speaker 1>three people walked away or limped away happily.

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<v Speaker 5>You wouldn't think, because like if the first guy's like,

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<v Speaker 5>oh cool, Yeah, I'm so relieved that I don't have

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<v Speaker 5>to do deal with this.

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<v Speaker 2>You're still your ego is still hurt.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because you had this whole It's not like it

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<v Speaker 4>was just a random like, oh, let's go to uh

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<v Speaker 4>North Loop. Like no, this was a four hour trip

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<v Speaker 4>for her, the commute. You had everything planned and that's

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<v Speaker 4>your friend.

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<v Speaker 1>So a woman met a guy. He met him online

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<v Speaker 1>a month ago. He seemed like a nice guy. So

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<v Speaker 1>she drives all the way to Grand Forks this past Friday,

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<v Speaker 1>just a couple of days ago, and he's like, come

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<v Speaker 1>on up, spend the weekend. I got horses. We'll go

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<v Speaker 1>horseback riding. So they went horseback riding. They came back

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<v Speaker 1>to the house and they immediately ran out of things

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about. So she says, is there a bar

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<v Speaker 1>in town? They go to the bar in town, They

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<v Speaker 1>meet one of his buddies. The buddy and this woman

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<v Speaker 1>hit it off spectacularly. She leaves with this guy, goes

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<v Speaker 1>to the first guy's house to pick up her stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>spends the weekend with one leg over here and one

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<v Speaker 1>leg over there. They said they hooked up eight times,

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<v Speaker 1>which to me sounds exhausting.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so tiring. Eight times. That's a lot of time.

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<v Speaker 1>You you've been to town a couple of times, is

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<v Speaker 1>eight times in one weekend a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it was a Friday to a Sunday.

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<v Speaker 2>Friday to Sunday.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think eight times could equate to yes, a

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<v Speaker 3>full forty eight hours.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that that could.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, what's the math on that one so a day?

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<v Speaker 2>It depends on if they went back to back six hours.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a lot you got to figure out here.

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<v Speaker 5>This is not the kind of math problem that I

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<v Speaker 5>thought I would be doing this morning.

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<v Speaker 6>We've got a word problem for you. Here we go, kid,

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<v Speaker 6>one leg over here, one log over there. So and

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<v Speaker 6>I think it's great. But what do you think of her?

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<v Speaker 6>I think it's great. She instead of having a miserable

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<v Speaker 6>weekend watching TV and silence with horse owner, she rode

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<v Speaker 6>something else.

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<v Speaker 5>I think she was determined to get some action. Yes,

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<v Speaker 5>so it was like whatever happened had to happen. She

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<v Speaker 5>was like, I'm here for it because this is all

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<v Speaker 5>I want is this action thing. So she was willing

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<v Speaker 5>to drive four and a half hours. She's willing to

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<v Speaker 5>like spread the other end net.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing that if she was just looking to hook up,

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't got no shame in that at all.

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<v Speaker 4>I think the guy like the friend that she ended

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<v Speaker 4>up going home with. I only think he's wrong because

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<v Speaker 4>that was your friend's girl, not girl really, but because

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<v Speaker 4>they just met on hinge. But like you know, you

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<v Speaker 4>don't take home your buddies for a girl.

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<v Speaker 5>It's just the weird thing of being like, Hey, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>going to bring her home with me, but I've got

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<v Speaker 5>to bring her back to your house to pick up

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<v Speaker 5>her stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that cool?

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<v Speaker 4>He was sitting in the car, run of the engine, waiting.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, oh my gosh, just trading off far.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me ask you if you went out of town

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<v Speaker 1>or met somebody, or you drove. Maybe it didn't drive

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<v Speaker 1>that far. Maybe you drove, like from Little Canada to

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<v Speaker 1>White Bear Lake it took you ten fifteen minutes to

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<v Speaker 1>get there. Did if you met up with someone for

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<v Speaker 1>the first time this weekend? How did it go? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you spend the night? Did he spend the night? She

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<v Speaker 1>spend the night? How far did you drive? Was it awkward?

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<v Speaker 1>I think I told you the time that a long

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<v Speaker 1>time ago, I met up with a girl. I was

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<v Speaker 1>in Las Vegas. I dated this girl. I flew back

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<v Speaker 1>to see her two months later, and we ran out

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<v Speaker 1>of things to talk about. On the ride from the

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<v Speaker 1>airport to her house. It was a miserable, long weekend.

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<v Speaker 5>I had this boy that was really into me in

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<v Speaker 5>college my senior year, and like right before I graduated,

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<v Speaker 5>we were like pretty close. And then I moved to

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<v Speaker 5>Florida to work at disney World and he was like,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm going to come see you, And by that point

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<v Speaker 5>I had already gotten over him, and so he can.

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<v Speaker 5>He drove and got on a bus and came all

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<v Speaker 5>the way to Florida and it was the most awkward,

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<v Speaker 5>like two days ever. So similar situation, but I didn't

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<v Speaker 5>meet up with some random other person and we hit

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<v Speaker 5>it off there, So not that same.

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<v Speaker 1>A couple of text messages regarding this whole situation, we

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<v Speaker 1>get to wrap up good for her. Eight times isn't

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<v Speaker 1>that much when the sex and is brand new? I disagree.

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<v Speaker 1>I eight times in one weekend, Oh.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I kind of agree. It's not a lot when

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<v Speaker 4>it's new and fresh adrenaline.

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<v Speaker 3>Man, I think you're thinking that it's like an hour

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<v Speaker 3>every single time. What could have happened was like they

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<v Speaker 3>hook up right away, you're still laying there, you're in

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<v Speaker 3>a high. Thirty minutes later, hook up again. Yes, right

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<v Speaker 3>off the bat.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, right, break it down for it. Six morning Saturday.

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<v Speaker 3>You wake up the next morning and everyone's horned up

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<v Speaker 3>in the morning after some cocktails at least I am,

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<v Speaker 3>and so.

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<v Speaker 2>Then you're gonna get it on. Then you go out,

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<v Speaker 2>you get.

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<v Speaker 3>Your coffee, you have a little launch or brunch or

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<v Speaker 3>whatever mid afternoon. From afternoon delight, we're up to four

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<v Speaker 3>times that we get to Saturday evening. You know that

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<v Speaker 3>they probably had more drinks at that point. And then

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<v Speaker 3>they got real loud. He was tossing her around. They

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<v Speaker 3>were doing backflips and stuff. Three times right there. Sunday morning,

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<v Speaker 3>wake up, one last time. Eight times they were bing

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<v Speaker 3>bang boom.

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<v Speaker 4>And the all the momentum is there because you're just

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<v Speaker 4>off the high of like I want to keep doing this.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to keep doing this. So that's all you're

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<v Speaker 4>thinking about while you're doing drinks and all those other things.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, text messages at Katie WB one. I mean, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>you never really know if you're going to hit it

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<v Speaker 1>off with the person until you meet him. So original

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<v Speaker 1>guy is probably like whatever, and glad he didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>to spend the weekend awkwardly trying to act interested or

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<v Speaker 1>like they have anything to talk about, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's very true. I think that the first guy was

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<v Speaker 1>probably like, he's not stupid. I mean, she found him

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<v Speaker 1>charming and funny and whatever, so he's not stupid. They

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<v Speaker 1>just didn't have anything to talk about. Probably all they

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<v Speaker 1>talked about was like, Oh, it'll be really it'd be

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<v Speaker 1>really fun to come up, and that's once they Once

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<v Speaker 1>they had exhausted that topic, there was nothing else.

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<v Speaker 4>Definitely sucks in the moment, but I think he dodged

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<v Speaker 4>the bullet the.

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<v Speaker 2>Origin the original guy, Yeah, I think so too.

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<v Speaker 4>Because he probably was like, if she's willing to

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<v Speaker 2>Just up and leave like this, then she wasn't for me.