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Speaker 1: Well, there is a guy who I guess wants to

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Speaker 1: something that happened to him on a date. Now, the

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Speaker 1: date didn't go so well, sort of ended early, and

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Speaker 1: he's not sure if it was him being a jerk

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because after the date ended early, he heard from

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Speaker 2: the girl and she was like, what's what's going on?

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Speaker 3: Is something wrong?

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Speaker 2: Like like he was the problem.

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Speaker 3: So I guess.

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Speaker 2: College college age, and in his new business class there's

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Speaker 2: a girl since school started that he has wanted to

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Speaker 2: ask out because I guess you know, she's really hot

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Speaker 2: and he's been one to ask her out all year.

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Speaker 4: In this situation, I usually just stare. It doesn't really

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Speaker 4: go far from me. I have a staring problem. I'll stare,

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Speaker 4: you'll you'll you'll see me stare, and I'll do the

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Speaker 4: thing where I look around and keep looking, or or

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Speaker 4: I do the thing where I'm cracking my neck. Oh,

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Speaker 4: I'm really just I wasn't staring very obvious. Yeah, I

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Speaker 4: don't know what's wrong with me. I really have to

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Speaker 4: teach my son when he's born not to stare bad

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Speaker 4: problem I have.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yes.

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Speaker 2: So this guy finally gets up the courage and asks

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Speaker 2: this girl out, and he is so happy because she

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Speaker 2: just to go have drinks at a bar like their

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Speaker 2: college local bar.

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Speaker 3: We're going to go have drinks.

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Speaker 5: You're disappointed. It's a very normal thing. They're good college

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Speaker 5: coffee drinks. It's the same thing. Is he going to

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Speaker 5: pay for her drink that I don't know? I wasn't there.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, tell me.

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Speaker 5: Everything and I will as a gentleman.

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Speaker 3: Oh and the fact you asked her out?

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Speaker 5: Of course.

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Speaker 6: I walk in and you go, can I get you

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Speaker 6: a drink? And I tell you and then you get

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Speaker 3: Oh, I don't like her.

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Speaker 5: I would rather be like hard so we can.

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Speaker 3: Straight.

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Speaker 5: I'd get her there.

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Speaker 6: I'd walk in and I'd be like, oh, you're getting.

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Speaker 7: The drink going home with this guy? Excuse wow. So

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Speaker 7: they decided they're going to meet at this college bar.

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Speaker 2: Great, So he shows up a little early and she's

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Speaker 2: a little late and super apologetic, a little frantic, and

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Speaker 2: she says, I'm so sorry. I'm a little late because

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Speaker 2: my best friend and roommate has just broken up with

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Speaker 2: her long term boyfriend and was so devastated that I

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Speaker 2: didn't want to leave her.

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Speaker 3: And you're so cool.

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Speaker 2: So she's gonna hang out with us tonight because you know,

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Speaker 2: she's in a state, so I didn't want to leave

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Speaker 2: her alone. So he gets his date with the hot

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Speaker 5: Two things.

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Speaker 1: Number One, I have been in the position before where

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Speaker 1: a girl brought a friend on a date. No, I'll

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Speaker 1: tell you about that in a second. Great number two,

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Speaker 1: this situation is heaven.

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Speaker 5: What do you mean easy?

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Speaker 1: This girl I really am into right you said, she's hot, beautiful, everything.

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Speaker 1: I am now going to give all my attention to

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Speaker 1: the other girl. And oh man, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 5: That sucks. So what happened. Let's talk and.

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Speaker 1: I'm showing you all my concern and my compassion, and

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Speaker 1: I'm showing off the goods of what a great guy.

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Speaker 4: But also too, you're if you're really in this chick

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Speaker 4: like he has been. There's a party that's probably really

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Speaker 4: have this, You probably were thinking of all these expectations

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Speaker 4: you're looking forward to and this happens. I get what

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Speaker 4: you're saying, and I agree with you. I also love

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Speaker 4: hot gossip, so that would be very exciting. I love drama.

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Speaker 4: So but there's a part of me, is she telling

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Speaker 2: What do you mean?

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Speaker 4: Like, well, I mean girls, girls sometimes will lie and

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Speaker 4: bring their best friend with them because they aren't sure yet.

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Speaker 4: So is she really telling the truth that her best

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Speaker 4: friendly up broken up with or she wants to bring

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Speaker 4: her friend because my mom exactly, you're gonna find you're

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Speaker 4: gonna get the tea. Yeah, if she's not that depressed,

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Speaker 4: that sucks. Like she's not that upset, that sucks, and

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Speaker 4: like because then because then the girl's life. Yeah, so

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Speaker 4: if she's really upset, I feel like, yeah, exactly what

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Speaker 4: Eddie says, Yeah a long way.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well it's interesting because it sounds like this guy

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Speaker 2: is a mix of both of you. So when it

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Speaker 2: well I'll be the good guy here.

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Speaker 6: And you immediately have to go, I know, worries it happened.

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Speaker 3: She's okay, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 6: I will have a good time.

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Speaker 3: I'm so sorry to hear about that break up. Okay,

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Speaker 3: and so.

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Speaker 5: You're the nice, caring guy. They both like it.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, if I'm the guy, I say, hey, there's

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Speaker 4: a good way to get over him really fast.

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Speaker 6: I text them both the text.

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Speaker 3: This is weird.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so he's trying to be that nice guy, like

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Speaker 2: Eddy said, and he's you know, oh my gosh, let's

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Speaker 2: talk about it. Let's let's get some drinks. Let's just

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Speaker 2: really hear what's going on. So they do that for

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Speaker 2: a while and then the conversation kind of okay, lightens up,

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Speaker 2: there was he says, like ten minutes of that, and

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Speaker 2: then it just for the rest of the night became

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Speaker 2: just the two girls talking about the breakup, and like

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Speaker 2: almost like he wasn't there, like he was invisible after that,

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Speaker 2: and so he said, after about like a half hour

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Speaker 3: It was depressing and weird.

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Speaker 2: So he finally said, you know what, you know, you

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Speaker 2: you guys need some time together, like, let's wrap this

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Speaker 2: up early and hopefully we can do this again.

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Speaker 5: Hit him up later and it was like what happened? Yeah,

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Speaker 5: and was like, what do you mean what happened?

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Speaker 2: You seemed weirded out? You left early? Like what was

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Speaker 2: up with that?

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Speaker 1: He takes back, This is again, this is all easy.

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Speaker 1: You just say, yeah, you know, it seemed like you

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Speaker 1: guys needed to talk about it. You were there for

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Speaker 1: your friend. I didn't want to. I didn't want to,

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Speaker 1: you know, like get involved in that and you know

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Speaker 1: like interrupt or or intrude and so uh, you know,

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Speaker 1: I'd love to see you, you know, when you have

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Speaker 1: a chance again one on one, but you know, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I didn't want I didn't want to, you know, make

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Speaker 7: You guys play, which again is actually more points in

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Speaker 7: the guys like recogniself.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, it makes me like you more.

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Speaker 6: And then you go send a pick.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, this did happen to me. What's I was?

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Speaker 1: There was a girl who was interested in me, and

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Speaker 1: I was kind of like I'm not really sure. She

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Speaker 1: was whatever, And so we met downtown at a bar

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Speaker 1: and I got there first. She came rolling in and

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Speaker 1: she had a friend with her, and I'm like, what

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Speaker 1: are you doing? You're you're into me, like why are

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Speaker 1: you bringing a friend? And it immediately turned me off

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Speaker 1: because I wasn't even really that in. I mean, it

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Speaker 1: was whatever, you know, I was gonna do it still,

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Speaker 1: but it was fine, and so I was immediately turned

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Speaker 1: off and I was irritated, and she knew it, and

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Speaker 1: but like, why are you bringing a friend? It didn't

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Speaker 1: make any sense. No, there was no reason for it.

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Speaker 1: And he's like, oh, here's my I brought my friend

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Speaker 1: Becky with me and blah blah blah.

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Speaker 5: I'm like, okay, great, and.

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Speaker 2: You're not doing the good good guy move trying to

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Speaker 2: get in there, and no.

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Speaker 5: I'm pissed because I'm not even that interested.

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Speaker 3: Okay, if you were interested, you would probably do that.

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Speaker 1: It got way worse, so I'm not interested. Now I'm

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Speaker 1: irritated or whatever. At one point, I get up and

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Speaker 1: girl that I was really into, who I knew because

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Speaker 1: she was one of these like promo girls for like

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Speaker 1: a tequila or a beer or something. Yeah, and you

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Speaker 1: know those girls a couple of week hand out, you know,

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Speaker 1: the key chains and stickers, exactly like an Emily type. Well,

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Speaker 1: she was so hot and I knew her from like

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Speaker 1: our bikini searches and stuff like that, and we would

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Speaker 1: always have like a little rapport.

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Speaker 5: Well she hit.

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh you're here, and she's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm about to be done. I go, oh, cool, you

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Speaker 1: want to go grab a drink somewhere else? And she's

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Speaker 1: like absolutely. And so I didn't even say goodbye to

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Speaker 1: the too, but I just left. I left with the

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Speaker 1: hot chicken. I was like, screw you, Hey, screw you.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna bring a girl your friend. Mountain Deuces.

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Speaker 4: Did the right thing, man, Thanks, So what happened with

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Speaker 4: this guy in this chicken?

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Speaker 6: Any word or well?

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Speaker 2: No, he's just wondering was that a jerk move? Because

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Speaker 2: she was out like making him feel like, now what?

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Speaker 3: Any but you asked another girl out on a date

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Speaker 3: while you were on a date.

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Speaker 6: And I don't think he was on a date though.

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Speaker 4: Girls, if you bring your friend and it's not like

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Speaker 4: this specific situation that's on you if I, if I was,

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Speaker 4: if I was friends with this guy?

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Speaker 6: Is a hitted and quitted situation over this chick, over

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Speaker 6: the chicka.

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Speaker 3: Wait what this is?

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Speaker 6: You look up with her and then you try to

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Speaker 6: That's what you do.

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Speaker 5: It would be great. Thank you,