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Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning. Second date update back again

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Speaker 1: this morning. You were not too late. We're about to

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Speaker 1: roll it all out. Mitchell is on the phone, waiting patiently.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Mitchell, Hey, good morning guys. Hey man, So

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Speaker 1: you took brook out in one of my favorite little

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Speaker 1: towns there in the East Bay Piedmont, so cute out there.

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Speaker 1: Tell me, let's talk about the date, because I know

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Speaker 1: she's ghosted, but like, let's get there. How did it go?

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Speaker 2: How did we get to drinks?

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Speaker 1: You mean, I guess, yeah, how did we get to

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Speaker 1: the ghosting? That's a weird way to put it. Oh,

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Speaker 1: Like what did you guys do for the date? Obviously

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Speaker 1: you said you went for drinks?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like soo, we took a walk around the neighborhood

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Speaker 2: and then we got some drinks, and then we took

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Speaker 2: a walk around the neighborhood again afterwards, and like we

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Speaker 2: were really vibing and connecting, you know. And it's just

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Speaker 2: confusing because like there was a lot of chemistry, uh huh,

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Speaker 2: and I was really looking forward to like another date,

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Speaker 2: and so I'm confused.

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Speaker 3: Okay, let's try to figure this out. Let's see if

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Speaker 3: she did in fact ghosts go ahead and mute your

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Speaker 3: phone so you can listen in. But we're going to

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Speaker 3: give her a shout right now, here we go.

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Speaker 4: Hello, This is Brooke.

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Speaker 3: Hi Brooke, this is Marcus calling from Star one on

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Speaker 3: one three. Good morning, Hi, Hi, how are you?

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Speaker 4: I'm okay? How are you?

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Speaker 1: This is weird good. I don't suppose you listen to

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Speaker 1: the morning show? Do you?

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Speaker 4: No? I do like every morning?

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Speaker 3: Oh fantastic. What do you know about second date update?

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, yes, well.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Mitchell, Yes, hold on, Mitchell, are you there?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, here we go. I mean, Brooke, you know

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Speaker 1: why we're here. He had a good job, I do.

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Speaker 1: He liked your date a lot. He wants to go

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Speaker 1: out again. I'm going to talk about him like he's

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Speaker 1: not here. How did it? How did it go for you?

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Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, we Hi, Mitchell.

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Speaker 4: I mean we did have a connection, but like he

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Speaker 4: just couldn't walk anywhere normally, Like I I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I felt like like he couldn't walk.

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Speaker 5: Anywhere normally, Like every time he moved he was counting.

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Speaker 4: His steps like out loud, like forty four, forty five,

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Speaker 4: forty six, And like I don't know.

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Speaker 5: At first, I didn't want to say anything because.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, maybe this is a bit I don't like.

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Speaker 4: I was just confused, but I thought maybe he was

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Speaker 4: tracking his fitness or like counting as steps.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but did you say something kind of like.

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Speaker 4: I guess it came up kind of organicallys and like

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Speaker 4: what is he doing? This is like freaky weird, And

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Speaker 4: then he was just like no, I like, I don't

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Speaker 4: like ending on an odd number, but I mean I

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Speaker 4: try to laugh it off.

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Speaker 5: I just was like, this is weird because we're still.

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Speaker 4: Walking, like we're not even at our destination. I don't

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Speaker 4: know why you're counting out loud. But when I was laughing,

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Speaker 4: he didn't laugh. It was like very stone cold, sober, serious,

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Speaker 4: Like every destination he gets too has to end on

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Speaker 4: an even number, apparently.

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Speaker 1: And when he stops walking, he has he has to

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Speaker 1: be on an even number.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. So I mean when we did reach.

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Speaker 5: The wine bar eventually, but it was on the step

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Speaker 5: one hundred and ninety seven.

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Speaker 4: And then he just took like three more steps and

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Speaker 4: then turned around and like walked back.

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Speaker 5: And yeah, like the drinks were fun and fine, but

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Speaker 5: I couldn't like get.

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Speaker 4: That out of my head. Sure, even after we left,

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Speaker 4: he did like a tiny lap around a tree because

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Speaker 4: we had stopped at an odd number.

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Speaker 5: So I just am like, okay, was like on a

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Speaker 5: date with like a number freak, a step break.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, it was just weird.

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Speaker 1: Mitchell, let's go to you. What's going on?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, look, it's not crazy. It's just one of those

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Speaker 2: things that makes my brain happy. I've been doing it

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Speaker 2: since I was a kid and I was in a

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Speaker 2: good mood and it made me happy, and like, I

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Speaker 2: don't even think about it anymore, to be honest.

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Speaker 5: I mean, you definitely do think about it, because you're.

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Speaker 4: Like if you've been doing it since you were a kid,

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Speaker 4: and it's a weird ticker habit, Like I get that, but.

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Speaker 5: That just becomes part of your normal routine.

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Speaker 4: You don't. If you don't think about it, then you're

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Speaker 4: not like counting out loud, and like.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, it didn't feel natural at all.

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Speaker 4: It felt like you were really invested in the numbers

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Speaker 4: in your head and the steps you were taking and

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Speaker 4: like not really present with me.

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Speaker 5: I mean you almost walked into a sandwich board on

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Speaker 5: the sidewalk because.

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Speaker 4: You were so focused on the numbers, like you weren't

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Speaker 4: even paying attention to me when we were walking.

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Speaker 2: I still got there, yeah.

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Speaker 4: Like eventually, but not like not really. I mean like

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Speaker 4: it wasn't we weren't fairly present together?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, one second? Like I was being present and

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Speaker 2: it's just how do I say this symmetry is satisfying

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Speaker 2: to me?

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Speaker 4: Okay, you know, like symmetry might be satisfying, but what

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Speaker 4: about chemistry, Like we don't have any anymore?

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Speaker 1: So because what all right? We have some awareness now, Mitchelle,

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Speaker 1: is this something you have to do out loud? Like

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Speaker 1: I'm still trying to piece this together.

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Speaker 2: I didn't realize I was doing it bad out loud

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Speaker 2: like I was kind of I'm pretty sure I was

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Speaker 2: taking to myself.

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Speaker 1: Can you do as an exaggeration?

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Speaker 4: No, but like you weren't because I'm obviously bringing up

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Speaker 4: the fact that I heard you counting when we first

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Speaker 4: met up. You were like counting.

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Speaker 1: Out loud, Mitchell, Hey, what's wrong with that?

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Speaker 4: I just explained it. It's weird and like you weren't

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Speaker 4: being present with me. I don't want to date like

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Speaker 4: someone that's like obsessed with numbers and steps?

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Speaker 1: Is that a no second date.

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Speaker 4: I mean no, I don't want to date someone that

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Speaker 4: has to like take laps around street furniture and.

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Speaker 5: Like is afraid to step on a crack because he's

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Speaker 5: going to break his mom's back or whatever the old

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Speaker 5: nursery rhyme is. I'm just like not into this.

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Speaker 4: Okay, you need

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Speaker 1: Help, right, Hang on a minute, Hang on