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Speaker 1: That's why I love wakes up John Jay and Rich

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Speaker 1: what's crack a leg?

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Speaker 2: And this is the big bulls dove snoopy decle, double

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Speaker 2: gigsel bang boom, what you don't do.

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Speaker 1: We're not talking about rich ten T and we're not

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Speaker 1: talking about last year. It's the one and only.

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Speaker 2: Does you know the glass lastly makes you people?

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Speaker 1: Double gig in your face to me and in the

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Speaker 1: place to be And you're listening to John Jay and

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Speaker 1: Rich wakes.

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Speaker 3: John j and Rich our phone number eight seven seven

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Speaker 3: nine three seven o four seven. The text line you

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Speaker 3: text Jgyard whatever you want to say to the number

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Speaker 3: nine six eight ninety three. I remember, I'll said you

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Speaker 3: guys about the situation with my wife and Sam the handyman.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, the extra trash can I didn't I didn't.

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Speaker 2: Really talk about it.

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Speaker 3: And now my wife's like, blow me up, and she's like,

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Speaker 3: can I call in right now?

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Speaker 2: She wants to clear up, clear something up. No, tell

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Speaker 2: her side of the story. No, you can't call it

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Speaker 2: right now.

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Speaker 4: You're like, get a blake show, Like I have no idea.

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Speaker 4: She's furious. I don't know what she thinks. Hello, well,

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Speaker 4: good morning, beautiful.

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Speaker 1: How are you.

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Speaker 5: I'm good. Would it be better if I wasn't on

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Speaker 5: my car phone and on the cell phone?

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Speaker 2: Well, it depends on the content of what that's better.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, good, Well, what's going on?

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Speaker 7: Well, always listening to your segment about the trash. Okay,

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Speaker 7: And so I was I would like to explain my

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Speaker 7: side of the story, because I'm very much on Rich's side.

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Speaker 2: Go ahead, tell your side of the story. Then.

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Speaker 5: Okay. So we're a little.

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Speaker 6: Old fashioned in our family, and.

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Speaker 5: There's pink jobs and there's blue jobs, and I don't think.

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Speaker 6: That I should have to take out the trash.

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Speaker 5: And so I ask, can you please take out the trash?

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Speaker 5: I asked nicely, can you please take out the trash?

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Speaker 5: And I ask nicely again, and I keep asking like

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Speaker 5: every day, and this happens every time the trash.

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Speaker 6: Needs to go out.

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Speaker 5: It's like it's literally coming out of the trash can

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Speaker 5: into the garage like Sarah Cynthia.

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Speaker 6: Stout from where the sidewalk ends. I mean, we're literally about.

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Speaker 5: To take over the neighborhood with our trash, and then

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Speaker 5: we're gonna take over our city, and then we're gonna

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Speaker 5: take over our state and our country. And the world

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Speaker 5: have to move to space exactly. It's not just a

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Speaker 5: little bit of trash like we need. I'll take a

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Speaker 5: picture next time. Like it's not just a little bit

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Speaker 5: coming out of the top of the can. It's like

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Speaker 5: outside of the can and encroaching into where John Jay

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Speaker 5: actually gets in his car. So I'm not a martyr.

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Speaker 5: I get upset that it's not done, and so finally

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Speaker 5: I get to a breaking point and I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 5: I have to do this. I can't live like this anymore.

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Speaker 5: We're gonna have Maggot and everything else. So I go

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Speaker 5: and take the trash out and John Jay said, yes,

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Speaker 5: he was sick and he was grumpy, and that was

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Speaker 5: like totally. I mean, I hope he pulls the video

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Speaker 5: because it was so ridiculous what he did. It reminded

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Speaker 5: me of when the kids. He was mad at the

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Speaker 5: kids about video games and he ripped the video games

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Speaker 5: out of the wall and went stomping into the garage,

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Speaker 5: and of course they found the video game where he

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Speaker 5: hit it in the garage within ten minutes. But it

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Speaker 5: was just like so so crazy and ridiculous. And the can,

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Speaker 5: it doesn't it's just an extra can, like it's really nice.

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Speaker 2: A big can. It's a big Look how nice.

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Speaker 6: The garage looks to the other can.

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Speaker 2: Look how good the garage looks? Now without that giant can.

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Speaker 2: There's a little kid.

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Speaker 3: There's a little can there. And I was like, that's nice.

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Speaker 3: I'll compromise that little can. Or you know what he

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Speaker 5: So so then Jake kind of looks at me and

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Speaker 5: And I'm like, yes, grab the can out of the

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Speaker 6: And he can you know, he can get it.

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Speaker 5: Like that's ridiculous, and so so we went on with

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Speaker 5: our day. That's what happens. So I remind us to

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Speaker 5: all you, all you ladies out there who don't want

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Speaker 5: Where the Sidewalk and Sarah Cynthia Stout and read that

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Speaker 5: to your family.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, first of all, I was dealing with stage three

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Speaker 3: malaria and you're.

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Speaker 2: Like, sure, yeah, no atalogies, you can't wait extra day.

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Speaker 5: So the question is is what were you dealing with

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Speaker 5: the four days prior when she asked you that day

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Speaker 5: I was waiting for our children. You heard that part

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Speaker 5: of the story.

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Speaker 1: How many times, four days we're losing John recovering, it's

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Speaker 1: still recovery. How many times, Blake, have you had to

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Speaker 1: say the phrase, I guess I'm the only one that

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Speaker 1: can clean this or dish does?

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Speaker 3: She just does that there, Cynthia stout thing over and

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Speaker 3: over and over again.

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Speaker 2: She does it all the time, say it.

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Speaker 5: And say it. And like you, Rich, I put the

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Speaker 5: dishes in that. I like to wake up to a

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Speaker 5: clean sink. I put the dishes in the dishwasher. I

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Speaker 5: like to John Jay has and I've been patient with it,

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Speaker 5: but it does, it does wear on me. He has

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Speaker 5: our house. There's in our in our laundry room, in

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Speaker 5: our in our kitchen, and you should see our garage.

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Speaker 5: He gets mad at the at the way the trash looks.

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Speaker 5: I mean you should see the amount of sweatshirts that

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Speaker 5: he has piled up in our garage.

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Speaker 2: We hold on pull up.

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Speaker 3: I have piles, but I know what's in those piles, right,

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Speaker 3: I was looking for that allergy medicine and it was

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Speaker 3: in pile number four in the laundry room. Yes, yeah,

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Speaker 3: it was put there a year ago and knew exactly

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Speaker 2: Do you think, so, Blake is it like?

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Speaker 1: So for me, it's like, now Stacy's not an unclean person,

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Speaker 1: but dishes in the sink just don't bother her. She

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Speaker 1: But for me, if I know they've got like, you know,

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Speaker 1: So I might as well. If I want to live

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Speaker 1: in that, I just take care of it. I don't

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Speaker 1: not even worth it. But that's because they don't even

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Speaker 3: But in Blake's mind, she's like, I can't do everything right.

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Speaker 5: Well, and then like, for example, he does meta musle

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Speaker 5: every night, Well, he leaves the cup. He leaves the

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Speaker 5: cup with a meta musle, like it's literally yeah exactly,

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Speaker 5: It's like I don't even know jello or whatever, and

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Speaker 5: it sticks to the side and you can't just rinse

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Speaker 6: It to get it off.

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Speaker 5: The dishwasher, Can you please put water in it? Whatever,

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Speaker 5: and then just put a little bit of water, swish

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Speaker 3: And then that's that's what I do now, after you

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Speaker 3: brought it up, and that's what I do now. It's

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Speaker 3: not a problem now, is it. No, it's not. He's

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Speaker 3: brought up the trash before and it still seems to

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Speaker 2: And crash is the work in progress.

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Speaker 5: It is so terrible. And then the kids when they

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Speaker 5: do the trash sometimes they put the boxes on the

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Speaker 5: side because the recycle was the recycle was full. And

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Speaker 5: so we have this grumpy neighbor behind us, and he

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Speaker 5: sends us a text message saying, can you please have

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Speaker 5: your kids break down the boxes because the trash people

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Speaker 5: don't jump out of their trucks and get the boxes

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Speaker 5: and put them away.

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Speaker 6: And I was like, oh my gosh, even the neighbors

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Speaker 2: Screw. That guy is bridgid.

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Speaker 6: That's why it's so ridiculous.

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Speaker 5: All right, Well anyway, anyhow, yeah, hold on, thank you

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Speaker 5: for letting me chime in and share my side of

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Speaker 5: the story, because clearly you didn't get the whole picture.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you know what's funny is we did, Blake.

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Speaker 3: I did a couple of podcasts last week, and I

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Speaker 3: was answering questions from people in Instagram and what it

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Speaker 3: was about IX, and I said, and she goes, I

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Speaker 3: don't have an ick about you. And then I was like,

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Speaker 3: I gotta think about you. Like when you're eating dinner

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Speaker 3: she picks her teeth sometimes with some good that grosses

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Speaker 3: me out, and she goes. Then she starts going, oh,

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Speaker 3: your retainer at night, and then it sounds like now

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Speaker 3: she's just she's building up.

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Speaker 5: Amma, now I've got But that's not really an ick.

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Speaker 5: That's just like disrespectful. Right, Like I live here and

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Speaker 5: I live one way and you live another way. We

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Speaker 3: We are now that, now that Sam's trash can is gone,

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Speaker 3: I can take out the trash piece of me.

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Speaker 2: All right, Blake, I gotta go to work.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, I have.

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Speaker 5: A good day, everybody, Okay, by.

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Speaker 2: Love you.

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Speaker 3: This ray, this ring on my finger represents the never

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Speaker 3: ending circle of.

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Speaker 1: Blake.

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Speaker 2: Is the goat stack tired of you up? We need

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Speaker 2: to hear this.

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Speaker 1: She just dropped the buc