1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 1: Welcome to another episode of I Tell You What Doves. 2 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:06,400 Speaker 1: Doves is heading into a world here, very very soon 3 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:09,800 Speaker 1: where he's going to require the well you already are 4 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:14,360 Speaker 1: for the most part, Yeah, babysitters. So let's fire up 5 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:16,480 Speaker 1: talkback everyone on the iHeart Radio app. You're gonna be 6 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:18,480 Speaker 1: happy you did that because Morgan Wall and tickets are 7 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:21,279 Speaker 1: coming up six oh five this morning, well just after 8 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 1: on Kibdle two and throughout the morning via talkback and 9 00:00:25,880 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 1: via the iHeart Radio app and via your phone keep 10 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 1: it on Cabble two. 11 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 2: So what's going on? 12 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 3: Yes, I want to know what you guys would do 13 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:34,960 Speaker 3: in this situation if somebody offered to pay for a 14 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:37,599 Speaker 3: babysitter for you, just so that way you could hang 15 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:40,479 Speaker 3: out with your friend group. Because there's these two friends, 16 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:44,599 Speaker 3: Katie and Rob, their parents fairly new and every time 17 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 3: they get asked to hang out with their friends, they say. 18 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 2: Oh, well we'll let you know, we'll see. 19 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:52,239 Speaker 3: And so the one friend was like, Hey, if it's 20 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 3: either for you guys, I'll pay for your babysitter. 21 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 2: And because they detected that was the issue, right, they. 22 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 3: Figured maybe they're not coming out anymore or don't want 23 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 3: to talk to us because they are dealing with the baby. Yeah, 24 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 3: So the friend offered to pay, and Katie was like, 25 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 3: she kind of got mad because she like, why are 26 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 3: you offering to pay for a babysitter? Where financially Okay, 27 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 3: we don't need you to pay for a babysitter. So 28 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:17,040 Speaker 3: I want to know what will you guys do if 29 00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 3: somebody offered to pay for a babysitter for you? 30 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 2: But I do it now, And I don't mean what 31 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:26,480 Speaker 2: is she hot? I don't know? 32 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, well and obviously an adult. Did I answer the question? Yeah, 33 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 1: I answered the question. My part's done. 34 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:35,399 Speaker 2: Sam. 35 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 4: I think it's cool that they're offering to do this 36 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:41,480 Speaker 4: because with them, yeah, me personally, I wouldn't like I 37 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:43,680 Speaker 4: wouldn't want someone to pay for my own babysitter. 38 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 1: But really super tight friends, her family, and they just 39 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 1: want you to go out and times are really stretched. 40 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 2: You guys, You and Hawthorne, you know, you're out on the. 41 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 1: Streets of Maple Lake, you know, and you get like 42 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: dirt on your face, shoveled squirrels. 43 00:01:57,520 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 4: What I don't but I don't get. 44 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 2: This little baby bone is like in a manger. 45 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 4: My friends and family that are super close to me, 46 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:09,359 Speaker 4: wants to get together with me and Hawthorne and the baby, 47 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 4: like all three of us. So if it's an issue 48 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 4: if they're not coming out because of the baby, are 49 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:17,679 Speaker 4: they only inviting them to places like a bar or 50 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 4: whatever that they don't want to take their baby too, 51 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 4: Although we do take our baby to bars. 52 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, get he's been sick once. 53 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 2: It was just a really a doozy yeah, and I 54 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 2: still haven't. 55 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:33,360 Speaker 4: But I just don't. I don't know, like, if they're 56 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:36,679 Speaker 4: that tight, wouldn't you just say, hey, bring the kid. 57 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:39,639 Speaker 1: And it's like, you know, but sometimes you're going out, 58 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:41,919 Speaker 1: you want to night away, and other couples want to 59 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 1: night away from their kids. 60 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:44,839 Speaker 4: Then those couples can go and have a night away 61 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:48,920 Speaker 4: at a bar and not this couple doesn't have to 62 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 4: go if they don't want to. 63 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 1: Well maybe so what I think what he's saying is here, 64 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 1: Katie and Rob over there right, is that maybe there 65 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 1: was a thing where they always went out all the time. 66 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:58,800 Speaker 1: They you have kids about the same time, and all 67 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 1: of a sudden, Katie and Rob may not have you 68 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 1: know that maybe they don't really have the means to 69 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 1: take on a babysitter. And to go out and that 70 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 1: kind of stuff, and that would alleviate some of the funds. 71 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 1: And they want to go out leave the kids. I mean, 72 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:13,239 Speaker 1: you got to go out and have a little adult 73 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 1: time too, ur now and then now this, by the way, 74 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 1: we never did that. 75 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:20,119 Speaker 2: We always took our kids everywhere. We just did. 76 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:23,240 Speaker 1: We also moved into foreign land early on in their childhood. 77 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 1: We didn't know anybody, We didn't have relatives around, anybody 78 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 1: to take care of them, so we kind of travel 79 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:30,079 Speaker 1: around a little bit. But then, you know, I kind 80 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 1: of see this, I guess. I mean, I think it's 81 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 1: a really nice gesture. 82 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 4: I think it's a very nice gesture. But they may 83 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 4: not want to hire a babysitter for other reasons. Maybe 84 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 4: they're not comfortable leaving their kid or somebody yet. 85 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 2: Yeah there's that. Or maybe they just don't want to 86 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 2: hang out with you anymore. 87 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 4: And yeah, right, they're using up that excuse. And now 88 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 4: all of a sudden, you're taking that excuse away, and 89 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 4: they're like, how dare you offer to pay for a baby? 90 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 4: I would never do that. 91 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 2: We're never talking again on weekends. 92 00:03:57,320 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 4: So I just think that it's a very nice gesture. Sure, 93 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 4: I see where these people are coming from and what 94 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 4: they're trying to do. But there might be a reason 95 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 4: why this couple wasn't all for it and hasn't had 96 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 4: a babysitter yet. 97 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 1: I think what he's getting at is they don't they 98 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:15,120 Speaker 1: know that they don't really have the means, and they're 99 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 1: just trying to help them out. 100 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:18,040 Speaker 2: I think it's really more to do with that, Am 101 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:19,200 Speaker 2: i am? I right? 102 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 1: Yes, it's kind of aware of the situation, and I 103 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 1: think it's that's that's kind of what. It's not that 104 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 1: we don't want to hang out with you. It has 105 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 1: nothing to do with that. It's just they're just trying 106 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:30,000 Speaker 1: to people are trying to pitch in as a community. 107 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 4: I don't know, Just bring the kid with you, hide 108 00:04:31,880 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 4: it under your coat, you'll be fine. 109 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 2: Well, where are you going to strip joint? Anywhere? 110 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 4: You bring babies in a strip? 111 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 2: I don't know. 112 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 4: We should try. 113 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:44,039 Speaker 3: I have a baby. 114 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 4: I can test it out. 115 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:48,599 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you don't work until what next Monday? 116 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:49,840 Speaker 1: Right? 117 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 2: Bulling in the right arm. 118 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 4: I'm a Monday night stripper. 119 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 2: Hey, you know what what boobs? 120 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:09,400 Speaker 1: Oh? 121 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 3: That is? 122 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 2: I was gonna say something else. 123 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 4: What were we gonna say? What? I have you have 124 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 4: like you're trying to mouth, but you have like no lips. 125 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:21,599 Speaker 4: It is really hard to follow. 126 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 2: He read it, he read it? Okay, well he wasn't 127 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:26,480 Speaker 2: even looking at him. 128 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:30,359 Speaker 4: I did not. I still have no idea what you're saying. 129 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:36,160 Speaker 1: Okay, that's probably good. Oh now he's texting it. 130 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:36,600 Speaker 4: It's fine. 131 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 2: What are we in Junior High? All of a sudden again, 132 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 2: here was. 133 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 4: Real passing notes. I can honestly say, I don't care. 134 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:47,680 Speaker 4: All right, that's fine. 135 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, well drop it on talkback, you guys, and let's 136 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 1: see what you have to say about the buffet that 137 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 1: we've put in front of you, this Morges board. If 138 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 1: you will, indeed, uh, talk back on the iHeartRadio app. 139 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:01,279 Speaker 1: You hit the little red microphone and you just start talking. 140 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 1: Gives you like thirty seconds you could drop a little 141 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 1: the count. 142 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 4: I think that I muddied things up. What exactly are 143 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 4: we asking on talkback? 144 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 2: Oh? I forgot? Yeah? 145 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 1: Tell you? 146 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 4: Would you be okay with your friend paying for a babysitter? 147 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 2: Syeah? You go out? Yeah? Would you be okay with 148 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:16,719 Speaker 2: your friend paying for a sitter? Yeah? Okay, exactly? 149 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, I mean that's you know, what's stopping you 150 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 1: one of the most evil things in the world, and 151 00:06:21,839 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 1: that's pride. Pride stops people from a lot of things. 152 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:29,039 Speaker 1: And that's by the way, this I and we understand 153 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:32,919 Speaker 1: pride right in this particular situation. I mean, it's you know, 154 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 1: you kind of feel justified with it, but you know, 155 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:36,920 Speaker 1: in the end, your friends really want to hang with you. 156 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 1: If that's what's stopping you is just a financial thing, 157 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:41,599 Speaker 1: and your friends are willing to help you out to 158 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:43,479 Speaker 1: hang with you or whatever. I mean, I get just 159 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 1: bring the kids and do that kind of stuff. But 160 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:47,120 Speaker 1: if there's some kind of little event or a play 161 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 1: that somebody wants to see or you want, like we 162 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:51,360 Speaker 1: went to Lay Miss a couple of weeks ago, if 163 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:53,280 Speaker 1: we had little kids, that isn't something we would bring 164 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 1: a four year old too, you know that kind of stuff. 165 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 1: So not asking you to pay for the play, Just 166 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:00,360 Speaker 1: maybe pay for the sitter if it'll leave he ates 167 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 1: the pressure a little bit. Give free tickets to something 168 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: that you're want on chemical too, but the babysitter that 169 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:07,000 Speaker 1: price tag's getting in the way. 170 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:08,600 Speaker 2: Well, then put your. 171 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 1: Pride aside, say yeah, we'll be happy to go in 172 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:12,080 Speaker 1: and I'll get you back another time I go buy 173 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 1: some tacos or something. 174 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 4: Do you get to pick the babysitter? Are they just 175 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 4: gonna pick some scrub off the street. 176 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 2: I'm hoping, Well, now you're asking a little too much. 177 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 4: To pick who's gonna watch my child? 178 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 1: Well, wait, I gotta go to scrub off the street 179 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 1: dot com. There's one that one doesn't look too bad. 180 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 4: Hould out a sign on the corner and just saying, 181 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:35,080 Speaker 4: like my baby in search of babysitter. 182 00:07:35,200 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 2: All that. 183 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 3: Like the need ticket people right off that sport need babysitter. Yes, dude, 184 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 3: that that's something we should do. I should grow just 185 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:48,840 Speaker 3: I know that that we're in such a it's judgmental 186 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 3: and it's everything wrong with the world. And I try 187 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 3: to be a good Christian, I really try, but sometimes 188 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 3: I mean humor steps in a little bit. Just I 189 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 3: should just really scruff up my face and look rough 190 00:07:57,840 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 3: and go on a street corner and say, oh, babysit 191 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:00,120 Speaker 3: your kids. 192 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 4: Will babysit for cash or will babiesit for free? 193 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 2: Just want some food? 194 00:08:08,960 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 1: You know? 195 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 2: Sorry, that's that's that came out really really poorly. 196 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 1: Well, thanks for listening to this episode of I Tell 197 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 1: you what or you'll find more on the iHeartRadio app 198 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 1: and anywhere you get your podcast. 199 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 2: Please rate, review, subscribe, download chair and like. Thank you.