WEBVTT - Anna Thinks She's Over Him 

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<v Speaker 1>It's Mojo in the morning show. Oh you know who

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<v Speaker 1>I got to move on to. I got to move

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<v Speaker 1>on to Anna because the last show that we were

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<v Speaker 1>on the air, we had Anna on telling a story

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<v Speaker 1>about the guy her situationship as she calls him, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>there is an update on this situation ship had him.

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<v Speaker 1>You know how, It's weird whenever you bring something up

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<v Speaker 1>on the air about somebody, you talk about a topic

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<v Speaker 1>and it's about a person, it's inevitable. It's Murphy's law.

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<v Speaker 1>Something's going to happen. You're going to run into them

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<v Speaker 1>or see them some way, shape or form. You ran

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<v Speaker 1>into him over the weekend in a very interesting place.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, this man.

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<v Speaker 3>So let me just start by saying I'm over him

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<v Speaker 3>after this experience. Everyone, just so we know. I So

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<v Speaker 3>after the show we had talked about it. Bianca posted

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<v Speaker 3>the clip of me talking about it online and he

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<v Speaker 3>Saturday morning sent me something from the Mojo page. It

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<v Speaker 3>was about the throwback Rowdown because he was practicing with

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<v Speaker 3>me one day and I was like, oh, he was

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<v Speaker 3>on Mojo's page. He had to have seen me.

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<v Speaker 4>Talk about and that's exactly why I sent you that.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, So then I sent him the clip of me

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<v Speaker 3>talking about him, and I was like, what about this clip?

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<v Speaker 3>And then he called me. We had some words. It

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<v Speaker 3>was not good. It ended with him telling me that

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<v Speaker 3>he was going out of town for the weekend. I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, Okay, have fun. Well, I got invited to

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<v Speaker 3>a party on Saturday night and I'm there at the

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<v Speaker 3>party having an amazing time.

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<v Speaker 1>What part for?

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<v Speaker 3>It was an after party with the Clippers after.

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<v Speaker 1>The Pistons gamel.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so athletes were there and a lot of other

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<v Speaker 3>people from Detroit.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a really good time.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sitting there talking to an athlete and guess who

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<v Speaker 3>walks in my situationship.

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<v Speaker 2>I was so.

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<v Speaker 3>Surprised because not only did he tell me he was

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<v Speaker 3>going out of town, he posted on his social media

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<v Speaker 3>that he was out of town, tagging a whole different city,

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<v Speaker 3>acting like he was in it. So I'm just sitting

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<v Speaker 3>here like, wow, this man is really a freaking liar.

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<v Speaker 1>Did see you?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes? So I was sitting there like, oh, I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>Going to kill him. It like got to a point

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<v Speaker 3>where we had to walk by each other and like

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<v Speaker 3>I briefly hugged him, but he, I think, was trying

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<v Speaker 3>to continue talking to me and I just kept on

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<v Speaker 3>walking right over to this other guy.

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<v Speaker 2>I know. It was a mess.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was a little uncomfortable the whole party because

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, I just hate that he's here. But

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<v Speaker 3>also I was really excited because I was like, now

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<v Speaker 3>he sees me conversing with all of these other men,

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<v Speaker 3>I hope he gets pissed off.

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<v Speaker 1>But I heard you were getting hit on by some

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<v Speaker 1>of these athletes.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, some did ask for my number.

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<v Speaker 5>You are casually text I don't need to ruin that,

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<v Speaker 5>but I just wanted him to know I'm ok because

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<v Speaker 5>he listens obviously checks out our podcast to make sure

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<v Speaker 5>this is supposed to.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, I think I think that I needed that.

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<v Speaker 3>That was something that I needed to happen to get

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<v Speaker 3>me over this guy because I'm like, Okay, he's lying

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<v Speaker 3>in my face, like we already had this super negative

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<v Speaker 3>interaction right before that. Unfortunately, I do have to see

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<v Speaker 3>him this week for work. Oh come on, I know

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<v Speaker 3>why because you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I forgot about that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he is the introduction into this.

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<v Speaker 4>Money sly to you. He's a master manipulator that he's

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<v Speaker 4>posting on his social media and a different city that

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<v Speaker 4>is like a whole different read of I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>That you influence her people. You guys are all fort

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<v Speaker 1>of big fat liars about stuff. You guys probably never

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<v Speaker 1>use any of the products that you say learning. But secondly,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that maybe he had maybe something was uh

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think so it was sponsored or scheduled or

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<v Speaker 1>something like that. We've had that before, you know, where

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<v Speaker 1>you have to schedule. He's not an influencer. He's not he's.

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<v Speaker 2>Not an influencer.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh you he just but yeah, So I think I'm

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<v Speaker 3>going to block his number after I see him this week,

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<v Speaker 3>because that's what Kevin told me I had to do.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't block it until after we get our meeting

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<v Speaker 1>done with that, trying to get some business taken care of. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So this is It's unbelievable, isn't it. This happens all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. It happens to Probably you you're letting your car.

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<v Speaker 1>You you think that you know you're not gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>to deal with this person. Ever again, sure at spit

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<v Speaker 1>you go out to an event that you don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that you're going to see him because he'supposedly out of

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<v Speaker 1>town and he's there.

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<v Speaker 3>But this is literally what I was trying to explain

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<v Speaker 3>on Friday, is that I cannot physically get rid of

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<v Speaker 3>this person even if I block him. Things like this

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<v Speaker 3>are going to continue happening.

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<v Speaker 1>Does anybody else have this happen? And then when you

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<v Speaker 1>call us up and tell us about how this is

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<v Speaker 1>happening to you, well also your neighbors. Yeah, it doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 4>But I think the message sent by you blocking him

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<v Speaker 4>and not stopping to hug him or talk to him

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<v Speaker 4>at these events that you guys run into each other

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<v Speaker 4>at will send a big signal.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I hope so you know what you need almost

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<v Speaker 1>in it. And I'm just joking when I say this,

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<v Speaker 1>because legally and should you need like a PPO, but

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<v Speaker 1>like some kind of like you need to have like

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<v Speaker 1>a private private person order or something like that where

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<v Speaker 1>it's like that you don't have to run into him anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you guys. You guys should know each other's locations

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<v Speaker 1>so that you guys can be on opposite ends of

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<v Speaker 1>the location. I wish you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just waiting for you to say something because he

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<v Speaker 3>has said nothing, has so many opinions.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I don't have you know, I don't I don't

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<v Speaker 6>have anything to say in the situation. I gave all

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<v Speaker 6>my thoughts on Friday. Yeah, I mean, it's nothing to

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<v Speaker 6>say in the situation. Do you think Anna is purposely

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<v Speaker 6>running into him?

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<v Speaker 7>No?

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<v Speaker 6>At the party first, I think they just they run

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<v Speaker 6>in the same sphere.

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<v Speaker 1>They're meant they're meant to be.

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<v Speaker 2>No, we're not.

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<v Speaker 6>I still don't think she's gonna cut him off, though,

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<v Speaker 6>I'll say that she's not going to wait to prove you.

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<v Speaker 1>Guess what. Next week's topic is going to be her

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<v Speaker 1>in his arms. It's going to be it's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be her, and that's where they're going to run into

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<v Speaker 1>each other in one of their beds. No text her

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<v Speaker 1>here says catch me up on the last topic. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. The last topic was can Anna be friends,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, guy girlfriends without it crossing the line? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously she can because guess what she was with him

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<v Speaker 1>on Saturday.

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<v Speaker 4>Too, And again she wants more with this guy and

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<v Speaker 4>he just wants to hook up. Yeah, so that's the

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<v Speaker 4>that's the disparity in what they both are looking for here.

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<v Speaker 1>It's by the way, Anna, very nice photos that you

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<v Speaker 1>posted over the over the weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>I had to look good.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you post those for somebody? You wanted to see

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<v Speaker 1>them that social media.

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<v Speaker 2>Them, but I wanted everyone else to see them.

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<v Speaker 1>Thirsty on that thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I got. Guys, I'm trying to fridge.

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<v Speaker 1>You ever do that, By the way, you ever have

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<v Speaker 1>friends on the phone, you ever you ever have friends

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<v Speaker 1>of yours that will post stuff and you're like, there's

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<v Speaker 1>something going on. There's a little Thursday trap going on

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<v Speaker 1>here right now.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, that's just how I look when I go out.

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<v Speaker 3>So if you never want me to post when I

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<v Speaker 3>go out, let me know.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, I thought it looked great. Keep those waters, buddy. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, what did this person just send us that

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<v Speaker 1>They said they can't talk on the air. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>read their message here real quick.

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<v Speaker 2>Gosh, it's like another girl that's talking to him.

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<v Speaker 1>Let it be Yeah, I don't care, I have them. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>here you go, this one right here for you said

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't sure making out with a random dude at

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<v Speaker 1>a New Year's Now, I don't understand what they're saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Forget it. I'm not going to read it. They don't

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<v Speaker 1>understand what they're what they're saying. But Lydia, I think

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<v Speaker 1>tried to to call him. What are some of the

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<v Speaker 1>ones that are calling lydia or that you're trying to

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<v Speaker 1>call that aren't aren't getting through measure.

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<v Speaker 3>This one said that one that you were trying to

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<v Speaker 3>re says wasn't sure making out with a random do

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<v Speaker 3>on New Year's.

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<v Speaker 2>Is now upset about a situationship.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so confused. What does that mean? What are they

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<v Speaker 1>meaning by that? I'm not sure. I'm guessing. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>you're as good as I thought. They were talking about

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<v Speaker 1>a previous guy that she's talked about, and now she's

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<v Speaker 1>talking about a new one. Oh no, that must be that.

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<v Speaker 2>Il a hotel. Maybe that's probably what they're thinking of. God,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I was looking again, y'all tell me not to read

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<v Speaker 3>the comments, But all the comments on Moju's page are like, oh, and.

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<v Speaker 2>It does is talk about guys like, well, shoot.

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<v Speaker 1>It's usually the same guy, it usually is.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Kevin, you talk about women too.

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<v Speaker 1>You have you have? And I talk about a woman

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<v Speaker 1>in my life, and she talks about a guy in

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<v Speaker 1>her life, and we all talk about our relationships. Let

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<v Speaker 1>us do it. Let let people be happy, for God's sake.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop this. You're you're trying to, you know, shame somebody

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<v Speaker 1>for what's going on eighty If she wasn't talking about this,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't have a topic that's called a good radio topic.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say this that one of the things that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very intrigued by with you in this situationship is

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<v Speaker 1>that I don't think that you guys have had like

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<v Speaker 1>a full on we're done.

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<v Speaker 2>Thing are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 4>Do not contact me. I want nothing to do with you.

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<v Speaker 1>This is it your purely business. And you know what

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<v Speaker 1>what means with purely business. It means you don't go

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<v Speaker 1>to his house at night, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>Like if you have a big business relationship with somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>you do it during the day when the lights are on,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? No, I think like his house,

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<v Speaker 1>he ordered tacos.

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<v Speaker 3>That's my biggest issue with him is I know he

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<v Speaker 3>does not respect me because I have told him I've

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<v Speaker 3>had the conversation and he continues to push me, push.

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<v Speaker 2>Me, push.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, guess what, it's not his fault that you are weak.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, there is there is a Well it's part of

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<v Speaker 4>his fault, but it's part of her fault too.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're not just gonna let him off here. You

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<v Speaker 1>are a responsible adult woman. You can handle yourself, I think, Evelyn,

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on? Evelyn?

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<v Speaker 7>Good morning you guys, how are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning? What's happening. You wanted to make a comment

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<v Speaker 1>on Anna running into her situationship this weekend.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, Anna, you should have walked right past him.

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<v Speaker 1>He stayed you looking good, he sayd you looking like

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<v Speaker 1>a snack? You should have just walked like you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even see him, like, Oh, I thought you were in

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<v Speaker 1>the next state.

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<v Speaker 3>I know I should in Michigan if you're in a state.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Actually, what you do is you pretend like you

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<v Speaker 1>can't even see him, Like it's almost like he's invisible

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<v Speaker 1>at that. Sometimes that or too strong though, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>ignore it.

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<v Speaker 2>He doesn't have that.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? Angie High Hi, good morning everybody? Good morning?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh Anna, listen to KIV, block him, don't talk to

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<v Speaker 1>him anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the plan after Tuesday. This doesn't hear this and

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<v Speaker 3>canceled the meeting.

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<v Speaker 1>No, maybe I should just go by myself.

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<v Speaker 2>Bye, guys, Thank you and Angie.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate it. God, I never had problems like this,

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<v Speaker 1>the problem I know that. I never had problems like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I never had anybody chasing after me. Or interest and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, well, this guy is not interested. That's the problem, Ashley.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up?

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<v Speaker 7>All right? She's at an age where finding a partner

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<v Speaker 7>as a top goal, So it's okay to talk about

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<v Speaker 7>that a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>You've got a lot of stresses about it. You've got

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of things to work through.

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<v Speaker 1>And by the way, can I tell you something, Ashley,

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<v Speaker 1>Finish your thought and then I'll tell you what I

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna say.

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<v Speaker 3>You guys also keep popping up in each other's lives

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<v Speaker 3>because you're in each other those lives for a lesson.

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<v Speaker 1>You're learning it.

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<v Speaker 3>You haven't fully learned it yet.

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<v Speaker 1>Boy, that's an interesting that's deep. That was very deep.

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say. A listener's hair said, f off

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<v Speaker 1>to the people that don't want Anna talking about this.

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<v Speaker 1>I live through these stories because I'm going through the

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<v Speaker 1>same thing with a guy, so people relate to this. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>here's what you need next time you go out. You

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<v Speaker 1>need misfit Nicole to go out with you to keep

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<v Speaker 1>you as a like. You need to be like secret

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<v Speaker 1>service for Anna, like the president has secret service. An

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<v Speaker 1>excellent Wayne ware or Wayne woman. For sure. I'm being

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<v Speaker 1>told you could tell that guy to get the hell

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<v Speaker 1>out of Anna's algorithm?

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<v Speaker 7>Can I ask Anna a question because I'm trying of

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<v Speaker 7>catching that.

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<v Speaker 6>Are you deematized?

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<v Speaker 7>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, it's not even that good. I think the problem.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that I feel like we're definitely not getting that meaning.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel emotionally connected to this man, like I went

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<v Speaker 3>through so many hard things when we first met, and

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<v Speaker 3>he was the one that I confided in and spent

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of time with and that's hard for him.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's so it's amatized, emotional, vulnerable. Have you wait?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you? Have you ever been demontized before? In the call?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, and it's a real thing. It must be. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was seeking Kevin, I'm only your sad?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it? I have been dematized before? Conrad? What's up? Conrad?

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<v Speaker 1>You got a smart name this morning?

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<v Speaker 7>Henry Monday. Everybody listen, long time listener, first time call.

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<v Speaker 7>But listen, Anna, listen for me. I never block people. Okay.

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<v Speaker 7>The reason I don't block people because you know, it

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<v Speaker 7>creates a sense of hostility out of want, hostility and

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<v Speaker 7>stresses in my life. Now, if a person has been

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<v Speaker 7>disrespectful atrocious, you know you have no choice but to

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<v Speaker 7>block them on your socials and your phone numbers and

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<v Speaker 7>stuff like that. But the other call said just ignore them.

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<v Speaker 7>I would just go along like there's nothing eve been wrong,

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<v Speaker 7>just you know, just nothing at all. But yeah, blocking

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<v Speaker 7>someone that you know, if you do what a personality

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<v Speaker 7>is that they just can't let it go. A personality

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<v Speaker 7>that yeah, no want to be in charge, whatever you

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<v Speaker 7>would want to call it. You know, you may not

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<v Speaker 7>ever get rid of that person. But as long as

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<v Speaker 7>you just playing go along, keep a smile on your face.

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<v Speaker 1>Get what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 6>I get what you're saying, Conrad. But sometimes you gotta

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<v Speaker 6>block people. You have to know. And the reason why

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<v Speaker 6>I say it is because you have to know who

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<v Speaker 6>you are. You have to know your triggers, and not

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<v Speaker 6>everybody is strong enough to see that name pop up

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<v Speaker 6>or see a couple of messages pop up and just

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<v Speaker 6>ignore it. Sometimes people can have strength for a day

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<v Speaker 6>but not have strength for a week. So you need

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<v Speaker 6>to cut things completely off so those triggers don't don't

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<v Speaker 6>get you triggered.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like me and deleting the McDonald's app.

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, you can't last.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm telling you. It's like people it's like alcohol.

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<v Speaker 1>And with those that have have in your house, all right, well,

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<v Speaker 1>there you go.