Speaker 1: It's Mojo in the morning show. Oh you know who
Speaker 1: I got to move on to. I got to move
Speaker 1: on to Anna because the last show that we were
Speaker 1: on the air, we had Anna on telling a story
Speaker 1: about the guy her situationship as she calls him, Well,
Speaker 1: there is an update on this situation ship had him.
Speaker 1: You know how, It's weird whenever you bring something up
Speaker 1: on the air about somebody, you talk about a topic
Speaker 1: and it's about a person, it's inevitable. It's Murphy's law.
Speaker 1: Something's going to happen. You're going to run into them
Speaker 1: or see them some way, shape or form. You ran
Speaker 1: into him over the weekend in a very interesting place.
Speaker 2: Yes, this man.
Speaker 3: So let me just start by saying I'm over him
Speaker 3: after this experience. Everyone, just so we know. I So
Speaker 3: after the show we had talked about it. Bianca posted
Speaker 3: the clip of me talking about it online and he
Speaker 3: Saturday morning sent me something from the Mojo page. It
Speaker 3: was about the throwback Rowdown because he was practicing with
Speaker 3: me one day and I was like, oh, he was
Speaker 3: on Mojo's page. He had to have seen me.
Speaker 4: Talk about and that's exactly why I sent you that.
Speaker 3: Right, So then I sent him the clip of me
Speaker 3: talking about him, and I was like, what about this clip?
Speaker 3: And then he called me. We had some words. It
Speaker 3: was not good. It ended with him telling me that
Speaker 3: he was going out of town for the weekend. I
Speaker 3: was like, Okay, have fun. Well, I got invited to
Speaker 3: a party on Saturday night and I'm there at the
Speaker 3: party having an amazing time.
Speaker 1: What part for?
Speaker 3: It was an after party with the Clippers after.
Speaker 1: The Pistons gamel.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so athletes were there and a lot of other
Speaker 3: people from Detroit.
Speaker 2: It was a really good time.
Speaker 3: I'm sitting there talking to an athlete and guess who
Speaker 3: walks in my situationship.
Speaker 2: I was so.
Speaker 3: Surprised because not only did he tell me he was
Speaker 3: going out of town, he posted on his social media
Speaker 3: that he was out of town, tagging a whole different city,
Speaker 3: acting like he was in it. So I'm just sitting
Speaker 3: here like, wow, this man is really a freaking liar.
Speaker 1: Did see you?
Speaker 2: Yes? So I was sitting there like, oh, I'm.
Speaker 3: Going to kill him. It like got to a point
Speaker 3: where we had to walk by each other and like
Speaker 3: I briefly hugged him, but he, I think, was trying
Speaker 3: to continue talking to me and I just kept on
Speaker 3: walking right over to this other guy.
Speaker 2: I know. It was a mess.
Speaker 3: So I was a little uncomfortable the whole party because
Speaker 3: I was like, I just hate that he's here. But
Speaker 3: also I was really excited because I was like, now
Speaker 3: he sees me conversing with all of these other men,
Speaker 3: I hope he gets pissed off.
Speaker 1: But I heard you were getting hit on by some
Speaker 1: of these athletes.
Speaker 2: Yes, some did ask for my number.
Speaker 5: You are casually text I don't need to ruin that,
Speaker 5: but I just wanted him to know I'm ok because
Speaker 5: he listens obviously checks out our podcast to make sure
Speaker 5: this is supposed to.
Speaker 2: So yeah, I think I think that I needed that.
Speaker 3: That was something that I needed to happen to get
Speaker 3: me over this guy because I'm like, Okay, he's lying
Speaker 3: in my face, like we already had this super negative
Speaker 3: interaction right before that. Unfortunately, I do have to see
Speaker 3: him this week for work. Oh come on, I know
Speaker 3: why because you.
Speaker 1: Oh I forgot about that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he is the introduction into this.
Speaker 4: Money sly to you. He's a master manipulator that he's
Speaker 4: posting on his social media and a different city that
Speaker 4: is like a whole different read of I agree.
Speaker 1: That you influence her people. You guys are all fort
Speaker 1: of big fat liars about stuff. You guys probably never
Speaker 1: use any of the products that you say learning. But secondly,
Speaker 1: I think that maybe he had maybe something was uh
Speaker 1: I don't think so it was sponsored or scheduled or
Speaker 1: something like that. We've had that before, you know, where
Speaker 1: you have to schedule. He's not an influencer. He's not he's.
Speaker 2: Not an influencer.
Speaker 3: Oh you he just but yeah, So I think I'm
Speaker 3: going to block his number after I see him this week,
Speaker 3: because that's what Kevin told me I had to do.
Speaker 1: I don't block it until after we get our meeting
Speaker 1: done with that, trying to get some business taken care of. Okay,
Speaker 1: So this is It's unbelievable, isn't it. This happens all
Speaker 1: the time. It happens to Probably you you're letting your car.
Speaker 1: You you think that you know you're not gonna have
Speaker 1: to deal with this person. Ever again, sure at spit
Speaker 1: you go out to an event that you don't think
Speaker 1: that you're going to see him because he'supposedly out of
Speaker 1: town and he's there.
Speaker 3: But this is literally what I was trying to explain
Speaker 3: on Friday, is that I cannot physically get rid of
Speaker 3: this person even if I block him. Things like this
Speaker 3: are going to continue happening.
Speaker 1: Does anybody else have this happen? And then when you
Speaker 1: call us up and tell us about how this is
Speaker 1: happening to you, well also your neighbors. Yeah, it doesn't matter.
Speaker 4: But I think the message sent by you blocking him
Speaker 4: and not stopping to hug him or talk to him
Speaker 4: at these events that you guys run into each other
Speaker 4: at will send a big signal.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I hope so you know what you need almost
Speaker 1: in it. And I'm just joking when I say this,
Speaker 1: because legally and should you need like a PPO, but
Speaker 1: like some kind of like you need to have like
Speaker 1: a private private person order or something like that where
Speaker 1: it's like that you don't have to run into him anymore.
Speaker 1: Like you guys. You guys should know each other's locations
Speaker 1: so that you guys can be on opposite ends of
Speaker 1: the location. I wish you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: I'm just waiting for you to say something because he
Speaker 3: has said nothing, has so many opinions.
Speaker 6: No, I don't have you know, I don't I don't
Speaker 6: have anything to say in the situation. I gave all
Speaker 6: my thoughts on Friday. Yeah, I mean, it's nothing to
Speaker 6: say in the situation. Do you think Anna is purposely
Speaker 6: running into him?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 6: At the party first, I think they just they run
Speaker 6: in the same sphere.
Speaker 1: They're meant they're meant to be.
Speaker 2: No, we're not.
Speaker 6: I still don't think she's gonna cut him off, though,
Speaker 6: I'll say that she's not going to wait to prove you.
Speaker 1: Guess what. Next week's topic is going to be her
Speaker 1: in his arms. It's going to be it's going to
Speaker 1: be her, and that's where they're going to run into
Speaker 1: each other in one of their beds. No text her
Speaker 1: here says catch me up on the last topic. Oh,
Speaker 1: you know. The last topic was can Anna be friends,
Speaker 1: you know, guy girlfriends without it crossing the line? Well,
Speaker 1: obviously she can because guess what she was with him
Speaker 1: on Saturday.
Speaker 4: Too, And again she wants more with this guy and
Speaker 4: he just wants to hook up. Yeah, so that's the
Speaker 4: that's the disparity in what they both are looking for here.
Speaker 1: It's by the way, Anna, very nice photos that you
Speaker 1: posted over the over the weekend.
Speaker 2: I had to look good.
Speaker 1: Did you post those for somebody? You wanted to see
Speaker 1: them that social media.
Speaker 2: Them, but I wanted everyone else to see them.
Speaker 1: Thirsty on that thing.
Speaker 2: I got. Guys, I'm trying to fridge.
Speaker 1: You ever do that, By the way, you ever have
Speaker 1: friends on the phone, you ever you ever have friends
Speaker 1: of yours that will post stuff and you're like, there's
Speaker 1: something going on. There's a little Thursday trap going on
Speaker 1: here right now.
Speaker 3: I mean, that's just how I look when I go out.
Speaker 3: So if you never want me to post when I
Speaker 3: go out, let me know.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I thought it looked great. Keep those waters, buddy. Wait,
Speaker 1: hold on, what did this person just send us that
Speaker 1: They said they can't talk on the air. Let me
Speaker 1: read their message here real quick.
Speaker 2: Gosh, it's like another girl that's talking to him.
Speaker 1: Let it be Yeah, I don't care, I have them. Oh,
Speaker 1: here you go, this one right here for you said
Speaker 1: I wasn't sure making out with a random dude at
Speaker 1: a New Year's Now, I don't understand what they're saying.
Speaker 1: Forget it. I'm not going to read it. They don't
Speaker 1: understand what they're what they're saying. But Lydia, I think
Speaker 1: tried to to call him. What are some of the
Speaker 1: ones that are calling lydia or that you're trying to
Speaker 1: call that aren't aren't getting through measure.
Speaker 3: This one said that one that you were trying to
Speaker 3: re says wasn't sure making out with a random do
Speaker 3: on New Year's.
Speaker 2: Is now upset about a situationship.
Speaker 1: I'm so confused. What does that mean? What are they
Speaker 1: meaning by that? I'm not sure. I'm guessing. I guess
Speaker 1: you're as good as I thought. They were talking about
Speaker 1: a previous guy that she's talked about, and now she's
Speaker 1: talking about a new one. Oh no, that must be that.
Speaker 2: Il a hotel. Maybe that's probably what they're thinking of. God,
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I was looking again, y'all tell me not to read
Speaker 3: the comments, But all the comments on Moju's page are like, oh, and.
Speaker 2: It does is talk about guys like, well, shoot.
Speaker 1: It's usually the same guy, it usually is.
Speaker 2: Okay, Kevin, you talk about women too.
Speaker 1: You have you have? And I talk about a woman
Speaker 1: in my life, and she talks about a guy in
Speaker 1: her life, and we all talk about our relationships. Let
Speaker 1: us do it. Let let people be happy, for God's sake.
Speaker 1: Stop this. You're you're trying to, you know, shame somebody
Speaker 1: for what's going on eighty If she wasn't talking about this,
Speaker 1: we don't have a topic that's called a good radio topic.
Speaker 1: I will say this that one of the things that
Speaker 1: I'm very intrigued by with you in this situationship is
Speaker 1: that I don't think that you guys have had like
Speaker 1: a full on we're done.
Speaker 2: Thing are you talking about?
Speaker 4: Do not contact me. I want nothing to do with you.
Speaker 1: This is it your purely business. And you know what
Speaker 1: what means with purely business. It means you don't go
Speaker 1: to his house at night, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Like if you have a big business relationship with somebody,
Speaker 1: you do it during the day when the lights are on,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? No, I think like his house,
Speaker 1: he ordered tacos.
Speaker 3: That's my biggest issue with him is I know he
Speaker 3: does not respect me because I have told him I've
Speaker 3: had the conversation and he continues to push me, push.
Speaker 2: Me, push.
Speaker 1: Well, guess what, it's not his fault that you are weak.
Speaker 4: Yes, there is there is a Well it's part of
Speaker 4: his fault, but it's part of her fault too.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're not just gonna let him off here. You
Speaker 1: are a responsible adult woman. You can handle yourself, I think, Evelyn,
Speaker 1: what's going on? Evelyn?
Speaker 7: Good morning you guys, how are you?
Speaker 1: Good morning? What's happening. You wanted to make a comment
Speaker 1: on Anna running into her situationship this weekend.
Speaker 6: Yes, Anna, you should have walked right past him.
Speaker 1: He stayed you looking good, he sayd you looking like
Speaker 1: a snack? You should have just walked like you didn't
Speaker 1: even see him, like, Oh, I thought you were in
Speaker 1: the next state.
Speaker 3: I know I should in Michigan if you're in a state.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Actually, what you do is you pretend like you
Speaker 1: can't even see him, Like it's almost like he's invisible
Speaker 1: at that. Sometimes that or too strong though, you can't
Speaker 1: ignore it.
Speaker 2: He doesn't have that.
Speaker 1: What's up? Angie High Hi, good morning everybody? Good morning?
Speaker 1: Uh Anna, listen to KIV, block him, don't talk to
Speaker 1: him anymore.
Speaker 3: That's the plan after Tuesday. This doesn't hear this and
Speaker 3: canceled the meeting.
Speaker 1: No, maybe I should just go by myself.
Speaker 2: Bye, guys, Thank you and Angie.
Speaker 1: I appreciate it. God, I never had problems like this,
Speaker 1: the problem I know that. I never had problems like that.
Speaker 1: I never had anybody chasing after me. Or interest and stuff.
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, this guy is not interested. That's the problem, Ashley.
Speaker 1: What's up?
Speaker 7: All right? She's at an age where finding a partner
Speaker 7: as a top goal, So it's okay to talk about
Speaker 7: that a lot.
Speaker 2: You've got a lot of stresses about it. You've got
Speaker 2: a lot of things to work through.
Speaker 1: And by the way, can I tell you something, Ashley,
Speaker 1: Finish your thought and then I'll tell you what I
Speaker 1: was gonna say.
Speaker 3: You guys also keep popping up in each other's lives
Speaker 3: because you're in each other those lives for a lesson.
Speaker 1: You're learning it.
Speaker 3: You haven't fully learned it yet.
Speaker 1: Boy, that's an interesting that's deep. That was very deep.
Speaker 1: I was gonna say. A listener's hair said, f off
Speaker 1: to the people that don't want Anna talking about this.
Speaker 1: I live through these stories because I'm going through the
Speaker 1: same thing with a guy, so people relate to this. Uh,
Speaker 1: here's what you need next time you go out. You
Speaker 1: need misfit Nicole to go out with you to keep
Speaker 1: you as a like. You need to be like secret
Speaker 1: service for Anna, like the president has secret service. An
Speaker 1: excellent Wayne ware or Wayne woman. For sure. I'm being
Speaker 1: told you could tell that guy to get the hell
Speaker 1: out of Anna's algorithm?
Speaker 7: Can I ask Anna a question because I'm trying of
Speaker 7: catching that.
Speaker 6: Are you deematized?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 2: Actually, it's not even that good. I think the problem.
Speaker 1: Is that I feel like we're definitely not getting that meaning.
Speaker 3: I feel emotionally connected to this man, like I went
Speaker 3: through so many hard things when we first met, and
Speaker 3: he was the one that I confided in and spent
Speaker 3: a lot of time with and that's hard for him.
Speaker 1: So it's so it's amatized, emotional, vulnerable. Have you wait?
Speaker 1: Have you? Have you ever been demontized before? In the call?
Speaker 7: Oh?
Speaker 2: Absolutely, and it's a real thing. It must be. And
Speaker 2: I was seeking Kevin, I'm only your sad?
Speaker 1: Is it? I have been dematized before? Conrad? What's up? Conrad?
Speaker 1: You got a smart name this morning?
Speaker 7: Henry Monday. Everybody listen, long time listener, first time call.
Speaker 7: But listen, Anna, listen for me. I never block people. Okay.
Speaker 7: The reason I don't block people because you know, it
Speaker 7: creates a sense of hostility out of want, hostility and
Speaker 7: stresses in my life. Now, if a person has been
Speaker 7: disrespectful atrocious, you know you have no choice but to
Speaker 7: block them on your socials and your phone numbers and
Speaker 7: stuff like that. But the other call said just ignore them.
Speaker 7: I would just go along like there's nothing eve been wrong,
Speaker 7: just you know, just nothing at all. But yeah, blocking
Speaker 7: someone that you know, if you do what a personality
Speaker 7: is that they just can't let it go. A personality
Speaker 7: that yeah, no want to be in charge, whatever you
Speaker 7: would want to call it. You know, you may not
Speaker 7: ever get rid of that person. But as long as
Speaker 7: you just playing go along, keep a smile on your face.
Speaker 1: Get what you're saying.
Speaker 6: I get what you're saying, Conrad. But sometimes you gotta
Speaker 6: block people. You have to know. And the reason why
Speaker 6: I say it is because you have to know who
Speaker 6: you are. You have to know your triggers, and not
Speaker 6: everybody is strong enough to see that name pop up
Speaker 6: or see a couple of messages pop up and just
Speaker 6: ignore it. Sometimes people can have strength for a day
Speaker 6: but not have strength for a week. So you need
Speaker 6: to cut things completely off so those triggers don't don't
Speaker 6: get you triggered.
Speaker 1: It's like me and deleting the McDonald's app.
Speaker 2: Honestly, you can't last.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm telling you. It's like people it's like alcohol.
Speaker 1: And with those that have have in your house, all right, well,
Speaker 1: there you go.