Speaker 1: Just the second date.
Speaker 2: Update module in the morning.
Speaker 3: Why are you not getting a call back after you
Speaker 3: went on a date? We're going to find out this morning.
Speaker 3: Alex is getting ghosted today. Alex, what'd you guys do
Speaker 3: on your date? Good? Yeah, we met at the bar
Speaker 3: a while ago and took her to an ICCE dinner
Speaker 3: and drinks, and you thought that everything went great so
Speaker 3: much that you actually went and texted her the next
Speaker 3: day try to get another date. She didn't answer you.
Speaker 3: And now how long has it been since you've heard
Speaker 3: from her?
Speaker 2: It's been a week, so.
Speaker 3: A week since you guys have been out with each other,
Speaker 3: and a week since you've actually had some communication. We're
Speaker 3: going to find out what's going on. Kylie is on
Speaker 3: with us this morning. Kylie agreed to go on after
Speaker 3: some talking to Alex. Will you say hello to her?
Speaker 4: Hey?
Speaker 2: How's it going?
Speaker 5: Hey?
Speaker 6: I mean I'm good, Okay, Kylie.
Speaker 3: Alex seemed to think that things went great on the date.
Speaker 3: Are you just busy and not being able to return
Speaker 3: phone calls? Or are you obviously purposely not returning a
Speaker 3: phone call because you didn't enjoy it?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 6: No, I'm intentionally ignoring him.
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Was it that you just don't see yourself, you know,
Speaker 3: enjoying time with him or are you not attracted to him?
Speaker 2: What is it about?
Speaker 6: Oh, I just don't think he can take care of me.
Speaker 2: Oh what does that mean?
Speaker 6: Well, like, I mean I want to be a stay
Speaker 6: at home mom, and like I just don't think with
Speaker 6: his job he's going to be able to provide for
Speaker 6: me the way I need to be provided for.
Speaker 2: How do you know that though?
Speaker 6: Because he works at Dick's Sporting Goods.
Speaker 2: Okay, day trading or something you never know?
Speaker 3: So wait a second, this is a wild So you
Speaker 3: guys get into a conversation with each other, enjoying a
Speaker 3: date with each other. In your head, you're thinking what
Speaker 3: you're looking for as a relationship where you can be
Speaker 3: a stay at home mom, and and because he works
Speaker 3: at Dick's Sporting Goods, you look at that as there's
Speaker 3: no future.
Speaker 6: Well, so like, yeah, he doesn't have like any ambitions.
Speaker 6: He doesn't want like a different job or anything, Like
Speaker 6: he's not dreaming bigger.
Speaker 2: What do you do at Dix, Alex?
Speaker 6: Honestly, I work in this, you know, one of the
Speaker 6: sports sections I like sell people like the especially the
Speaker 6: tennis area. So you know.
Speaker 2: So wait a second, So you're a guy, So you
Speaker 2: are you're a I'm like sales.
Speaker 3: Are you working your way to management or I mean
Speaker 3: not that it matters at all, but are you working?
Speaker 2: Is this like a.
Speaker 5: Goals within the company for you?
Speaker 3: I mean honestly, like if they wanted to remote me, sure,
Speaker 3: but I haven't been like chasing that.
Speaker 6: I just like really enjoy being there. I like what
Speaker 6: I do right now?
Speaker 5: How old are you, guys? Do we already ask them?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I'm thirty three, So okay, so thirty three year old
Speaker 3: guy works at Dix and you, Kylie, are now getting
Speaker 3: ready to be thirty. And your thing is I want
Speaker 3: a future with whoever I'm going to be with.
Speaker 2: I gotta be honest.
Speaker 3: Are your stories about how bad it is in the
Speaker 3: dating world right now and how hard it is to
Speaker 3: get good dates?
Speaker 2: Is he a nice guy? Is he attractive?
Speaker 3: Is he somebody that you you know, like what he
Speaker 3: does now doesn't mean necessarily what he's going to do
Speaker 3: in the future.
Speaker 6: Okay, but you've just heard him. He's thirty three, ok
Speaker 6: he's working at Dicks, Like the future is now, and
Speaker 6: I mean like, yeah, he's cute and yeah, we have
Speaker 6: like a good time, but I need I have a
Speaker 6: long term partner.
Speaker 3: I have girls at work with us, I have girls
Speaker 3: that are friends, I have friends of friends, and when
Speaker 3: we talk dating, honestly, they would take a live and
Speaker 3: breathing right now of a good guy.
Speaker 5: So I kind of want to defend her a little
Speaker 5: bit because I don't you're going to go to a
Speaker 5: way you wear a bad way?
Speaker 2: What do you mean?
Speaker 5: Okay, she does not sound to me, and I could
Speaker 5: be wrong, but from the little information we've gotten so far, Kylie,
Speaker 5: you don't sound to me like you are necessarily a
Speaker 5: gold digger that you're looking for a guy who makes
Speaker 5: two million dollars a year and buys you a Louis
Speaker 5: every year for your anniversary. Like to me, you just
Speaker 5: want to be able to stay at home and raise
Speaker 5: a family and be comfortable. And you don't feel like
Speaker 5: his current you know hourly wage will allow for that.
Speaker 2: And is that true?
Speaker 6: Though?
Speaker 8: Before we go further, is that true? Or do you
Speaker 8: want the Louis lifestyle?
Speaker 6: I mean, like a Louis would be nice, and like
Speaker 6: I do want to be able to like go out
Speaker 6: for coffee with my girlfriends and like go do drunch
Speaker 6: sometimes like listen, like I am fit, I like take
Speaker 6: care of myself and like what I provide at home
Speaker 6: should be enough, and I need a man who can,
Speaker 6: you know, support me.
Speaker 2: See the reason that I just like, here's my goal off.
Speaker 8: So my first point is I don't think there's anything
Speaker 8: wrong with wanting someone that shows ambition, and once you
Speaker 8: identify that that person doesn't, then maybe that isn't the
Speaker 8: person for you.
Speaker 2: What I don't enjoy and where I do pick.
Speaker 8: Up gold digger behavior is that it was the first
Speaker 8: date and it seems like she immediately mentally checked out
Speaker 8: the moment he said associated.
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 5: And the reason I defended her is because I have
Speaker 5: a very close friend of mine from college who wanted
Speaker 5: to go to college because she loved learning, but her
Speaker 5: dream in life was to be a mom, a stay
Speaker 5: at home mom, and so she just knew that when
Speaker 5: she was looking for a partner, that's what she was
Speaker 5: looking for. Like she she just wanted to raise a
Speaker 5: lot of babies.
Speaker 2: Sandra, what did you want to say?
Speaker 6: So?
Speaker 9: I just thought that that was completely ridiculous, Like I
Speaker 9: understand she wants to be a stay at home mom
Speaker 9: or whatever it is. That she's trying to do. But
Speaker 9: to intentionally ignore him, she used the word intentional.
Speaker 6: That was a little bit.
Speaker 9: Extra. You could have just simply said I'm no longer interested.
Speaker 9: You know, you're not the guy for me, whatever the
Speaker 9: case may have or may not have been.
Speaker 7: But to intentionally ignore, I.
Speaker 5: Mean, that's every second date update unfortunately.
Speaker 6: Wow.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I.
Speaker 7: Don't Yeah, I.
Speaker 6: Don't have time to waste with boys.
Speaker 5: You could have sent him on a text, though she
Speaker 5: is right on that.
Speaker 2: Rashad what's up? It's mojo in the morning.
Speaker 7: But what's up?
Speaker 6: Bos? That's how you doing?
Speaker 2: I'm doing great? What's going on? What do you want
Speaker 2: to say?
Speaker 7: Just saying?
Speaker 10: Man, I'm forty five, but I had my career set
Speaker 10: when I was twenty four. It seems like this generation
Speaker 10: don't have their head on straight. Like finances are very
Speaker 10: important thing, especially to a woman. I mean, you gotta
Speaker 10: be able to take care of women. They want to
Speaker 10: go on nice dates.
Speaker 7: Blah blah blah. I get it. Maybe he's not where
Speaker 7: he needs to be, but he should have been there
Speaker 7: ten years ago.
Speaker 8: But shot shot, that's not That's not everybody's lifestyle, though
Speaker 8: not everybody either comes from.
Speaker 2: A bit and they're not using it.
Speaker 8: I'm gonna speak real quick shot because I let you
Speaker 8: go off.
Speaker 2: Here's my thing.
Speaker 8: I think that some people from a family perspective are
Speaker 8: put in better situations where they have examples of people
Speaker 8: around them who show them what success looks like. Or
Speaker 8: some people just fall on hard times, or maybe their
Speaker 8: plan in life didn't work out the way that they
Speaker 8: wanted to, and now they got a restructure. I don't
Speaker 8: think saying that a guy is thirty three years old
Speaker 8: means that the rest of his life is a failure
Speaker 8: because he doesn't have to figured it out.
Speaker 3: Right now and he gets a twenty percent discount on
Speaker 3: a parent.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but this guy, I'll give you an example.
Speaker 7: I was an immigrant. We can't here with nothing. At
Speaker 7: thirty seven years old, I lost, I got I got
Speaker 7: a divorce.
Speaker 10: My wife took everything from me everything, I lost everything.
Speaker 7: I became homeless for a month.
Speaker 10: I went out west where's oil field, bought two houses,
Speaker 10: redid everything.
Speaker 2: That was like thirty seven, beautiful Tyler, you want to
Speaker 2: date what is incredible?
Speaker 8: But what if she met you at thirty seven when
Speaker 8: you didn't have anything exactly?
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
Speaker 10: I wouldn't expect I wouldn't expect a woman to want
Speaker 10: anything from me at thirty seven with nothing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean we got something.
Speaker 8: It was inside of you. That's what you had. It
Speaker 8: was who you were and not what you were able
Speaker 8: to provide. That's why you got what you got.
Speaker 5: I think your comment keV about ambition is a really
Speaker 5: important one because I feel like that's the root of
Speaker 5: this and I feel like if you know, like there
Speaker 5: has to be some realized potential in there too. But
Speaker 5: and alitally, she just she wasn't looking that far.
Speaker 2: Elizabeth High, would you want to say, hright.
Speaker 1: My thing is like with relationships, you want to grow together.
Speaker 1: And yeah, he may be a sales associate. When me
Speaker 1: and my husband first met, we were both servers, and
Speaker 1: now he's a general manager of a store, and I'm
Speaker 1: a I'm able to stay home if I wanted to,
Speaker 1: and if we.
Speaker 6: Both started out as servers.
Speaker 1: It's all about growing together and encouraging them to.
Speaker 6: Do better for themselves.
Speaker 3: I met Chelsea even though we were both literally fetuses.
Speaker 3: At the time I met, I was a night DJ,
Speaker 3: making you know, twenty two thousand dollars a year.
Speaker 2: She was a fetus.
Speaker 3: You could watch she put her money on the right horse.
Speaker 3: It came came, what's going on, Joe, Joe, what's up?
Speaker 2: What do you have?
Speaker 6: Well?
Speaker 2: I agree with the female, but I also agree with.
Speaker 4: The guy because when I came over here from Canada,
Speaker 4: I had nothing, and at the end of May, I'm
Speaker 4: learning to become a cop.
Speaker 2: I like it. Yeah, I like it.
Speaker 4: But it tends on both of them because if she
Speaker 4: wants a man that can provide for her, she needs
Speaker 4: to help him to achieve in life. Just be like,
Speaker 4: I want this.
Speaker 3: Listen in this economy right now, I think you're gonna
Speaker 3: need both to be providing. I don't know how good
Speaker 3: it's gonna be.
Speaker 5: They don't seem like a good set because he said
Speaker 5: he's perfectly content where he is. True, So and that's okay.
Speaker 5: They just they're not a good fit together.
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't even Anthony brings up a really
Speaker 3: interesting point. What did you want to say, Anthony?
Speaker 7: Hey, so, I'm just curious. You know, what is she
Speaker 7: bringing to the table other than wanting to be whined
Speaker 7: and dined and stay at home as to stay at
Speaker 7: home mother, here's my thing. They went on the date
Speaker 7: I'm sure he probably paid for everything, because she.
Speaker 11: Wants who paid.
Speaker 6: He did as he shouldn't like her.
Speaker 7: Okay, let me energy if I can, Anthony. The energy she's.
Speaker 11: Giving off right now is my nose is in the air,
Speaker 11: and I want you to pay for everything. Here's my
Speaker 11: And a wise woman once said, when someone shows you
Speaker 11: who they are, believe them. She's clearly showing that she
Speaker 11: cannot be at the other end of the table and
Speaker 11: put her put her best foot forward if she needed to.
Speaker 7: Like, hey, let's say if I am thinking that dig
Speaker 7: sporting goods.
Speaker 11: Let's say if I get a promotion to general manager,
Speaker 11: I'm making top dollar because I know, I personally know
Speaker 11: people who make very good money doing sales.
Speaker 7: And this guy obviously likes his job. And usually when
Speaker 7: you like your job, you're good at him and when
Speaker 7: your company sees that, they usually reward you for it
Speaker 7: in a monetary way. With that being said, like I
Speaker 7: could do respectfully, you can do better.
Speaker 3: All right, Thank you, Anthony, Alex Alex, that's Anthony. They's
Speaker 3: given you some good advice there. And and Kylie, there's
Speaker 3: somebody for you. You got to just hang out in Birmingham, Michigan,
Speaker 3: that's probably a couple of parks. Go to this place
Speaker 3: called Market. There's a lot of the rich guys hanging
Speaker 3: out there, all right, take care of yourself, guys. Second
Speaker 3: date update.
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