1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,680 Speaker 1: This portion of the Joe Show podcast is powered by 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:06,800 Speaker 1: Fair and Faarah Tampa Accident Attorneys. Do you consider yourself 3 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:08,400 Speaker 1: a delusional optimist? 4 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:11,320 Speaker 2: That's what I want to know right now. 5 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 1: And good morning, Ashley and Katie and Jed myself were 6 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 1: the Joe Show on ninety three three FLZ. I'm so 7 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:20,759 Speaker 1: happy you are here. I hope when you turn on 8 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:24,320 Speaker 1: our show, you you know, you genuinely feel like you 9 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 1: got a good start to your day. I think that 10 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 1: that's pretty damn important in life. And it's hard enough 11 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:32,200 Speaker 1: as it is. So if you can wake up and 12 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 1: maybe we put a little smile on your face, even 13 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:36,800 Speaker 1: it's you know, for like a second, I'll be pretty 14 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 1: damn happy about that. Now here's the deal. Am I 15 00:00:39,479 --> 00:00:43,160 Speaker 1: a delusional optimist? I don't necessarily know if that's the case. 16 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:48,239 Speaker 1: If you are, congratulations because and you're probably already thinking this, 17 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:52,320 Speaker 1: I mean you definitely are. Twenty twenty six is going 18 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: to be your ear. So there's a psychic. Her name 19 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 1: is Katie. 20 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 2: So look at that. 21 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 1: Katie Surbek is her name. Hopefully I'm pronouncing that correct. 22 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:02,279 Speaker 2: If I'm not. 23 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 1: Hopefully she's a delusional optimist, because I think that that 24 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 1: mean that she's still happy with me. She says that 25 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 1: people who dream big, they stay upbeat even when things 26 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: are uncertain, and they aren't afraid to imagine a brighter future, 27 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: are going to have the best possible year this year. 28 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 1: The reason being is twenty twenty six energy that the 29 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 1: world is putting out right now is really really really 30 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 1: helping out big dreamers and those who manifest positive change. 31 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 1: She's also saying, listen, on the flip side, if you 32 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 1: are a pessimist because of all these positive vibes or 33 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:46,120 Speaker 1: whatever the world is putting out, it's actually going to 34 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 1: turn into the toughest year for you. 35 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 3: I believe that, you know, manifest, manifest, manifest. I'm so delusional. 36 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 3: So with that, are you actually though? 37 00:01:58,160 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 4: Yes? 38 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 3: I always am, I not just always positive, even when 39 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 3: you come in here and you're just like, I don't know, 40 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 3: my Joe, it's gonna be it's gonna be all right, 41 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 3: We'll be fine. 42 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 4: It was gonna get great. 43 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:11,799 Speaker 1: I suppose, as much as sometimes we'll say things ago 44 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 1: you were thinking that too, there are some times where 45 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:16,639 Speaker 1: maybe I am thinking the exact opposite. 46 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 2: As far as positivity goes, It's. 47 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:19,239 Speaker 4: Gonna be a great year. 48 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 3: I think this year is gonna be one of the 49 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:22,640 Speaker 3: best years of our lives. 50 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 1: Well, good, congratulations, it will be for you. 51 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:29,120 Speaker 4: You guys don't feel that way. 52 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 2: I do. 53 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 3: See. 54 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 5: I like to say, if something like just small and 55 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 5: crappy happens, let this be the worst thing that happens 56 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 5: to me today. 57 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:36,959 Speaker 4: I'll be fine. 58 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 2: Katie. 59 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 1: A couple months ago you got fired, correct, See, there 60 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:42,920 Speaker 1: you go. During that time, do you feel like you 61 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:45,120 Speaker 1: were maybe a little bit down on things. 62 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:48,639 Speaker 5: I'd go up and down, but like every day I 63 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 5: would always say, every day gets a little bit. 64 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 1: Better, and it's true. But I'm more so talking about, 65 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 1: like before you got fired. What was the vibes then. 66 00:02:58,080 --> 00:02:59,919 Speaker 2: Of me being positive? Yeah? 67 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, I've pretty been like standard Lulu for the most 68 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 5: part when it comes to that. 69 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 2: So, ladies and gentlemen, it didn't work, now it came 70 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 2: back around. It came back around. It did. 71 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, And this is the new year. So you're feeling 72 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 1: like this could potentially be the best year. 73 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 4: Of your life, the best year of my life. 74 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 1: Well, let's break down what's going on this year for you. 75 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 1: Start on the show. That's pretty good. 76 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:29,239 Speaker 2: Potentially getting married, Yes, that's pretty great. That's about it. 77 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 1: Anything else happened in the year TVD? Are there a 78 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 1: lot of tvds? 79 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 2: Yeah? 80 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 1: Ooh. And then for you, Ashley, let's see, let's break 81 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 1: this down. 82 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 2: I don't know if you. 83 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 1: Want me to say exactly what happens to here over 84 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 1: the weekend, but you had. 85 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 4: A good weekend, great weekend. I just life is great. 86 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 3: This is the year that I'm pouring into myself and 87 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 3: it's just been amazing, not having just been money anybody. 88 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 1: Else eight ninety three ninety three. If you were that 89 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 1: delusional optimist, I want to be like that. I think 90 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 1: that that would be awesome. Unfortunately, I'm a absolute pessimist. 91 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 1: Anything that I do, I assume the worst, and then 92 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 1: if good things happen after, it's pretty awesome. I set 93 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 1: my like the standards of Yeah, my bar is very low. 94 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:20,360 Speaker 1: My standards and expectations for happiness are pretty much non existent. 95 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 4: Why are you like that? 96 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 2: Though? 97 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 1: I think it's a defense mechanism for when things don't 98 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 1: go If things don't go right, I then in my head, 99 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:33,039 Speaker 1: don't I mean, I'm still sad about it? 100 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 5: So you're not super disappointed where you just you know, shatter. 101 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:38,040 Speaker 3: But Joe, you don't feel like I know this is 102 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 3: gonna work out for me. You don't want to think 103 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 3: like that instead of oh it doesn't work out, this 104 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 3: is like all right, if. 105 00:04:43,200 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 1: We're being completely honest, And once again, I hope that 106 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 1: I was a little bit nervous to talk about this 107 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 1: because I don't want anyone to listen to this and 108 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 1: go like, oh, WHOA was me type of thing. Obviously 109 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 1: we've got two and I don't know if jet is 110 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:56,720 Speaker 1: are you super optimistic? 111 00:04:57,440 --> 00:04:58,039 Speaker 2: I try. 112 00:04:58,120 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 6: I try to manifest like Ashley. 113 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 1: So we have three people in here who are like that, 114 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 1: and then there is just an opposite, which happens to 115 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:09,120 Speaker 1: be me where I do think it's a defense bank. 116 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 2: What were you asking before. 117 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 3: I was saying, why do you feel like you can't 118 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:14,839 Speaker 3: just know it's gonna work out? 119 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:15,919 Speaker 4: Why do you feel like there's. 120 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 2: This I don't know if it's gonna work out. I'm 121 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:19,799 Speaker 2: not God, how am I supposed to predict? 122 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 3: That's that's you knowing. You have to have confidence in yourself. 123 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:25,119 Speaker 3: You have to know like this is going to happen. 124 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:27,839 Speaker 3: This is how my life is going to work out, 125 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 3: because I'm going to put trust in God that is 126 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:32,000 Speaker 3: going to happen this way. 127 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 4: There's no reason you need to even have an inkling. 128 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 3: That, oh, yeah, this isn't gonna work out, because you're 129 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:37,839 Speaker 3: putting that negative energy into the world. 130 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 4: Maybe that's me being delusional though. 131 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:46,360 Speaker 2: In other words, I need to start being a little delusional. 132 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 3: Yes, it's so much better, so much better when you 133 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 3: think everything's gonna work out, I swear it is. 134 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, but not everything works out cares. 135 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 4: You just dust it off and try again. You're like, 136 00:05:56,760 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 4: all right, it didn't work out, Let it rollo. 137 00:05:58,760 --> 00:06:00,800 Speaker 6: You can also have to see it from Sho's perspective, 138 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 6: where if you do get your hopes high on something 139 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 6: and it doesn't work out, it is demoralizing when that doesn't, you. 140 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:09,920 Speaker 3: Know what, a delusion of persons like something better is coming, bro, 141 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 3: Like what exactly something so much better is gonna happen 142 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 3: for me? 143 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 4: That just wasn't meant for me. 144 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:17,039 Speaker 1: Then let's list things that we think could happen, and 145 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 1: then we'll speak it into the world. 146 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 4: Ready, and Ashley, we're going number one on the Joe Show. 147 00:06:23,560 --> 00:06:26,160 Speaker 4: We are. I feel it. I just sense it. I 148 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 4: feel it in my body. 149 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:29,840 Speaker 6: It's funny, Ashley, I have literally I have a dry 150 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 6: erase marker that I have put sayings up in my 151 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 6: mirror in the bathroom. I have the Joe Show will win, 152 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 6: The Joe Show will be number one. 153 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 2: See how long have you had that? Since? Since we 154 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:44,839 Speaker 2: before we started the new year. Yeah, maybe it will happen. 155 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 4: What do you think? What's on your mind? 156 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 2: Joe? I'm happy I'm gonna get married. I like that's good. 157 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:55,480 Speaker 1: But like everything else, like the Wildcats, I got the 158 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:57,799 Speaker 1: number one team in the nation right now in basketball, 159 00:06:57,960 --> 00:06:59,920 Speaker 1: I've got no faith they will break. 160 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:02,720 Speaker 4: And that the thing they're clearly winning, doing amazing right now. 161 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 2: They've broken. They've broken my heart since I was the 162 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 2: one when I was four. 163 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 3: You're not even enjoying the moment because you have this 164 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:11,520 Speaker 3: little devil on the side, Like, yeah. 165 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:15,440 Speaker 4: Tart Path is gonna happen, tart past exactly, Like you 166 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 4: can't even enjoy them. I'm like, oh, how was the Gang? 167 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 4: Oh it was great, it was great, But I know 168 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 4: they're gonna lose. 169 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 1: An nex time, the whole entire time when I was 170 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:23,679 Speaker 1: at U was convinced we were gonna lose. Literally everyone 171 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 1: would text me, Hey, this is great, great, We're gonna lose. 172 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 5: You can't be your own self saboteur. That's what Root 173 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 5: Paul says. 174 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 4: The world. 175 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 3: I always think like this, the world, the outside world 176 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 3: is already gonna be negative towards me, and like have 177 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 3: these thoughts like I want to be the person that 178 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 3: cheers me up. I want to be the person that 179 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 3: knows everything's gonna work out, because there's someone probably rooted 180 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 3: against me. 181 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 2: All right, So like even like, all right, how is 182 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 2: Gasparilla gonna be? 183 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 4: Oh, it's gonna be a black on memory, a lot 184 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 4: of memories. 185 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 2: What if not enough people bring a Joe show? 186 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 4: Such, why do you even care? Live in the moment, 187 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 4: be happy about the people who did bring those signs. 188 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 1: You're teaching me things. This is goodson, all right. What's 189 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 1: the next thing that we've got going on? Oh, march madness? 190 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna win? 191 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 3: Yes, you're like, my team is killing it right now. 192 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:10,840 Speaker 3: So if there's no question they're gonna win the championship, Like, 193 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:11,480 Speaker 3: how can they not? 194 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:12,480 Speaker 2: Oh? 195 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 1: Hannah says that I said this whole entire thing wrong. Hannah, 196 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 1: what is a better way to say it? 197 00:08:17,440 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 7: A better way to say instead of delusional, I would 198 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 7: say perpetual optimism all. 199 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 1: Right, And for those I know what perpetual means. Not 200 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 1: everyone knows, though, so explain that. 201 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:32,320 Speaker 7: I'm an Ela teacher, so I'm so like used to 202 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 7: explaining myself. So perpetual is just like you're always optimistic, 203 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 7: you always have a good outlook on it. I think 204 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 7: delusion will have a negative connotation with it, so I 205 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:48,480 Speaker 7: prefer I'm like, actually, well really, everybody except you, it's 206 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:51,200 Speaker 7: a it's more of a positivity. It's just a better 207 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 7: way to look at it. Perpetual optimist. You're always looking. 208 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 2: Out for the good. Good. 209 00:08:56,480 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 1: Then I'm gonna this is the new year. Yes, that's 210 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 1: what I'm gonna work on. This is your Yeah, all right, 211 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be you guys. You guys can test me 212 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:08,079 Speaker 1: at any point. Just say a scenario and I'll give 213 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 1: you the positive angle because that's what. 214 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:13,600 Speaker 7: Okay, Yeah, you need to give a little positive morning 215 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:14,920 Speaker 7: quote every morning. 216 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:18,199 Speaker 1: This portion of The Joe Show podcast is powered by 217 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 1: Fair and Farah, Tampa accident Attorneys.