1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:06,160 Speaker 1: Three The Joe Show. So you go on to what 2 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 1: you perceived to be a successful date, you don't get 3 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:11,640 Speaker 1: a call back. You thought things were good, but now 4 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:18,680 Speaker 1: they're not. Aiden. Good morning, Hi Aiden, Aiden, you want 5 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: us to give Claire a call? 6 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:20,200 Speaker 2: Now? 7 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:25,960 Speaker 1: I did already talk to Claire and Hi Claire, Hi, Hi. 8 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 1: We can save like the awkward hellos and everything. Claire 9 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 1: kind of like what I told you last night. 10 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:34,959 Speaker 2: Just be honest. Why have you been ghosting them? You're 11 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:36,800 Speaker 2: you're on with Aiden? 12 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 3: Well, I mean to be honest, I really enjoyed the 13 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:43,920 Speaker 3: first two dates that we went on. But what really 14 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 3: put me off was my sister called me pretty much 15 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:50,560 Speaker 3: immediately after I got home from my first my second 16 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 3: date with Aiden, and she said that he followed her 17 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:58,319 Speaker 3: on Instagram, and I was like what, And then come 18 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 3: to find out he followed my mom. Also that my 19 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:04,679 Speaker 3: dad doesn't have Instagram, but he added him on Facebook. 20 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 3: And it's just like it's gone as far as even 21 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 3: looking up my co workers on on LinkedIn, my little 22 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 3: brother as well, and it's just getting to the point 23 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:18,679 Speaker 3: where I just really feel like he's stalking me. And 24 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 3: I'm just really not a fan of being watched all 25 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:22,320 Speaker 3: the time. This is getting very weird. 26 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 4: Oh my god. Clear, No, No, that's that is totally 27 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 4: not the vibe that I'm going for here. I'm I'm 28 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 4: not like a stalker or anything. 29 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:34,399 Speaker 2: I've been waiting. I've been waiting with you a little 30 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 2: bit to ask you why, Yeah, why did you add 31 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:36,760 Speaker 2: all those people? 32 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:40,399 Speaker 4: I mean, I just feel like I I liked you 33 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 4: so much and I saw something between us, and like 34 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 4: I'd eventually love to meet them, so I just thought 35 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 4: to get it started. It's not like I'm meeting them, 36 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 4: you know, it's like virtual meeting, you know. I just thought, 37 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 4: you know, why not get to know them, you know, 38 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 4: sooner rather than later. That's all. It was nothing. It 39 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 4: was completely so well, it is my decision, right, I 40 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 4: have free will. I just thought that that was a 41 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 4: good thing to do. 42 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel little not to text you back. 43 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 1: Eight ninety three. Would you be creeped out by this? 44 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 1: Or maybe you go, hey, this is he knows what 45 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 1: he knows. Maybe he's ready to take that next step 46 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 1: even before Claire realizes that they should take the next step. 47 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 2: I don't know. 48 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:27,079 Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out why you would do something 49 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 1: like this. Do you normally do. I would assume that 50 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 1: she's not the first one, so you normally just friend and. 51 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 2: Follow and loosten all of that. 52 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:41,680 Speaker 4: Had a very good connection, you know, so I thought 53 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:45,640 Speaker 4: that because I saw maybe a future with her after 54 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:47,640 Speaker 4: a date or two, you know, which you don't always 55 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:50,079 Speaker 4: see that, you know, I'd go ahead and kind of 56 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 4: see what her life is like. That's all. Like I said, 57 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:54,919 Speaker 4: nothing stalker is I'm not trying to be a stalker 58 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 4: or or anything weird like that. I'm completely innocent. I 59 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 4: just you know, I liked her and I wanted to 60 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:02,680 Speaker 4: find out a little bit more. What's so wrong with that? 61 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:05,200 Speaker 2: You're going as far as adding her dad on Facebook 62 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 2: and stalking her brother on LinkedIn? You don't think that 63 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:08,400 Speaker 2: that's a little weird. 64 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:10,839 Speaker 4: When you say stalking, I don't know what you mean. 65 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 4: I mean maybe I'm not asking what their blood type is. 66 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:21,920 Speaker 4: I'm just looking at you know, who they are. You know. 67 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 1: I will say this though, we are kind of like 68 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 1: the whole stalking thing. I don't necessarily know if I 69 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 1: would qualify this as stalking. I think it's a little creepy. 70 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 1: And by the way, so does the chat. I mean, 71 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 1: taking a look at the chat right now. One hundred 72 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 1: percent creepy, one thousand percent bright red flag. 73 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 2: This is creepy, maybe a little bit type. It's giving 74 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 2: Bundy vibes. 75 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 1: Well, and speaking of things like that, he wants to 76 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 1: do you want to wear her skin? 77 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 2: Okay, of course that was Listen. I just had to 78 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 2: ask that question, Chris, Yeah, go ahead. You're on with 79 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 2: Claire and Aiden. 80 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 1: Claire didn't call Aiden back because after their first date, 81 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 1: he decided a friend to all their family members, all 82 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 1: her family members on social media. 83 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 4: That is definitely a weird thing to do. You don't 84 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 4: try to friend someone's family immediately. You get to know 85 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 4: the person that you're talking to. 86 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 2: Aiden. 87 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:23,679 Speaker 1: I mean, I guess there's really nothing, yeah, to respond 88 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 1: to with that. Listen, Chris, I hear you. A lot 89 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 1: of people are saying this too. 90 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:31,600 Speaker 2: By the way, Leah, go ahead, I would say no. 91 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 5: It took about two months before my now husband would 92 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 5: even bring me over for a family dinner, much less 93 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:43,120 Speaker 5: mea to parents too soon. 94 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:46,120 Speaker 4: I mean, maybe he just didn't feel the same way 95 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 4: I do about Claire. 96 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 2: How do you feel about Claire? 97 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 4: Well, now, I guess I'm starting to question a few things, 98 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 4: But I mean I definitely you. I've told you how 99 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 4: I saw. I thought we had a great connection. You know, 100 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:02,479 Speaker 4: I thought that this would lead to absolutely a third date, 101 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 4: if not much much more. And you know, so what 102 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:08,360 Speaker 4: if I want to, you know, meet my in laws 103 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 4: a little bit before you know, I actually meet them 104 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:10,799 Speaker 4: in person? 105 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:16,719 Speaker 1: Andy, Andy, how about the in law comment? 106 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 2: Go ahead? 107 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 6: Andy, Hey, good morning, Thanks for having me. 108 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:22,160 Speaker 2: You got it? 109 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 6: Feel like I just feel like you're damned if you do, 110 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 6: and you're damned if you don't. Meaning like, he went 111 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 6: on a date, a couple of dates, he felt a connection, 112 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:36,480 Speaker 6: he took it upon himself, you know, to get to 113 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:38,719 Speaker 6: know the rest of her family or whatever the case 114 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 6: may be. And if it went the other way, where 115 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 6: he went on two dates and go sit her or 116 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 6: didn't care, he'd be damned then too, he'd be a 117 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:52,040 Speaker 6: bad person. So maybe he's doing the right thing, trying 118 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:56,039 Speaker 6: to be considerate, being a future whatever the case may be, 119 00:05:56,640 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 6: and trying to do the right thing. So I don't know, 120 00:05:59,240 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 6: I guess you're. 121 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 3: Dam just your future without. 122 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 4: What's that you can take? 123 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 3: You can see the future without taking those steps, without 124 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 3: without consent or without the proper time. You know, those 125 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:13,280 Speaker 3: things don't. 126 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 4: Happen, so this wouldn't even be spoken about. 127 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:26,040 Speaker 1: I can't understand aid first and then Andy. 128 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:26,840 Speaker 4: Listen, if this was like he said, thank you by 129 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 4: the way for your comment, But if the roles were reversed, 130 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:32,719 Speaker 4: nobody's questioning whether a woman on a date is looking 131 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:34,680 Speaker 4: up family or friends of the guys. 132 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 2: Who's going on when everyone knows, Hey, how come we 133 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 2: never do? 134 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:42,039 Speaker 1: Like we always imply that a creepy guy on the 135 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 1: show is a serial killer, but we we never say 136 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 1: that she's a serial standards exist. 137 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:52,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's true, it's it's but what if. 138 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 6: What if he's really sincerely a good guy and his 139 00:06:57,000 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 6: motives and intentions are good? I mean, yeah, so he 140 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:04,400 Speaker 6: went out of his way to befriend the brother, the father, 141 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 6: the whatever the case may be. But that's all social media. 142 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:09,800 Speaker 6: Like that's because social media exists right now and it's 143 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 6: accessible and before that, Like, would it make him a stalker? 144 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 6: Like I don't, I just don't get it, Like I 145 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 6: don't think he took it to the next level where 146 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 6: it's a stalker. Yeah, maybe you know, And that's just 147 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 6: my thoughts. 148 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 2: Thank you, Andy, I appreciate you. 149 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 5: It was the best guy around about what murder? 150 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 1: Hi say, Ted, you say, Ted Bundy. 151 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:41,280 Speaker 7: Yeah, as someone who works on like literally social media 152 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 7: for a living, you kind of have to like go 153 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 7: out of your way to find people who, especially like 154 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 7: if you're going on a first date, like their family 155 00:07:49,840 --> 00:07:54,239 Speaker 7: members aren't just gonna like pop up. So like again, 156 00:07:54,320 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 7: you going out of your way to like try to 157 00:07:57,040 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 7: make relationships with it. I don't know, it's just weird 158 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 7: to me. It's giving Ted Bunny vibes. It's just like 159 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 7: she should be the one to be like, oh yeah, 160 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 7: like this is my family, Like if they pop up 161 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 7: in conversations, she should be the one to bring it up, 162 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 7: not the other way around. It's just very I don't 163 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 7: say stalker ish, but definitely kind of giving a little 164 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 7: desperate in my opinion. 165 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:23,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, Maddie, thank you. I mean, listen, we could go 166 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 1: on and on and on and on and on and 167 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:27,680 Speaker 1: on and on and on, but I think it's time 168 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 1: we move on and on and on. Yeah. 169 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 2: I give a word of advice to Aiden. Joe, Well, 170 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 2: would you like to say, read the book How to 171 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 2: Be a three Percentect? 172 00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 3: Right? 173 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:35,439 Speaker 2: Aiden? 174 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 1: Can I give you advice? Don't even go near that book? Sorry, 175 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 1: that things didn't work out. 176 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. Done. 177 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 1: Also, I made a comment about the whole murder thing, 178 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:47,280 Speaker 1: and why don't we ever say that, you know, a 179 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:49,840 Speaker 1: woman could be a serial killer. Someone on Twitch said 180 00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:52,320 Speaker 1: Brady Brady Kitten eighty nine said, because men aren't the 181 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:54,680 Speaker 1: ones who are being murdered for being men? Into that, 182 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:58,440 Speaker 1: I say, Jeffrey Dahmer, dude, what are you talking? What 183 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 1: are you talking about? Google it on time, damn it. 184 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:04,200 Speaker 1: I was going to pick someone up. 185 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 2: And they just hung up. I think they thought I 186 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 2: was rapping. 187 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 1: I suppose that that's the radio I'm saying I should rap. 188 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 2: So let's let's let's rap.