WEBVTT - Rate Our Chemistry

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<v Speaker 1>We are back with second date update. Let me explain

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<v Speaker 1>how it works. So you go on a first date,

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<v Speaker 1>you get ghosted, you call me and we get your

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<v Speaker 1>date on the phone and with you listening in and

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<v Speaker 1>try to figure out if something went wrong or if

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<v Speaker 1>we can grab a second date. Sometimes it's a misunderstanding.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's say good morning to Sean. Sean, Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>good morning. Hey man. I want to hear all about Isabelle.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's start with, like, how you guys met and

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<v Speaker 1>then tell me what you did on your first date.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we met on match and that was great. Everything

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<v Speaker 2>was really great there. We met up for dinner. We

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<v Speaker 2>went to a Thai restaurant, which again really great. I

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<v Speaker 2>thought everything was going well. Man, She's incredibly cute. She

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<v Speaker 2>just seemed like this is going to sound corny, but

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<v Speaker 2>she seemed like real. She seemed grounded. You know, she

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<v Speaker 2>did that thing where when somebody laughs, they laughed with

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<v Speaker 2>their whole body.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that was her.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that was her. We kind of clicked. I thought.

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<v Speaker 2>We talked about we love both of dogs. We both

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<v Speaker 2>are joking that were dog Parents, some of our favorite shows.

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<v Speaker 2>We both love cooking shows. We talked about the worst

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<v Speaker 2>states we'd bet on, so I thought everything was good.

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<v Speaker 1>That's funny because I just took a cooking class last

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<v Speaker 1>week and it was ty food. I think this is fate, Sean.

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<v Speaker 1>I really do mean we're cosmically here together. So okay,

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<v Speaker 1>just to recap, though she has ghosted.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I guess you could say that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, okay, So here's what I'm gonna step in. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have you go ahead and mute your phone, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna call her and see how she felt about

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<v Speaker 1>got Sean on the phone. He went out with Isabelle

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<v Speaker 1>after meeting on match. They went to Berkeley for some

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<v Speaker 1>ty food. Great first date, super cute And you said

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<v Speaker 1>she laughs with her whole body? Is that right?

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<v Speaker 2>Shoulders, neck, stomach, like the whole laugh it's great.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's call her trying to figure out because

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<v Speaker 1>I know she's ghosted's go ahead and meet your phone.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna give her shout right now, Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you? Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Isabelle. She available.

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<v Speaker 3>This is Isabelle.

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<v Speaker 1>Isabelle Hyatt's Marcus from Star one oh one three. How

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<v Speaker 1>are you? Good morning, Marcus? Hey, Hey, do you listen

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I definitely do. I know who you are. I know.

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<v Speaker 3>Second date update? Great, So that means somebody's on the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Well you're ready to go?

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<v Speaker 3>Huh, yeah, I already know.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, all right, right right, Yes, I've got Sean

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. Are you okay if I bring him

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<v Speaker 1>on and talk about your date?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean might as well. We're already, We're already here.

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<v Speaker 1>We're here, Sean. Hello, Isabelle. Obviously Sean would love to

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<v Speaker 1>take you out again, and he enjoyed your first date.

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<v Speaker 1>So did you ghost and if so, we'd like to

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<v Speaker 1>know what happened?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, yes I did. I don't normally do that,

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<v Speaker 3>but look, he's not Sun, You're not a bad guy.

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<v Speaker 3>I just felt like things were super awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, why where we sit.

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<v Speaker 3>Down and order something to drink and he tells the

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<v Speaker 3>server like right away, Hey, this is a big deal.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't go on many dates, and so can we, like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, have some kind of thing to celebrate this date.

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<v Speaker 3>It was just kind of awkward. I just kind of

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<v Speaker 3>let it go because yeah, like it's a first date.

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<v Speaker 1>Who doesn't like to be celebrated?

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<v Speaker 2>Am I right?

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<v Speaker 3>Girl?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I wasn't expecting it.

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<v Speaker 1>So, okay, this is where you tell me there's more.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, definitely there was more.

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<v Speaker 2>So okay we started.

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<v Speaker 3>He asked me, like, what was the worst date I've

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<v Speaker 3>ever been on? Sometimes him and he leans in and

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<v Speaker 3>he's like, hey, this is going way better than my

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<v Speaker 3>therapist that it would.

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<v Speaker 1>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't get into it. I kind of just laughed

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<v Speaker 3>and I don't know, I don't know what how to

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<v Speaker 3>take it. So yeah, like there was just a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of moments like that. It was just like comments he

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<v Speaker 3>would say. And then towards the end of our meal,

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<v Speaker 3>he looked at the couple next to us and he

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<v Speaker 3>asked them to rate our chemistry on a scale from

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<v Speaker 3>one to ten. He just asked this quote I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought it was so weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Sean, let's go to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll let you slide on the whole. Let's make this

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<v Speaker 1>a huge deal with the server thing like that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but then, look, I'm a big proponent of mental health

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff, but that might be a little much about

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<v Speaker 1>to comment with your therapist or whatever that was.

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<v Speaker 2>I told Isabella, I've not really done a lot of this,

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<v Speaker 2>and my therapist was kind of setting me up to

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<v Speaker 2>manage expectations and it was going great.

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<v Speaker 1>And then bugging of the other couple, I'm just going

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<v Speaker 1>down the list here.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, yeah, you know, like you get excited about something,

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<v Speaker 2>and I don't know. I guess maybe in hindsight it

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<v Speaker 2>might just seem a little silly. But I wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>see if other people were noticing the kind of fun

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<v Speaker 2>evening that I thought we were having.

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<v Speaker 3>But Son, they were on their own date night. They

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<v Speaker 3>told us they have three kids. They were trying to

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<v Speaker 3>just get out and relax. We should have just let

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<v Speaker 3>them enjoy their meal, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess my thought was that was an experienced couple

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<v Speaker 2>who might have some insight as to what's happening with us,

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<v Speaker 2>and if it was going well, who better to tell

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<v Speaker 2>us than those people, I guess.

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<v Speaker 3>But they could have cared less what was going on

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<v Speaker 3>with us.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, I wasn't noticing that. I guess.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it worth asking here? Is it about? Could we

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<v Speaker 1>get a second shot on this? Sean's got a little

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<v Speaker 1>self awareness here.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I feel like he might have some

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<v Speaker 3>things he's got to work through, unfortunate. Yeah, that's a now, all.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, hang on, please hang on, man. Sometimes they work out,

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<v Speaker 1>but usually they're like that second date update